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Anonymous #1

missing someone
    #18999792 - 10/19/13 01:32 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

i am really in love with this person, and i know they love me too. but they are states away. we have recently spent the week together, the most amazing week of my life. i have never felt this way about someone before in my life. it just feels so right. the time went by so fast and they had to leave 3 days ago. we talk all day on the phone, and talk/video online, we have done that for a while now. but with them gone now i feel so empty. i feel like i am missing them on an unhealthy level.

not being able to see them, or touch them is even more emotionally crippling. we plan on having a future together i would love to spend the rest of my life with this person. i am going to move to be with them and i have never lived out of state before.
the thing is im going to be put on probation soon for a year i think. so im scared i wont be able to leave the state and thats just something else to keep us apart. also i want to go see them this next month and they want me to come too but i have to pay all this money for court im afraid i wont be able to and this is killing me. i need to see them. i just feel so empty without them.

it doesnt help that im still emotionally damaged from my ex, and i have the fear that over time they might fall out of love or stop loving me but thats another story. i just seem to not want to see anyone or do anything these last few days except sit around and fixate on how much i miss them and it makes me so depressed about thinking how unfair life is. without them everything just feels so bland and pointless.

will this get any better? what can i do to take my mind off missing this person when i cant even bring myself to get in the shower? im sorry i just didnt know what else to do so i decided to write about it and see if it helps.

please help :crying:


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Re: missing someone [Re: Anonymous #1] * 1
    #19000102 - 10/19/13 02:54 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

love will bring you all the highest highs and the lowest lows in life. it's a double edged sword so accept and appreciate that you can be made to suffer so much for something that you care for.


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Re: missing someone [Re: JesusIsLord]
    #19000140 - 10/19/13 03:06 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

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JesusIsLord said:
so accept and appreciate that you can be made to suffer so much for something that you care for.




that is beautiful. thank you so much. its a perspective that i just didnt quite fully see. thanx for the help


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Re: missing someone [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #19000169 - 10/19/13 03:12 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

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Anonymous said:
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JesusIsLord said:
so accept and appreciate that you can be made to suffer so much for something that you care for.




that is beautiful. thank you so much. its a perspective that i just didnt quite fully see. thanx for the help



you're quite welcome :heart:


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Re: missing someone [Re: JesusIsLord]
    #19000486 - 10/19/13 04:38 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

OP, you sound so much like me 5 years ago. I was in the same place as you are sans the probation, and my boyfriend was the one who was coming from out of state to live with me.

The very first time I met him and had to take him back to the airport, hurt so bad. All I could do was just sit in my car and cry. I didn't even want to drive back home alone. I talked to him all day on the phone, webcam, video games, etc. I felt like I was going crazy not being able to be with him, but I somehow managed to do it for over a year before he finally came to live with me.

Nothing really makes long distance relationships any easier. The longer you're in a relationship, the more attached you become and it just gets even harder. Not trying to be a debbie downer, but its just hard to maintain long distance.

Try not to see it as unfair though. What if phone/internet didn't exist? With their invention, you've managed to find someone that you may have never found otherwise. And if you really love each other, then it is worth the wait, provided it isn't TOO long of a wait. I don't think I could go more than a year or so if I had to do it over again, and even that was torture.

As for the not being able to move because of probation thing, what if you moved prior to being sentenced? Would they make you move back to the state to serve out your probation? Sorry, I'm not really sure how all of that works but I would definitely be looking into it to see if there are any kind of loopholes or ways to get around having to be stuck in the state.

I wish you the best of luck and if it is meant to be, it will be. :hug:


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Re: missing someone [Re: Ballerium]
    #19002099 - 10/19/13 11:25 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

thank you much for your response. i am so glad to hear things worked out for you. i have never been in a long distance relationship before i never felt as if it would work for me. i didnt want to fall in love either but you know how it is, when you meet that perfect person you dont really have a choice in the matter. as much as i hate modern tech you are very right. without it i would have never met this person and would never feel the way i do right now and i wouldnt trade it for anything. as for the probation, i dont think im going to actually be charged until december and thats when it starts im pretty sure. so i will have to look into it and see what i can do. the probation is non-reporting and unsupervised so i think i could leave the state and it wouldnt matter as long as i dont get in trouble for anything which i dont plan too so i have to find out more about that.

dropping this person off at the airport was one of the hardest things ive ever had to do. it was 3 days ago now and i still feel the way i did when i dropped them off. but i am trying to have hope. something that is very new to me. i worry about things to much i think and im a little to impatient because i am eager to start my life with this person. but anyway thanx alot for your response


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Re: missing someone [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #19002305 - 10/20/13 12:49 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

Time flies when you're having fun, so find productive or interesting things to do in the mean time!

Find something to occupy you so that you aren't thinking about this person 24/7.


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Re: missing someone [Re: Sleepwalker]
    #19002407 - 10/20/13 01:35 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

as much as i didnt want to, i got out for a little bit today. at times it sort of helped but i still found myself pining. ugh so emo  :emo:


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