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Oeric McKenna
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Subliminal Mind Games
#18952556 - 10/09/13 12:37 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Awwww man.... Have you guys noticed the games people play without even probably even realizing??
If someone wants you, and you act mildly interested but distanced with a tinge of disinterest, they will start to want you more. Its probably part of human nature to want what we can't have. If they want you and you really like them, and are showing you're more into it than they are, they run.
Its such a fucking circus....
As for love, its like this: Real love = real pain. The deeper you go, the more pain you're likely going to feel. Love will get you higher than any drug and hurt you worse too.
Its like a chopping block for your balls, but the chopping block causes extreme pleasure if you rest your balls on it.... then, WHACK
Do we play the game willingly and hide our true feelings for maximum success?? Withdraw from the game entirely??
Your thoughts???
( Oh, and these are just my personal collective observations)*
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crimsonking91
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Love is a drug bro it all comes down to chemicals, happiness is a chemical. Just take things slow and don't try to constantly "read" a girls mind and try to think what she's thinking and act differently because you can't know how a girl is thinking. Just be yourself, this way she will know your true level of clingyness or non-clingyness. Some girls like clingy guys but not most.
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psyconaught
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hahaha my god you have to watch this video. its exactly what your talking about
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Oeric McKenna
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Yeah that's good shit^
So its not just me Well thanks guys
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Patlal
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I have not loved enough to give you an answer OP. But I am interested in other people's answers
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Sheekle
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Re: Subliminal Mind Games [Re: Patlal]
#18953942 - 10/09/13 11:43 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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these sorts of subliminal mind "games" happen in all areas of life not just in romantic situations, it's just human nature/communication/language etc who kares its all g00d
-------------------- "Ur cat died because he hated u" - Koods "I hope JSB kicks your ass one day." - Vandago "you are the biggest 'internet guy' I have ever come across"- Jokeshopbeard "The more I see you post the more I realize you're just this fuckin tie dye loser who trolls the Shroomery 24/7." - Herbologist "Sheekle you cannot vile the dice of bullshit you have posted on this forum over the years, I like databases" - thelastoneleft "or maybe i just come from a blood line of superior intelligence" - trees R.I.P Kelsy, ?/?/?? - 6/11/16
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PocketLady



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Quote:
Oeric McKenna said:
If someone wants you, and you act mildly interested but distanced with a tinge of disinterest, they will start to want you more. Its probably part of human nature to want what we can't have. If they want you and you really like them, and are showing you're more into it than they are, they run.
Its such a fucking circus....
Yep, totally agree.
Quote:
Oeric McKenna said:
As for love, its like this: Real love = real pain. The deeper you go, the more pain you're likely going to feel. Love will get you higher than any drug and hurt you worse too.
Its like a chopping block for your balls, but the chopping block causes extreme pleasure if you rest your balls on it.... then, WHACK
Totally disagree. I think so often people mistake passion and lust for love. Intense relationships where people hurt each other certainly have the strongest emotions, some of which feel like love, but really aren't at all.
Love isn't that feeling you get when you first meet someone, all those blissful wonderful feelings and thoughts you have about the person they present themselves as.
Love isn't playing mind games with each other, that feeling you get when you are (or are made to feel) jealous.
Love isn't even that feeling you get when your relationship ends and you would do anything to get that person back, no matter what.
Love is simple.
Love is wanting to be with someone even once you know all of their flaws. Love is being accepting of everything, good and bad.
Love is completely self-less and means putting that other person above yourself, even if that means you have to say goodbye to that person forever.
Love is pure and love is good. There is no badness in love.
-------------------- Love is from the infinite, and will remain until eternity. The seeker of love escapes the chains of birth and death. Tomorrow, when resurrection comes, The heart that is not in love will fail the test. ~ Rumi The day we start giving Love instead of seeking Love, we will have re-written our whole destiny. ~ Swami Chinmayanada Saraswatir
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Sheekle
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Re: Subliminal Mind Games [Re: PocketLady]
#18954064 - 10/09/13 12:13 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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love is everywhere it's shown in all sorts of human interactions
like in that classic song "What a wonderful world", it's like "I see friends shaking hands.....sayin.. how do you do They're really sayin......i love you. "
-------------------- "Ur cat died because he hated u" - Koods "I hope JSB kicks your ass one day." - Vandago "you are the biggest 'internet guy' I have ever come across"- Jokeshopbeard "The more I see you post the more I realize you're just this fuckin tie dye loser who trolls the Shroomery 24/7." - Herbologist "Sheekle you cannot vile the dice of bullshit you have posted on this forum over the years, I like databases" - thelastoneleft "or maybe i just come from a blood line of superior intelligence" - trees R.I.P Kelsy, ?/?/?? - 6/11/16
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Oeric McKenna
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Re: Subliminal Mind Games [Re: Sheekle]
#18954831 - 10/09/13 03:02 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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PocketLady you totally nailed it. I was once told that by a therapist also. When I'm caught up in it, I can't discern clearly at all & I mistake the lusty passionate feelings for love.
Man..... I guess being loved is tough and well I'm still lost.
You nailed that well though
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