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brokentv

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dating, one at a time or multiple
#18969781 - 10/12/13 08:26 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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So you could say I started my dating life a couple months back. Long story short recently I came across two girls. One seems pretty into meeting up and actually seems really cool. The other girl is a good possibility too, but things aren't as certain with her yet.
Should I only pursue one girl at a time, or juggle all options? I really just want to pursue the girl I'm most interested in, but since nothing is for sure I'd like to keep my options open. My fear which is probably very unlikely, would be getting involved in both, because then what do you do?
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Lynnch
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Re: dating, one at a time or multiple [Re: brokentv] 1
#18969899 - 10/12/13 08:52 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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What do you do? You see them both. What's the big deal? It's not hard if you don't immediately jump into the lovebird, spending every waking moment together, boyfriendgirlfriend thing. Just don't lie to them. You don't have to tell every gory detail, you can just say you're seeing other people... If things start to get serious with one, you break it off with the other.
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Patlal
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Re: dating, one at a time or multiple [Re: Lynnch] 2
#18969957 - 10/12/13 09:10 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Juggle both until it all blows up in your face
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brokentv

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Re: dating, one at a time or multiple [Re: Lynnch]
#18970491 - 10/12/13 11:33 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Patlal said: Juggle both until it all blows up in your face
With my luck this will happen.
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Lynnch said: What do you do? You see them both. What's the big deal? It's not hard if you don't immediately jump into the lovebird, spending every waking moment together, boyfriendgirlfriend thing. Just don't lie to them. You don't have to tell every gory detail, you can just say you're seeing other people... If things start to get serious with one, you break it off with the other.
This sounds reasonable. Nothing has even started so I'll be lucky if one of them goes somewhere.
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fbi365
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Re: dating, one at a time or multiple [Re: brokentv] 1
#18977604 - 10/14/13 05:28 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Though, technically you are free to date as many women as you want because neither of these relationships are "exclusive." It seems a little unclassy to do. Personally, I would probably not try and date two girls at once, but that's just me.
Yes, you could be upfront with them about it but I bet it will end up causing problems for you eventually.
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Sn20w
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Re: dating, one at a time or multiple [Re: fbi365]
#18978624 - 10/14/13 08:50 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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just pick one, it isnt that hard, whichever one of them will have LESS of a problem with your lifestyle go down that path.. time better spent.
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Konyap

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Re: dating, one at a time or multiple [Re: Sn20w]
#18978667 - 10/14/13 08:59 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Just cause you date someone that doesn't make them your girlfriend
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itchmynipple
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Re: dating, one at a time or multiple [Re: Konyap]
#18982512 - 10/15/13 06:15 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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one at a time if you doin more then just goin out on dates... if your just takin them out to eat to get to know them then its fine to keep your options open
if your havin this girl come over to make dinner with you and then your hookin up with her n then your gointo another girl.. imo that's messed up.. unless she knows before hand and doesn't care for some reason
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Yogi1
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Re: dating, one at a time or multiple [Re: brokentv]
#18982923 - 10/15/13 07:34 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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You could BOTH date other people and not be exclusive. Just use a Jimmy.
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Konyap

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Re: dating, one at a time or multiple [Re: Yogi1]
#18983157 - 10/15/13 08:15 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Yogi1 said: You could BOTH date other people and not be exclusive. Just use a Jimmy.
You can still spread herpes bub
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Yogi1
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Re: dating, one at a time or multiple [Re: Konyap]
#18983310 - 10/15/13 08:41 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Illyabo said:
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Yogi1 said: You could BOTH date other people and not be exclusive. Just use a Jimmy.
You can still spread herpes bub
Then dont have sex At least not with loose bitches with stanky cooters.
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Konyap

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Re: dating, one at a time or multiple [Re: Yogi1]
#18983926 - 10/15/13 11:06 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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80% of people in America get herp by the end of their life bub
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Re: dating, one at a time or multiple [Re: Konyap]
#18984110 - 10/15/13 11:44 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Illyabo said: 80% of people in America get herp by the end of their life bub
its like, one big family i never had
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Yogi1
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Re: dating, one at a time or multiple [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18985371 - 10/16/13 09:36 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Anonymous said:
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Illyabo said: 80% of people in America get herp by the end of their life bub
its like, one big family i never had
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