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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: OgreLokon] 2
#18966962 - 10/12/13 03:10 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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grow some balls, you big wimp.
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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: barong] 4
#18966970 - 10/12/13 03:14 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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I don't this thread went quite the way OP envisioned.
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evenbreak
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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: barong]
#18966972 - 10/12/13 03:15 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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honestly if she was just flirting with me i wouldn't be half as hurt as the other possibility.
Maybe she's not attracted to me at all, and sees me as a little brother or goofy friend type of guy who she likes being around. Then she's just hanging around me because she enjoys laughing at me, not with me.
If that's the case then i don't think i want to be her friend anymore.
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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: Niffla] 4
#18966973 - 10/12/13 03:15 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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it is kinda messed up how everyone ganged up on him tho..not very shroomery like.
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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: evenbreak]
#18966975 - 10/12/13 03:17 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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I think she likes you, and then you started talking about other chicks and stuff, and then she got jealous and dissed on you a little bit.
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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: Niffla]
#18966976 - 10/12/13 03:17 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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I think this thread went better than OP expected 
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evenbreak said: honestly if she was just flirting with me i wouldn't be half as hurt as the other possibility.
Maybe she's not attracted to me at all, and sees me as a little brother or goofy friend type of guy who she likes being around. Then she's just hanging around me because she enjoys laughing at me, not with me.
If that's the case then i don't think i want to be her friend anymore.
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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: evenbreak] 1
#18966978 - 10/12/13 03:18 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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lol you friend-zoned her
haha
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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: evenbreak] 1
#18966981 - 10/12/13 03:20 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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No, because then she can find someone who won't play games.
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Shroomism
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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: evenbreak] 3
#18966990 - 10/12/13 03:23 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Nah man.. you blew it. She was into you and then you were bragging about other chicks around her (lame) and say you tease her and throw sarcastic jokes at her.... and then she comes back at you with a little playful jab and you get super ultra butthurt and act like a girl. You can dish it out but you can't take it?
The correct thing to do would be to get the fuck over it, and talk to her and stick it in her, but you will probably just cry about it.
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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: zZZz]
#18966991 - 10/12/13 03:23 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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evenbreak said: Maybe she's not attracted to me at all, and sees me as a little brother or goofy friend type of guy who she likes being around. Then she's just hanging around me because she enjoys laughing at me, not with me.
If that's the case then i don't think i want to be her friend anymore.
where has thinking like this gotten you? low self esteem, thinking you're a loser no-one wants to be friends with.
it's self fulfilling, you think you're a loser, so you are a loser.
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zZZz said: it is kinda messed up how everyone ganged up on him tho..not very shroomery like.
not true. we are not ganging up on him, we are telling him our opinions, which he asked for. we just all agree he's being a butt-hurt little bitch.
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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: evenbreak] 1
#18966993 - 10/12/13 03:24 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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zZZz said: it is kinda messed up how everyone ganged up on him tho..not very shroomery like.
Hippie jerk fest is over. The world is a tough place, get over it. If someone fucks up, tell them so they can learn from it.
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evenbreak said: she just struck a nerve pretty hard. I had a lot of issues in the past with thinking i'm a loser that nobody wants to be friends with and no girl would find attractive.
Ok, very good: so you realize it's your nerve she struck - i.e., how you felt about this is primarily your responsibility not hers, assuming she wasn't trying to seriously hurt you (and she didn't, obviously liking you and being your friend). Take responsibility for your own actions and your own responses. That's the key to improving your situation. At the start of this thread, you were about to blame all this on her. That would have gotten you nowhere. Sometimes you need to go through the humbling experience of acknowledging that you fucked up so that you can do better next time.
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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: evenbreak] 1
#18966996 - 10/12/13 03:28 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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evenbreak said: honestly if she was just flirting with me i wouldn't be half as hurt as the other possibility.
Maybe she's not attracted to me at all, and sees me as a little brother or goofy friend type of guy who she likes being around. Then she's just hanging around me because she enjoys laughing at me, not with me.
If that's the case then i don't think i want to be her friend anymore.
What the hell man. Don't take yourself so seriously. You say you have a "goofy personality" and you make little snide sarcastic jokes about her, but you can't laugh at yourself? Allow yourself to be laughed at as much as you laugh at other people. Or -with. Whichever. If someone's comfortable enough with you to make mock-mean jokes that's usually a good thing, so deal with it. Or if you're not into that, find another friend and don't you dare joke about her.
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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: KremrBigSikter] 2
#18967001 - 10/12/13 03:29 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Also chicks will often tease a man they are into, just to see if they react like a bitch or not..
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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: koraks]
#18967006 - 10/12/13 03:30 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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not even a little sugar on top?
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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: zZZz] 2
#18967007 - 10/12/13 03:31 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Tough love is still love
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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: zZZz] 2
#18967008 - 10/12/13 03:31 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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zZZz said: not even a little sugar on top?
Meh, you can sugarcoat a turd, but it's still a turd
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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: Shroomism]
#18967014 - 10/12/13 03:33 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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tough love is love and hate. not the same.
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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: rulesq]
#18967016 - 10/12/13 03:35 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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honestly i appreciate it. You guys can't hurt my feelings cause you're just anonymous strangers, and it helps a lot to have another perspective on my issues. I'm not comfortable talking about this with anyone in real life because i don't want them to think i'm a bitch.
I still feel hurt over what she said but I'll recognize that it's due to my own issues rather than blaming anything on her. It's all good cause i'm really not trying to get it in anyway, so we'll just keep being friends and i'll cut back on any type of teasing.. i was kind of being flirty with her initially and that's probably my bad too.
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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: evenbreak] 2
#18967017 - 10/12/13 03:36 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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evenbreak said: and she would say that I don't strike her as a person with a lot of game, or she's never seen me be charming before. Wtf. That's basically calling me an unattractive guy. I decided to stop talking to her that much after that, I don't need that kind of friend who's putting me down. I already have confidence issues and i'm trying to work on it and I really don't want to be around someone who looks down on me like that.
She's teasing you dude.
In a good way. Girls do that.
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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: zZZz]
#18967021 - 10/12/13 03:38 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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no, tough love is still love. anger and frustration as well, but not hate.
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