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what do i talk to my new GF about?
#19003558 - 10/20/13 11:53 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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I really like her, and I'd like to get to know her better. But I simply don't know what kind of questions to ask her, or what to talk about to coax that kind of information out into the open
The sex is sssso good that it's kinda overshadowing the rest of the relationship. But I'd prefer if it was based on more than sex 
because you know, I really like her.
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Re: what do i talk to my new GF about? [Re: Psilosopherr]
#19003565 - 10/20/13 11:55 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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ask her if she's afraid to die?
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Re: what do i talk to my new GF about? [Re: Psilosopherr]
#19003567 - 10/20/13 11:55 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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You should talk about me.
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Re: what do i talk to my new GF about? [Re: g00ru]
#19003570 - 10/20/13 11:56 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Ask her if she likes balut.
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Re: what do i talk to my new GF about? [Re: g00ru]
#19003571 - 10/20/13 11:56 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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g00ru said: ask her if she's afraid to die?
idk if you're joking or not, but i actually really like that question 
Gives me an excuse to talk about DMT too! Which she didn't know about before i told her
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Re: what do i talk to my new GF about? [Re: g00ru]
#19003572 - 10/20/13 11:57 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Fuck that, leave death out of it for a while and focus on how she LIVES. Ask her about her family, what it was like growing up, what attracts her to you. Be passionate, caring, and try to seem interested (no matter how un-interested you may be be) Girls love to talk about themselves, so just ask!
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Re: what do i talk to my new GF about? [Re: Psilosopherr]
#19003579 - 10/20/13 11:59 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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I was being serious, if you can find a girl who will talk about deep subjects then that makes things wayyy easier imo
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Re: what do i talk to my new GF about? [Re: zappaisgod] 1
#19003585 - 10/20/13 12:00 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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sounds like you don't have much in common. lust is often confused with love, these days
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Re: what do i talk to my new GF about? [Re: g00ru]
#19003588 - 10/20/13 12:01 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Music, Movies, Television, Mutual Hobbies, the Outdoors... whatever you have in common?
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Re: what do i talk to my new GF about? [Re: JesusIsLord]
#19003595 - 10/20/13 12:02 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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JesusIsLord said: sounds like you don't have much in common. lust is often confused with love, these days 
sounds like you're making assumptions. 
We have tons in common, I just suck really hard at conversation.
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Re: what do i talk to my new GF about? [Re: Psilosopherr]
#19003602 - 10/20/13 12:04 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Ask her why she gave up dat ass so quick.
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Re: what do i talk to my new GF about? [Re: thoughts]
#19003609 - 10/20/13 12:05 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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thoughts said: Ask her why she gave up dat ass so quick.
hahaha, because I'm obviously irresistible.
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Re: what do i talk to my new GF about? [Re: Psilosopherr]
#19003614 - 10/20/13 12:06 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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"Baby, tell me a story..."
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Re: what do i talk to my new GF about? [Re: thoughts]
#19003630 - 10/20/13 12:09 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Wait you already had sex with her why do you have to talk?
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Re: what do i talk to my new GF about? [Re: Psilosopherr]
#19003631 - 10/20/13 12:09 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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rbalzer said:
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thoughts said: Ask her why she gave up dat ass so quick.
hahaha, because I'm obviously irresistible. 

I really wanna know her answer tho.
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Re: what do i talk to my new GF about? [Re: niteman]
#19003633 - 10/20/13 12:10 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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niteman said: Wait you already had sex with her why do you have to talk?
BOOM! There you have it. Case closed.
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Re: what do i talk to my new GF about? [Re: thoughts]
#19003635 - 10/20/13 12:11 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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thoughts said:
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rbalzer said:
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thoughts said: Ask her why she gave up dat ass so quick.
hahaha, because I'm obviously irresistible. 

I really wanna know her answer tho.
feels like a weird question though.
"why did you have sex with me on second date?"
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Re: what do i talk to my new GF about? [Re: Psilosopherr]
#19003641 - 10/20/13 12:12 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Ask her about her father. If she says anything good leave. Kidding.
Don't ask her anything. Go do things with her. Conversation will make itself.
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Re: what do i talk to my new GF about? [Re: Psilosopherr]
#19003645 - 10/20/13 12:12 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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rbalzer said:
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thoughts said:
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rbalzer said:
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thoughts said: Ask her why she gave up dat ass so quick.
hahaha, because I'm obviously irresistible. 

I really wanna know her answer tho.
feels like a weird question though.
"why did you have sex with me on second date?" 
cuz i give it up easy big daddy tee hee
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Re: what do i talk to my new GF about? [Re: Psilosopherr] 4
#19003646 - 10/20/13 12:13 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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This relationship is gonna last a long time seeing as how OP is coming to the internet for advice on what to say to his gf.
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Re: what do i talk to my new GF about? [Re: Nimpo] 1
#19003650 - 10/20/13 12:14 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Nimpo said: This relationship is gonna last a long time seeing as how OP is coming to the internet for advice on what to say to his gf.
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Re: what do i talk to my new GF about? [Re: Psilosopherr]
#19003713 - 10/20/13 12:29 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Just ask open ended questions, that way you keep your words concise, and she gets to blabber on about whatever she feels like relating to your question.
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Re: what do i talk to my new GF about? [Re: The Ecstatic]
#19003720 - 10/20/13 12:31 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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The Ecstatic said: Just ask open ended questions, that way you keep your words concise, and she gets to blabber on about whatever she feels like relating to your question.
Let her do all the talking op
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Re: what do i talk to my new GF about? [Re: The Ecstatic]
#19003734 - 10/20/13 12:33 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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stimulants will turn anyone into a chatty cathy.
But seriously, at first I was like 'wtf, why is she your gf then?" because I know that I don't like to date people unless I have some sort of a deeper connection, and one aspect of that is meaningful out there conversation. However I also know that some people simply don't talk as much as me, I have dated quieter people before without issue because I don't really do small talk and chit chat(I just have a lot to say about weird shit in general O_O), and I would say not to force the conversation. Enjoy simple silences and just existing with her, and let the conversation flow naturally. It just may take some more time for you two.
Like the type of person I can get high with, watch shark week, and contemplate the existential crisis a shark could go through while being caught and tagged, simple inconsequential nonsense like that and yes, more intellectual and serious conversations as well.
I think you're overthinking it.
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Re: what do i talk to my new GF about? [Re: pirate-blues]
#19003755 - 10/20/13 12:38 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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You guys are making me think my relationship is doomed...
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Re: what do i talk to my new GF about? [Re: Psilosopherr]
#19003765 - 10/20/13 12:40 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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It's not doomed by any means.
I just said you're overthinking it.
if you can't think of something to say go out and do shit with her. Go hiking, urban exploring, fun shit, shit that will give you something to talk about, yes?
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Re: what do i talk to my new GF about? [Re: Psilosopherr]
#19003767 - 10/20/13 12:41 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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rbalzer said: You guys are making me think my relationship is doomed...

It's not necessarily, things could still work out well between you two. Just try and have fun
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Re: what do i talk to my new GF about? [Re: pirate-blues]
#19003828 - 10/20/13 12:54 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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pirate-blues said: It's not doomed by any means.
I just said you're overthinking it.
if you can't think of something to say go out and do shit with her. Go hiking, urban exploring, fun shit, shit that will give you something to talk about, yes?
Yeah I think that's what we'll end up doing today. Hiking/exploring/mushroom gathering.
There's a reason we're on like date 7. We have fun together, I just need ideas because sometime I freeze up.
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Re: what do i talk to my new GF about? [Re: Psilosopherr]
#19003832 - 10/20/13 12:56 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Well now I'm just gonna say his relationship is doomed because he so easily let people on the internet think his relationship is doomed.
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Re: what do i talk to my new GF about? [Re: ClockCode]
#19003840 - 10/20/13 12:59 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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ClockCode said: Well now I'm just gonna say his relationship is doomed because he so easily let people on the internet think his relationship is doomed. 
yeah I think I'm being a little ridiculous this morning.
Because I'm picking her up in like an hour and I'm nervous probably
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Re: what do i talk to my new GF about? [Re: Psilosopherr]
#19003855 - 10/20/13 01:01 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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A lot of times it's better to say nothing at all than feel like you've 'frozen up' and have to force yourself to say something. If you have something to say, it'll come to you naturally and you'll say it.
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Re: what do i talk to my new GF about? [Re: Lynnch]
#19003863 - 10/20/13 01:02 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Lynnch said: A lot of times it's better to say nothing at all than feel like you've 'frozen up' and have to force yourself to say something. If you have something to say, it'll come to you naturally and you'll say it.
If I go by that way of thinking it's going to be awfully quiet.
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Re: what do i talk to my new GF about? [Re: Psilosopherr]
#19003870 - 10/20/13 01:03 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Talk about all the fucked up things your ex did to you... lol jk
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Re: what do i talk to my new GF about? [Re: Psilosopherr]
#19003871 - 10/20/13 01:03 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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rbalzer said:
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pirate-blues said: It's not doomed by any means.
I just said you're overthinking it.
if you can't think of something to say go out and do shit with her. Go hiking, urban exploring, fun shit, shit that will give you something to talk about, yes?
Yeah I think that's what we'll end up doing today. Hiking/exploring/mushroom gathering.
There's a reason we're on like date 7. We have fun together, I just need ideas because sometime I freeze up.
Aw, don't! Like you said, there's a reason you're on date 7. Get into stuff together, don't be afraid to talk about really far out and downright stupid shit. Where do you wanna go in the world, what do you want to do? Talk about that, plan out your ideal road trip or backpacking trip together even if it's apparent that you don't have the time or money to do it. I love talking music too, even if it's just "what song would you use to summarize yourself to the world if you had to" and cheesy shit like that(it's alpha beta gaga, by air for me, personally)
Just explore shit together, purely speculative conversation topics are golden. I'm a sucker for really weird silly conversations, myself, they're fun!
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Re: what do i talk to my new GF about? [Re: Psilosopherr] 2
#19003873 - 10/20/13 01:04 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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rbalzer said: what do i talk to my new GF about?
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Re: what do i talk to my new GF about? [Re: villui]
#19003878 - 10/20/13 01:05 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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villui said: Talk about all the fucked up things your ex did to you... lol jk
More like all the fucked up things I did to my ex
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Re: what do i talk to my new GF about? [Re: Synthe]
#19003904 - 10/20/13 01:10 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Just let it flow OP. Get into a confident mind set and have fun stop thinking about how things will play out.
And that's fucked up, your last post OP, careful might come back full swing in this relationship till you learn your lessons
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Is she overweight?
If so you can talk about her diet and exercise regime.
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MystiqueMushroom said: Just let it flow OP. Get into a confident mind set and have fun stop thinking about how things will play out.
And that's fucked up, your last post OP, careful might come back full swing in this relationship till you learn your lessons
I've grown a lot since then.
and that was a sarcastic grin. I feel terrible about it
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Re: what do i talk to my new GF about? [Re: EdibleStereos]
#19003964 - 10/20/13 01:21 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Also sometimes girls like it when you DON'T seek out something to talk about. You know the quiet types blah blah. My ex mentioned several times she appreciated how I only spoke when I had something to say or answer.
It gives them more time to talk about themselves.
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Re: what do i talk to my new GF about? [Re: pirate-blues]
#19003987 - 10/20/13 01:26 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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pirate-blues said: stimulants will turn anyone into a chatty cathy.
But seriously, at first I was like 'wtf, why is she your gf then?" because I know that I don't like to date people unless I have some sort of a deeper connection, and one aspect of that is meaningful out there conversation. However I also know that some people simply don't talk as much as me, I have dated quieter people before without issue because I don't really do small talk and chit chat(I just have a lot to say about weird shit in general O_O), and I would say not to force the conversation. Enjoy simple silences and just existing with her, and let the conversation flow naturally. It just may take some more time for you two.
Like the type of person I can get high with, watch shark week, and contemplate the existential crisis a shark could go through while being caught and tagged, simple inconsequential nonsense like that and yes, more intellectual and serious conversations as well.
I think you're overthinking it.
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Re: what do i talk to my new GF about? [Re: Psilosopherr]
#19004056 - 10/20/13 01:41 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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What do you talk about when you are with your friends A GF is just a friend you stick your dick in. I would suggest talking to her about the thread you made, its pretty funny and embarassing at the same time. Talk about your past experiences and what you want to do together.
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Re: what do i talk to my new GF about? [Re: fapjack]
#19004287 - 10/20/13 02:52 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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tell her you want to get married. then go on about how you enjoy enemas so very much
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Re: what do i talk to my new GF about? [Re: Salomon]
#19009741 - 10/21/13 06:02 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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So yeah. Our date went fine. It was actually one of the funner ones.
Go me
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Re: what do i talk to my new GF about? [Re: Psilosopherr]
#19009777 - 10/21/13 06:09 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Good looks, OP.
I had two dates this past friday and saturday. Was one of my funner ones too
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Re: what do i talk to my new GF about? [Re: Nimpo]
#19009806 - 10/21/13 06:13 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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I guess I'm just going to admit it, I straight-up failed at the sex. And it was embarrassing.
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Re: what do i talk to my new GF about? [Re: Psilosopherr]
#19009867 - 10/21/13 06:22 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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How much of a fail we talking about?
First time ever or first time with her?
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Re: what do i talk to my new GF about? [Re: Nimpo]
#19009884 - 10/21/13 06:25 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Nimpo said: How much of a fail we talking about?
First time ever or first time with her?
neither. We've had sex a on a few occasions.
I just came way too fast. Its been happening more since that first magical night when I just lasted forever.
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Re: what do i talk to my new GF about? [Re: Psilosopherr]
#19009953 - 10/21/13 06:37 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Sober sex?
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Re: what do i talk to my new GF about? [Re: Psilosopherr]
#19009965 - 10/21/13 06:39 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Just express interest in whatever she talks about. Not in a fake way, but just realizing that women usually have MUCH more urge and need to verbalize things than we men do. Just create a nurturing atmosphere for her to open up, and I bet she will.
Alternately, you may have found my dream woman. I'm not a big verbalizer, so I wish I could find a woman to just enjoy comfortable silences with. What's to talk about? It's all been said before.
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