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OfflineKalypto
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I hate people yet hate being alone
    #18978087 - 10/14/13 07:14 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

Am i the only one like this?

Do most people hate most people?

I find to make friends is hard cause so many people are rude or I have nothing in common with them.

Do you think its better to be around irritating people or be alone


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Re: I hate people yet hate being alone [Re: Kalypto]
    #18978119 - 10/14/13 07:19 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

I too find myself disliking my friends that i have had for years now and I want to find better, kinder friends whom I have more in common with. In the mean time however, I think its best not to cut off all connection with the people you don't like because of the loneliness factor. Once you find the right friends or partner then I think you can slowly leave the people you don't like so much. I just get so sick of being lied to on a regular basis and of all the childish one-upping that I see so much of. Its like everyone thinks life is one big contest of underhanded witty insults.


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Re: I hate people yet hate being alone [Re: HardTrippin]
    #18978130 - 10/14/13 07:22 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

My friends have either ditched me or changed im left with a couple who i like but i can rarely hang with

I'd probably have a better time in a nicer city


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Re: I hate people yet hate being alone [Re: HardTrippin] * 1
    #18978132 - 10/14/13 07:23 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

Look man whether you want to believe it or not, everyone is different. We have all had negative experiences and have all encountered assholes (it's not hard to) but the fact is that there as much good people as there are bad people.


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Re: I hate people yet hate being alone [Re: Veil of Maya]
    #18978147 - 10/14/13 07:25 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

Maybe I just have bad encounters with people or maybe im the bad link


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Re: I hate people yet hate being alone [Re: Kalypto]
    #18978176 - 10/14/13 07:31 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

My greatest enemy is the human ego. There is nothing more frustrating and stubborn to deal with.


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Re: I hate people yet hate being alone [Re: Deemstar]
    #18978191 - 10/14/13 07:33 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

Your own or other peoples?


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Re: I hate people yet hate being alone [Re: Kalypto]
    #18978234 - 10/14/13 07:41 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

Both, I can elaborate on why but it would take a while and it's all fairly obvious.


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Re: I hate people yet hate being alone [Re: Deemstar]
    #18978309 - 10/14/13 07:57 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

I hate people too, except my family, because we have a bond, but in general people are two faced and will do anything to get ahead, including screwing you over.
:n00bslayer:


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Re: I hate people yet hate being alone [Re: Amelia Rose]
    #18978318 - 10/14/13 07:58 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

I just wish I had a group of good friends who didnt do that shit


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Re: I hate people yet hate being alone [Re: Kalypto] * 2
    #18978764 - 10/14/13 09:18 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

What you are experiencing is extremely common, maybe even universal to the human experience.

The Hedgehog's Dilemma


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Re: I hate people yet hate being alone [Re: Sleepwalker]
    #18978788 - 10/14/13 09:23 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

Wow Thats like dead on


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Re: I hate people yet hate being alone [Re: Kalypto]
    #18978823 - 10/14/13 09:29 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

I've found that keeping that safe, yet not-quite-satisfactory distance is the best bet for most friend relationships. 

When you get to know someone more deeply over time, you may see that they have a tolerable amount of spines facing your way and allow yourself to get closer.
Having a couple really close, reliable friends is all I really want or need. 

It's definitely a balancing act.  If you keep searching, it's likely you will find people who mesh with you, and whom you care about enough that you are willing to endure their pokes, and they yours.


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Re: I hate people yet hate being alone [Re: Sleepwalker]
    #18979048 - 10/14/13 10:10 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

Quote:

Sleepwalker said:
What you are experiencing is extremely common, maybe even universal to the human experience.

The Hedgehog's Dilemma



This is so true it makes me want to cry :crying:

Never heard of this before, glad there are science types who recognize most people's inability to accept real relationships

Ive often had friends who Ive felt like treat me like I'm not a real person. Like you would treat a prostitute or a clown. But maybe this is a better description


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Re: I hate people yet hate being alone [Re: Kalypto]
    #18980022 - 10/15/13 04:42 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

Quote:

Kalypto said:
Am i the only one like this?

Do most people hate most people?

I find to make friends is hard cause so many people are rude or I have nothing in common with them.

Do you think its better to be around irritating people or be alone




The solution in my opinion is to develop thicker skin and distance yourself from people emotionally. There's no reason to trust anyone, it doesn't make relationships better :shrug:

Have friends but don't put expectations on them, that's my suggestion.


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Re: I hate people yet hate being alone [Re: Repertoire89] * 1
    #18981689 - 10/15/13 02:58 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

Distancing yourself from people emotionally, :feelsbadman:

About that hedgehog thing, I say meh. Everybody's got some "spines" but they all ultimately stem from assumptions and misinterpretations that they've collected throughout time, I think any sort of "spine" could be worked through peacefully


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Re: I hate people yet hate being alone [Re: Sheekle]
    #18982226 - 10/15/13 05:05 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

Quote:

Sheekle said:
Distancing yourself from people emotionally, :feelsbadman:




Feels alright with me :shrug:


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Re: I hate people yet hate being alone [Re: Repertoire89] * 1
    #18982257 - 10/15/13 05:13 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

What do you mean you hate most people ? that sounds like a lousy life to live


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Re: I hate people yet hate being alone [Re: CounterCulturest]
    #18982274 - 10/15/13 05:16 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

Quote:

CounterCulturest said:
What do you mean you hate most people ? that sounds like a lousy life to live




Was that directed at OP? I'm pretty apathetic towards people


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Re: I hate people yet hate being alone [Re: Repertoire89]
    #18982311 - 10/15/13 05:26 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

I like people most of the time and I love being alone. Am I the crazy one?


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