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thelanzii

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Re: im not having sex and im ashamed [Re: cez]
#19017898 - 10/23/13 08:16 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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cez said: I'm a 24 year old virgin who doesn't masturbate....
Don't talk about not getting laid 
An ankle would make me Jizz in my pants if I were in your situation. that takes commitment
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shroommonkey
Stranger

Registered: 10/16/13
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Re: im not having sex and im ashamed [Re: kneesocks]
#19017983 - 10/23/13 08:50 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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kneesocks said: By "testosterone" you mean "confidence", right?
Whatever works for you! I was in a similar slump to this at one time. I didn't get anything done about it though because I had rather sit around and be depressed. Then I realized that nothing would change until I did. When I changed that, everything fell into place
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Sjaman
Registered: 10/02/13
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Loc: Amsterdam
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Re: im not having sex and im ashamed [Re: shroommonkey]
#19018121 - 10/23/13 09:38 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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sex is overrated... it stinks!
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thelanzii

Registered: 11/13/12
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Re: im not having sex and im ashamed [Re: Sjaman]
#19018304 - 10/23/13 10:19 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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to an extent sure. can be mediated by diet choices such as veganism. If the food you eat stinks, ya probably stink in general.
The wonderfulness of the experience highly outweighs the unforunate smell that can occur.
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passifloracaerulea



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Re: im not having sex and im ashamed [Re: LSDreams]
#19018320 - 10/23/13 10:24 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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LSDreams said: I dont have sex, and im completely fine with it. And again... if your ashamed of this that much, than dont tell anyone. Thats like if you pee the bed and really ashamed/embarrassed about it, you dont let people know.
I suck with girls too, because I like to become friends with them first to see just who they actually are, and then they only want to be friends. I start to get in a funk to sometimes if I stop and think about how different my life is from others. But you just have to enjoy the simplicities that you already know are really exciting to you.
If you want to help your social anxiety, get out and be in public the majority of the time instead at home. Goto restaurants and coffee shops etc. more often to get comfortable being around other people.
you should try and realize that you don't know a girl until you have sex together. then trust starts building. friendship walls are a joke and will get you nowhere except friends with girls you want to fuck. at least you can burn them down easy.
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Moonshoe
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Re: im not having sex and im ashamed [Re: evenbreak]
#19019206 - 10/23/13 12:37 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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If you define your self worth based on how much sex your having that is an arbitrary choice you are making and you can just stop making it.
You could just as easily be proud of never having sex, or indifferent.
In and of itself having or not having sex is neither good nor bad, its all up to how you value it.
There is nothing wrong with not having sex unless you decide there is.
But you will probably feel better if you have some sex and most people really enjoy it.
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NotTheDevil
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Registered: 01/08/13
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passifloracaerulea said:
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LSDreams said: I dont have sex, and im completely fine with it. And again... if your ashamed of this that much, than dont tell anyone. Thats like if you pee the bed and really ashamed/embarrassed about it, you dont let people know.
I suck with girls too, because I like to become friends with them first to see just who they actually are, and then they only want to be friends. I start to get in a funk to sometimes if I stop and think about how different my life is from others. But you just have to enjoy the simplicities that you already know are really exciting to you.
If you want to help your social anxiety, get out and be in public the majority of the time instead at home. Goto restaurants and coffee shops etc. more often to get comfortable being around other people.
you should try and realize that you don't know a girl until you have sex together. then trust starts building. friendship walls are a joke and will get you nowhere except friends with girls you want to fuck. at least you can burn them down easy.
Did you really just say you don't know someone till you've had sex with them?
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passifloracaerulea



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Re: im not having sex and im ashamed [Re: NotTheDevil]
#19019428 - 10/23/13 01:40 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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I did. I've thought about it and played back and forth with the idea and I think it's true. I never would have admitted it before but I go to burning man. I've learned to be more open about sexuality.
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passifloracaerulea



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Re: im not having sex and im ashamed [Re: NotTheDevil]
#19019445 - 10/23/13 01:44 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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NotTheDevil said:
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passifloracaerulea said:
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LSDreams said: I dont have sex, and im completely fine with it. And again... if your ashamed of this that much, than dont tell anyone. Thats like if you pee the bed and really ashamed/embarrassed about it, you dont let people know.
I suck with girls too, because I like to become friends with them first to see just who they actually are, and then they only want to be friends. I start to get in a funk to sometimes if I stop and think about how different my life is from others. But you just have to enjoy the simplicities that you already know are really exciting to you.
If you want to help your social anxiety, get out and be in public the majority of the time instead at home. Goto restaurants and coffee shops etc. more often to get comfortable being around other people.
you should try and realize that you don't know a girl until you have sex together. then trust starts building. friendship walls are a joke and will get you nowhere except friends with girls you want to fuck. at least you can burn them down easy.
Did you really just say you don't know someone till you've had sex with them?
and for me I mean a girl. that could be different for anyone. honestly though, you see a girl again and again in a bar for months and get nowhere making small chat. the instant you make a move and she accepts, then all of a sudden you are getting to know her. sure it doesn't have to be sex, but at least some form of sensuality that causes desire.
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