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Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this..
    #18966865 - 10/12/13 02:37 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

I've known this girl for a month. She's my classmate and i'm not attracted to her so I keep things platonic and friendly. I have a goofy personality sometimes and I show that side of me to her because i'm not trying to get her in bed. I just tease her and throw some sarcastic jokes at her.

She texts me a lot and invites me to hang out with her a lot so i have some suspicion that she likes me. Anyway, she really pissed me off when I would talk about other girls and joke about showing them my game or turning on my charm, and she would say that I don't strike her as a person with a lot of game, or she's never seen me be charming before. Wtf. That's basically calling me an unattractive guy. I decided to stop talking to her that much after that, I don't need that kind of friend who's putting me down. I already have confidence issues and i'm trying to work on it and I really don't want to be around someone who looks down on me like that.

Am I right or am i being overdefensive?


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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: evenbreak] * 14
    #18966878 - 10/12/13 02:40 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

So you basically mess about with this girl, sort of play with her a bit, which she allows because she apparently really likes you, and then if she mildly lashes out at you out of frustration, you're hurt all at once? God, you're a loser.


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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: evenbreak] * 3
    #18966890 - 10/12/13 02:44 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

:whathesaid:

holy fuck man!
you really got that butt-hurt that easy?
she was challenging you to put the moves on her.

man, up.
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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: koraks]
    #18966893 - 10/12/13 02:45 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

dude. It would be like if I called her unattractive. That's crossing the line, i don't attack her as a person when I joke around with her. It's lighthearted teases, not personal ones.

She basically threw something really personal at me. "I've never seen you be charming, ever." Wtf????? So if i'm not charming to her then that means she just likes me because i'm goofy and sees me as a clown.. fuck that


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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: evenbreak] * 2
    #18966901 - 10/12/13 02:47 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

she didn't say you where unattractive, she said you're not charming.
she was testing you.
you failed.


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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: evenbreak] * 2
    #18966903 - 10/12/13 02:48 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

she was just saying that to see how you react.. and you are all butthurt about it. She was flirting. noob.


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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: broken]
    #18966906 - 10/12/13 02:48 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

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closed veil said:
she didn't say you where unattractive, she said you're not charming.
she was testing you.
you failed.




attractive and charming are the same thing for a guy...

she flat out said that in all her interactions with me, she's never seen me be a charming person.

you seriously don't see that as a very mean spirited statement?


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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: evenbreak] * 4
    #18966908 - 10/12/13 02:49 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

If you're too insensitive to notice what you may have been doing to this girl, then you obviously don't understand. And being incapable of understanding what's going on, you'll have to go by what others say, and I say you're a dick. You had this coming and you have no right whatsoever to whine about it.


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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: evenbreak] * 2
    #18966911 - 10/12/13 02:49 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

it would depends on the context. and body language. lots of factors at play.


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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: evenbreak] * 1
    #18966912 - 10/12/13 02:50 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

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i'm not attracted to her so I keep things platonic and friendly




Why so butthurt then?

Why should it matter to you why she likes you if you're not attracted to her?

Sounds to me like on some level you are attracted to her :shrug:


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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: rulesq]
    #18966915 - 10/12/13 02:52 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

i have low self-esteem i guess :/. i mean i wouldn't mind having sex with her once but i know that'll ruin a friendship and hurt her feelings and i wouldn't do that.

she texted me the next day to hang out and i just brushed her off because i was so mad.

am i really the crazy one here? i just feel so hurt from her statement. i try so hard to be a likable person and when she threw that at me, it really really struck a nerve.


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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: evenbreak]
    #18966918 - 10/12/13 02:52 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

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evenbreak said:
she flat out said that in all her interactions with me, she's never seen me be a charming person.

you seriously don't see that as a very mean spirited statement?






nope.
i see that as a challenge, a test, to show her how charming you can be.

you are WAY TOO sensitive.
if you can't take a little shit from your friends you're not gonna make it too far in life.


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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: evenbreak] * 2
    #18966925 - 10/12/13 02:55 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

Quote:

evenbreak said:
i try so hard to be a likable person




Quote:

evenbreak said:
I just tease her and throw some sarcastic jokes at her.





I think you don't recognize yourself what an asshole you are.


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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: evenbreak]
    #18966935 - 10/12/13 02:59 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

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evenbreak said:
i have low self-esteem i guess :/. i mean i wouldn't mind having sex with her once but i know that'll ruin a friendship and hurt her feelings and i wouldn't do that. 




it by no means has too, but considering the amount of maturity in your post in this thread, it would.



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am i really the crazy one here? i just feel so hurt from her statement. i try so hard to be a likable person and when she threw that at me, it really really struck a nerve.





again, MAN THE FUCK UP!

if a chick friend of mine said i wasn't charming, i would be motivated to become charming.


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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: evenbreak] * 1
    #18966936 - 10/12/13 02:59 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

Get over it you crybaby! You say she's just a friend, but whine like a 4 year old girl if she says you aren't "charming". Pick what you want and do it. Friend? Get over it. More than? Show her how charming you are.

If I was her brother you'd me choking on your own teeth.


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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: evenbreak] * 2
    #18966937 - 10/12/13 03:01 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

so you're hurt because she was right?


i think it time to pull out the d and show this girl how charming you can be.


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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: zZZz] * 4
    #18966944 - 10/12/13 03:04 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

take her dancing and rub your boner on her.
chciks love it when you rub your boner on them.


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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: zZZz]
    #18966945 - 10/12/13 03:04 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

ok, i believe you guys... i guess. Even though I still feel like she was over the line at least a little bit, but i'll concede that i overreacted.

she just struck a nerve pretty hard. I had a lot of issues in the past with thinking i'm a loser that nobody wants to be friends with and no girl would find attractive. I'm only recently coming out of that mentality and she kind of hit me where it hurt :/.


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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: evenbreak] * 1
    #18966950 - 10/12/13 03:06 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

fuck man, you care too much what other people think about you.
there is like 5 people in the whole world who's opinion of me i give a fuck about.


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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: evenbreak] * 3
    #18966953 - 10/12/13 03:07 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

Quote:

evenbreak said:
I had a lot of issues in the past with thinking i'm a loser that nobody wants to be friends with and no girl would find attractive. I'm only recently coming out of that mentality and she kind of hit me where it hurt :/.




She likes you. Get over it. You hurt her feelings when you talk about other girls. She hurts yours if she says your grapes are sour. Take the sand out of your vagina.


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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: OgreLokon] * 2
    #18966962 - 10/12/13 03:10 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

grow some balls, you big wimp.


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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: barong] * 4
    #18966970 - 10/12/13 03:14 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

I don't this thread went quite the way OP envisioned.


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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: barong]
    #18966972 - 10/12/13 03:15 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

honestly if she was just flirting with me i wouldn't be half as hurt as the other possibility.

Maybe she's not attracted to me at all, and sees me as a little brother or goofy friend type of guy who she likes being around. Then she's just hanging around me because she enjoys laughing at me, not with me.

If that's the case then i don't think i want to be her friend anymore.


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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: Niffla] * 4
    #18966973 - 10/12/13 03:15 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

it is kinda messed up how everyone ganged up on him tho..not very shroomery like.


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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: evenbreak]
    #18966975 - 10/12/13 03:17 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

I think she likes you, and then you started talking about other chicks and stuff, and then she got jealous and dissed on you a little bit.


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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: Niffla]
    #18966976 - 10/12/13 03:17 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

I think this thread went better than OP expected :shrug:
Quote:

evenbreak said:
honestly if she was just flirting with me i wouldn't be half as hurt as the other possibility.

Maybe she's not attracted to me at all, and sees me as a little brother or goofy friend type of guy who she likes being around. Then she's just hanging around me because she enjoys laughing at me, not with me.

If that's the case then i don't think i want to be her friend anymore.



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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: evenbreak] * 1
    #18966978 - 10/12/13 03:18 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

lol you friend-zoned her


haha


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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: evenbreak] * 1
    #18966981 - 10/12/13 03:20 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

No, because then she can find someone who won't play games.


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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: evenbreak] * 3
    #18966990 - 10/12/13 03:23 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

Nah man.. you blew it. She was into you and then you were bragging about other chicks around her (lame) and say you tease her and throw sarcastic jokes at her.... and then she comes back at you with a little playful jab and you get super ultra butthurt and act like a girl. You can dish it out but you can't take it?

The correct thing to do would be to get the fuck over it, and talk to her and stick it in her, but you will probably just cry about it.


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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: zZZz]
    #18966991 - 10/12/13 03:23 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

Quote:

evenbreak said:
Maybe she's not attracted to me at all, and sees me as a little brother or goofy friend type of guy who she likes being around. Then she's just hanging around me because she enjoys laughing at me, not with me.

If that's the case then i don't think i want to be her friend anymore.




where has thinking like this gotten you?
low self esteem, thinking you're a loser no-one wants to be friends with.

it's self fulfilling, you think you're a loser, so you are a loser.

Quote:

zZZz said:
it is kinda messed up how everyone ganged up on him tho..not very shroomery like.




not true.
we are not ganging up on him, we are telling him our opinions, which he asked for.
we just all agree he's being a butt-hurt little bitch.


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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: evenbreak] * 1
    #18966993 - 10/12/13 03:24 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

Quote:

zZZz said:
it is kinda messed up how everyone ganged up on him tho..not very shroomery like.



Hippie jerk fest is over. The world is a tough place, get over it. If someone fucks up, tell them so they can learn from it.

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she just struck a nerve pretty hard. I had a lot of issues in the past with thinking i'm a loser that nobody wants to be friends with and no girl would find attractive.



Ok, very good: so you realize it's your nerve she struck - i.e., how you felt about this is primarily your responsibility not hers, assuming she wasn't trying to seriously hurt you (and she didn't, obviously liking you and being your friend). Take responsibility for your own actions and your own responses. That's the key to improving your situation. At the start of this thread, you were about to blame all this on her. That would have gotten you nowhere. Sometimes you need to go through the humbling experience of acknowledging that you fucked up so that you can do better next time.


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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: evenbreak] * 1
    #18966996 - 10/12/13 03:28 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

Quote:

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honestly if she was just flirting with me i wouldn't be half as hurt as the other possibility.

Maybe she's not attracted to me at all, and sees me as a little brother or goofy friend type of guy who she likes being around. Then she's just hanging around me because she enjoys laughing at me, not with me.

If that's the case then i don't think i want to be her friend anymore.



What the hell man. Don't take yourself so seriously. You say you have a "goofy personality" and you make little snide sarcastic jokes about her, but you can't laugh at yourself? Allow yourself to be laughed at as much as you laugh at other people. Or -with. Whichever.
If someone's comfortable enough with you to make mock-mean jokes that's usually a good thing, so deal with it. Or if you're not into that, find another friend and don't you dare joke about her.


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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: KremrBigSikter] * 2
    #18967001 - 10/12/13 03:29 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

Also chicks will often tease a man they are into, just to see if they react like a bitch or not..


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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: koraks]
    #18967006 - 10/12/13 03:30 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

not even a little sugar on top?


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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: zZZz] * 2
    #18967007 - 10/12/13 03:31 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

Tough love is still love


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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: zZZz] * 2
    #18967008 - 10/12/13 03:31 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

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not even a little sugar on top?



Meh, you can sugarcoat a turd, but it's still a turd :shrug:


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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: Shroomism]
    #18967014 - 10/12/13 03:33 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

tough love is love and hate. not the same.


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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: rulesq]
    #18967016 - 10/12/13 03:35 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

honestly i appreciate it. You guys can't hurt my feelings cause you're just anonymous strangers, and it helps a lot to have another perspective on my issues. I'm not comfortable talking about this with anyone in real life because i don't want them to think i'm a bitch.

I still feel hurt over what she said but I'll recognize that it's due to my own issues rather than blaming anything on her. It's all good cause i'm really not trying to get it in anyway, so we'll just keep being friends and i'll cut back on any type of teasing.. i was kind of being flirty with her initially and that's probably my bad too.


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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: evenbreak] * 2
    #18967017 - 10/12/13 03:36 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

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and she would say that I don't strike her as a person with a lot of game, or she's never seen me be charming before. Wtf. That's basically calling me an unattractive guy. I decided to stop talking to her that much after that, I don't need that kind of friend who's putting me down. I already have confidence issues and i'm trying to work on it and I really don't want to be around someone who looks down on me like that.



She's teasing you dude.

In a good way.  Girls do that. 

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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: zZZz]
    #18967021 - 10/12/13 03:38 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

no, tough love is still love.
anger and frustration as well, but not hate.


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    #18967023 - 10/12/13 03:39 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

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Set said:





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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: Shroomism]
    #18967038 - 10/12/13 03:45 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

lulz!

this thread is great.


i tease everybody. mostly because i hate them.


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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: Acidic_Sloth]
    #18967050 - 10/12/13 03:53 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

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    #18967051 - 10/12/13 03:54 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

there's is no such thing as tough love. there's only love.


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    #18967055 - 10/12/13 03:55 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

hey hey don't talk about my b that way. you'll get cut sun. :kingcrankey:


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    #18967057 - 10/12/13 03:56 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

Did you grow up in the place of bunnies, unicorns and eternal rainbows, z?


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    #18967058 - 10/12/13 03:56 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

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    #18967061 - 10/12/13 03:58 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

it's true. what can i say?


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    #18967062 - 10/12/13 03:58 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

i grew up in the place of bunnies, killers, unicorns, devils, and yes eternal and infernal rainbows.


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    #18967072 - 10/12/13 04:02 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

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it's true. what can i say?





I take a small portion of what I said back.

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    #18967089 - 10/12/13 04:10 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

By the way OP, since I don't think it's been said yet...

Keep girls as friends.  Seriously.  Don't just forget about them because you don't want to fuck them.  They may actually be cool.  And it may actually help you in the long run.

Wanna know why?

Girls that YOU DO want to fuck will see that other girls like you, aren't creeped out by you, and may even get a little jealous and compete for attention. 

Not only will you NOT look like a rapist creeper, but may even come across as a guy who women enjoy being with.


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    #18967095 - 10/12/13 04:13 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

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    #18967101 - 10/12/13 04:15 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

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I think she likes you, and then you started talking about other chicks and stuff, and then she got jealous and dissed on you a little bit.




That's what I said!

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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: broken]
    #18967104 - 10/12/13 04:17 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

Set is on a row.  :congrats:


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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: zZZz]
    #18967110 - 10/12/13 04:18 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

lol



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    #18967517 - 10/12/13 08:40 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

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zZZz said:
it is kinda messed up how everyone ganged up on him tho..not very shroomery like.




:sad:

I feel bad for OP.

We aren't beating up on you dude.

Anxiety, depression, feeling that every girl is against you.  Fuck, that was me at 18.  I fucked up so much shit with girls it was ridiculous.

A lot of good advice in this thread though dude.  :ruggedwink:




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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: Set]
    #18967665 - 10/12/13 09:46 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

Tap her and run


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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: evenbreak] * 1
    #18968097 - 10/12/13 12:19 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

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I've known this girl for a month. She's my classmate and i'm not attracted to her so I keep things platonic and friendly. I have a goofy personality sometimes and I show that side of me to her because i'm not trying to get her in bed. I just tease her and throw some sarcastic jokes at her.

She texts me a lot and invites me to hang out with her a lot so i have some suspicion that she likes me. Anyway, she really pissed me off when I would talk about other girls and joke about showing them my game or turning on my charm, and she would say that I don't strike her as a person with a lot of game, or she's never seen me be charming before. Wtf. That's basically calling me an unattractive guy. I decided to stop talking to her that much after that, I don't need that kind of friend who's putting me down. I already have confidence issues and i'm trying to work on it and I really don't want to be around someone who looks down on me like that.

Am I right or am i being overdefensive?




I don't feel like reading all the replies, so i'm sorry if this has already been brought up...

But your butthurt about her 'supposedly' saying your unattractive..

i'm not attracted to her so I keep things platonic and friendly.

It's okay for you to think that about her but not okay for her to think that about you?


And she's obviously just trying to get your reaction and flirting with you. dshsb or don't. Either way, get over it bro. If she throws off your groove that bad, quit hanging out with her. But don't act like she's being a bad friend and putting her down when you're doing the same to her. Your confidence issues aren't her fault or her problem. A friend isn't there to serve you or baby you.

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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: evenbreak]
    #18968111 - 10/12/13 12:22 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

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I already have confidence issues and i'm trying to work on it




The answer is already under your nose, you need to bang this chick so you both feel better about yourselves.  Nothing makes you feel more proud of yourself than sticking your dick inside of a chick you aren't attracted to.  This will give her self worth as well, and you will both be better people because of it.


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    #18968153 - 10/12/13 12:34 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

fapjack speaks wisdom


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    #18968158 - 10/12/13 12:35 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

She wanted for you to BE charming with her, in other words.  Sounds like you were given the green light.


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    #18968186 - 10/12/13 12:44 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

More like the pink light


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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: PsilliCoder]
    #18968274 - 10/12/13 01:17 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

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evenbreak said:
I've known this girl for a month. She's my classmate and i'm not attracted to her so I keep things platonic and friendly. I have a goofy personality sometimes and I show that side of me to her because i'm not trying to get her in bed. I just tease her and throw some sarcastic jokes at her.

She texts me a lot and invites me to hang out with her a lot so i have some suspicion that she likes me. Anyway, she really pissed me off when I would talk about other girls and joke about showing them my game or turning on my charm, and she would say that I don't strike her as a person with a lot of game, or she's never seen me be charming before. Wtf. That's basically calling me an unattractive guy. I decided to stop talking to her that much after that, I don't need that kind of friend who's putting me down. I already have confidence issues and i'm trying to work on it and I really don't want to be around someone who looks down on me like that.

Am I right or am i being overdefensive?




I don't feel like reading all the replies, so i'm sorry if this has already been brought up...

But your butthurt about her 'supposedly' saying your unattractive..

i'm not attracted to her so I keep things platonic and friendly.

It's okay for you to think that about her but not okay for her to think that about you?


And she's obviously just trying to get your reaction and flirting with you. dshsb or don't. Either way, get over it bro. If she throws off your groove that bad, quit hanging out with her. But don't act like she's being a bad friend and putting her down when you're doing the same to her. Your confidence issues aren't her fault or her problem. A friend isn't there to serve you or baby you.

:shrug:




i can't help that i'm not attracted to her. But i don't say it to her face or point out to her why i'm not attracted to her, because that's mean. So if she finds me unattractive that's fine, but i think it would be really mean to say to my face that i'm unattractive. If she was just flirting then that's another story, but we don't know what's going on in her head so we can only speculate on possible scenarios.


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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: evenbreak]
    #18968423 - 10/12/13 01:57 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

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it is kinda messed up how everyone ganged up on him tho..not very shroomery like.



lol this


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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: koraks]
    #18968627 - 10/12/13 02:44 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

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Quote:

zZZz said:
it is kinda messed up how everyone ganged up on him tho..not very shroomery like.



Hippie jerk fest is over. The world is a tough place, get over it. If someone fucks up, tell them so they can learn from it.





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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: evenbreak] * 1
    #18968650 - 10/12/13 02:50 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

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i can't help that i'm not attracted to her. But i don't say it to her face or point out to her why i'm not attracted to her, because that's mean. So if she finds me unattractive that's fine, but i think it would be really mean to say to my face that i'm unattractive. If she was just flirting then that's another story, but we don't know what's going on in her head so we can only speculate on possible scenarios.





God, you're such a pussy. You just don't get it.

It's OK for you to be sarcastic to her, but you can't take it back. You are convinced she finds you unattractive, when the opposite is actually true.

If a male buddy said the same thing to you I'm sure we wouldn't be reading this pathetic thread. You're just butthurt because it came from a girl.

Fact is, you're going to destroy the friendship you have with her because you are so batshit stupid. Here's how I see it playing out: You approach her and tell her how hurt you are, then probe further and further looking for an answer you like from her. She gets increasingly uncomfortable and says some GENUINE bad stuff, and you walk away believing that she felt this all along and you were right - ignoring the fact that you pushed her into a corner. Or, she may be cool with your feeble approach, and drift away because no girl like a guy who's a big wimp, not even as a friend.

You need to do some serious self-reflection, buddy. You might think youre looking at this reasonably, but as recently as your last thread, you are still insisting that it's her problem.


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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: barong] * 2
    #18968667 - 10/12/13 02:53 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

when OP tries to re-organize this situation, he's gonna a get a big fat  :whateveryousayfreak:


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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: barong]
    #18968687 - 10/12/13 02:58 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

if a male buddy says the same thing i'll still be hurt. Probably not as much, but it says a lot about how he sees me if he thinks i'm a person who has no charm. Actually, no, i'd be just as hurt, if not more. That's pretty fucked up if a guy friend says that to me. I'd be thinking "wtf i thought we were cool?"

I'm not going to confront her with this, i'm not stupid. And I think you're misunderstanding me.

If she was flirting with me, that's cool.

If she genuinely thought i had no charm and she that to me outright, i think that's pretty fucked up.

I don't actually know what she's thinking, so i guess i'll just assume she was trying to joke around with me and let it go.


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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: evenbreak] * 1
    #18968697 - 10/12/13 03:01 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

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    #18968701 - 10/12/13 03:02 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

OP, I think you're gay dude.


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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: evenbreak]
    #18968704 - 10/12/13 03:02 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

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evenbreak said: so i guess i'll just assume she was trying to joke around with me and let it go.




Will you, though? Sounds to me like you're not even close to moving on from this great big NON-ISSUE that you have created in your own head.


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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: Samuel L Jackson]
    #18969004 - 10/12/13 04:31 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

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Quote:

Acidic_Sloth said:
it's true. what can i say?





I take a small portion of what I said back.

You didn't ban me this time.

Congratulations.





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    #18969010 - 10/12/13 04:34 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

So you are a full mod now?  I thought you were a jr mod without the ability to anything except delete and move threads.


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    #18969024 - 10/12/13 04:38 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

i've been a full mod for almost 7 years.


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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: evenbreak]
    #18969113 - 10/12/13 05:07 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

No such thing as a platonic relationship.  One or the other wants a fuck.

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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: barong]
    #18969123 - 10/12/13 05:11 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

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Quote:

evenbreak said:

i can't help that i'm not attracted to her. But i don't say it to her face or point out to her why i'm not attracted to her, because that's mean. So if she finds me unattractive that's fine, but i think it would be really mean to say to my face that i'm unattractive. If she was just flirting then that's another story, but we don't know what's going on in her head so we can only speculate on possible scenarios.





God, you're such a pussy. You just don't get it.

It's OK for you to be sarcastic to her, but you can't take it back. You are convinced she finds you unattractive, when the opposite is actually true.

If a male buddy said the same thing to you I'm sure we wouldn't be reading this pathetic thread. You're just butthurt because it came from a girl.

Fact is, you're going to destroy the friendship you have with her because you are so batshit stupid. Here's how I see it playing out: You approach her and tell her how hurt you are, then probe further and further looking for an answer you like from her. She gets increasingly uncomfortable and says some GENUINE bad stuff, and you walk away believing that she felt this all along and you were right - ignoring the fact that you pushed her into a corner. Or, she may be cool with your feeble approach, and drift away because no girl like a guy who's a big wimp, not even as a friend.

You need to do some serious self-reflection, buddy. You might think youre looking at this reasonably, but as recently as your last thread, you are still insisting that it's her problem.



Somebody woke up on the wrong side of the bed :lol:

What a thread, op makes a post about how his feelings are hurt and the responses he gets are "goddamn you're such a loser" "god, you're such a pussy" "this pathetic thread" "like a guy who's a big wimp" "you're just butthurt"

Maybe when OP makes sarcastic remarks to this girl it's obvious he's being sarcastic and never goes to the extent of deliberatly doing anything that could be hurtful and this girl told him he was unatractive in a matter-of-fact tone without hinting she was just joking around

The point is you don't know the specifics of the situation and the fact that you all feel the need to jump over him for this thread might even suggest that you're the ones being stupid


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    #18969134 - 10/12/13 05:15 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

after re-reading the OP it does seem pretty dumb actually lol

i dunno bye


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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: Sheekle]
    #18969161 - 10/12/13 05:22 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

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after re-reading the OP it does seem pretty dumb actually lol




Exactly ~! Maybe you should read threads before offering your insightful opinion. The OP is without a doubt, a precious little darling


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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: barong]
    #18969747 - 10/12/13 08:17 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

Jeez OP got ripped apart. Ouch.

Everyone here is 100% right, though. You need to man up and pay more attention to body language and getting the hint. Analyze what they tell you, when you talk to them, it's important to keep a dialogue flowing, and have it be legitimate.

Women are more intuitive creatures than men, by nature. They can usually tell if you're talking to them just to get in their pants....and depending on how you present and carry yourself, they either won't care, go with the flow, and have fun, or they'll be totally in on it, and turned-off. Don't be that dude. What you really need to do, is learn how to communicate with people. Ask yourself if you are the kind of guy you would want to go out with if you were a chick.

if not, improve yourself anyway you can. Look at women as actual people with unique interests, passions, and desires. Hang out with a person that you actually think is super cool, and not just a hot piece of ass. If you're a man that has actual game (and lets face it, you do not), whoever you're hanging out with will see that you're actually cool guy, and chances are, if they wanted to hang out with you in the first place, they're attracted to you and are giving you an opportunity to prove themselves right.

Step one to being an attractive person, learn how to attract your desired audience.

What do you bring to the table as a potential mate? Something you may not want to bullshit yourself with.


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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: newearthmud1212]
    #18969765 - 10/12/13 08:21 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

OP, do you enjoy sexual advances, in any shape of form at all? if the answer is no... then a word of advice would be, come up with an :ohyou: face, and spread tha love instead of regress in the face of said advances.


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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: evenbreak]
    #19016318 - 10/22/13 09:20 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

OP, can we get an update?


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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: broken]
    #19017381 - 10/23/13 01:54 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

i guess she got the vibe that she hurt my feelings cause she texted me that night asking to hang out the next day, then i brushed her off and made some obvious bs excuse. So after that she avoided me for a week until she sent me a text and we had a text conversation and things are back to normal.


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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: evenbreak]
    #19017473 - 10/23/13 02:46 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

if you are attracted to her then just ask her for some, otherwise your self esteem will just sink even lower. if not then just act cool and see if she has any friends she's willing to introduce you to.


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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: broken]
    #19017537 - 10/23/13 03:35 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

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:whathesaid:

holy fuck man!
you really got that butt-hurt that easy?
she was challenging you to put the moves on her.

man, up.
hurt feelings are for homo's and chicks.




Nah yo this guys a true playa, probably gets more play then you:lol:


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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: evenbreak]
    #19019286 - 10/23/13 01:01 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

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i guess she got the vibe that she hurt my feelings cause she texted me that night asking to hang out the next day, then i brushed her off and made some obvious bs excuse. So after that she avoided me for a week until she sent me a text and we had a text conversation and things are back to normal.





good.
now set off a charm bomb and DSHSB.


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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: evenbreak]
    #19019301 - 10/23/13 01:04 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

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attractive and charming are the same thing for a guy...



What fucking world do you live in?


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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: jewunit]
    #19019425 - 10/23/13 01:39 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

He lives in Narcissististan


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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: broken]
    #19020566 - 10/23/13 05:25 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

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holy fuck man!
you really got that butt-hurt that easy?
she was challenging you to put the moves on her.

man, up.
hurt feelings are for homo's and chicks.




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Re: Should i be friends with this girl anymore? Need another perspective on this.. [Re: Shroomism]
    #19020604 - 10/23/13 05:32 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

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Shroomism said: She was flirting. noob.




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