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topdog82
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Re: First time falling in love. [Re: Mescalean]
#18983799 - 10/15/13 10:36 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Mescalean said: See to me no once means exactly that. No.
Its not about treating my gf right or wrong.
Its about some guy not listening and taking no for an answer. This is why I don't believe in verbal resolution. It happens all the time and the guys who don't listen usually do after a KO.
Op, drop it, move on. You'll find someone else. Always do.
Sorry, I didnt read the earlier part of the thread. Nvm. I agree then
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TheShroomingAtheis
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Re: First time falling in love. [Re: topdog82]
#18984967 - 10/16/13 06:22 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Nah her bf is out of town. She didn't tell me herself but I found out searching her facebook. There's no way she's cheating though. I want a relationship not just sex
-------------------- You gotta face the music!
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zZZz
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qman
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TheShroomingAtheis said: Nah her bf is out of town. She didn't tell me herself but I found out searching her facebook. There's no way she's cheating though. I want a relationship not just sex 
How can you be in love with someone that you're not even dating? You are infatuated with the girl, that is not love.
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LuuuCid
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Re: First time falling in love. [Re: zZZz]
#18985362 - 10/16/13 09:34 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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I should start by stating I'm new to the shroomery and this was a thread that caught my eye. Falling in love for the first time is an incredible feeling. You learn what love and relationships are about. Of course you do you sexual experimenting with your first. Sometimes can be messy, comical and painful I suppose would be a good way to say that. Usually your first love will not be with you forever, BUT I do believe everyone needs this experience or a couple more to find themselves, what they want, get better in bed (trust me you can come from slobbing toothing it to a porn star if you want. Apply yourself. On the flip side... The first heart break can be so brutal. One's never been broken up before, they were in love, it can be the hardest most draining thing one can go threw. I know When my first 'love' and I broke up I was really hurt and everything reminded me of him. I used this mental trick where whenever he was in my head I'd imagine a stop sign to stop thinking, I'm loved, I'm great, I'll be fine. Stop thinking about him idiot pretty much lol. Ahhh first love. How innocent and naive it can be. The hurt only makes you stronger abs teaches you. I know a first breakup can be terrible. If anyone is going threw it know everything will be okay. I know a couple calming relaxation things to get ones mind off it. PM me if anyone wants to talk. Sometimes just venting out all the feelings helps tremendously.Then years later you will look at it like pfft him, glad I'm not in that mess anymore and it should help you feel stronger and better then yourself. Don't dwell on the hurt or you will never stop hurting. He will be a 'who' in your head and not torment you after time. One just has to work on letting it go. Forgiveness is hard but forgiveness makes you let it go. Like a Huge amount of air coming out of your chest that you've been carrying so long. Forgive, live happy. Pick your battles. Well enough of my mumbling. Hope this post helped or interested, etc someone haha. Just trying to get myself out there being new. Anyone have any questions PM me. =)
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