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how safe is pulling out?
#18961826 - 10/10/13 10:28 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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When I have sex with a condom on I cant cum even if i go for hours. It ends in the girl very sore for days or feeling like there is something wrong with her because she cant make me cum.
Ive tried blowjobs and boobjobs but i cant seem to finish this way either and her jaw gets tired.
I couldnt cum last time and we ended up having sex without the condom. I ended up finishing 3 times that night and found it easy to pull out at the right time.
She wants me to buy spermicidal lube and continue doing it this method, I know its not 100% safe because of precum and i dont want to get this girl pregnant.
So how safe would you say the pull out method is with spermicidal lube assuming im able to pull out in time 100% of the time, what is the chances of a girl getting pregnant off of precum?
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Lynnch
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It works great until it doesn't. You're rolling the dice every time dude, don't kid yourself pretending that pulling out is in any way effective the way condoms or birth control are. There is a reason the spermicidal sponge and lube isn't used commonly... Why doesn't she just get on birth control?
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Re: how safe is pulling out? [Re: Lynnch]
#18962034 - 10/10/13 11:13 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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yeah just have her go on the pill. its cheaper and easier than an abortion or raising a kid
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Re: how safe is pulling out? [Re: psyconaught]
#18962101 - 10/10/13 11:30 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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She cant use birth control because then her boyfriend would know. She even has him wear a condom every time. She prefers to be all natural if she can aka no medications. It was kind of in the heat of the moment that we didnt use a condom and neither of us talked about it very much and im a little surprised she wants to continue with that method when she has a kid and a long term boyfriend.
I dont want to continue with the pull out method, even though it felt great it was scary enough one time and i dont think its worth it. But my only option is condoms which is a real bummer because i cannot cum with one on at all.. Any tips to make it easier to cum in a condom? Best brands? Ive been using a few different types of trojan condoms and i feel like they cut off 90% of sensitivity.
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your having sex with someone in a long term relationship. sorry no sympathy for cheating women or their lovers
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Re: how safe is pulling out? [Re: psyconaught] 1
#18962136 - 10/10/13 11:42 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Never said it was an affair she is allowed to have sex with others and her boyfriend is too if it really matters shes just supposed to use protection.
Her boyfriend has sex with other girls and even drops her off at my place to stay the night 
But id rather stay on topic of this thread if we can.
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i did for 4 years it sucks not being able to bust inside. it worked great for me but who knows i might be shooting blanks
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Re: how safe is pulling out? [Re: Megatrondon]
#18962201 - 10/11/13 12:16 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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The pull out method worked fine for my wife for almost a year, now we have a 3 year old girl., so don't think for a second it is a good form of birth control, better then nutting inside of her, but not by much.
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Re: how safe is pulling out? [Re: Icepic]
#18962388 - 10/11/13 01:51 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Find some condoms that work for you or see if she's down with the vitamin C & black cohosh approach.
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Re: how safe is pulling out? [Re: Icepic]
#18962675 - 10/11/13 05:45 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Icepic said: The pull out method worked fine for my wife for almost a year, now we have a 3 year old girl., so don't think for a second it is a good form of birth control, better then nutting inside of her, but not by much.
Yeah it's not very effective. A friend of mine used the pull out method - now they have a kid.
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Anonymous said: She cant use birth control because then her boyfriend would know. She even has him wear a condom every time. She prefers to be all natural if she can aka no medications. It was kind of in the heat of the moment that we didnt use a condom and neither of us talked about it very much and im a little surprised she wants to continue with that method when she has a kid and a long term boyfriend.
I dont want to continue with the pull out method, even though it felt great it was scary enough one time and i dont think its worth it. But my only option is condoms which is a real bummer because i cannot cum with one on at all.. Any tips to make it easier to cum in a condom? Best brands? Ive been using a few different types of trojan condoms and i feel like they cut off 90% of sensitivity.
My dude couldn't cum at first with a condom on, but after a few months, it started taking less and less time for him to get there. Sooo, I guess I'm saying you have to practice lol
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Crossing my fingers but I've used the pull out method with my girlfriend for a little over a year now with success . If I think I came in her we go get the plan b . I think that's happened 2 or 3 times in the whole year .
Side note , I jerk off a lot , smoke a gram a day , and piss before we bang 80% of the time . She also has irregular periods so we don't even know if she / I can have kids .
Saying all that if we did have a pregnancy we'd do whats right and raise the kid . A finical and life burden perhaps , but we love each other and live together so the biggest change for me would be getting a second job and being a Dad . Two things I don't want to do any time soon .
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Re: how safe is pulling out? [Re: HeroMike]
#18964825 - 10/11/13 04:45 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Yea good luck with that 
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HeroMike said: Saying all that if we did have a pregnancy we'd do whats right and raise the kid .
I always wonder who made the decision that that was the right thing to do, and not, say, the fantastically stupid and irresponsible to thing to do. Wouldn't that just be forgoing any responsible decision making you're capable of and leaving the fate of your lives to random chance?
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Re: how safe is pulling out? [Re: Lynnch]
#18964956 - 10/11/13 05:26 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Yeah, abortion FTW. Unless you're both financially stable and in it for the looooong haul having a kid is a terrible idea IMO.
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Re: how safe is pulling out? [Re: pwnasaurus]
#18964982 - 10/11/13 05:31 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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pwnasaurus said: Yeah, abortion FTW. Unless you're both financially stable and in it for the looooong haul having a kid is a terrible idea IMO.
my girlfriend always said that if she got pregnant she wouldnt tell me, secretly have an abortion, then break the news to me by singing this song:
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Re: how safe is pulling out? [Re: psyconaught]
#18964993 - 10/11/13 05:34 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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I've been using this "method" for approximately six years now. It helps having basic math skills and routinely knowing ovulation dates, signs. I don't recommend it to anyone, but it's worked for me.
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Re: how safe is pulling out? [Re: pwnasaurus]
#18965082 - 10/11/13 05:55 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Lynnch said: Yea good luck with that 
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HeroMike said: Saying all that if we did have a pregnancy we'd do whats right and raise the kid .
I always wonder who made the decision that that was the right thing to do, and not, say, the fantastically stupid and irresponsible to thing to do. Wouldn't that just be forgoing any responsible decision making you're capable of and leaving the fate of your lives to random chance?
Agreed. Imo the right thing, is if you want kids, to make sure you are able to provide for them fully. I don't think it's fair to the kid otherwise.
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pwnasaurus said: Yeah, abortion FTW. Unless you're both financially stable and in it for the looooong haul having a kid is a terrible idea IMO.
Agreed. I don't think many people realize just what a responsibility having a kid is, until they have one, and then it's too late.
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Re: how safe is pulling out? [Re: Lynnch] 1
#18965336 - 10/11/13 07:04 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Lynnch said: It works great until it doesn't. You're rolling the dice every time dude, don't kid yourself pretending that pulling out is in any way effective the way condoms or birth control are. There is a reason the spermicidal sponge and lube isn't used commonly... Why doesn't she just get on birth control?
Actually it's not far behind condom use and IF done correctly - it's a viable form of BC:
"Of every 100 women whose partners use withdrawal, 4 will become pregnant each year if they always do it correctly. Of every 100 women whose partners use withdrawal, 27 will become pregnant each year if they don't always do it correctly."
"Each year, 2 out of 100 women whose partners use condoms will become pregnant if they always use condoms correctly. Each year, 18 out of 100 women whose partners use condoms will become pregnant if they don't always use condoms correctly."
Ref: http://www.plannedparenthood.org
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Re: how safe is pulling out? [Re: Yippie]
#18965506 - 10/11/13 07:58 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Schooled^
Its HARD to do it....correctly....hahahahaha
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OP's bitch is probably already pregnant
when you fuck without a condom you have to wash your dick and piss after words or else she can still get pregnant
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Anonymous #3
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95% effective
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Anonymous #4
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I got pregnant using the pull out method...Wouldn't recommend it. However if combined with the woman tracking her cycle and avoiding ovulation days then it's definitely a lot more effective.
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Anonymous said: I got pregnant using the pull out method...Wouldn't recommend it. However if combined with the woman tracking her cycle and avoiding ovulation days then it's definitely a lot more effective.
Or cum in her mouth.
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