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montannalyne



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Relationships are overratted.
#18943875 - 10/07/13 09:27 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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For some reason, every guy I date I cant fucking stand. Maybe I dont get to know them long enough or something. Ive been single for maybe 2 years. On and off. A month thing here and there but thats it. Im only 18, and I cant stand to be with another human being. I dont know why. I hate it because its keeping me back from spending it with someone. Anyone, if I even do. But Im not rushing anything. I just think relationships could be time consumming and a big waste of time if the other person isnt into it aswell.
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Re: Relationships are overratted. [Re: montannalyne]
#18943882 - 10/07/13 09:29 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Re: Relationships are overratted. [Re: montannalyne]
#18943903 - 10/07/13 09:36 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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You've got plenty of time to figure out what kind of people you can stand to be around, for say more than a month. Most relationships are overrated. Most people I know in long-term relationships that I know, seem miserable as all hell. Seems as if they just can't stand to be alone for more than a day or so. Don't go starting up relationships just because you're lonely, as Forrest Dweller will be the rest of his pathetic life with his shitty charisma.
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montannalyne



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Id take that if you actually said the right word. Its plugs** man. PLUGS
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montannalyne



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Yeah thats prob the main reason I dont want to be in one because I like my alone time. Thanks for the advice
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#18944069 - 10/07/13 10:26 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Re: Relationships are overratted. [Re: Greendreams]
#18944325 - 10/07/13 11:28 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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I felt the same way for a long time. I am with someone now though and we are very happy, however if something happened and we were no longer together, I would not really want another relationship. I like doing things my way and hate compromising.
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Re: Relationships are overratted. [Re: montannalyne] 1
#18944442 - 10/07/13 11:43 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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montannalyne said: ... I just think relationships could be time consumming and a big waste of time if the other person isnt into it aswell. 
Well.. Yea. It takes a few mistakes and bad relationships (sometimes a lot of mistakes) to figure out what you really want in a partner. That's kinda the trouble with dating, nobody goes into it with a clear idea of what works for them. So you wind up getting hurt and hurting others. Just how it is. But it sounds like you're on the right track, at least you have the mind to know when something isn't working for you and to drop it before it gets serious. That's just kinda what you have to do. There's no way of knowing how a relationship will be until you're in it. Pretty much every time im in a relationship I miss my alone time, then we break up and I miss my relationship time. But every once in a while you get with someone and you click, like your time with them and time apart becomes more. Just keep looking, enjoy all the time you're given.
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Re: Relationships are overratted. [Re: Lynnch]
#18945251 - 10/07/13 03:02 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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in other words,
if you follow basic guidelines of being in the relationship, like getting out if your not into it, you will have a good relationship..
being a loner doesn't mean you cant be in a relationship.. if your too dependent you might not be able too.
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Re: Relationships are overratted. [Re: itchmynipple]
#18952740 - 10/09/13 03:08 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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True love is not over-rated. Try finding that, doesn't mean you have to do the whole gf/bf thing
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Re: Relationships are overratted. [Re: montannalyne]
#18965711 - 10/11/13 08:36 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Relationships are certainly overrated
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Repertoire89
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Quote:
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Sod off
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Re: Relationships are overratted. [Re: Repertoire89]
#18965841 - 10/11/13 09:05 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Repertoire89 said:
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Forest.dweller said:
Sod off
 Whatta dickhead.
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Re: Relationships are overratted. [Re: Repertoire89]
#18966067 - 10/11/13 09:58 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Repertoire89 said: Relationships are certainly overrated
at times.
but so is being single at times.
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Re: Relationships are overratted. [Re: itchmynipple]
#18966116 - 10/11/13 10:13 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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itchmynipple said:
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Repertoire89 said: Relationships are certainly overrated
at times.
but so is being single at times.
Not for me, I've had enough of both to know.
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Re: Relationships are overratted. [Re: Repertoire89]
#18966124 - 10/11/13 10:16 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Repertoire89 said:
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itchmynipple said:
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Repertoire89 said: Relationships are certainly overrated
at times.
but so is being single at times.
Not for me, I've had enough of both to know.
exactly, me and you are just different
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Re: Relationships are overratted. [Re: itchmynipple]
#18966225 - 10/11/13 10:46 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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itchmynipple said:
exactly, me and you are just different
Yeah to each their own
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