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Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this..
    #18966865 - 10/12/13 02:37 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

I've known this girl for a month. She's my classmate and i'm not attracted to her so I keep things platonic and friendly. I have a goofy personality sometimes and I show that side of me to her because i'm not trying to get her in bed. I just tease her and throw some sarcastic jokes at her.

She texts me a lot and invites me to hang out with her a lot so i have some suspicion that she likes me. Anyway, she really pissed me off when I would talk about other girls and joke about showing them my game or turning on my charm, and she would say that I don't strike her as a person with a lot of game, or she's never seen me be charming before. Wtf. That's basically calling me an unattractive guy. I decided to stop talking to her that much after that, I don't need that kind of friend who's putting me down. I already have confidence issues and i'm trying to work on it and I really don't want to be around someone who looks down on me like that.

Am I right or am i being overdefensive?


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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: evenbreak] * 14
    #18966878 - 10/12/13 02:40 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

So you basically mess about with this girl, sort of play with her a bit, which she allows because she apparently really likes you, and then if she mildly lashes out at you out of frustration, you're hurt all at once? God, you're a loser.


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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: evenbreak] * 3
    #18966890 - 10/12/13 02:44 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

:whathesaid:

holy fuck man!
you really got that butt-hurt that easy?
she was challenging you to put the moves on her.

man, up.
hurt feelings are for homo's and chicks.


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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: koraks]
    #18966893 - 10/12/13 02:45 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

dude. It would be like if I called her unattractive. That's crossing the line, i don't attack her as a person when I joke around with her. It's lighthearted teases, not personal ones.

She basically threw something really personal at me. "I've never seen you be charming, ever." Wtf????? So if i'm not charming to her then that means she just likes me because i'm goofy and sees me as a clown.. fuck that


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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: evenbreak] * 2
    #18966901 - 10/12/13 02:47 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

she didn't say you where unattractive, she said you're not charming.
she was testing you.
you failed.


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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: evenbreak] * 2
    #18966903 - 10/12/13 02:48 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

she was just saying that to see how you react.. and you are all butthurt about it. She was flirting. noob.


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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: broken]
    #18966906 - 10/12/13 02:48 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

Quote:

closed veil said:
she didn't say you where unattractive, she said you're not charming.
she was testing you.
you failed.




attractive and charming are the same thing for a guy...

she flat out said that in all her interactions with me, she's never seen me be a charming person.

you seriously don't see that as a very mean spirited statement?


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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: evenbreak] * 4
    #18966908 - 10/12/13 02:49 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

If you're too insensitive to notice what you may have been doing to this girl, then you obviously don't understand. And being incapable of understanding what's going on, you'll have to go by what others say, and I say you're a dick. You had this coming and you have no right whatsoever to whine about it.


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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: evenbreak] * 2
    #18966911 - 10/12/13 02:49 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

it would depends on the context. and body language. lots of factors at play.


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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: evenbreak] * 1
    #18966912 - 10/12/13 02:50 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

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i'm not attracted to her so I keep things platonic and friendly




Why so butthurt then?

Why should it matter to you why she likes you if you're not attracted to her?

Sounds to me like on some level you are attracted to her :shrug:


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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: rulesq]
    #18966915 - 10/12/13 02:52 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

i have low self-esteem i guess :/. i mean i wouldn't mind having sex with her once but i know that'll ruin a friendship and hurt her feelings and i wouldn't do that.

she texted me the next day to hang out and i just brushed her off because i was so mad.

am i really the crazy one here? i just feel so hurt from her statement. i try so hard to be a likable person and when she threw that at me, it really really struck a nerve.


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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: evenbreak]
    #18966918 - 10/12/13 02:52 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

Quote:

evenbreak said:
she flat out said that in all her interactions with me, she's never seen me be a charming person.

you seriously don't see that as a very mean spirited statement?






nope.
i see that as a challenge, a test, to show her how charming you can be.

you are WAY TOO sensitive.
if you can't take a little shit from your friends you're not gonna make it too far in life.


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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: evenbreak] * 2
    #18966925 - 10/12/13 02:55 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

Quote:

evenbreak said:
i try so hard to be a likable person




Quote:

evenbreak said:
I just tease her and throw some sarcastic jokes at her.





I think you don't recognize yourself what an asshole you are.


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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: evenbreak]
    #18966935 - 10/12/13 02:59 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

Quote:

evenbreak said:
i have low self-esteem i guess :/. i mean i wouldn't mind having sex with her once but i know that'll ruin a friendship and hurt her feelings and i wouldn't do that. 




it by no means has too, but considering the amount of maturity in your post in this thread, it would.



Quote:


am i really the crazy one here? i just feel so hurt from her statement. i try so hard to be a likable person and when she threw that at me, it really really struck a nerve.





again, MAN THE FUCK UP!

if a chick friend of mine said i wasn't charming, i would be motivated to become charming.


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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: evenbreak] * 1
    #18966936 - 10/12/13 02:59 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

Get over it you crybaby! You say she's just a friend, but whine like a 4 year old girl if she says you aren't "charming". Pick what you want and do it. Friend? Get over it. More than? Show her how charming you are.

If I was her brother you'd me choking on your own teeth.


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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: evenbreak] * 2
    #18966937 - 10/12/13 03:01 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

so you're hurt because she was right?


i think it time to pull out the d and show this girl how charming you can be.


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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: zZZz] * 4
    #18966944 - 10/12/13 03:04 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

take her dancing and rub your boner on her.
chciks love it when you rub your boner on them.


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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: zZZz]
    #18966945 - 10/12/13 03:04 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

ok, i believe you guys... i guess. Even though I still feel like she was over the line at least a little bit, but i'll concede that i overreacted.

she just struck a nerve pretty hard. I had a lot of issues in the past with thinking i'm a loser that nobody wants to be friends with and no girl would find attractive. I'm only recently coming out of that mentality and she kind of hit me where it hurt :/.


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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: evenbreak] * 1
    #18966950 - 10/12/13 03:06 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

fuck man, you care too much what other people think about you.
there is like 5 people in the whole world who's opinion of me i give a fuck about.


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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: evenbreak] * 3
    #18966953 - 10/12/13 03:07 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

Quote:

evenbreak said:
I had a lot of issues in the past with thinking i'm a loser that nobody wants to be friends with and no girl would find attractive. I'm only recently coming out of that mentality and she kind of hit me where it hurt :/.




She likes you. Get over it. You hurt her feelings when you talk about other girls. She hurts yours if she says your grapes are sour. Take the sand out of your vagina.


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