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Anonymous #1
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Is embarrassment good on occasion?
#18967952 - 10/12/13 11:26 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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So this new girl at work has been flirting with me quite a bit. Other people even noticed. So last night i gave her a ride home from work and we were hanging out at her place. She Completely shut me down. Like all of the sudden i had no chance and she said she wasn't interested in that. Wtf?! So now I feel like a jackass and I'm hoping she doesn't tell everyone at work
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Anonymous #2
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Re: Is embarrassment good on occasion? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18968010 - 10/12/13 11:41 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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What'd you do? lol
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Is embarrassment good on occasion? [Re: Anonymous #2]
#18968037 - 10/12/13 11:54 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Tried to initiate flirtatious conversation. Honestly nothing major.
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Anonymous #3
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Re: Is embarrassment good on occasion? [Re: Anonymous #1] 1
#18968094 - 10/12/13 12:18 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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OP tried the naked man.
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Anonymous #2
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Re: Is embarrassment good on occasion? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18968138 - 10/12/13 12:32 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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You say she's been flirting with you so much that even other people notice it, and then she actually invited you into her house, and then suddenly she just wasn't having none of it.. You had to of done something to piss her off.. I don't think flirting back would be it.. If she was flirting first, there's no reason that flirting back should illicit that kind of response.
Edited by Anonymous (10/12/13 12:32 PM)
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Is embarrassment good on occasion? [Re: Anonymous #2]
#18968298 - 10/12/13 01:26 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous #2 said: You say she's been flirting with you so much that even other people notice it, and then she actually invited you into her house, and then suddenly she just wasn't having none of it.. You had to of done something to piss her off.. I don't think flirting back would be it.. If she was flirting first, there's no reason that flirting back should illicit that kind of response.
Well I'm stumped. Wed flirt back and forth all the time and once I stepped into her house it was likena switch went off. I think she's that girl who likes to flirt just to flirt...for fun. That's my conjecture. I just hope it doesn't get around at work...fuck
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Anonymous #4
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Re: Is embarrassment good on occasion? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18968711 - 10/12/13 03:04 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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always lead with the old "oops i sat in bubblegum" trick...
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Anonymous #5
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Re: Is embarrassment good on occasion? [Re: Anonymous #4]
#18970249 - 10/12/13 10:31 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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You got used for a ride!
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Is embarrassment good on occasion? [Re: Anonymous #5]
#18970333 - 10/12/13 10:53 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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So you're saying for the past 6 weeks she's been conspiring to use me for a ride?
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Anonymous #6
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Re: Is embarrassment good on occasion? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18973142 - 10/13/13 05:22 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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shy guys are sexy to some women
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Is embarrassment good on occasion? [Re: Anonymous #6]
#18973519 - 10/13/13 07:02 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Anonymous #6 said: shy guys are sexy to some women
But she shot me down!!! We sat down on her couch to watch a movie and she "accidentally" tapped me with her foot and said sorry. She sat as far away from me as possible and literally covered herself with pillows. How confusing is that?!
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Anonymous #5
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Re: Is embarrassment good on occasion? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18973601 - 10/13/13 07:33 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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That's how she shot you down? Did you try to make a move or not?? Covering herself with pillows doesn't mean the game is completely over...
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Anonymous #2
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Re: Is embarrassment good on occasion? [Re: Anonymous #5]
#18973713 - 10/13/13 08:02 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Sounds like she was trying to get you to make a move...
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Anonymous #7
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Re: Is embarrassment good on occasion? [Re: Anonymous #2]
#18973757 - 10/13/13 08:12 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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I'll bet he was wearing track pants.
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Is embarrassment good on occasion? [Re: Anonymous #2]
#18973767 - 10/13/13 08:15 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Well I tried talking to her a little bit...I was getting a Ittlemflirty (complimenting her dress, asking if she has a boyfriend, etc.) she did not seem into at all. Then the couch thing happened so I was like "well I'm a fool if I don't make a move" and she was like "yeah I'm not into you like that"
I was wearing my work pants.....black levis
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Anonymous #5
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Re: Is embarrassment good on occasion? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18973845 - 10/13/13 08:32 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Sounds like she's not into you that way... At least you tried. None of us can tell you what was going thru her head. But something tells me this ain't over.
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Is embarrassment good on occasion? [Re: Anonymous #5]
#18973901 - 10/13/13 08:46 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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What makes you say it's not over?
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Anonymous #5
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Re: Is embarrassment good on occasion? [Re: Anonymous #1] 1
#18974056 - 10/13/13 09:22 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Eh, a chick that invites you to watch a movie with her isn't *entirely* uninterested. You probably jumped the gun or she's a little undecided.... I would keep flirting and see if you get another chance.
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Anonymous #8
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Re: Is embarrassment good on occasion? [Re: Anonymous #2]
#18974133 - 10/13/13 09:40 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Maybe she has a cock and got afraid that you'd reject her. You have to go slow in those situations.
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Anonymous #9
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Re: Is embarrassment good on occasion? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18976987 - 10/14/13 02:56 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Anonymous #1 said: So this new girl at work has been flirting with me quite a bit. Other people even noticed. So last night i gave her a ride home from work and we were hanging out at her place. She Completely shut me down. Like all of the sudden i had no chance and she said she wasn't interested in that. Wtf?! So now I feel like a jackass and I'm hoping she doesn't tell everyone at work
I would tell everyone at work this girl is a "dick tease", she flirts, invites you over to her home, and then acts like a iceberg.
She should be embarrassed, not you.
She needed to put out, that is what should have happened, she fucked up, let people at work know what type of bitch this girl really is, she needs to learn a hard lesson, don't act like a dick teasing cunt.
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Is embarrassment good on occasion? [Re: Anonymous #9]
#18977614 - 10/14/13 05:30 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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So i worked with her again today..almost anytime I looked over to her she was already looking at me but I just didn't care. She kind of tried to be nice. Idk if she's just tying to be my friend or if she wants to play the same game over again..?
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Anonymous #9
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Re: Is embarrassment good on occasion? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18977653 - 10/14/13 05:44 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Anonymous #1 said: So i worked with her again today..almost anytime I looked over to her she was already looking at me but I just didn't care. She kind of tried to be nice. Idk if she's just tying to be my friend or if she wants to play the same game over again..?
She's into games for sure, don't give her the satisfaction, ignore her and move on.
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Anonymous #10
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Re: Is embarrassment good on occasion? [Re: Anonymous #9]
#18984750 - 10/16/13 03:41 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Anonymous #9 said:
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Anonymous #1 said: So i worked with her again today..almost anytime I looked over to her she was already looking at me but I just didn't care. She kind of tried to be nice. Idk if she's just tying to be my friend or if she wants to play the same game over again..?
She's into games for sure, don't give her the satisfaction, ignore her and move on.
This.
Also some girls do this to manipulate guys. She will continue to send you mixed signals until you get frustrated and either passionately kiss her or get slapped.
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Is embarrassment good on occasion? [Re: Anonymous #10]
#18985772 - 10/16/13 11:40 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Anonymous #10 said:
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Anonymous #9 said:
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Anonymous #1 said: So i worked with her again today..almost anytime I looked over to her she was already looking at me but I just didn't care. She kind of tried to be nice. Idk if she's just tying to be my friend or if she wants to play the same game over again..?
She's into games for sure, don't give her the satisfaction, ignore her and move on.
until you get frustrated and either passionately kiss her or get slapped.
Kiss or get slapped? Could you elaborate?
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Anonymous #11
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Re: Is embarrassment good on occasion? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18989312 - 10/17/13 01:14 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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He means set your lips on to hers. This will be completed unless she slaps you.
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