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OfflineMr.Psilocybin
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Ex gf led me on and fooled me. I feel hurt, pissed off, and sick.
    #18991953 - 10/17/13 05:26 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

My ex and I began talking and spending time together again over the past few weeks. This whole time she has made me believe she is back in love with me and that we're on the track to dating again. This past weekend, she stayed with me. We had a fun time, and re-experienced emotions and intimacy that hadn't been explored since back when we were dating. The final night she was here, we had sex but it only lasted a few minutes before she was claiming she was too sore "down there" and it didn't feel good for her. I respected it, and so we got dressed and cuddled up to watch a movie. I didn't see it as a red flag at the time, because aside from the sex incident, she was very affectionate and touchy/kissy with me....telling me how much she "loved me" and had missed being with me. So the next day we both get off work and decide to go out and get sushi, then go see "Captain Phillips"(Would recommend btw, great movie.) Everything seemed fine...we had a great conversation at dinner, then she was latched onto my arm during the movie and kissing on me and cuddling up to me. We get out of the movie kiss, say our goodbyes/iloveyous and part ways. Then things just stop. She quit answering my calls, texting me and essentially started ignoring me. Tonight I finally demanded that she give me an explanation and after much prying, she finally tells me this: "to be honest, having sex with you didn't feel right at all. maybe we've fallen out of love". WTF? She waits until now to tell me....after staying with me, cuddling, kissing, saying she loves me, and letting me pay for her dinner/movie? She essentially used me so that she could FEEL like she was in a relationship and get my affection.....She led me on. I feel fooled, tricked, mad at her, mad at myself for trusting her and letting myself fall for her again. Why would she string me along like that just to abruptly tell me she doesn't want anything between us anymore? She didn't apologize or anything. She only cares about her own feelings. I'm honestly pretty hurt right now. She fucked with my head and emotions like that and she has no remorse about it. I feel stupid and used.
EDIT: Turns out shes been fucking some guy she used to talk to. Started the very night we went to the movies...literally right after she kissed me and told me she loved me. How can someone be such a shitty person....I feel even worse now.


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Re: Ex gf led me on and fooled me. I feel hurt, pissed off, and sick. [Re: Mr.Psilocybin]
    #18991961 - 10/17/13 05:29 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

I'm sorry to hear that man, that definitely wasn't cool on her part

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Re: Ex gf led me on and fooled me. I feel hurt, pissed off, and sick. [Re: Mr.Psilocybin]
    #18991965 - 10/17/13 05:29 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

Fuck, that's cold.


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Re: Ex gf led me on and fooled me. I feel hurt, pissed off, and sick. [Re: Mr.Psilocybin]
    #18991973 - 10/17/13 05:31 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

The only solution?  Don't give a fuck about her.  Tell her whatever things you didn't want to tell her when you were together (I *hate* your friends, you're overweight, etc.) whenever you feel like telling her, send out booty call texts.  Also tell her that you hope her new relationship goes well and snicker as you do so.


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Re: Ex gf led me on and fooled me. I feel hurt, pissed off, and sick. [Re: sonamdrukpa]
    #18992141 - 10/17/13 06:06 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

Thanks guys. Sorry for venting my negative crap...I just needed to get it off my chest and talk to someone about it. Its my own fault for letting myself be fooled by her. It just felt so good to believe someone loved and cared about me again in an intimate way..it was just too easy not to question it. :sad:


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Re: Ex gf led me on and fooled me. I feel hurt, pissed off, and sick. [Re: Mr.Psilocybin]
    #18992154 - 10/17/13 06:09 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

I read your thread so I made a thread about my ex and how she's using her ex/bf for you to read and realize your ex could be doing that to you.


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Re: Ex gf led me on and fooled me. I feel hurt, pissed off, and sick. [Re: Mr.Psilocybin]
    #18992791 - 10/17/13 08:03 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

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Mr.Psilocybin said:
My ex and I began talking and spending time together again over the past few weeks. This whole time she has made me believe she is back in love with me and that we're on the track to dating again. This past weekend, she stayed with me. We had a fun time, and re-experienced emotions and intimacy that hadn't been explored since back when we were dating. The final night she was here, we had sex but it only lasted a few minutes before she was claiming she was too sore "down there" and it didn't feel good for her. I respected it, and so we got dressed and cuddled up to watch a movie. I didn't see it as a red flag at the time, because aside from the sex incident, she was very affectionate and touchy/kissy with me....telling me how much she "loved me" and had missed being with me. So the next day we both get off work and decide to go out and get sushi, then go see "Captain Phillips"(Would recommend btw, great movie.) Everything seemed fine...we had a great conversation at dinner, then she was latched onto my arm during the movie and kissing on me and cuddling up to me. We get out of the movie kiss, say our goodbyes/iloveyous and part ways. Then things just stop. She quit answering my calls, texting me and essentially started ignoring me. Tonight I finally demanded that she give me an explanation and after much prying, she finally tells me this: "to be honest, having sex with you didn't feel right at all. maybe we've fallen out of love". WTF? She waits until now to tell me....after staying with me, cuddling, kissing, saying she loves me, and letting me pay for her dinner/movie? She essentially used me so that she could FEEL like she was in a relationship and get my affection.....She led me on. I feel fooled, tricked, mad at her, mad at myself for trusting her and letting myself fall for her again. Why would she string me along like that just to abruptly tell me she doesn't want anything between us anymore? She didn't apologize or anything. She only cares about her own feelings. I'm honestly pretty hurt right now. She fucked with my head and emotions like that and she has no remorse about it. I feel stupid and used.
EDIT: Turns out shes been fucking some guy she used to talk to. Started the very night we went to the movies...literally right after she kissed me and told me she loved me. How can someone be such a shitty person....I feel even worse now.




my ex did the same thing man,i think alot of guys are in the same boat as you. and Alot of woman are too. so lets do all of us a favor, and find these loving and caring woman, and forget the ungrateful ones because they already went on the highway goin the other direction


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Re: Ex gf led me on and fooled me. I feel hurt, pissed off, and sick. [Re: sonamdrukpa]
    #18993254 - 10/17/13 09:52 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

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sonamdrukpa said:
The only solution?  Don't give a fuck about her.  Tell her whatever things you didn't want to tell her when you were together (I *hate* your friends, you're overweight, etc.) whenever you feel like telling her, send out booty call texts.  Also tell her that you hope her new relationship goes well and snicker as you do so.




Wow dude, you need to grow up.


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Re: Ex gf led me on and fooled me. I feel hurt, pissed off, and sick. [Re: Bodhi of Ankou]
    #18993799 - 10/18/13 12:43 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

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Bodhi of Ankou said:
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sonamdrukpa said:
The only solution?  Don't give a fuck about her.  Tell her whatever things you didn't want to tell her when you were together (I *hate* your friends, you're overweight, etc.) whenever you feel like telling her, send out booty call texts.  Also tell her that you hope her new relationship goes well and snicker as you do so.




Wow dude, you need to grow up.




I wouldn't do this because it makes you look weak, instead take the other direction. just be happy with what you got right now, usually im more dependant when my life is going bad from my own poor decisions, of course a breakup will be hard on everyone initially, but im talking about the ability to pick ourselves back up, working and feeling that content and happy state of mind coming back, a state of superior normalcy


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Re: Ex gf led me on and fooled me. I feel hurt, pissed off, and sick. [Re: Endure] * 1
    #18999849 - 10/19/13 01:50 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

I once saw this vid that the ex somehow got in touch with the guy she's seeing.  It turns out she was fooling around with both guys.  They made her a surprise party and confronted her in the same room.  It didn't go very well for her.


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Re: Ex gf led me on and fooled me. I feel hurt, pissed off, and sick. [Re: incubis] * 1
    #19000724 - 10/19/13 05:40 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

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I once saw this vid that the ex somehow got in touch with the guy she's seeing.  It turns out she was fooling around with both guys.  They made her a surprise party and confronted her in the same room.  It didn't go very well for her.




haha nice. Bitches are rarely served justice for that shit. This happened to me in highschool honestly. The girl I was dating was simultaneously dating another boy from a nearby rival school. Both us guys found out after about 3 weeks. We teamed up and called her out, even though we played football against eachother. She did everything she could to turn us against one another and have us fighting...but brotherhood prevailed and she was exposed as the little deceptive slut that she was. :cool:



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Re: Ex gf led me on and fooled me. I feel hurt, pissed off, and sick. [Re: Mr.Psilocybin] * 2
    #19000778 - 10/19/13 05:58 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

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Re: Ex gf led me on and fooled me. I feel hurt, pissed off, and sick. [Re: azur]
    #19001886 - 10/19/13 10:29 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

Giving a fuck about this whore of a chick enough that you even feel down about her slutty actions...?  :notcoolman:


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Re: Ex gf led me on and fooled me. I feel hurt, pissed off, and sick. [Re: Shpongle1]
    #19002465 - 10/20/13 02:01 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

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Why would she string me along like that just to abruptly tell me she doesn't want anything between us anymore?




She sounds straight selfish and insensitive.:thumbdown:


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Re: Ex gf led me on and fooled me. I feel hurt, pissed off, and sick. [Re: Mr.Psilocybin]
    #19002868 - 10/20/13 07:09 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

Welcome to love and relationship 101.  It ain't all it's cracked up to be and the only reason you're surprised is cause you're young.  This shit happens all the time and I mean all the time.  The trick is not to lie to yourself when you see the tell tale signs which are always there if she's a crook.


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