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Would this piss you off?
#18949081 - 10/08/13 11:14 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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So I was up at three in the morning doing school work and saw my girlfriends phone sitting there. I know its wrong but I couldn't resist and went snooping. We have grown rather close and quite frankly I treat her the best I can and better than any other guy has. If I'm not at school or work I am doing stuff for her. I found messages between three of her friends and the majority of the conversations were just talking shit about me. But the thing is they couldn't pinpoint anything and most things were just general statements such as I hate him. My girlfriend said things that included "I feel like beating the hell out of him." "I feel like if I punch him in the face once I'd feel better." And talking about my 'gay' ass friends. What would you do?
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cheshirect666
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BYE FELICIA!
Nah but for reals talk to her about it
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Psilosopherr
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Thats pretty fucked. Hopefully she was just going along with what her friends said or some bullshit like that.
I mean, why else would she hang out with you? sex?
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trekie
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Punch her in the face first
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Re: Would this piss you off? [Re: trekie] 4
#18949158 - 10/08/13 11:32 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Yhea that is some pretty fucked up shit. Sounds like she's using you for money, sex, or something.
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Re: Would this piss you off? [Re: trekie]
#18949159 - 10/08/13 11:32 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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trekie said: Punch her in the face first 
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Re: Would this piss you off? [Re: K1ngSp4de] 3
#18949162 - 10/08/13 11:34 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Yeah I'd be pissed. Be prepared for her to blame it all on you cause you went through her phone
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Scramble her an omelette. Nah. You should have a talk with her about what it is she doesn't like , without making it sound like you went through her phone . That might upset her.
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Re: Would this piss you off? [Re: Herbologist] 5
#18949183 - 10/08/13 11:39 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Yeah dude that's pretty messed up. You saw her true colors so fuck her.
Next time you annoy her just ask her if she wants to punch you in the face just once to make her feel better and wait to see the look on her face.
Or don't say anything and DSHSB and then be done with her.
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Re: Would this piss you off? [Re: thedream]
#18949287 - 10/08/13 12:00 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Let her catch you banging her mom...
I wouldn't let on like you know about it. I'd find a replacement for her and then one day just disappear.
Unless you are trying to salvage the relationship (IDK why you would tho- she's talking shit and her friends hate you?) then DSHSB and make her ATM
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Dude, it sounds like you've fallen into the trap of being too much of a "nice guy". Man up, be more restrictive with her demands on your time and attention. I would only bring this up if you're going to break up with her though, and it doesn't sound like you're willing to do that. So just accept this as a fixable personal error, and get back to being the sort of guy she actually likes.
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Re: Would this piss you off? [Re: sonamdrukpa]
#18950284 - 10/08/13 04:11 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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To quote EdibleStereos from this thread:
http://www.shroomery.org/forums/showflat.php/Number/18929789/fpart/all
"YOU are the problem OP...Huge breach of trust. You dont read emails, texts, diaries, web history, call logs, etc unless you are a mistrusting little shit."
Funny how when a girl snoops on her bf everyone jumps on her. When a guy snoops nobody says a thing about it.
Regarding your post, would it piss me off...hell yes and I'd end the relationship immediately. Fuck that shit.
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I don't support snooping on your significant other but what was said is pretty harsh.
OP should bring it up during sex. When he's getting her to climax, in a sly manner he needs to say "Do you want to punch me in the fucking face right now?"
How awkward would that be? She's laying legs open, with a penis in her being confronted about her anger towards the person who is fucking her.
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Psilosopherr
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Anonymous said: I don't support snooping on your significant other but what was said is pretty harsh.
OP should bring it up during sex. When he's getting her to climax, in a sly manner he needs to say "Do you want to punch me in the fucking face right now?"
How awkward would that be? She's laying legs open, with a penis in her being confronted about her anger towards the person who is fucking her. 
i love your idea
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Maybe she was just saying those things because her friends were saying similiar things, but nonetheless if that's the case, it makes her look like an even bigger cunt because if you love your man /woman you put your foot down and tell your friends to shut the fuck up because this is MY man.
Get what I'm saying? I say get rid of her.
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VivaLaMushie said: Maybe she was just saying those things because her friends were saying similiar things, but nonetheless if that's the case, it makes her look like an even bigger cunt because if you love your man /woman you put your foot down and tell your friends to shut the fuck up because this is MY man.
Get what I'm saying? I say get rid of her.
yeah exactly. no matter how it started she still went along with it.
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Anonymous said: So I was up at three in the morning doing school work and saw my girlfriends phone sitting there. I know its wrong but I couldn't resist and went snooping. We have grown rather close and quite frankly I treat her the best I can and better than any other guy has. If I'm not at school or work I am doing stuff for her. I found messages between three of her friends and the majority of the conversations were just talking shit about me. But the thing is they couldn't pinpoint anything and most things were just general statements such as I hate him. My girlfriend said things that included "I feel like beating the hell out of him." "I feel like if I punch him in the face once I'd feel better." And talking about my 'gay' ass friends. What would you do?
keep snooping for a week or two i bet you find moreeeeeeeee
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I love the post about bringing it up during sex that's awesome. Yea I would drop her, and if u were more dominant I think the relationship might go better. I'm transgender so I'm pretty good with knowing how both girls and guys think. Girls absolutely love being dominated and getting their faces just crushed and smushed into a pillow while violently being pounded from behind. She probably wants a nice guy but you must show your dominance! Bring it up while your fucking her, and right after you bust kick her the fuck out of your house. You will recieve an apology in three days, and act like your all unphased by it.
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You're being a needy bitch. You're not her butler. And stay the fuck away from her phone, that's just creepy. Snap out of it. Fuck that girl and fuck that girl. Then go find someone who apprechiates you.
Or you could try to get into that S&M shit she seem to crave.
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Quote:
crimsonking91 said: I love the post about bringing it up during sex that's awesome. Yea I would drop her, and if u were more dominant I think the relationship might go better. I'm transgender so I'm pretty good with knowing how both girls and guys think. Girls absolutely love being dominated and getting their faces just crushed and smushed into a pillow while violently being pounded from behind. She probably wants a nice guy but you must show your dominance! Bring it up while your fucking her, and right after you bust kick her the fuck out of your house. You will recieve an apology in three days, and act like your all unphased by it.
Just because you changed your sexuality doesn't mean you know what its like to be a woman.
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