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Anonymous #1
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What's wrong with me
#18956453 - 10/09/13 08:53 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Right now I am living the dream life, which alot of the people my age which they had, I have money like you wouldn't believe, I have drugs, I have girls chasing me like crazy; infact right now I'm in a 3 way relationship with two lovely/beautiful girls who just love to please me and one of them even grows mj so I get ALL the mj i want for free...
But I'm not happy, I know I should be jumping with excitement but I'm not and Idk why; is there something wrong with me?
and sorry if I come off a bit braggyish, I am truly not trying to be
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Anonymous #2
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Use your money to follow your true passion, I doubt drugs and money are what you desire deep down. Travel for awhile. Send me some cash to help me start my business, that would make you feel good.  My life is opposite of yours but I'm trying to make some changes, it's the little things that make life wonderful, even when you think you have it all.
You're not broken, nothing is wrong, infact something is right with you, you prove that by making this thread. You recognized the problem, and took action.
Edited by Anonymous (10/09/13 08:57 PM)
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Anonymous #1
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well my dream job is drug dealing... but when I first wanted to be one I pictured my life how it is now, and now that it's here it's not enough to please me
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Anonymous #3
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Give back man, give back more than you want to. Volunteer at a homeless shelter. Go help build a house with habitat for humanity, help out at a animal shelter. We will never find happiness if that is all we ever seek, it can only come to use by caring for others and expecting nothing in return. Well maybe not only that, but it works for most people
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Anonymous #4
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See a psychiatrist. Or take a bunch of psychedelics and do some soul searching. Or quit bitching about nothing and realize that life is a fucking shitty ride on a rickety roller coaster and then one day its over and what you did meant nothing.
Or you know, buy a balloon or something
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Anonymous #5
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You have post-partum depression.
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Anonymous #6
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Maybe your looking for something? Hmm maybe the reason you incarnated here?
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Anonymous #1
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idk it's like nothing is good enough and im always on some never ending chase and yeah I plan to go to a psychiatrist soon
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Anonymous #7
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Living as thoughts/desires/emotions is your problem , they're not who you are
follow your heart instead, that's your true self
if something makes you happy it is the right thing, keep doing that if something makes you regret/unhappy, it is wrong , stop doing it
listen to yourself/your inner guidance voice
moderation is important, more always wants more (without ever feeling fulfilled) if you moderate your life, you will get much more appreciation (simple lifestyle) , less is more :-)
I would recommend moderating the weed use/quitting it, don't make it an everyday thing you probably already know this... body and mind feels best when not under the influence, because you can only be yourself when not under the influence
find your real values in life, instead of "sense pleasure/attachment" nature and meditation I would recommend... especially meditation in nature(sit/walk in nature) ... but anything you love / helping others etc. when you feel that peace you need nothing else
you only need to be yourself, yourself needs nothing, happiness is within from being yourself
pets,houseplants are a great addition too to nature, they bring happiness everyday when you wake up (cat/birds/dog?)
Edited by Anonymous (10/10/13 06:02 PM)
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Anonymous #8
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Dont reply members...your a liar seriously.
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Anonymous #1
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Quote:
Anonymous #8 said: Dont reply members...your a liar seriously.
Oh darn I should of anticipated you looking into your crystal ball and discovering this thread is some type of hoax which I made so that I can get some type of weird twisted pleasure from watching people waste 10 secs of there life posting on this thread trying to help me
Edited by Anonymous (10/10/13 11:58 PM)
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Anonymous #9
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maybe you need to come out?
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Anonymous #1
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Quote:
Anonymous #9 said: maybe you need to come out?
No thanks, I've already experimented with the same sex back then in high school and it wasn't my cup of tea
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Anonymous #10
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Quote:
Anonymous #7 said: Living as thoughts/desires/emotions is your problem , they're not who you are
follow your heart instead, that's your true self
listen to yourself/your inner guidance voice
you only need to be yourself, yourself needs nothing, happiness is within from being yourself
So what makes up his inner guide voice? thought desires emotions? I think I get what your trying to say but its unclear
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Anonymous #7
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the inner voice for me is a feeling
when I do something that is right for me, I feel happy
if I do something I shouldn't do, I feel regret/unhappy afterwards
and sometimes I get the feeling that I should do something to be myself/stay happy that feeling/inner voice is usually right
i.e. stop smoking weed everyday, move to a place where you can be yourself, you will get sick if you keep living in noise (since always been sensitive to noise)
that's the kind of inner voice I'm talking about, it's faint, but it's there if you listen carefully to yourself
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Anonymous #10
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But surely thats inexorably tied to your thoughts/emotions/desires?
That inner voice you describe is just a conglomerate of all the above...Of course I might have totally misinterpreted you :P
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Anonymous #11
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lack of motivation
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Anonymous #12
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Some really good advice already OP.
I don't know what I can offer... maybe are you looking at life as a series of boxes to tick, that you can then say I'm happy because of such?
Have you been unconsciously setting prerequisites for your happiness, imposing your own standards and expectations?
Edited by Anonymous (10/11/13 01:27 PM)
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Anonymous #1
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Quote:
Anonymous #12 said: Some really good advice already OP.
I don't know what I can offer... maybe are you looking at life as a series of boxes to tick, that you can then say I'm happy because of such?
Have you been unconsciously setting prerequisites for your happiness, imposing your own standards and expectations?
I know and I;m grateful for all the advice I've been getting and I plan to integrate some of these things into my life. Also ever since I can remember I have been imposing my own standards and expectations
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Anonymous #13
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You're obviously bragging and I'm sure your life isn't that great lol..
I mean if it were true I don't think you'd be posting this in shroomerites anonymous..
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