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Lynnch
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Re: Lonely Married Women [Re: mandrax360]
#19038067 - 10/26/13 09:36 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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There are some moral implications to consider... But... Pretty much this.
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mandrax360 said: She finished her long term boyfriend and thanked me for showing her there was more to life .It ended there but I saw one of her close friends a few years later and she told me that she was happily married now to a guy who looks after her well . Her friend told me that was my doing and that had she not had her fling with me she would still be stuck with that dickhead .She bought me a drink to say thanks .Made me feel a bit better about myself .
You never know. Going on a date with you could save her marriage. Stranger things have happened. Or it could be a clusterfuck nightmare that ends in her hubby coming after you with a shotgun... Just don't get attached.
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mandrax360
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Re: Lonely Married Women [Re: Lynnch]
#19039327 - 10/27/13 04:09 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Lynnch said: There are some moral implications to consider... But... Pretty much this.
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mandrax360 said: She finished her long term boyfriend and thanked me for showing her there was more to life .It ended there but I saw one of her close friends a few years later and she told me that she was happily married now to a guy who looks after her well . Her friend told me that was my doing and that had she not had her fling with me she would still be stuck with that dickhead .She bought me a drink to say thanks .Made me feel a bit better about myself .
You never know. Going on a date with you could save her marriage. Stranger things have happened. Or it could be a clusterfuck nightmare that ends in her hubby coming after you with a shotgun... Just don't get attached.
I live in England now and shotguns are rare so bring on the milfs
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koraks
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ch1ck3n.s0up said: Sex-crazed women? Dude, women don't get sex-crazed. That's a thing of men's imaginations, the porn industry, and fairy tales.
Haha, that was hilarious  Especially the people buying it :P
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Spacerific
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Re: Lonely Married Women [Re: mandrax360] 1
#19043726 - 10/28/13 12:50 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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mandrax360 said: She finished her long term boyfriend and thanked me for showing her there was more to life .It ended there but I saw one of her close friends a few years later and she told me that she was happily married now to a guy who looks after her well . Her friend told me that was my doing and that had she not had her fling with me she would still be stuck with that dickhead .She bought me a drink to say thanks .Made me feel a bit better about myself .
This. I've helped people ditch long term relationships as well. Many people are close to the edge but especially after a long time, they're afraid of the unknown, although they're not with the right person, there's no real love left and they could do better, they just need a little incentive to take the plunge.
IMO it's our responsibility when single, to test the resolve of all people that are in relationships of all kinds. Maybe not those with kids involved, but other than that all pussy is fair game I think. Try your moves, see what works. If it works go all the way.
If she has a good man at home, we'll just get refused and be on our way, no harm done. If she doesn't, well she deserves better anyway
-------------------- Blessed are your eyes because they see, and your ears because they hear.
For truly, I say to you, many prophets and righteous people longed to see what you see, and did not see it, and to hear what you hear, and did not hear it. - Matthew 13:16
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dokunai
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Re: Lonely Married Women [Re: Spacerific] 2
#19052182 - 10/29/13 02:23 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Spacerific said:
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mandrax360 said: She finished her long term boyfriend and thanked me for showing her there was more to life .It ended there but I saw one of her close friends a few years later and she told me that she was happily married now to a guy who looks after her well . Her friend told me that was my doing and that had she not had her fling with me she would still be stuck with that dickhead .She bought me a drink to say thanks .Made me feel a bit better about myself .
This. I've helped people ditch long term relationships as well. Many people are close to the edge but especially after a long time, they're afraid of the unknown, although they're not with the right person, there's no real love left and they could do better, they just need a little incentive to take the plunge.
IMO it's our responsibility when single, to test the resolve of all people that are in relationships of all kinds. Maybe not those with kids involved, but other than that all pussy is fair game I think. Try your moves, see what works. If it works go all the way.
If she has a good man at home, we'll just get refused and be on our way, no harm done. If she doesn't, well she deserves better anyway 
Sure, go for it. It's your responsibility to test my girl's resolve. Also understand that it may then immediately become my responsibility to test your skull's resolve against baseball bats.
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psyconaught
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Re: Lonely Married Women [Re: dokunai]
#19052215 - 10/29/13 02:33 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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dokunai said:
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Spacerific said:
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mandrax360 said: She finished her long term boyfriend and thanked me for showing her there was more to life .It ended there but I saw one of her close friends a few years later and she told me that she was happily married now to a guy who looks after her well . Her friend told me that was my doing and that had she not had her fling with me she would still be stuck with that dickhead .She bought me a drink to say thanks .Made me feel a bit better about myself .
This. I've helped people ditch long term relationships as well. Many people are close to the edge but especially after a long time, they're afraid of the unknown, although they're not with the right person, there's no real love left and they could do better, they just need a little incentive to take the plunge.
IMO it's our responsibility when single, to test the resolve of all people that are in relationships of all kinds. Maybe not those with kids involved, but other than that all pussy is fair game I think. Try your moves, see what works. If it works go all the way.
If she has a good man at home, we'll just get refused and be on our way, no harm done. If she doesn't, well she deserves better anyway 
Sure, go for it. It's your responsibility to test my girl's resolve. Also understand that it may then immediately become my responsibility to test your skull's resolve against baseball bats.
if your girl decides to be unfaithful blame her
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pwnasaurus
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psyconaught said:
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dokunai said: Sure, go for it. It's your responsibility to test my girl's resolve. Also understand that it may then immediately become my responsibility to test your skull's resolve against baseball bats.
if your girl decides to be unfaithful blame her
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dokunai
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psyconaught said:
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mandrax360 said: She finished her long term boyfriend and thanked me for showing her there was more to life .It ended there but I saw one of her close friends a few years later and she told me that she was happily married now to a guy who looks after her well . Her friend told me that was my doing and that had she not had her fling with me she would still be stuck with that dickhead .She bought me a drink to say thanks .Made me feel a bit better about myself .
This. I've helped people ditch long term relationships as well. Many people are close to the edge but especially after a long time, they're afraid of the unknown, although they're not with the right person, there's no real love left and they could do better, they just need a little incentive to take the plunge.
IMO it's our responsibility when single, to test the resolve of all people that are in relationships of all kinds. Maybe not those with kids involved, but other than that all pussy is fair game I think. Try your moves, see what works. If it works go all the way.
If she has a good man at home, we'll just get refused and be on our way, no harm done. If she doesn't, well she deserves better anyway 
Sure, go for it. It's your responsibility to test my girl's resolve. Also understand that it may then immediately become my responsibility to test your skull's resolve against baseball bats.
if your girl decides to be unfaithful blame her
Yep, I agree. If he rolls up and she's feeling it so be it. I'll hate her. But I also know how I would treat someone who my girl told no, but decided he needed to stick around to test her resolve. I get the feeling this is what he was talking about, not running into someone in a club or bar and winding up smashing it.
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Re: Lonely Married Women [Re: dokunai]
#19053344 - 10/29/13 06:14 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Spacerific said: This. I've helped people ditch long term relationships as well. Many people are close to the edge but especially after a long time, they're afraid of the unknown, although they're not with the right person, there's no real love left and they could do better, they just need a little incentive to take the plunge.
IMO it's our responsibility when single, to test the resolve of all people that are in relationships of all kinds. Maybe not those with kids involved, but other than that all pussy is fair game I think. Try your moves, see what works. If it works go all the way.
If she has a good man at home, we'll just get refused and be on our way, no harm done. If she doesn't, well she deserves better anyway 
Sure, go for it. It's your responsibility to test my girl's resolve. Also understand that it may then immediately become my responsibility to test your skull's resolve against baseball bats.
if your girl decides to be unfaithful blame her
Yep, I agree. If he rolls up and she's feeling it so be it. I'll hate her. But I also know how I would treat someone who my girl told no, but decided he needed to stick around to test her resolve. I get the feeling this is what he was talking about, not running into someone in a club or bar and winding up smashing it.
Why would I stick around if she CLEARLY says no, and that she has a guy, and shows consistent "fuck off, not interested" behavior? That's just plain masochistic 
What I am talking about is when she's inconsistent, responds to skin contact, eye contact and good company in a certain way that shows me she didn't get any in a pretty long time, and says or does nothing when she should be telling me she's taken, or walk away. I don't ask girls if they have someone. It's their business to show or tell me. From where they are to how they act and react, it's all a big "go ahead" or "fuck off" sign.
You can plainly see that with healthy relationships none of this stuff has any chance of working. No satisfied happy woman would end up open to any of the stuff I have to say. That's my place to test. Does the guy at home offer a good thing, or are there massive holes in the relationship, that a whole other guy can just walk through?
It makes absolutely no difference if the girl is single or has a shitty relationship, either way it's my place to step in and make things interesting. Maybe after I've had my fun I might inquire about boyfriends being boxers, martial artists, criminals, cops or other types of people with access to guns and prone to violence. Never happened yet but can't hurt to ask
-------------------- Blessed are your eyes because they see, and your ears because they hear.
For truly, I say to you, many prophets and righteous people longed to see what you see, and did not see it, and to hear what you hear, and did not hear it. - Matthew 13:16
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dokunai
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Re: Lonely Married Women [Re: Spacerific]
#19054319 - 10/29/13 09:14 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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mpd
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Tap it son! At the first sign of interest from the opposite sex you should be getting steely hard and ready for action!
Fuck their husbands. If they were taking care of business where would the world be I ask you.
-------------------- There is no truer calling for mankind than that of true conservatism.
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RadoVanDraco
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ch1ck3n.s0up said: I can't believe how many lonely married women that I'm meeting.
It's sad. These lovely women had dreams of a husband to care and love for them, and they've been abandoned in one way or another.
- Two have husbands that are musicians and travel all the time. They're constantly alone. - Another is a golf widow. Her husband doesn't give a isht about her. - Another has a husband that works all the time. He's never around.
These women want to go out for coffee and be friends but I want to respect their relationships and I'm afraid that coffee might lead to more. I am human after all.
Can a single guy be friends with a lonely married woman?
Sounds like trouble, doesn't it?
The best kind of trouble you'll ever find!
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Laurabelle1546
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Re: Lonely Married Women *DELETED* [Re: ch1ck3n.s0up]
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RadoVanDraco
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Laurabelle1546 said: As a married woman, I would say be their friend. If they ask you to have a drink, and you want too, then have a drink with them. If you get the feeling one of them might want more from you, and you want more as well, see what happens. I would at least communicate a little with them about it. Two adults right? I'm sure these woman have thought about it for sure. Women know what they are doing! She wouldn't be an innocent victim here. She should be held accountable for her own life choices, and you have to take responsibility for yours as well. The consequences on your end would be things not working out well and you would lose a friend. Depending on how much you value your friendship.
Do you know the husbands of these women, and if they're aggressive or crazy? Some husbands would possibly come after you, which I think is ridiculous. As stated by someone in earlier post, the husband should be mad at his wife. She chose to have the affair. If she is thinking of stepping out on her husband, It will happen eventually anyway, if not with you then with someone else.
Rara Avis! No Hypocrisy Somehow impressive
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stzacrack
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This is a very old thread, and in my opinion very blind advice from you
I find it offensive to suggest that because they'll step out anyway you should help facilitate this eventual fallout
Noticed you didn't mention anything about potential repurcussions if there are children
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Laurabelle1546
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Re: Lonely Married Women *DELETED* [Re: stzacrack]
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stzacrack
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I'm sorry to hear that about your upbringing
Extenuating circumstances aside, such as abuse, I believe in the numbers regarding the benefits a child has in a nuclear family, I think that's underestimated in it's value significantly in my generation and as we continue through our over sexualized and perverted internet generations
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