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Mescalean
Burke is love, burke is life.


Registered: 01/18/12
Posts: 6,755
Last seen: 6 years, 10 months
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Re: how do you deal with this? [Re: pwnasaurus]
#19004967 - 10/20/13 05:43 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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I just figured age would have something to do with it. A lot of members seem to give off the holier than thou vibe either because their older now and "see the error of past views" or are more mature for this view.
I always saw it as not letting people push me around. I don't go around looking for fights. Confrontation is always uncomfortable. But having been engaged in physical confrontation throughout my young adult life I can honestly state that my way works. It has ended all confrontation in the past rather than settling shit "the matire way"
Let me ask all of you this.
Whos girl is going to be harrassed for her goodies more?
200+ lb man gorilla who has a temper or the guy who passivly asks to "please stop doing that"
And op gauging her reaction sounds like a good plan for the non violent route, whats been her reaction this far
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Re: how do you deal with this? [Re: Mescalean]
#19005092 - 10/20/13 06:09 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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fucking UPDATE!
i just went on and Creeper #1: the person who has sent numerous inappropriate comments in the past, and recently the half naked picture. has commented now basically asking why they havent "hung out.". the last thing i wanted to see. just when you started feeling better about it theres that feeling again im coming to the conclusion that Facebook is evil! and maybe i should have a break from the Painbook.
just for a little more background. my significant other knows i have a problem with Creeper #1 even before the comments. i checked Creeper #1's profile and my significant other does not talk to Creeper #1 or respond to the comments. then more comments followed by the half naked pic. i didnt see the pic, when i was told about it i told my significant other to delete it immediately. they did. and the reaction was, "the pic was a joke, if you seen it you probably wouldnt even be mad." a joke? my point of view is that a half naked pic, is a half naked pic. and now Creeper #1 is seeming wanting to hang out! i am agitated again. i suppose i have to let this play out
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keyohnah
the proverbial mind spread



Registered: 10/18/10
Posts: 2,054
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People will always hit on the person you're dating, it depends on how your girl/boyfriend deals with it. If they tell them to stop and it continues, it's so disrespectful to both of you and your partner should squash the situation to the best of their ability.
-------------------- "Go placidly amid the noise and haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence. As far as possible, without surrender, be on good terms with all persons. Speak your truth quietly and clearly; and listen to others, even to the dull and the ignorant, they too have their story."
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pwnasaurus
Stranger



Registered: 07/16/08
Posts: 12,317
Loc: Canada
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Re: how do you deal with this? [Re: keyohnah]
#19005944 - 10/20/13 09:03 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Quote:
keyohnah said: People will always hit on the person you're dating, it depends on how your girl/boyfriend deals with it. If they tell them to stop and it continues, it's so disrespectful to both of you and your partner should squash the situation to the best of their ability.
Exactly. It sounds like your partner enjoys it, or at the very least doesn't mind. It's not your place to go beat the guy up to stop it. It's her business. If you don't like the way she handles her business, you can talk to her about, and if you're still not satisfied with the response you can break up with her if you feel that is the appropriate action .
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