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OfflineJesusIsLord
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Re: what do i talk to my new GF about? [Re: Nimpo] * 1
    #19003650 - 10/20/13 12:14 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

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Nimpo said:
This relationship is gonna last a long time seeing as how OP is coming to the internet for advice on what to say to his gf.



:lolsy:


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OfflineThe Ecstatic
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Re: what do i talk to my new GF about? [Re: Psilosopherr]
    #19003713 - 10/20/13 12:29 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

Just ask open ended questions, that way you keep your words concise, and she gets to blabber on about whatever she feels like relating to your question.


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InvisibleChinChiller
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Re: what do i talk to my new GF about? [Re: The Ecstatic]
    #19003720 - 10/20/13 12:31 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

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The Ecstatic said:
Just ask open ended questions, that way you keep your words concise, and she gets to blabber on about whatever she feels like relating to your question.



Let her do all the talking op :safesex:


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Invisiblepirate-blues
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Re: what do i talk to my new GF about? [Re: The Ecstatic]
    #19003734 - 10/20/13 12:33 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

stimulants will turn anyone into a chatty cathy.


But seriously, at first I was like 'wtf, why is she your gf then?" because I know that I don't like to date people unless I have some sort of a deeper connection, and one aspect of that is meaningful out there conversation. However I also know that some people simply don't talk as much as me, I have dated quieter people before without issue because I don't really do small talk and chit chat(I just have a lot to say about weird shit in general O_O), and I would say not to force the conversation. Enjoy simple silences and just existing with her, and let the conversation flow naturally. It just may take some more time for you two.

Like the type of person I can get high with, watch shark week, and contemplate the existential crisis a shark could go through while being caught and tagged, simple inconsequential nonsense like that and yes, more intellectual and serious conversations as well.

I think you're overthinking it.


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OfflinePsilosopherr
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Re: what do i talk to my new GF about? [Re: pirate-blues]
    #19003755 - 10/20/13 12:38 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

You guys are making me think my relationship is doomed...

:sad:


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Invisiblepirate-blues
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Re: what do i talk to my new GF about? [Re: Psilosopherr]
    #19003765 - 10/20/13 12:40 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

It's not doomed by any means.

I just said you're overthinking it.

if you can't think of something to say go out and do shit with her. Go hiking, urban exploring, fun shit, shit that will give you something to talk about, yes?


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InvisibleSynthe
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Re: what do i talk to my new GF about? [Re: Psilosopherr]
    #19003767 - 10/20/13 12:41 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

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rbalzer said:
You guys are making me think my relationship is doomed...

:sad:



It's not necessarily, things could still work out well between you two. Just try and have fun


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OfflinePsilosopherr
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Re: what do i talk to my new GF about? [Re: pirate-blues]
    #19003828 - 10/20/13 12:54 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

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pirate-blues said:
It's not doomed by any means.

I just said you're overthinking it.

if you can't think of something to say go out and do shit with her. Go hiking, urban exploring, fun shit, shit that will give you something to talk about, yes?



Yeah I think that's what we'll end up doing today. Hiking/exploring/mushroom gathering.


There's a reason we're on like date 7. We have fun together, I just need ideas because sometime I freeze up.


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InvisibleClockCode
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Re: what do i talk to my new GF about? [Re: Psilosopherr]
    #19003832 - 10/20/13 12:56 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

Well now I'm just gonna say his relationship is doomed because he so easily let people on the internet think his relationship is doomed.  :rofl:


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OfflinePsilosopherr
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Re: what do i talk to my new GF about? [Re: ClockCode]
    #19003840 - 10/20/13 12:59 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

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ClockCode said:
Well now I'm just gonna say his relationship is doomed because he so easily let people on the internet think his relationship is doomed.  :rofl:



yeah I think I'm being a little ridiculous this morning.

Because I'm picking her up in like an hour and I'm nervous probably


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Re: what do i talk to my new GF about? [Re: Psilosopherr]
    #19003855 - 10/20/13 01:01 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

A lot of times it's better to say nothing at all than feel like you've 'frozen up' and have to force yourself to say something. If you have something to say, it'll come to you naturally and you'll say it.


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OfflinePsilosopherr
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Re: what do i talk to my new GF about? [Re: Lynnch]
    #19003863 - 10/20/13 01:02 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

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Lynnch said:
A lot of times it's better to say nothing at all than feel like you've 'frozen up' and have to force yourself to say something. If you have something to say, it'll come to you naturally and you'll say it.



If I go by that way of thinking it's going to be awfully quiet.


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Re: what do i talk to my new GF about? [Re: Psilosopherr]
    #19003870 - 10/20/13 01:03 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

Talk about all the fucked up things your ex did to you... lol jk


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Invisiblepirate-blues
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Re: what do i talk to my new GF about? [Re: Psilosopherr]
    #19003871 - 10/20/13 01:03 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

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rbalzer said:
Quote:

pirate-blues said:
It's not doomed by any means.

I just said you're overthinking it.

if you can't think of something to say go out and do shit with her. Go hiking, urban exploring, fun shit, shit that will give you something to talk about, yes?



Yeah I think that's what we'll end up doing today. Hiking/exploring/mushroom gathering.


There's a reason we're on like date 7. We have fun together, I just need ideas because sometime I freeze up.






Aw, don't! Like you said, there's a reason you're on date 7.
Get into stuff together, don't be afraid to talk about really far out and downright stupid shit.
Where do you wanna go in the world, what do you want to do? Talk about that, plan out your ideal road trip or backpacking trip together even if it's apparent that you don't have the time or money to do it. I love talking music too, even if it's just "what song would you use to summarize yourself to the world if you had to" and cheesy shit like that(it's alpha beta gaga, by air for me, personally)


Just explore shit together, purely speculative conversation topics are golden. I'm a sucker for really weird silly conversations, myself, they're fun!


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Re: what do i talk to my new GF about? [Re: Psilosopherr] * 2
    #19003873 - 10/20/13 01:04 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

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rbalzer said:
what do i talk to my new GF about?



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OfflinePsilosopherr
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Re: what do i talk to my new GF about? [Re: villui]
    #19003878 - 10/20/13 01:05 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

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villui said:
Talk about all the fucked up things your ex did to you... lol jk



More like all the fucked up things I did to my ex :grin:


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Re: what do i talk to my new GF about? [Re: Synthe]
    #19003904 - 10/20/13 01:10 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

Just let it flow OP. Get into a confident mind set and have fun stop thinking about how things will play out.

And that's fucked up, your last post OP, careful might come back full swing in this relationship till you learn your lessons


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InvisibleEdibleStereos
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Re: what do i talk to my new GF about? [Re: MystiqueMushroom]
    #19003942 - 10/20/13 01:17 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

Is she overweight?

If so you can talk about her diet and exercise regime.


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OfflinePsilosopherr
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Re: what do i talk to my new GF about? [Re: MystiqueMushroom]
    #19003958 - 10/20/13 01:19 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

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MystiqueMushroom said:
Just let it flow OP. Get into a confident mind set and have fun stop thinking about how things will play out.

And that's fucked up, your last post OP, careful might come back full swing in this relationship till you learn your lessons



I've grown a lot since then.

and that was a sarcastic grin. I feel terrible about it


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InvisibleClockCode
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Re: what do i talk to my new GF about? [Re: EdibleStereos]
    #19003964 - 10/20/13 01:21 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

Also sometimes girls like it when you DON'T seek out something to talk about.  You know the quiet types blah blah.  My ex mentioned several times she appreciated how I only spoke when I had something to say or answer.

It gives them more time to talk about themselves.  :rofl:


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