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Anonymous #8
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Anonymous #8 said: the fuck is aspergers? Sounds made up 21st century bs
A form of Autism, usually serious social awkardness
so yea, made up bs
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Anonymous #1
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So I just got a package in the mail from her. Had a notebook we used to write to eachother in, a picture of me I gave her, and a small letter from her explaining how regretfull and sad she is. She said how she knows its all her fault and she lost a good thing. Says shes sorry for what she did to me.
She didnt ask for me to be part of her life again. She just expressed guilt and regret. How should I read into this? Burn everything and continue not talking to her right?
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Anonymous #15
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Burn it all
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Anonymous #1
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I thought that would be the most appropriate move. I can never forgive her so I dont see the point in reading these letters drudging up old fights or even old good memories, either way, I dont see the point.
Burning it all is the plan then. I just thought I was kinda done with it already, I should have expected some sort of attempt at contact but I dont know, I didnt really even want to think about her anymore. didnt need this box of shit.
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Anonymous #18
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How old are you? You sound really young.
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Anonymous #15
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Just move on...you dont need to burn shit to move on. There are many more fish in the sea
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Anonymous #1
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24. Relatively young. And I like burning stuff. It cant make it worse to burn stuff.
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Anonymous #1 said: 24. Relatively young. And I like burning stuff. It cant make it worse to burn stuff.
burn it, thought you were younger tho! cheers!
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Anonymous #18
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Plenty young to forget this whore exists and move on with your life. Onto the next bitch.
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Anonymous #1
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I agree I should move on and forget her. I dont want anything at all to do with her anymore. Is it worth keeping anythng to remember her by? Ive burnt or somehow destroyed mostly everything. This package would be all I have left to remid me of the time we spent together. As much as I hope the slut gets a taste of her own shit, I did love her and I ponder whether a keepsake is worth it or not. Thinking for mental health/sanity...
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Anonymous #8
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if you want something to remind you of a whore its better to have nudity pics rather than a notebook full of memories.
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Anonymous #2
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So is that her way of admitting she was banging the gay dude?
Or is she still claiming just friends?
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Anonymous #1
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No shes open now about banging him. I think its her way of having the last word. So its ME who throws away our past and not HER. She "tried" to "appologize" and if I dont respond (which IS the plan) then to her it looks like I dont care and am throwing away our history. I could try and get the last word but that would be useless, painfull, and childish.
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Anonymous #2
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Fuckin' whores man . . .
Yeah how could she pull that shit and then expect it to all be ok because she said sorry . . .
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Anonymous #19
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No harm in a keepsake as long as you DON'T LOOK AT IT. I mean for years. But it might be cool to have something to look back on when you're a bit older, who knows?
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Anonymous #20
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Hmmm. OP, I can sympathise with you, in a strange way...
My GF broke up with her fiancee to be with me, many years ago. But unlike the asshole in your situation I wasn't pursuing her (we worked together, maybe a little flirting but no more than I flirted with other girls in the office) and hadn't even kissed her, and we'd never talked about being together. When she told me she'd ended it with her fiancee to be with me, I was pretty shocked, and to this day (14 years later) I still feel bad for her ex, whom she's never spoken to since.
If you love someone, the greatest thing you can do is set them free. In your situation that means letting go of her, but more importantly if you love yourself you need to also allow yourself to be free. Easier to say than do, but if you believe this you're half-way there already.
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Anonymous #1
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She texted me yesterday to say she hopes "the universe" brings us back together one day and that her life is painted with memories of me...
I didnt respond. Instead I deleted the text and went out with this girl Im trying to bang, good decision I thought.
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Anonymous #1
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Hey guys, I have a date tonight with a super cute girl, I havent talked to my ex since the day of the OP and I can confidently say Im done with her.
However I have not been on a date, or been part of the dating scene for soooo long on account of remaining faithful with my ex for 7 fucking years. Needless to say Im not on my 'A' game anymore cuz Ive been on the bench for so bloody long.
Im anxious because this girl seems awesome, we have so many things in common, and shes HOT. I really hope I dont screw up. Im not going to ask for advice but everyone wish me luck!
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Goodluck man hope it goes well.
I would let this thread drop so you don't even have to see it, if it were me at least
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Anonymous #21
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OP, throughout this thread it seems really weird that you're mad and blaming and hating on everybody except yourself. The girl is a slut, the guy is an asshole, all the while forgetting that happy satisfied girls don't go out shopping for new men. If she would have been a cheap slut no way she would have spent 7 years in a relationship.
Could it be that you were at least a bit pussy whipped? Not much, just a bit is usually enough to get things started.
Could it be that your girl would have liked some kinky sex, maybe some bondage, maybe another girl to play with, but you never noticed nor proposed anything interesting, due to "being in love" as you put it?
If you're mad 90% at her and 10% at the guy, am I to understand you believe yourself to be absolutely fucking perfect? First thing I do if I mess up some girl interaction is look at where I fucked up. Usually there are shitty moments where I fucked up, where I was at least somewhat of a wuss, insecure or whatever. Apparently you have none of that eh? It's all the girl's fault. 
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he made fun of me for being in love at all because he only believes in polygamy and said Im stupid for believing monogamy can ever work, he actively supported and encouraged her to sleep with other people and told her to tell me that we should have a polygamous relationship, he told lies about me to a mutual group of friends, he told me that the same mutaul group of friends thought I was a piece of shit and they all thought she was better off with him not me.
He also broke up a really good friends relationship because he actually has admitted that he likes going for girls who are taken and destroying couples doesnt bother him because monogamy makes him sick. He basically thinks hes doing girls a favour by getting them out of monogamous relationships.
Sounds like a nice guy, definitely alpha, and just for the record, I also deeply believe in "testing" people's relationships. If they hold, the girl will actually be happier, knowing she has a good man. If they break, the girls needs to get out of it anyway, she has a lame relationship and could do better. I consider it my job to test these things when I'm single, and I think it's justified. If you have a good girl at home it's on you to fucking keep her satisfied or she'll end up with someone who can. Even playing field.
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