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lavod
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Fapping patterns and its effect on BJ reception
#18943463 - 10/07/13 05:16 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Although i am now happily and exclusively boyfriended, there was a time when i was a rampant slut. And when one is a rampant slut, one may notice sexual consistencies betwixt sundry tricks and sticks. One of the things i've come to notice is that most tend to prefer their blowjobs to more or less mimic the way they masturbate.
This is understandable of course, but this brings me to another perception. It seems that those who need to furiously fap at a high rate of speed in order to achieve orgasm are often unable to blow directly from receiving oral, even if the giver is skilled. Personally, i've been able to get most off through sucking when the intent was orgasm through the said mode. But whenever i could'nt and they expressed their inability to pop through oral by any sucker, sad or sublime, he was invariably a furious fapper.
As can be understood, i believe that it's just a psychosexual imprint that's hard to reverse. Sure there will be exceptions, but it's probably a majority case. I know that those who cant orgasm through oral often find displeasure in this inability. I'm thinking that perhaps one could work on dissolving the imprint by consciously making an effort to learn to release through varied and slower masturbation play. Might take a while, but it's just a thought.
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Re: Fapping patterns and its effect on BJ reception [Re: lavod]
#18943519 - 10/07/13 05:51 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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It would make sense that we become accustomed to certain sensory patterns when engaging in any sexual activity.
You can always just cum on someone's face.
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Re: Fapping patterns and its effect on BJ reception [Re: sukhavati12]
#18944612 - 10/07/13 12:23 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Do these men last any longer in bed? Maybe its just a sensitivity thing
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Re: Fapping patterns and its effect on BJ reception [Re: lavod]
#18945233 - 10/07/13 02:57 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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lavod said: Although i am now happily and exclusively boyfriended, there was a time when i was a rampant slut. And when one is a rampant slut, one may notice sexual consistencies betwixt sundry tricks and sticks. One of the things i've come to notice is that most tend to prefer their blowjobs to more or less mimic the way they masturbate.
This is understandable of course, but this brings me to another perception. It seems that those who need to furiously fap at a high rate of speed in order to achieve orgasm are often unable to blow directly from receiving oral, even if the giver is skilled. Personally, i've been able to get most off through sucking when the intent was orgasm through the said mode. But whenever i could'nt and they expressed their inability to pop through oral by any sucker, sad or sublime, he was invariably a furious fapper.
As can be understood, i believe that it's just a psychosexual imprint that's hard to reverse. Sure there will be exceptions, but it's probably a majority case. I know that those who cant orgasm through oral often find displeasure in this inability. I'm thinking that perhaps one could work on dissolving the imprint by consciously making an effort to learn to release through varied and slower masturbation play. Might take a while, but it's just a thought.
i like her mouth goin up n down the backside.. licks/sucks/circlelicks/
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Re: Fapping patterns and its effect on BJ reception [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18945319 - 10/07/13 03:14 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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I find similar things with women. The ones you enjoy the passion enjoy it slower. The ones who just want to get off and get frustrated when they don't are the fast ones. Just a correlation, not causation.
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Re: Fapping patterns and its effect on BJ reception [Re: Black_Sunset]
#18946202 - 10/07/13 06:47 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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You're probably right about that. Women find it tough to suck me to orgasm, though it's happened a time or ten.
I do fap furiously and often, but I enjoy all sorts of sensations. How hard and fast I have to go varies quite a bit too. Some days it happens easy, other times it takes a lot of effort.
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Re: Fapping patterns and its effect on BJ reception [Re: TheWiz]
#18947732 - 10/08/13 12:37 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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I agree with you op. I was a furious fapper
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Re: Fapping patterns and its effect on BJ reception [Re: Sagescruffy]
#18947761 - 10/08/13 12:47 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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I am a furious fapper and the only way for me to get off is if she bjs then hand jobs then bjs soft. The soft Bj to make it wet and everything. Only way to make me gasim is to of course get the hand going a few times and then the soft deep mouth going. Otherwise it's a little too much if they suck too hard. Can't cum if they suck too hard. Almost gotta lick the tip instead of literally sucking.
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Re: Fapping patterns and its effect on BJ reception [Re: lavod]
#18947920 - 10/08/13 01:55 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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lavod said: I'm thinking that perhaps one could work on dissolving the imprint by consciously making an effort to learn to release through varied and slower masturbation play. Might take a while, but it's just a thought.
Yup. In my experience it not something you have to "dissolve" you just have to get used to doing it in a new way.
The brain gets accustomed to certain erotic actives over time. You don't need to unlearn furious fapping to appreciate good slow oral, you simply have to practise and learn to appreciate slower, more gradual sex acts.
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Re: Fapping patterns and its effect on BJ reception [Re: Dawks]
#18949988 - 10/08/13 02:55 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Dawks said:
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lavod said: I'm thinking that perhaps one could work on dis solving the imprint by consciously making an effort to learn to release through varied and slower masturbation play. Might take a while, but it's just a thought.
Yup. In my experience it not something you have to "dissolve" you just have to get used to doing it in a new way.
The brain gets accustomed to certain erotic actives over time. You don't need to unlearn furious fapping to appreciate good slow oral, you simply have to practise and learn to appreciate slower, more gradual sex acts.
nah if you just stop masturbating you will love BJ's so much more.
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Re: Fapping patterns and its effect on BJ reception [Re: itchmynipple]
#18953535 - 10/09/13 10:04 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Just a question OP.
How many dicks did you suck to discover the correlation between fapping and BJs?
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Re: Fapping patterns and its effect on BJ reception [Re: Patlal]
#18954242 - 10/09/13 12:53 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Fappin n bjs have the same motion u don't need to suck dicks to get a concept of that
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Re: Fapping patterns and its effect on BJ reception [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18957163 - 10/09/13 11:08 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Anonymous said: Fappin n bjs have the same motion u don't need to suck dicks to get a concept of that
Sounds like something someone with a lot of dick sucking experience would say.
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Re: Fapping patterns and its effect on BJ reception [Re: Mad Season]
#18958120 - 10/10/13 06:42 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Just a question OP.
How many dicks did you suck to discover the correlation between fapping and BJs?
I've sucked 64 different cocks, but the association of which i speak has tickled my cognition for a while now; just never felt inclined to post about it prior.
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Re: Fapping patterns and its effect on BJ reception [Re: lavod]
#18959395 - 10/10/13 01:24 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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lavod said:
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Just a question OP.
How many dicks did you suck to discover the correlation between fapping and BJs?
I've sucked 64 different cocks, but the association of which i speak has tickled my cognition for a while now; just never felt inclined to post about it prior.
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Re: Fapping patterns and its effect on BJ reception [Re: lavod]
#18959575 - 10/10/13 02:04 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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lavod said:
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Just a question OP.
How many dicks did you suck to discover the correlation between fapping and BJs?
I've sucked 64 different cocks, but the association of which i speak has tickled my cognition for a while now; just never felt inclined to post about it prior.
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i hope most girls don't suck 64 cocks, and i hope your atleast 35
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Re: Fapping patterns and its effect on BJ reception [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18959924 - 10/10/13 03:13 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Anonymous said:
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lavod said:
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Just a question OP.
How many dicks did you suck to discover the correlation between fapping and BJs?
I've sucked 64 different cocks, but the association of which i speak has tickled my cognition for a while now; just never felt inclined to post about it prior.
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i hope most girls don't suck 64 cocks, and i hope your atleast 35
I hope you eventually learn the difference between "you're" and "your" and I hope that eventually you'll stop being judgemental. Neither of those are likely to happen, however.
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Re: Fapping patterns and its effect on BJ reception [Re: pwnasaurus]
#18961585 - 10/10/13 09:35 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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talking about the beautiful ones, why would i want my future wife to have taken that much dicks?
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i should be allowed to prefer a woman who has been fucked less, just as much as you want someone who fucks more...
Edited by Anonymous (10/10/13 09:41 PM)
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Re: Fapping patterns and its effect on BJ reception [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18962196 - 10/11/13 12:13 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Idk because you're too insecure to take on a woman with more experience? She's allowed to have as much fun as she wants. You just feel the need to own her pussy. People aren't objects.
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Re: Fapping patterns and its effect on BJ reception [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18962338 - 10/11/13 01:31 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Anonymous said: talking about the beautiful ones, why would i want my future wife to have taken that much dicks?
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i should be allowed to prefer a woman who has been fucked less, just as much as you want someone who fucks more...
Where do you get the idea that I want somebody who who fucks more? I don't give a shit how many people my partner has had sex with before me as long as she's clean. Why do you?
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Re: Fapping patterns and its effect on BJ reception [Re: Mad Season]
#18963660 - 10/11/13 12:02 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Mad Season said: Idk because you're too insecure to take on a woman with more experience? She's allowed to have as much fun as she wants. You just feel the need to own her pussy. People aren't objects.
Okay
i dont normally ask for a girls list, but most 'more sexually active' woman i know in person are not wifey material. there sluts. they want you and your best friend, they just end up fuckin shit up, its just how it is, and its constantly proven after every time you hear of them cheating or causing havoc on the relationship.
64 is excessive if your 25 for example.
if a girl told me she sucked 64 peoples dicks i would be outtttta there, hittin up cvs for listerine, not anti-depressants 
these are just my thoughts.
im all for the concept of meeting someone knew and NOT knowing who or how much, its if they do tell me or i happen to know, i get turned on a little- a little selfish desire, but i would be lying if i didn't prefer a more classy woman for the long haul. so i guess when it comes down to it, dont tell me who you been with unless you really feel its necessary
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Re: Fapping patterns and its effect on BJ reception [Re: Mad Season]
#18963686 - 10/11/13 12:07 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Mad Season said:
People aren't objects.
Some people are, but that's a different topic.
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Re: Fapping patterns and its effect on BJ reception [Re: itchmynipple]
#18963848 - 10/11/13 12:51 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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itchmynipple said:
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Mad Season said: Idk because you're too insecure to take on a woman with more experience? She's allowed to have as much fun as she wants. You just feel the need to own her pussy. People aren't objects.
Okay
i dont normally ask for a girls list, but most 'more sexually active' woman i know in person are not wifey material. there sluts. they want you and your best friend, they just end up fuckin shit up, its just how it is, and its constantly proven after every time you hear of them cheating or causing havoc on the relationship.
My best friend is the girl I live with. Sometimes we find new people to fuck together. It's a blast! You should try it sometime.
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Re: Fapping patterns and its effect on BJ reception [Re: TheWiz]
#18964102 - 10/11/13 01:46 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Honestly every guy is a horn dog. I've seen way more guys cheat than girls. Still though most guys at the end of the day finds that special someone they won't ever let go and will do anything to keep her. I can guarantee this can happen to even "sluts" (nice job not judging them) because they too have feelings of love. When it's true love I don't think any amount of past partners should affect the relationship. If she does cheat on you, maybe you weren't the right one.
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Re: Fapping patterns and its effect on BJ reception [Re: TheWiz]
#18964723 - 10/11/13 04:17 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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TheWiz said:
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itchmynipple said:
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Mad Season said: Idk because you're too insecure to take on a woman with more experience? She's allowed to have as much fun as she wants. You just feel the need to own her pussy. People aren't objects.
Okay
i dont normally ask for a girls list, but most 'more sexually active' woman i know in person are not wifey material. there sluts. they want you and your best friend, they just end up fuckin shit up, its just how it is, and its constantly proven after every time you hear of them cheating or causing havoc on the relationship.
My best friend is the girl I live with. Sometimes we find new people to fuck together. It's a blast! You should try it sometime.
Most relationships do not last on your road. and well if your partner isnt your best friend to begin with i dont know why you two are together.
maybe on the shroomery boards they do ;]
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