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OfflinePsiley
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Awkward fell in love on shrooms (help please)
    #18998973 - 10/19/13 09:45 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

Hello, Shroomery community,
I honestly apologize that my post sounds like from someone who's going through puberty, but I am really confused what's going on.

Yesterday I took a high dosage of shrooms with my flatmate. The flatmate is a girl I used to have feelings for and apparently she had feelings for me as well. The thing is it was one year ago and now she has a boyfriend (which is my friend)and I considered her pretty much as a sister.

Back to the trip: We were sitting and listening to some shulman music, when we realized that we are in collective conscious and had mutual hallucinations (or was it reality)? 60 minutes in a trip something strange was going on. We felt incredible energy towards each other. I had girlfriends before, but this was the most pure feeling I've ever went through.
After a while, we went to her room and I held her hand and asked her "who". She told me that she chooses me. After that, I went to toilet and her boyfriend messaged her. She started to feel seriously bad and went to throw up. Afterwards, she wasn't sure what's going on and told me that she is sorry but she can't do that to her boyfriend. After that we talked and went to sleep.She was apologizing to me and but I still felt that her (nor my) feeling was an illusion.
The problem is, I still feel strong connection towards her and...we live together because we attend same university. I am fucking heartbroken and my chest hurts as hell. Will I get throught this after I will in "normal state"? Will she get throught this?


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Re: Awkward fell in love on shrooms (help please) [Re: Psiley]
    #18999052 - 10/19/13 10:14 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

*hugs* It sounds like both of you are still working through your complicated feelings for one another. Please treat her as "off limits" until she is single though.

Good news - both of you will definitely get through this! :smile: Just take a bit of time to reflect on what you feel for her and why. What is the connection you feel; is it physical, emotional, mental? Try and determine what your attraction is and convey it to her in a straightforward manner with absolutely no expectations on her part. She is probably dealing with her own confusion and guilt at the moment, so I would recommend avoiding doing any kind of drugs with her in your presence considering your history and the fact that she currently has a boyfriend (who happens to be your friend).

Good luck! Everything will be ok! *hugs*


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Re: Awkward fell in love on shrooms (help please) [Re: Boudicca]
    #18999067 - 10/19/13 10:21 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

What the above poster said.

Sounds like her feelings for you are stronger than for her boyfriends BUT she doesn't want to hurt him and you should just wait and be an awesome man to her and see where that goes. Or y'all could have just been tripping and felt intense love for each other unconditionally with no bounds blah blah and maybe y'all need to relax and get a sober perspective. You choose.


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OfflinePsiley
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Re: Awkward fell in love on shrooms (help please) [Re: GreySatyr]
    #18999117 - 10/19/13 10:37 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

Thanks for the answer. The bound I feel cannot be really explained in simple words, from those I'd say emotional or spiritual no-ego connection even.
I told her before that I just want her to be happy (what was completely honest).

We are certainly not taking any shrooms together, maybe just some pot which we use to smoke when she has her days.

I have to say that I feel somewhat better, the trip is probably wearing off. At least, I don't feel like having a heart attack right now.
Thanks guys (hugs) And please keep on posting, it is really helping right now :smile:


Edited by Psiley (10/19/13 10:39 AM)


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Re: Awkward fell in love on shrooms (help please) [Re: Psiley]
    #18999343 - 10/19/13 11:34 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

Shrooms break down interpersonal barriers and when that happens all kinds of things that you might misinterpret later on occur.  Best to just talk it out if you can. :thumbup:

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Re: Awkward fell in love on shrooms (help please) [Re: PrimalSoup]
    #18999564 - 10/19/13 12:33 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

Mushrooms plus ex-girlfriends can often be very emotionally confusing. I have seen and experienced many times where decisions about romantic (and/or sexual) relationships have been made while tripping that later turned out to be the wrong decision.

That being said, you obviously love each other very much, living together and calling her your sister. It might be weird/painful for a bit, but this too shall pass.


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Re: Awkward fell in love on shrooms (help please) [Re: PanGaia]
    #19000044 - 10/19/13 02:42 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

Don't get me wrong, we weren't really dating. At least I saw a big difference between sisbro relationship and love relationship. It was a love but in different way if you get what I mean. She's not here at the moment, hopefully we will have a talk in the morning


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Re: Awkward fell in love on shrooms (help please) [Re: Psiley]
    #19000594 - 10/19/13 05:07 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

Sorry, I misread. Hope all goes well.


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Re: Awkward fell in love on shrooms (help please) [Re: PanGaia]
    #19000735 - 10/19/13 05:45 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

You should already know the fucking answer come the fuck on. Psychedelics honestly, truly probe into your inner, often hidden soul. Fucking you love her and fucking she loves you. You were shown that by the lovely mushroom teacher of the earth.

go fucking get her before it's too late, you goddamn fucking idiot.


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Re: Awkward fell in love on shrooms (help please) [Re: MagicalOrangutan]
    #19000763 - 10/19/13 05:54 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

one time my friend fell in love with a basketball while on a lot of mushrooms. was he always in love with basketballs? probably not. and i doubt he still is.

feelings come and go, like thoughts. observe. which ones persist?


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Re: Awkward fell in love on shrooms (help please) [Re: World of Echo]
    #19000777 - 10/19/13 05:57 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

World, your friend was just being a retard. if you have enough wit about you, psychedelics do not lie to you about your true nature, subconscious and inner soul..so to speak


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Hugging your mind, praying to survive, feeling the love of the hieroglyphs in the sky
We all need more love, and mainly less hate
Hate is the blind that covers the heart's eye
That makes the heart's eye cry
Locked deep away in the skies of our minds

It's all in the mind


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Re: Awkward fell in love on shrooms (help please) [Re: MagicalOrangutan]
    #19001905 - 10/19/13 10:34 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

Magical, your quite extreme on this issue...

This girl is going out with a friend of op...Its a very sticky situation, and she doesn't seem receptive to the idea at the moment.

If its meant to be it will be op.  Let time do its thing and let her be.
She is probably thinking of the trip the same way you are...Let it be.


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Re: Awkward fell in love on shrooms (help please) [Re: cez]
    #19002488 - 10/20/13 02:13 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

Thanks for all of the replies. Today we will have a talk and we will explain to each other what happened from both perspectives and how it will influence our relationship.

World- I have to agree mushrooms are indeed teachers. It seems thay my brain (or heart) has decided to suppress those feelings before and I had no idea that they still exist.

Anyway, it is pretty awkward situation, since our rooms are divided only by doors and whenever we masturbate, we just put the music on and laugh on the second person...


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Re: Awkward fell in love on shrooms (help please) [Re: MagicalOrangutan]
    #19002564 - 10/20/13 02:56 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

Quote:

MagicalOrangutan said:
World, your friend was just being a retard. if you have enough wit about you, psychedelics do not lie to you about your true nature, subconscious and inner soul..so to speak




I agree to some extent.

I've fallen in love on LSD before after sharing this mutual conciousness feeling, looking into her soul and recognising she had the same fears I had. They were located in her throat and I gently started stroking her throat with one hand whilst holding her hand with my other hand. She later told me she orgasmed due to this... oh Lucy...

Anyways, we got into a relationship and it was terrible. I could not look into her soul whilst in a normal state of conciousness and she was the most closed person ever. She never spoke about her feelings, I just had to guess. This lead to enormous amounts of frustration and the relationship crashed before it fully took flight.

I do still think she is a beautiful person but we both have to work through some personal issues if we are to ever be compatible.

So yes, psychedelics can show you a connection that is true, but they show you this connection when all barriers are down.

Will you be able to keep the barriers down is the real question.

Or, in the more probable sense,

Will this connection still be there with the barriers in place?

Will you be able to break her barriers down? That would be a desirable trait in a partner...

Good luck, openness and communication are key :heart:


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Re: Awkward fell in love on shrooms (help please) [Re: MagicalOrangutan]
    #19004737 - 10/20/13 04:43 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

Quote:

MagicalOrangutan said:
psychedelics do not lie to you about your true nature, subconscious and inner soul..so to speak



well thats where i call bullshit. psychedelics loosen, and remove your barriers. the ones you've built up to protect yourself. BUT
you can still lie to yourself and ultimately the mushrooms aren't teaching you anything you are teaching yourself.
have you heard of the manson family?


Edited by World of Echo (10/20/13 04:46 PM)


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Re: Awkward fell in love on shrooms (help please) [Re: World of Echo]
    #19005881 - 10/20/13 08:50 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

Wait a week, you are still in the afterglow. Psychedelics can cause intense bonding experiences that aren't necessarily romantic.


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Re: Awkward fell in love on shrooms (help please) [Re: Hygrocybe]
    #19006062 - 10/20/13 09:36 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

look how easy that psychedelic substance helped you fabricate feelings around her, sounds like a sign of some other underlying issues as well.

Mushrooms make you think hard about who you are.


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Re: Awkward fell in love on shrooms (help please) [Re: Agentchewy]
    #19006487 - 10/20/13 11:20 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

OP the mushrooms made you gay, but you're in denial of those thoughts so you convinced yourself you liked her


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Re: Awkward fell in love on shrooms (help please) [Re: Sallisax]
    #19007104 - 10/21/13 04:30 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

I looked at the whole situation from sober view and realized when and how the feelings were evoked. As I've mentioned already, I used to have crush on her and she apparently used to have crush on me. 

She started to talk about her childhood on the shrooms and interrupted herself with "I guess you don't care anyway" and stopped. I told her afterwards that I do care and booom...something strange happened and we were connected. From what she had told me, she lived alone since 16 years (moved out from parents) and I guess she just needed someone to show her empathy and love.

Today we will have a talk (we were supposed to have yesterday, but when I came home around 9 PM she was sleeping or pretending to :laugh: ) so wish me luck, but I can say I am happy it happened no matter what the outcome will be. I will go offtopic, but I was in depression since 12-18 years and I realized that I totally forgot (in 3 years) how it feels like to be sad, depressed and powerless. :smile:

And Sallisax, I guess someone's talking from personal experience :p On an unrelated note, I realized that one of my good friends (boy) is bisexual while tripping with him and felt like he was in love with me so...yeah...mushrooms can make people reconsider their sexuality.


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Re: Awkward fell in love on shrooms (help please) [Re: Psiley]
    #19007527 - 10/21/13 08:46 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

what a sticky situation you've got into!  This could turn into something wonderful or the other way around.  Tread carefully my friend... 

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