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evenbreak
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am i being overly sensitive? need some people advice.
#18966860 - 10/12/13 02:35 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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I know this girl for a month. She's my classmate and i'm not attracted to her so I keep things platonic and friendly. I have a goofy personality sometimes and I show that side of me to her because i'm not trying to get her in bed. I just tease her and throw some sarcastic jokes at her.
She texts me a lot and invites me to hang out with her a lot so i have some suspicion that she likes me. Anyway, she really pissed me off when I would talk about other girls and joke about showing them my game or turning on my charm, and she would say that I don't strike her as a person with a lot of game, or she's never seen me be charming before. Wtf. That's basically calling me an unattractive guy. I decided to stop talking to her that much after that, I don't need that kind of friend who's putting me down. I already have confidence issues and i'm trying to work on it and I really don't want to be around someone who looks down on me like that.
Am I right or am i being overdefensive?
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OgreLokon
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Re: am i being overly sensitive? need some people advice. [Re: evenbreak]
#18966868 - 10/12/13 02:38 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Oversensitive. Stop talking about other girls if it pisses her off. Then get over it.
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evenbreak
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Re: am i being overly sensitive? need some people advice. [Re: OgreLokon]
#18966881 - 10/12/13 02:42 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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really? you don't think she's being a bitch and crossing the line for saying shit like "i've never seen you be charming, ever." and trying to get me to jump through her hoops by telling me to be charming for her?
If i've never been charming to her then that means the only reason she's trying to talk to me so much is because she likes to look down on me.
it really rubbed me the wrong way. i kind of enjoyed her company before that too.
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koraks
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Re: am i being overly sensitive? need some people advice. [Re: evenbreak]
#18966917 - 10/12/13 02:52 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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If you're too sensitive to take sarcasm from someone else, why do you throw it at others? You sound really immature and insecure to me.
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OgreLokon
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Re: am i being overly sensitive? need some people advice. [Re: evenbreak]
#18966919 - 10/12/13 02:53 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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She likes you, but wants to play it cool. If she's your friend, respect that.
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Shroomism
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Re: am i being overly sensitive? need some people advice. [Re: evenbreak]
#18966924 - 10/12/13 02:53 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Reason: Duplicate thread in the Pub
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