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Re: im not having sex and im ashamed [Re: evenbreak] 1
#19008407 - 10/21/13 12:46 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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I have a friend that is similar to you except he doesn't purposely ignore people but just pretends to to hide the fact he wishes to not ignore them. He will not seem to show any sign of wishing for you to indicate your dreams, for he hears that if you haven't seen a girl you may have saw one without having known.
Maybe you will meet someone who seems like someone that is much more beautiful than you could ever be, you feel this person whom means so much to you, someone you never wish to let go, someone that you can never see being someone you'd wish to abandon for another, for you would never be able to resist the temptation associated with meeting them.
but if you never met them and met their half brother then you might have assumed that you saw not that person but someone else whom tried to look like him. But sometimes you can't seem to relate to anny of the attributes associated with someone much more beautiful than you, and since the beauty is so overbearing, the beauty so deep and real, that you can feel this beauty perfuming each of your moment. You cannot resist the urge to be apart of the beauty of this event, this glorious event in which you imagined yourself much more beautiful than you really ever could amount to, for you would have to be more beautiful than a Roman saint living in the Roman period while inhabiting the real world.
I know a circle you may wish to be invited to, its a circle which normally doesn't allow just anyone into its center, not everyone should be able to listen to things much more important than themselves, the fact that something more important than you exists makes you consider presenting yourself as more beautiful than something which has no match.
I'm talking to you as a person wishing for you to acknowledge the beauty in front of your eyes, the beauty which you have been kept unaware of for so long and which I'm revealing to you for your own benefit. Though some people cannot see beauty in themselves and will refrain from acknowledging it as a dominant role that has completely altered their foundations in life. For we know you must havea a sturdy foundation in order to attain to goals in which you have been left out and haven't discovered until recently, since some goals are not approachable in some aspects of the exchange of social intercourse, because you would have to regard the exchange as something which was not made to make you forget your own personal goals, but one which reminded you of those goals which you have forgot all about. For instance you might be unable to resist the urge to become associated personally with the goals of someone else in order to attain your own, since you can feel that certain people have goals that they have already achieved and no longer regard anything that happens as anything, but something which had to happen but which we might never speak of again, since after we were done speaking it would perhaps never be brought up again, thus, the thought of speaking on something which has subsisted seems positively useless. I sometimes will have one of my circle members run out to get me a coffee, and they will see some people walking back from the beach and he would wonder when they would return back to them, for we invited nearly everyone who wished to attend, never not allowing anyone entrance into a circle in which they never had any connect except throuhg vague semi contact which didn't even seem to give anything but a sort of representation of how you should perform in life.
For the circle would actually never invited anyone into their group, they would never invite someone they just met, you would have to be invited into a different circle in order to have a circle to consist in. Since we have a certain ceremonial aspect related to each decision to prolong your social intercourse, which sometimes doesn't actually get prolonged and only seems that way, because in some ways you would feel that much time has really went by since becoming connected with something you had no knowledge of before it appeared to you.
Sometimes we will talk to people that want to get invited into our group for some reason, they, even after having left the group they just joined a minute ago, and in that minute deciding no longer to participate in any of their social equations, for you might not wish to be involved in something which revealed how you should act in life. If you are examining the situation in a nurses jacket on the top floor of a hospital in London which no longer exists there because it was torn down recently.
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Re: im not having sex and im ashamed [Re: evenbreak] 1
#19008416 - 10/21/13 12:49 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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i haven't had sex in a minute either OP, but just realize that society puts undue pressure on you to have sex. If everyone would just chill out about it, it would probably be easier to get everyone laid (and isn't that the goal here lol). So do your part, OP. Chill the fuck out =)
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Re: im not having sex and im ashamed [Re: evenbreak] 2
#19008431 - 10/21/13 12:53 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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evenbreak said: how can a guy be comfortable with the fact that he isn't getting laid? For me, not getting laid isn't a choice. It's because I have some emotional issues and anxiety issues that are preventing me from getting close to people. So when people make fun of me for being bad at dating, it's really striking a nerve and it kills me. They're basically calling me a loser and making me feel like less of a man. Because it's the truth, and the truth hurts.
Who is doing this? Stay the fuck away from them, they're sapping your mojo.
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Re: im not having sex and im ashamed [Re: psi]
#19008469 - 10/21/13 01:00 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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You got to get out more or use one of those online dating warez sites.
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Re: im not having sex and im ashamed [Re: psi] 1
#19008498 - 10/21/13 01:10 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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psi said: Who is doing this? Stay the fuck away from them, they're sapping your mojo.
I have/had a "friend" like this, I really don't talk to them much anymore.. And for good reason. They just act in a way belittles me and subtly points out all my faults and basically kills my confidence whenever women are around (when there are no women in the equation though, they're not so bad).. It took me a long time to realize this. I think it makes them feel better about themselves, they really are an emotional leech and I feel a lot more confident and am a lot better with women when they aren't around. To be honest though, this just shows me that its all in your head and that I should work on not feeding off of other peoples energy so much.. Still though, probably best to remove people like this from your life.
Edited by A Day InThe Life (10/21/13 01:12 PM)
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Re: im not having sex and im ashamed [Re: evenbreak]
#19008526 - 10/21/13 01:20 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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nobody except God has sex in the matrix
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A Day InThe Life said: y don't talk to them much anymore.. And for good reason. They just act in a way belittles me and subtly points out all my faults and basically kills my confidence whenever women are around.
Yeah I used to hang out with a guy that would do this pretty much all the time, even without women around. Once you get rid of them it makes it alot easier to have self confidence.
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Re: im not having sex and im ashamed [Re: evenbreak]
#19010146 - 10/21/13 07:07 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Interesting related article. http://www.theguardian.com/world/2013/oct/20/young-people-japan-stopped-having-sex
I find it interesting that the government views this as a problem. I would think lower population density would mean a higher quality of life. I guess that's capitalism for ya though.
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Re: im not having sex and im ashamed [Re: evenbreak]
#19010157 - 10/21/13 07:09 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Me either, baby, me either 
Maybe we should just have sex with each other.
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Re: im not having sex and im ashamed [Re: evenbreak]
#19010254 - 10/21/13 07:28 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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I'm in the exact same boat op and it's devastating at least know you're not the only one feeling like this.
Edited by brokentv (10/21/13 07:41 PM)
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Re: im not having sex and im ashamed [Re: brokentv]
#19010311 - 10/21/13 07:44 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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if you don't want to change friend groups, then there is always the option of shoving their heads down the fucking toilet next time they try to rub your nose in shit.
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Hey man why are you so set on getting laid? Yea its nice but why are you letting yourself believe youre not acceptable with who you are? Just chill man, i know its easier said then done but truly, just forget what other people think and be yourself. Girls like a genuine, goofy awkward guy more that a fake macho man. Atleast IME. Sex shouldnt be what completes happiness for you
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Re: im not having sex and im ashamed [Re: shortpork]
#19010368 - 10/21/13 07:58 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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sex is everything!
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Read "Magic Bullets" and just focus on your innergame.
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passifloracaerulea said: sex is everything!
it's so not man, and it's kind of sad to think so imo.
OP, I haven't been laid in MONTHS since my last relationship and you know what? It really isn't that big of a deal. I certainly don't want another girlfriend anytime soon, and while it would be nice to get laid, my happiness is certainly not dependent upon it. Learn to love yourself.
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I'm not having sex, in fact I'm alsost positive I never have.
I'm not ashamed, I don't give a fuck.
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Re: im not having sex and im ashamed [Re: TrentBoyett]
#19010582 - 10/21/13 08:37 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Learn to talk. It isn't hard. If you want something go get it.
Too many of these threads on the shroomery. If you want a girl go find one. Simple enough.
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mushroom_sandwich said: Learn to love yourself. 
..And you will attract love.
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I havnt had sex in about 6 years. Porn gets me through. Love that porn.
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Quote:
A Day InThe Life said:
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mushroom_sandwich said: Learn to love yourself. 
..And you will attract love.
This accompanied with my post honestly.
How can you love someone else when you can't even love yourself?
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