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First time falling in love.
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WOW. Now i see why people think it's such a big deal. It's almost overwhelming. It's the first time feeling true "love" for a woman @ 23. I can't deal with this emotion, I have to do something even though I'm too shy to. @ drunk posts.
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Re: First time falling in love. [Re: Mescalean]
#18972712 - 10/13/13 03:55 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Never felt love @27
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Re: First time falling in love. [Re: Mescalean]
#18972726 - 10/13/13 03:57 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Patlal said: Never felt love @27 
All the better for you I think....
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Mescalean said: First heartbreak is the worst. Can turn the manliest of men into gigantic pussies who don't know up from down. Loves a strange thing
indeed it is a strange thing. I can't even sleep right now. I might talk to this girl tommorrow. Probably won't though because i don't want to blow my chance away.
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Re: First time falling in love. [Re: Patlal]
#18972731 - 10/13/13 03:57 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Patlal said: Never felt love @27 
r u a serial killer
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TheShroomingAtheis said: I might talk to this girl tommorrow. Probably won't though because i don't want to blow my chance away.
What makes you think there's a good chance of anything coming from this without you doing anything about it?
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Re: First time falling in love. [Re: Sheekle]
#18972756 - 10/13/13 04:01 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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I guess you're right. But anxiety is overwhelming me at the moment.
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i fall in love almost everyday. just can't touch
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Re: First time falling in love. [Re: Patlal]
#18972771 - 10/13/13 04:03 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Patlal said: Never felt love @27
dude i just turned 27 today wtf
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TheShroomingAtheis said: I guess you're right. But anxiety is overwhelming me at the moment.
you've never talked to this girl but you say you're in love with her and overwhelmed with anxiety by the idea of talking to her?
or is my assumption about you never talking to her wrong?
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Re: First time falling in love. [Re: Sheekle]
#18972790 - 10/13/13 04:07 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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just got out of a 4 and a half year relationship at 24.
we were talking marriage and kids...
fuck love and fuck marriage and fuck having kids. 
i'm pretty bitter can you tell? I want to stay single so I can have a nicer car not clean shitty diapers and go to classy nightclubs with escorts.
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Re: First time falling in love. [Re: NWlight] 3
#18972798 - 10/13/13 04:09 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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also OP you might want to fix your sig
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Thing I HATE: Safety Money
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Re: First time falling in love. [Re: Sheekle]
#18972809 - 10/13/13 04:11 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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NWlight said: also OP you might want to fix your sig
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Thing I HATE: Safety Money
because Things women LOVE: Safety Money
Nah it's ok 
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TheShroomingAtheis said: I guess you're right. But anxiety is overwhelming me at the moment.
you've never talked to this girl but you say you're in love with her and overwhelmed with anxiety by the idea of talking to her?
or is my assumption about you never talking to her wrong?
I have talked to her before and do freqeuntly even now but I can't get myself to express my feelings for her.
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@OP: you will probably do tremendously stupid things due to your newfound addiction to dopamine and oxytocin, aka "love". At least after the almost inevitable heartbreak, suffering, and withdrawal you will probably consider yourself wiser for the experience.
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Re: First time falling in love. [Re: deCypher]
#18972834 - 10/13/13 04:19 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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TheShroomingAtheis said: WOW. Now i see why people think it's such a big deal. It's almost overwhelming. It's the first time feeling true "love" for a woman @ 23. I can't deal with this emotion, I have to do something even though I'm too shy to. @ drunk posts.
I'm 45, I'm seeing a 27yo chick that's 6" taller than me and that dozens of the men that I work with have hit on for months before I met her. she told me I wasnt her type and I told her she was wrong. 3 months later we're together and she's absolutely happy about it.
man the fuck up, tell the chick what you want. the worst that will happen is that she'll say no but even then it doesnt mean it's absolute
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Hint op. women like confidence/borderline cockiness.
Heres what I want you do do, your going to talk to her and ask her out with a dick full of confidence. And when you do you will shoot that confidence all over her face.
That or it's.... Duh duh duh, the friendzone.
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Re: First time falling in love. [Re: Mescalean] 1
#18972866 - 10/13/13 04:25 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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OP you want the friendzone. the friendzone is safe.
love is a biological trap to get you to make babies and fuck up your life
one night stands only, never give them your number.
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Re: First time falling in love. [Re: Prisoner#1]
#18972888 - 10/13/13 04:30 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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I'm going through this learning process right now and it's true. And it's important, you don't want to hurt her or your self through bad communication. Plus it can make for good conversation.
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Re: First time falling in love. [Re: NWlight]
#18972890 - 10/13/13 04:30 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Its to late man hes already put the pussy on the pedestal.
Now its friend zone or poke her in the whiskers
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Re: First time falling in love. [Re: Prisoner#1] 1
#18972893 - 10/13/13 04:31 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Worst thing isn't no because no is life. Worst thing is the regret of not doing anything when you could. Tell her you like her. "You're really ________ and _________. Every time I see you and it's the best part of my day. I want us to see more of each other." Simple bro. Direct, from the heart, and be the man. Know what you want and speak it, a generally perfect rule for a healthful soul.
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Re: First time falling in love. [Re: deCypher] 2
#18972899 - 10/13/13 04:32 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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deCypher said: @OP: you will probably do tremendously stupid things due to your newfound addiction to dopamine and oxytocin, aka "love". At least after the almost inevitable heartbreak, suffering, and withdrawal you will probably consider yourself wiser for the experience. 
lol yeah this is definitely in the realm of possibility based on the flow of this thread n stuff
OP if u randomly break down and profess your love for her you should probably do it without putting yourself on a lower pedestal than her, because if you do that than it makes the suggestion that you don't have anything of significant value to bring to the table
but I don't think randomly breaking down and professing your love for her would really have a significant endpoint would it? I mean once she knows that you love her a lot, what's next? is there REALLY anything that "has to be done" about it? like after knowing that you love her deeply, she's supposed to commit to spending a certain amount of time with you?
maybe you should begin to question what is "love", what does it mean for people to be "together", why would you and this girl being together be any more "special" or significant than "being with" any other people
perhaps it's possible to have deep meaningful connections with multiple people in your life, with love being shared in varying degrees depending on your specific relationship with said people.
these philosophical thoughts are sort of aimless, there is no end point as to where i'm going with this.
just go with the flow and go with whatevers feeling good and it'll all be feelsgood, until further notice
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Re: First time falling in love. [Re: Sheekle]
#18972928 - 10/13/13 04:39 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Im just curious if op really does love you or just wants his face between her cheeks. Hormones make people do stupid shit. Steroids gave me a urge to assfuck heavier girls. Not fat but not thin. Had the whole wuddup thickness thing for a while. Almost ended my current relationship thank god it didnt.
Just remember op. hormones are a biiitch. Your nutz may be in overdrive
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Re: First time falling in love. [Re: Sheekle] 1
#18972932 - 10/13/13 04:40 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Sheekle said: OP if u randomly break down and profess your love for her you should probably do it without putting yourself on a lower pedestal than her, because if you do that than it makes the suggestion that you don't have anything of significant value to bring to the table
but I don't think randomly breaking down and professing your love for her would really have a significant endpoint would it? I mean once she knows that you love her a lot, what's next? is there REALLY anything that "has to be done" about it? like after knowing that you love her deeply, she's supposed to commit to spending a certain amount of time with you?
maybe you should begin to question what is "love", what does it mean for people to be "together", why would you and this girl being together be any more "special" or significant than "being with" any other people
perhaps it's possible to have deep meaningful connections with multiple people in your life, with love being shared in varying degrees depending on your specific relationship with said people.
these philosophical thoughts are sort of aimless, there is no end point as to where i'm going with this.
just go with the flow and go with whatevers feeling good and it'll all be feelsgood, until further notice 
^^Sheekle is casting an elaborate linguistic spell here designed to philosophically convince OP that love is meant to be shared with more than one person, or in other words that the best course of action after taking into consideration the relevant ethics and doing some deep contemplation of the situation will be to join Sheekle in a homoerotic orgy of lubetastic penetration and gay ecstasy.
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Re: First time falling in love. [Re: Mescalean]
#18972939 - 10/13/13 04:41 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Mescalean said: Im just curious if op really does love her
What does it mean to "really" love somebody? Is there such thing as "fake love"?
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Re: First time falling in love. [Re: Sheekle] 1
#18972946 - 10/13/13 04:43 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Infatuation sheekle. Infatuation. Putting the pussy on a pedestal.
I don't believe theres a grey area for between love.
Like if op got with some sloot tonight, would he start "loving" her?
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Re: First time falling in love. [Re: Mescalean]
#18972953 - 10/13/13 04:45 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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What would be the difference between infatuation and "true love"?
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Re: First time falling in love. [Re: deCypher] 3
#18972960 - 10/13/13 04:46 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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deCypher said: ^^Sheekle is casting an elaborate linguistic spell here designed to philosophically convince OP that love is meant to be shared with more than one person, or in other words that the best course of action after taking into consideration the relevant ethics and doing some deep contemplation of the situation will be to join Sheekle in a homoerotic orgy of lubetastic penetration and gay ecstasy. 
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Re: First time falling in love. [Re: Sheekle] 1
#18972962 - 10/13/13 04:46 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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true love is the lie people tell themselves to justify staying together because they are afraid of loneliness and going back into the dating world. can i be more of a downer plz.
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Re: First time falling in love. [Re: Sheekle]
#18972970 - 10/13/13 04:48 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Sheekle said: What would be the difference between infatuation and "true love"?
Reciprocation
not much difference imo
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Re: First time falling in love. [Re: Sheekle]
#18972982 - 10/13/13 04:50 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Sheekle said: What would be the difference between infatuation and "true love"?
Same difference as between fucking someone in the ass and fucking someone in the ass while giving them a reach-around.
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Re: First time falling in love. [Re: NWlight] 1
#18972988 - 10/13/13 04:51 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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I wouldn't say there is always someone better. Great white buffalo.
Infatuation is "omg shes so pretty i love her her bicycle seat smells like roses"
Love is "holy shit that fart that leaked from the covers is not mine wtf its smells like rotting eggs, but shes still perfect"
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#18972992 - 10/13/13 04:52 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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I wouldn't say there is always someone better. Great white buffalo.
there is.
there are billions of people in the world and love deludes you into thinking you've found the "one" 
right.
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Re: First time falling in love. [Re: Mescalean]
#18972998 - 10/13/13 04:53 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Great White Buffalo
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Re: First time falling in love. [Re: NWlight]
#18973027 - 10/13/13 04:58 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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NWlight said: true love is the lie people tell themselves to justify staying together because they are afraid of loneliness and going back into the dating world. can i be more of a downer plz.
there is always someone better out there. "soul mates" 
I feel bad for you man. A good lover can be just like a good LSD trip and you can foreverfy perfectness.
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Re: First time falling in love. [Re: lazyfingers]
#18973035 - 10/13/13 05:01 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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I've busted a nut three times todaay to no avail. Still thinking about her.. Sheekle I really liked your post. Being with her would be different than being with friends because love as in friendship does not include bodily desire or lust. That, I think is the difference. Plus other unexplainable thangs...
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TheShroomingAtheis said: Being with her would be different than being with friends because love as in friendship does not include bodily desire or lust.
Are you SURE about that?
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Re: First time falling in love. [Re: lazyfingers]
#18973053 - 10/13/13 05:04 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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I coined a phrase years ago..."love is the grand finale of your childhood imagination." I love hard and fast. Sadly, no girl can keep my interest for more than 3 weeks.
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you're me three months ago when I was talking to this girl. I got rejected pretty fast. It's so hard but try not to hype yourself up until things are for sure.
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Re: First time falling in love. [Re: azur]
#18973078 - 10/13/13 05:08 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Scenerio. Your fucking her from the back. Its hot passionate and intense. You see her asshole quiver a little and this squeak followed by odor comes out. What do you do op.
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Re: First time falling in love. [Re: Mescalean]
#18973086 - 10/13/13 05:09 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Ha ha. Ram it in her butt!
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Re: First time falling in love. [Re: azur]
#18973089 - 10/13/13 05:10 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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But what if she hasn't shit for 3 days?
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Re: First time falling in love. [Re: Mescalean]
#18973123 - 10/13/13 05:19 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Mescalean said: Scenerio. Your fucking her from the back. Its hot passionate and intense. You see her asshole quiver a little and this squeak followed by odor comes out. What do you do op.
Get turned on, FAST.
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Would you suck whipped cream from her pooper. If so its love
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Re: First time falling in love. [Re: Mescalean]
#18973140 - 10/13/13 05:22 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Why not if ti's clean and all.
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Re: First time falling in love. [Re: Shortknight]
#18973141 - 10/13/13 05:22 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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NWlight said: true love is the lie people tell themselves to justify staying together because they are afraid of loneliness and going back into the dating world. can i be more of a downer plz.
there is always someone better out there. "soul mates" 
I feel bad for you man. A good lover can be just like a good LSD trip and you can foreverfy perfectness.
Shorty
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Re: First time falling in love. [Re: NWlight]
#18973160 - 10/13/13 05:28 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Honestly I can see the blessing in disguise. No fighting. No spending on stupid high maintenance shit. Im sure if this one ends i'd wanna experience life and be selfish for a while.
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Re: First time falling in love. [Re: Mescalean]
#18973171 - 10/13/13 05:30 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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yeah man i remember what love was like.
of course i miss it.
but you can't really see the illusion until it's gone.
will i fall in love again? probably. but not for a long time because i am actively avoiding developing feelings for anyone.
is started to really get into this girl who i was sleeping with and hanging out with, she asked me if I had stronger feelings for her and i said we couldn't hang out any more on the spot.
poor girl. she didnt know I am broken inside
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Re: First time falling in love. [Re: NWlight]
#18973190 - 10/13/13 05:35 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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NWlight said: is started to really get into this girl who i was sleeping with and hanging out with, she asked me if I had stronger feelings for her and i said we couldn't hang out any more on the spot.
poor girl. she didnt know I am broken inside
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Re: First time falling in love. [Re: Sheekle]
#18973234 - 10/13/13 05:43 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Sad feels right now. Great white buffalo ):
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Re: First time falling in love. [Re: Sheekle] 1
#18973267 - 10/13/13 05:51 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Sheekle said:
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NWlight said: is started to really get into this girl who i was sleeping with and hanging out with, she asked me if I had stronger feelings for her and i said we couldn't hang out any more on the spot.
poor girl. she didnt know I am broken inside

easiest decision i've made in the last few months.
after i cut off contact the illusion of attraction began to fade within a week. barely think about her now, and free to focus on myself and my own happiness instead of someone else.
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Re: First time falling in love. [Re: NWlight]
#18973370 - 10/13/13 06:19 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Watching natural born killers. That's true love.
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Re: First time falling in love. [Re: azur]
#18981648 - 10/15/13 02:47 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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BUMP: turns out she has a boyfriend... 
SHould I still ask her out and tell her how I feel. I'm gonna be nervous beyond belief though. I've known her for quite a while now..
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Mescalean
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As someone who has a gf. Quickest way to end up on my shitlist is to keep hitting on my girl after she has said "I have a boyfriend".
I have a bf means no. Respect that. For me that is a zero tolerance offense, being pushy after a no.
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Re: First time falling in love. [Re: Mescalean]
#18982121 - 10/15/13 04:37 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Girls, like Oliver tractors, are a dime a dozen. Just go bang as many other girls as you can. You'll forget about her soon.
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Re: First time falling in love. [Re: azur]
#18982330 - 10/15/13 05:30 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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dude where are you getting oliver tractors? my guy charges easy 100 bucks a pop! for shitty ones too.
are you saying that an oliver tractor costs about as much as a prostitute?

OP should buy a prostitute?
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Re: First time falling in love. [Re: deCypher]
#18982388 - 10/15/13 05:47 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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deCypher said: @OP: you will probably do tremendously stupid things due to your newfound addiction to dopamine and oxytocin, aka "love". At least after the almost inevitable heartbreak, suffering, and withdrawal you will probably consider yourself wiser for the experience. 
This is what it all comes to brah
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Re: First time falling in love. [Re: topdog82]
#18982715 - 10/15/13 07:05 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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OP should fuck a tute with an Oliver tractor
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Re: First time falling in love. [Re: Mescalean]
#18982795 - 10/15/13 07:17 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Mescalean said: As someone who has a gf. Quickest way to end up on my shitlist is to keep hitting on my girl after she has said "I have a boyfriend".
I have a bf means no. Respect that. For me that is a zero tolerance offense, being pushy after a no.
Life isn't black and white. treat your girl right, and you shouldnt have things to worry about
The OP should tell her the feelings he has unless he would run into her bf on a daily basis. If he tries to hookup with her thats fucked up. But let the gf know how you feel
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Re: First time falling in love. [Re: topdog82]
#18982889 - 10/15/13 07:29 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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See to me no once means exactly that. No.
Its not about treating my gf right or wrong.
Its about some guy not listening and taking no for an answer. This is why I don't believe in verbal resolution. It happens all the time and the guys who don't listen usually do after a KO.
Op, drop it, move on. You'll find someone else. Always do.
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Re: First time falling in love. [Re: Mescalean]
#18983799 - 10/15/13 10:36 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Mescalean said: See to me no once means exactly that. No.
Its not about treating my gf right or wrong.
Its about some guy not listening and taking no for an answer. This is why I don't believe in verbal resolution. It happens all the time and the guys who don't listen usually do after a KO.
Op, drop it, move on. You'll find someone else. Always do.
Sorry, I didnt read the earlier part of the thread. Nvm. I agree then
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Re: First time falling in love. [Re: topdog82]
#18984967 - 10/16/13 06:22 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Nah her bf is out of town. She didn't tell me herself but I found out searching her facebook. There's no way she's cheating though. I want a relationship not just sex
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TheShroomingAtheis said: Nah her bf is out of town. She didn't tell me herself but I found out searching her facebook. There's no way she's cheating though. I want a relationship not just sex 
How can you be in love with someone that you're not even dating? You are infatuated with the girl, that is not love.
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Re: First time falling in love. [Re: zZZz]
#18985362 - 10/16/13 09:34 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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I should start by stating I'm new to the shroomery and this was a thread that caught my eye. Falling in love for the first time is an incredible feeling. You learn what love and relationships are about. Of course you do you sexual experimenting with your first. Sometimes can be messy, comical and painful I suppose would be a good way to say that. Usually your first love will not be with you forever, BUT I do believe everyone needs this experience or a couple more to find themselves, what they want, get better in bed (trust me you can come from slobbing toothing it to a porn star if you want. Apply yourself. On the flip side... The first heart break can be so brutal. One's never been broken up before, they were in love, it can be the hardest most draining thing one can go threw. I know When my first 'love' and I broke up I was really hurt and everything reminded me of him. I used this mental trick where whenever he was in my head I'd imagine a stop sign to stop thinking, I'm loved, I'm great, I'll be fine. Stop thinking about him idiot pretty much lol. Ahhh first love. How innocent and naive it can be. The hurt only makes you stronger abs teaches you. I know a first breakup can be terrible. If anyone is going threw it know everything will be okay. I know a couple calming relaxation things to get ones mind off it. PM me if anyone wants to talk. Sometimes just venting out all the feelings helps tremendously.Then years later you will look at it like pfft him, glad I'm not in that mess anymore and it should help you feel stronger and better then yourself. Don't dwell on the hurt or you will never stop hurting. He will be a 'who' in your head and not torment you after time. One just has to work on letting it go. Forgiveness is hard but forgiveness makes you let it go. Like a Huge amount of air coming out of your chest that you've been carrying so long. Forgive, live happy. Pick your battles. Well enough of my mumbling. Hope this post helped or interested, etc someone haha. Just trying to get myself out there being new. Anyone have any questions PM me. =)
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