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best decision of my life Or the biggest mistake of my life.
#18961492 - 10/10/13 09:13 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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So i have this good friend named Bean, we met about a year and a half ago. we work a seasonal job togther (yeah, she is one of the 'line sluts' AKA 'the tattooed tanned one' Dystopia was wondering if i fucked when we kicked it and i took her home)
so, last week this prep-cook (let's call him cook X) and i where BS'ing about RL, before anyone else came to work. and he says to me something like: 'When Bean and I where chillin' at your house waiting for you to get off work i asked her why the two of you never got together, she told me she threw it out there last winter and you never made your move, and you don't get a second chance. wtf, man?' so i said to him something like: 'i was the one in the situation, i was the one who made the choice, and i'm the one who has to live with it, everyday.' he says: 'alright man, i'll shut up, it's none of my business.' and goes out for a smoke.
there i stand for 3 minutes, thinking for the first time in like 9 months..."WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH ME?! Bean is the most awesome chick i ever met, extremely hot, and i blew her off when she wanted me."

Cook X comes back in and says to me: "Dude, a cop was outside looking for Bean." and i said: "See dude, i could be worried about my girlfriend going to jail right now, instead i just hope i have a pantry cook tomorrow."
we laugh. good times.
but now, for a week, i've been replaying the whole thing over in my head. and that rat bastard cook X has me wondering if i made the worst decision of my life.
oh well.
anyone else have a similar; 'not sure if this was the best or worst decision of my life' story?
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Re: best decision of my life Or the biggest mistake of my life. [Re: broken]
#18961542 - 10/10/13 09:25 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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You're not alone 
Not including everyone I missed the chance during my freshman year of college.. 
More than a few times I've been pretty drunk, even acknowledging that the girls giving me signals, and I'll shrug it off as "I could pursue this, but I'd rather fall asleep right here"
On the other hand, maybe its a good thing. I commonly think about how it's time for me to pass my genes on when I'm drunk, so at least I don't have any lil' bastards running around. Yet
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Re: best decision of my life Or the biggest mistake of my life. [Re: pcplease] 2
#18961550 - 10/10/13 09:27 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Mabe she wouldn't have went to jail if you were with her 
But yeah you probably fucked up
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Re: best decision of my life Or the biggest mistake of my life. [Re: broken]
#18961559 - 10/10/13 09:28 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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So talk with her about it. Or just ask her out. If she likes you, she'll come around despite what she said about second chances.
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Re: best decision of my life Or the biggest mistake of my life. [Re: pcplease]
#18961563 - 10/10/13 09:31 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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hey, not really like that dude. i didn't just have the chance to fuck her, she wanted a relationship, i was unsure if i wanted one, before i could make up my mind, she moved on to the next. she's the kind of chick that can't be single for long.
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Re: best decision of my life Or the biggest mistake of my life. [Re: broken]
#18961568 - 10/10/13 09:32 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Yeah don't date chicks that don't stay single for long. It's usually a bad sign.
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Re: best decision of my life Or the biggest mistake of my life. [Re: nicechrisman]
#18961573 - 10/10/13 09:33 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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nicechrisman said: So talk with her about it. Or just ask her out. If she likes you, she'll come around despite what she said about second chances.
HAHA> naw, dude, she's back with her ex. and ask here out? we go out all the time, we are good friends. she's crashed in my bed with me. she told me herself that i missed my chance, and she won't give me a second. (i don't believe her tho.)
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Re: best decision of my life Or the biggest mistake of my life. [Re: nicechrisman]
#18961581 - 10/10/13 09:34 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Man up and hit that shit, she either wants it and will do it, or she is a tease and really doesn't matter.
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Re: best decision of my life Or the biggest mistake of my life. [Re: dirty]
#18961589 - 10/10/13 09:36 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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You realize some people look at girls as more than just a walking vagina right?
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Re: best decision of my life Or the biggest mistake of my life. [Re: broken] 8
#18961603 - 10/10/13 09:38 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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What the fuck kind of name is Bean?
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Re: best decision of my life Or the biggest mistake of my life. [Re: dirty]
#18961611 - 10/10/13 09:41 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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dirty said: Man up and hit that shit, she either wants it and will do it, or she is a tease and really doesn't matter.
ok, we are not teenagers we are adults with kids and real adult responsibilities and real adult problems. if she just wanted to fuck, we would have. relationships are much different after 25.
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Re: best decision of my life Or the biggest mistake of my life. [Re: Oldgregg]
#18961617 - 10/10/13 09:42 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Oldgregg said: What the fuck kind of name is Bean?

it's her nick-name. she is very small, and that is the source of the nick-name. only cops call her her real name.
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Re: best decision of my life Or the biggest mistake of my life. [Re: broken] 1
#18961627 - 10/10/13 09:44 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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I'd guess the nickname originated from either her giant clitoris, or someone walking in on her flicking her giant clitoris.
Or maybe she just used to have a thing for Mr. Bean
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Re: best decision of my life Or the biggest mistake of my life. [Re: pcplease]
#18961636 - 10/10/13 09:46 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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no, it's normal sized.
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Re: best decision of my life Or the biggest mistake of my life. [Re: broken]
#18961639 - 10/10/13 09:48 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Oh..  No more masturbation for me.
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Re: best decision of my life Or the biggest mistake of my life. [Re: pcplease] 2
#18961645 - 10/10/13 09:48 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Yea, I probably wouldn't get involved with anyone who chooses to call themselves Bean
so to answer your question, it was the best decision of your life 
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Re: best decision of my life Or the biggest mistake of my life. [Re: pcplease] 2
#18961654 - 10/10/13 09:49 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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i mean her clit is HUGE!
jerk on my friend.
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Re: best decision of my life Or the biggest mistake of my life. [Re: Oldgregg]
#18961657 - 10/10/13 09:50 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Oldgregg said: Yea, I probably wouldn't get involved with anyone who chooses to call themselves Bean
if i could post a pick, you would change your mind.
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Re: best decision of my life Or the biggest mistake of my life. [Re: DeeBee]
#18961668 - 10/10/13 09:53 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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DeeBee said: You realize some people look at girls as more than just a walking vagina right?

Maybe other females...
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Re: best decision of my life Or the biggest mistake of my life. [Re: fapjack]
#18961771 - 10/10/13 10:18 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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something like this happened to me one time I would go chill with this really hot chick and walk around in the forest and stuff i had a crush on her and didn't think she liked me like that turned out she did and i should have made some moves didn't want to mess up the friend ship that's why i didn't do it should have  we had some good times venturing around live and learn
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Re: best decision of my life Or the biggest mistake of my life. [Re: watermelon mon]
#18962003 - 10/10/13 11:03 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Yeah, my friend, user Worn Straw, came to see me last winter and Bean was chillin' at my place. he asked me: "dude are you fucking her?" (which, i get all the time, or people just assume we are) i said to him: "why would i screw up a perfectly good friendship with sex?"
now i think, why wouldn't i? friends come and go but real friends put your dick in their mouth.
live and learn indeed.
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Re: best decision of my life Or the biggest mistake of my life. [Re: Oldgregg]
#18962775 - 10/11/13 06:55 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Re: best decision of my life Or the biggest mistake of my life. [Re: broken]
#18963052 - 10/11/13 09:11 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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If I saw her in the real I would probably call her bean by default. seems appropriate.
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Re: best decision of my life Or the biggest mistake of my life. [Re: broken]
#18963234 - 10/11/13 10:08 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Years ago I met this really cute chick playing beer pong at a party. Got her number and ended up hooking up with her later that week.
She was half Armenian half Irish, pretty face, great body with DD's.
We got along really well and started going out.
About 2 months later my roommates were having a party for me. I had recently been accepted back into school (was on scholastic suspension), so they bought me a handle of tequila and we got a few kegs as well. I started slamming tequila shots around 7pm, so by 10pm I was fucking hammered and ended up passing out in my bedroom, with the door locked.
This chick I was dating and her friends showed up to our party around 11pm.
Naturally she asks, "Where's Set?".
My roommates explain to her that I got wasted and passed out. She tries to go into my bedroom to check on me, but door was locked.
I'm usually always the one who stays up the latest and never misses a party so naturally she thought it was really strange that I was in my room with the door locked so early in the night.
The next morning I was up smoking a bowl with one of my roommates, nursing the massive hangover I had.
He says "Dude, that chick you're with is a fuckin psycho, man".
I'm like "What?", since I have no idea what happened the night before.
He explained that while I was passed out in my room, she got really drunk and started yelling something like "THIS IS BULLSHIT, HE'S IN THERE WITH ANOTHER GIRL" and started literally trying to kick my door down. Apparently my roommates had to physically restrain her, then eject her from our party.
Naturally I'm really freaked out by what I'm being told, I thought she was really chill but apparently I was dead wrong. Then I started to think, "Holy shit, if she acts that crazy when I didn't do anything wrong, how would she act if I DID do something wrong?". 
So anyway, I freaked myself out to the point that I dumped her several days later. It took about a week to go by when I realized maybe I shouldn't have dumped this hot chick for what was maybe nothing.
Like 2 months later I call her up out of the blue, just to say "hi". She's crying when she answers the phone. Apparently her grandfather, who was her favorite person in the world, had died. I talked to her friends about this later and they told me that she was basically inconsolable for like a month straight, constantly crying and shit, really depressed.
About a month after this happened she ended up getting compartment syndrome in one of her legs really bad, to the point that her leg nearly had to be amputated. She was on crutches for about 6 months after this.
So, if I hadn't dumped her, I would've had to console her about the death for god knows how long. I also would have had to follow her to her classes and everywhere else, carrying her books and shit, for like 6 months straight.
Dumping her turned out to be an awesome decision.
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Re: best decision of my life Or the biggest mistake of my life. [Re: Set]
#18963839 - 10/11/13 12:48 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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lol
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Re: best decision of my life Or the biggest mistake of my life. [Re: broken] 1
#18963869 - 10/11/13 12:55 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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If bad decisions were bricks, I would have no need for a mortgage.
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Re: best decision of my life Or the biggest mistake of my life. [Re: koraks]
#18964209 - 10/11/13 02:10 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Quote:
Set said:
Dumping her turned out to be an awesome decision.

it usually is.
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koraks said: If bad decisions were bricks, I would have no need for a mortgage.

right there with ya, my friend.
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Re: best decision of my life Or the biggest mistake of my life. [Re: broken]
#18964268 - 10/11/13 02:26 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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why is it too late to go tell her how you feel. ask her out on a 'date' you know? as if it's even possible to take every opportunity right when a girl 'gives' it to you...
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Re: best decision of my life Or the biggest mistake of my life. [Re: g00ru]
#18966745 - 10/12/13 01:52 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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g00ru said: why is it too late to go tell her how you feel. ask her out on a 'date' you know? as if it's even possible to take every opportunity right when a girl 'gives' it to you...
i was looking at the upcoming winter menu today, there was a duck dish with foie gras. i walked over to her station, stod behind her and caressed her arms, back, butt and said: "ohh baby doll, i'm gonna bring you here for duck & foie gras this winter." she said: "what is foie gras?" so i described what it was, and how it's made, the whole time touching her like a lover. she is a good friend, i fondle the shit out of her, i do not "ask her on a date", we take each other out all the time.
also, she lives with her boyfriend.
if given the chance again, i will not pass it up.
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Re: best decision of my life Or the biggest mistake of my life. [Re: broken]
#18966764 - 10/12/13 02:00 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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foix gras, fava beans, and a nice chianti
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Re: best decision of my life Or the biggest mistake of my life. [Re: broken]
#18966784 - 10/12/13 02:12 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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i'm only familiar with one chick named 'bean', and she lives in oc..
it's a small world, who knows.
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Re: best decision of my life Or the biggest mistake of my life. [Re: zZZz]
#18966809 - 10/12/13 02:21 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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we live in MN, also, a link to a pic of her is posted at the top of the page.
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#18966817 - 10/12/13 02:25 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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would bang,
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Re: best decision of my life Or the biggest mistake of my life. [Re: zZZz]
#18966828 - 10/12/13 02:28 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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yeah. she's fine as fuck.
i made a mistake. tomorrow i might think differently tho.
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