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Cpt.Crunch
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Do people grow out of anger problems?
#19005177 - 10/20/13 06:25 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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I was just wondering if people grow out of their extreme anger?
Edited by Cpt.Crunch (10/20/13 07:52 PM)
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Sleepwalker
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Re: Do people grow out of anger problems? [Re: Cpt.Crunch]
#19005291 - 10/20/13 06:46 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Anger is not a "problem" if you have good reason to be angry. Sounds like you might be in a shitty situation in which case you have every right to be angry.
It also sounds like you might just be extremely paranoid and delusional. I don't mean any offense by this, it's just hard to tell without knowing you.
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Cpt.Crunch
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Re: Do people grow out of anger problems? [Re: Sleepwalker]
#19005375 - 10/20/13 07:01 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Trust me I am not paranoid or delusional.
The people I am dealing with are fucked up, they are not crazy, they are just extremely manipulative and sadistic.
I am 100% sure of what I am talking about, I know they are guilty of the things I am accusing them of.
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Sleepwalker
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Re: Do people grow out of anger problems? [Re: Cpt.Crunch]
#19005386 - 10/20/13 07:03 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Well it sounds like you are doing the right thing by trying to move your family out of that situation. Like I said, anger is ok, but you have to keep a rational leash on it. Don't do something in the moment that will only cause more problems for you.
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Re: Do people grow out of anger problems? [Re: Sleepwalker]
#19005779 - 10/20/13 08:26 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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So are you angry just now since dealing with those "extremely manipulative and sadistic" people, or were you angry before, about something else?
I think yes people learn to get over anger, at least the ones that learn to navigate the world better, to learn and accept their own likes and dislikes a bit more and act accordingly.
I mean at least the shroomers I like to think are guided by the voices away from the bullshit, towards more good vibes, people they can live and thrive with.
How'd you end up dealing with these people? Is it a work relationship? Are you already looking for alternatives?
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For truly, I say to you, many prophets and righteous people longed to see what you see, and did not see it, and to hear what you hear, and did not hear it. - Matthew 13:16
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Re: Do people grow out of anger problems? [Re: Spacerific]
#19035645 - 10/26/13 01:06 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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In my case, yes.
Hard to say how much of it is just due to getting older, and how much had to do with me actively working on those issues. I'm sure both help, to one degree or another.
I've also noticed this in my father. He seemed to have a lot of anger / rage when he was younger, and he's a really mellow guy now.
IMO anger can be addictive. I think any feelings can be addictive, to a degree. But especially anger / rage where that adrenaline gets pumping, etc. I think the more you give in to the pattern of getting angry, and freaking out, yelling, throwing stuff, breaking stuff, etc, the easier it is to keep doing it.
And the more you interrupt and break that pattern when it starts, the easier it becomes to break the next time a situation comes up.
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Re: Do people grow out of anger problems? [Re: CidneyIndole]
#19044168 - 10/28/13 03:14 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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no. but you can learn to control it.
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