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If she's on birth control, should I still use a condom?
    #18940961 - 10/06/13 03:51 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

My girlfriend just got on birth control 2 days ago and she insists that I don't use a condom. The one time we had sex since I did use a condom, but she keeps telling me that condoms are very uncomfortable for her.

I feel more comfortable (mentally, not physically :frown: ) using a condom, but I don't want to be irrational just to be safe and I'd rather have her enjoying herself as much as she can. I know she's clean so I'm not using a condom for any other of its uses..

So basically, if she's on birth control should I use a condom or not?


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Re: If she's on birth control, should I still use a condom? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #18940994 - 10/06/13 03:56 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

you may want to instead consider why she is uncomfortable with condoms, the material may be wrong, the lube may be wrong, there may be no lube, etc.
Female birth control pills don't protect 100% and don't protect against STI's. It however, is 99.50% effective against contraception. If you want to stay safe, use the condoms but, talk about maybe switching condoms.
Also, the flavored condoms are not for sex. They will leave residue that irritates the inner walls of the vagina and messes with the natural lubricants.


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Re: If she's on birth control, should I still use a condom? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #18941005 - 10/06/13 03:58 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

If you don't use a rubber you better still pull out. You can never be to safe, birth control is never 100%.


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Re: If she's on birth control, should I still use a condom? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #18941017 - 10/06/13 04:01 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

If you say that you feel more comfortable with a condom on, and she doesn't respect that, that's a HUGE red flag honestly. I'd have a hard time not using a condom with someone. Because all it takes is her to miss one pill. Her to take some medication (such as antibiotics). Or some act of god. 

Believe it or not there are women out there that lie about that sort of thing. If you really trust her, ask her "were something to happen, would you keep the kid". Not just "do you want kids", but "if you found out you were pregnant, you would without hesitation get an abortion as soon as possible without considering keeping the kid at all". If she has ANY hesitation or insincerity, GTFO.


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Re: If she's on birth control, should I still use a condom? [Re: naturesrevolt]
    #18941045 - 10/06/13 04:07 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

You two are aware that birth control doesn't immediately kick in right? You should wait at least a week-10 days to have unprotected sex.

Other than that... I've heard second hand accounts of gals on birth control getting pregnant, though it is never noted whether she forgot a pill or some other mistake was made. Firsthand: I've blown hundreds of loads into girls on birth control with never a hiccup.

Bottom line though: Do what you're comfortable with.


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Re: If she's on birth control, should I still use a condom? [Re: Lynnch]
    #18941145 - 10/06/13 04:27 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

I've been on birth control off and on for the last few years and we never use condoms.  I am pretty good at remembering to take them for the most part and I even set an alarm to remind me. I feel like it is pretty safe as far as contraception goes as long as a pill isn't missed or antibiotics aren't taken. A kid is the last thing I want or need right now so I'm very cautious. But it is true, some women can be sneaky about that sort of thing so it all depends on whether or not you think you can trust her. Like Anon #2 said, I think it is a good idea to discuss with her about what she would do if she were to get pregnant


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Re: If she's on birth control, should I still use a condom? [Re: Ballerium]
    #18941178 - 10/06/13 04:36 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

Check out that note (the disclaimer or whatever its called) that comes with the pills. It should state how long it will take for the pills to be effective.


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Re: If she's on birth control, should I still use a condom? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #18941439 - 10/06/13 05:44 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

Use a condom!


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Re: If she's on birth control, should I still use a condom? [Re: VivaLaMushie]
    #18941498 - 10/06/13 05:57 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

Thanks for the advice... In other news she just found out her roommate is pregnant. She's so damn scared that I could tell she has no ulterior motives to this. None of us want a kid or are ready for one.


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Re: If she's on birth control, should I still use a condom? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #18941741 - 10/06/13 06:45 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

they have spermicidal lube? right?

i would just fuck her, cum in her, with the spermicidal lube that works to kill sperm..

i think you would be okay..

i fucked my ex nearly everyday for 2 years and she was on birth control..
but she didnt fuck around... usually the stories i hear involves later on everyone finding out the girlfriend didn't take birth control every day like she was suppose too.


how about we cum in her once every three times? and the other two cum on her, or in her mouth :]

you'll be fine if she is responsibly taking her birth control and tells you when she misses one..

regardless.


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Re: If she's on birth control, should I still use a condom? [Re: itchmynipple] * 1
    #18941745 - 10/06/13 06:46 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

always date pro-choice.


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Re: If she's on birth control, should I still use a condom? [Re: sprinkles]
    #18941821 - 10/06/13 07:00 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

Should you?  I wouldn't.  Unprotected sex feels so good it makes everything else in the world seem boring by comparison.  You should probably wait a bit longer for the pills to take effect.

Also, if pregnancy is your concern, pull out.


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Re: If she's on birth control, should I still use a condom? [Re: Ballerium] * 1
    #18942173 - 10/06/13 08:13 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

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Ballerium said:
I've been on birth control off and on for the last few years and we never use condoms.  I am pretty good at remembering to take them for the most part ... A kid is the last thing I want or need right now so I'm very cautious




I don't think "very cautious" is accurate to describe someone who remembers to take the pill "for the most part."


OP... I would be very weary of her begging you not to wear a condom.  Sounds like she is trying to get knocked up and rope you into child support.


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Re: If she's on birth control, should I still use a condom? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #18942210 - 10/06/13 08:23 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

just tell her your favorite fantasy is to cum on her face and titties...


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Re: If she's on birth control, should I still use a condom? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #18942258 - 10/06/13 08:36 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

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Anonymous said:
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Ballerium said:
I've been on birth control off and on for the last few years and we never use condoms.  I am pretty good at remembering to take them for the most part ... A kid is the last thing I want or need right now so I'm very cautious




I don't think "very cautious" is accurate to describe someone who remembers to take the pill "for the most part."


OP... I would be very weary of her begging you not to wear a condom.  Sounds like she is trying to get knocked up and rope you into child support.




In the ~3 or so years that I have been taking birth control, there have only been 3 times that I can think of where I have actually missed a pill. And one of the times was because I was out late at night at a time I am usually never out, and was not accustomed to bringing my pills with me. But that is what I mean by "remembering to take them for the most part". I think 3 times in 3 years is a pretty good track record honestly.

And even then, simply missing a pill doesn't always mean the effectiveness has decreased. It depends on the pill itself--they're all different and if you take your missed pill within the time frame specified in your information pamphlet, then you are fine.

Read the pamphlet that comes with your pills, take them at the same time every day, set an alarm so that you don't forget, and don't take any other medications that can interfere with their effectiveness and you should be fine, unless you are just one of those unlucky .5%.

And if you do have to end up taking antibiotics or anything else that interferes for whatever reason, then go buy some condoms and use them until you're done taking the medication. 

I do all of the above things and so I feel that I am pretty cautious in that regard. Maybe "very cautious" was not the best word to use, but I'm definitely much more cautious than some people I know. I've known girls who didn't even read the damn pamphlets. My niece being one of them. That's how she managed to get pregnant so many times. She has 5 children and I want to say that she was taking birth control for at least 3/5 of her pregnancies. I can't remember off the top of my head, but she managed to get pregnant several different times while on birth control. If you follow the instructions and read the pamphlet, your chances of getting pregnant are so slim. For her to get pregnant that many times, she couldn't have been taking them perfectly. And one of the times was because she was on antibiotics and "didn't know". If she had read her pamphlet, she would have known because it lists the drugs that can interact with her pills.

The only not cautious thing that I really do is not using condoms in addition to the pill. And for me the pleasure outweighs the risk of .5%. I realize that it CAN happen and that I am not immune to that, but the chances of it happening are relatively low. I am also pro-choice, as is my boyfriend. :shrug:


Edited by Ballerium (10/06/13 08:48 PM)


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Re: If she's on birth control, should I still use a condom? [Re: Ballerium]
    #18942350 - 10/06/13 09:04 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

if a girl takes the pill at the same time every day (within an hour either way) then the pill is statistically safer than a condom. But i would wait until your girl has been on the pill for at least a month taking it perfectly before cumming inside her. And thats if your FOR SURE that she doesnt want kids and isnt one of those psycho women who lied to get knocked up. My girlfriends on the pill (has been since the 8th grade) and she takes it within five minutes of the same time every day. I nearly always cum inside her and we've been fine for the past 3 years.


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Re: If she's on birth control, should I still use a condom? [Re: psyconaught]
    #18942412 - 10/06/13 09:24 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

She insists on swallowing (...possible keeper) - I'm more worried about pre-cum


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Re: If she's on birth control, should I still use a condom? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #18942574 - 10/06/13 10:09 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

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She insists on swallowing (...possible keeper) - I'm more worried about pre-cum



my girl friend insisted on the same until we turned 18.  Like i said i'd wait until she's been on the pill for a bit before going bareback. But after that you should be good to go as long as she takes the pill on time everyday. Especially if shes swallowing every time


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Re: If she's on birth control, should I still use a condom? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #18944090 - 10/07/13 10:33 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

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Anonymous said:
She insists on swallowing (...possible keeper) - I'm more worried about pre-cum



Pre-cum does not contain sperm.  The only time that it might, is if you ejaculate once, do not urinate post ejaculation, then start having sex again.  The idea being that some leftover cum in your urethra would be washed out into the vagina by the pre-cum the second time.


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Re: If she's on birth control, should I still use a condom? [Re: TheWiz]
    #18944876 - 10/07/13 01:32 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

I was always taught pre-cum could contain sperms  :shrug:


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