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XUL
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Is anyone else attracted to intelligence?
#18967343 - 10/12/13 06:50 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Not to evaluate and rank a person's intelligence, but distinguish as to whether a person yearns for it or not.
I once met a girl who I was attracted to and she was also attracted to me. I spent some time with her and found out that she was rather "boring", even though she was in college. I was turned off and broke everything off.
I find when it comes to my preference of intelligence that I am not so much persuaded by the level of intelligence, but the yearning for it. e.g. a girl who blabs about drama as compared to a girl who wants a counterpoint on the rate of change for a population.
These days I have met a lot of girls, some who are intelligent, but not any who have a passion for it. Or at least I don't see it. Most of the time all I hear about is the job market.
Does anyone else feel this way?
Edited by XUL (10/15/13 12:59 AM)
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Re: Is anyone else attracted to intelligence? [Re: XUL]
#18967395 - 10/12/13 07:17 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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To meet a girl that is stunning and intelligent is a rare find. I totally agree with you. Intelligence is number one on the sexiness list. It has to be, even for just a one night stand. Any time you put your dick in a girl, there's a chance of having a baby. Who wants a baby with a chance of being unintelligent? Not me.
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Re: Is anyone else attracted to intelligence? [Re: XUL]
#18967427 - 10/12/13 07:37 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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I love wisdom more then intelligence. Although the two are usually connected. A girl with a good moral compass, practical wisdom, and a little bit of booksmarts is very sexy.
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Re: Is anyone else attracted to intelligence? [Re: i like cow poo]
#18967443 - 10/12/13 07:43 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Wisdom is good, though lately I've been banging a bunch of 21 year holds and these girls can't even cook, let alone be wise. They have firm boobies though! Ilikecowpoo, I was just reading a thread about you and your girl. You not being attracted to her looks. How's that going? I was in a relationship like you were talking. No more. Nowadays, they've got to be hot too.
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Re: Is anyone else attracted to intelligence? [Re: azur]
#18967446 - 10/12/13 07:45 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Lol that ended a long time ago. I can bang any girl as long as shes not dirty, is hot as shit, and isn't a piece of shit. Thats because I'm 21 and horney as fuck. Now wife material is a different story
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Re: Is anyone else attracted to intelligence? [Re: i like cow poo]
#18967499 - 10/12/13 08:26 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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I am attracted to intelligence; in fact, i'm highly appealed by a woman that possess it, because my ex was very '... uninterested in expanding her knowledge' and hence lacked knowledge in a lot of topics. I however never considered knowledge as intelligence, but instead considered intelligence as an individuals ability to comprehend a subject; which my ex also always lacked. i've always yearned for a deeper conversation with a sexual partner. I split up with my ex, and hope i find a woman in the future whom i can experience this deep conversation with. Sexually though which happens to be the FIRST thing i look for when i meet a new woman, intelligence doesn't come into it. This sounds shallow, but i guess i could say i want a woman whom is visually appealing (obviously to me) at first, and then later once we get to know each other is intelligent.
For the purpose of definition: A woman whom is sexually appealing to me, but not intelligent; would get a lay from me, but we would have no, or a terrible relationship. A woman whom is not sexually appealing to me but IS intelligent, would fall into my friend zone, and if interesting enough, I would become good friends with, but i'd totally set them up with someone else.
These are additional/optional notes for a interested person of the "Friend zone" Now for the record, before i was awesome, i actually fell into the friend zone with a fare few attractive woman, most of which are actually still my closest friends; one in fact i wanted to have a sexual relationship with. Even though i didn't realize it at the time, the sexual part never happened because she had friend zoned me. I've now also friend zoned them, and we all now have an amazing friendship, and it's awesome. Too all those men that have been mentally destroyed by the friend zone; use it to your advantage! Woman love men that know how to talk to other woman, just learn what you did wrong the first time that got you friend zoned, and simply stop doing it. That is the trick.
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Re: Is anyone else attracted to intelligence? [Re: Magenta]
#18967601 - 10/12/13 09:18 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Good read knightron. I can talk to any girl any time. I tell my shy buddies that girls are just people too. No more or less than homeless people. I don't think I've ever been friend zoned. Guess it's because I ride a fine line between confident and cocky. I've banged several hundred girls, many of whom were wicked hot. I think my new goal will be to see how many girls with their masters or higher I can bang.
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Re: Is anyone else attracted to intelligence? [Re: azur] 1
#18968081 - 10/12/13 12:12 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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several hundred? thats one dirty dick
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Re: Is anyone else attracted to intelligence? [Re: i like cow poo]
#18968195 - 10/12/13 12:49 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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I have banged several thousand sexy bitchez all with phd's.
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Re: Is anyone else attracted to intelligence? [Re: Sagescruffy]
#18968503 - 10/12/13 02:15 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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I've never said my dick wasn't dirty. It's the wicked fakies man. That's my weakness. Strange, but being a slut has just gotten me even more ass. If a girl would even think to ask me about my sexual past, I'd ask her if Micheal Jordan got great at bball by playing video games or by playing bball.
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Re: Is anyone else attracted to intelligence? [Re: XUL]
#18968538 - 10/12/13 02:22 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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I'm most definitely attracted to the concept of sharing an intellectual connection with another. It's not necessarily a knowledge/education sort of thing so much as understanding each other on a level that goes much beyond scratching the surface.
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Re: Is anyone else attracted to intelligence? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18968562 - 10/12/13 02:29 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Really though, attracted in what sense? A girlfriend has got to be very smart, ambitious, adventurous, and independent. A girl for a one night stand needs to be hot as fuck, not completely stupid, but still naive. For a regular fuck buddy, I want an ugly face on a bangin body on a girl that's a nasty disgusting shitbag whore that makes me feel so fucking grossed out at myself I vow to never call again....until I'm drunk and horny next time.
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Re: Is anyone else attracted to intelligence? [Re: azur]
#18968571 - 10/12/13 02:31 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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" I'm most definitely attracted to the concept of sharing an intellectual connection with another. It's not necessarily a knowledge/education sort of thing so much as understanding each other on a level that goes much beyond scratching the surface."
I like that
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Re: Is anyone else attracted to intelligence? [Re: azur]
#18968759 - 10/12/13 03:15 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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It's called Sapiosexual.
I cannot stand "slow" people. Interacting with them is draining. And I should focus more on ignorant "slow" people the most. People who are slow but willing to learn are harmless. It is those "slow" people who are ignorant and unwillingly to learn or change, and lack introspection.
I normally end up dating chicks who will say that my knowledge is attractive.
However, many common female sapiosexuals have father problems, in my experience. They tend to see that wise father role in partners.
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Re: Is anyone else attracted to intelligence? [Re: EdibleStereos]
#18968810 - 10/12/13 03:28 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Some say ignorance is bliss, and I find it to be the truth.
The more I learn about the world, the worse I feel.
I wouldn't wish intelligence upon enemies.
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Re: Is anyone else attracted to intelligence? [Re: Anonymous #2]
#18968858 - 10/12/13 03:42 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous said: Some say ignorance is bliss, and I find it to be the truth.
The more I learn about the world, the worse I feel.
I wouldn't wish intelligence upon enemies.
I feel the same way. It is a shame that you had to say that anonymously, but I can understand why you did. It is so much harder for me to feel happy when I see more and more each day how shitty and evil the world is. And I realize that is just one way of looking things but it is a challenge to try and see it the other way. It isn't something that I can just easily ignore or pretend doesn't exist like I did when I was a sheep.
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Re: Is anyone else attracted to intelligence? [Re: XUL]
#18968859 - 10/12/13 03:43 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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i hear ya, XUL. there are few people with whom i could see myself having a relationship that is founded in such things, though. then again, i don't know many people. i am, however, fortunate enough to get to speak with one of these people on a regular basis. who knows what will happen there, but our conversations are sexy as fuck sometimes (sometimes they are just regular conversations about awesome things like bacon, etc.).
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Re: Is anyone else attracted to intelligence? [Re: Anonymous #2]
#18968932 - 10/12/13 04:05 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous said: Some say ignorance is bliss, and I find it to be the truth.
The more I learn about the world, the worse I feel.
I wouldn't wish intelligence upon enemies.
Yeah, nobody said it was easy. It's caused me a lot of problems throughout my life.
kind of along the lines of, "id rather live a sad truth, than a happy lie"
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Re: Is anyone else attracted to intelligence? [Re: EdibleStereos]
#18968969 - 10/12/13 04:20 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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there are times i wish that i was legitimately retarded. then again, that territory also comes with being unable to wipe my own ass. still, sometimes that is infinitely more attractive a lifestyle to me than the one i currently maintain.
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Re: Is anyone else attracted to intelligence? [Re: Acidic_Sloth]
#18969093 - 10/12/13 04:59 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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i refuse to have any sort of relationship with willfully ignorant/dumb people. Romantic or otherwise. I got lucky, my current girlfriend in sexy as fuck, and one of the most intelligent people i've ever met. But even maintaining friend like relationships, i cant do it unless that person is engaging and intelligent, why be friends if you can't be intellectually stimulated in some way? They don't necessarily have to be book smart, but more 'scientifically literate' as Neil deGrasse Tyson would say. They have to at least be able to navigate the wold with a sound mind and with logic and reason.
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