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Re: So my dad just sped away to go smoke crack... [Re: TrentBoyett]
#18942028 - 10/06/13 07:43 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Although it is noble to try and remain around trying to resolve the situation, but the truth is, an addict has to fix themselves through self realization. You can provide them with all the tools necessary to succeed, but until they fix the issue internally which cause them to use they will continue.
I say look out for those kids and separate yourselves from his destructive habits.
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Re: So my dad just sped away to go smoke crack... [Re: TrentBoyett]
#18942086 - 10/06/13 07:52 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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mjmihalov said: You're acting like I was snooping through some random peoples shit for the sole purpose of being nosey, I wasn't. I was doing it to help my family. If you don't like it well honestly I don't care, I know it was the right thing to do.
This.
Some people don't understand because they are love passing judgement onto others. Just look at this thread and you'll see this perfectly clear: http://www.shroomery.org/forums/showflat.php/Number/18931106/fpart/1
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Re: So my dad just sped away to go smoke crack... [Re: TrentBoyett]
#18942211 - 10/06/13 08:23 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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You smoking your dads crack in his rusted out van doesn't help your family.....
 Considering he was at an NA meeting. Listen if you want to smoke crack do it but don't use your family as an excuse for you catching a crack problem.
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Re: So my dad just sped away to go smoke crack... [Re: trekie]
#18942234 - 10/06/13 08:28 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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35 years old, eating a steady diet of government cheese, thrice divorced, and living in a van down by the river!
Sorry OP, I really don't have much to add. Kudos to you to try and make the situation as good as possible. Stay strong for your mother.
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Re: So my dad just sped away to go smoke crack... [Re: TrentBoyett]
#18942344 - 10/06/13 09:02 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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We can pray for a better outcome, OP. I will keep a good thought for you.
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#18942362 - 10/06/13 09:07 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Pray and blaming your family and smoking there crack isn't gonna help a damn thing.
How about you think how you can get yourself out of this situation instead of trying to work on other peoples problems. Work on your own shit
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Re: So my dad just sped away to go smoke crack... [Re: trekie]
#18942533 - 10/06/13 09:59 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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That is a fucked up story, I feel for you man I could not even imagine my parents being like that . My mom at least has never even as much as takin a hit off a joint. I have only seen her drunk a handful of times and I'm talkin 1 margarita drunk. My dad told me he smoked pot a couple of times and can't understand how I love it he said it completely fucks you up the last time he said he smoked it he said he was driving and had to pull over because he was seeing shit, I told him he must have always gotten a hold of shit that was laced with something. He drinks quite a bit but very seldom gets stumble drunk and never causes any prob. Now me on the other hand used to always do way fucked up shit and sometimes still do but I quit drinking 8 months ago and the way fucked up shit pretty much left with the drinking. So I guess what I am saying is in my experience not seeing the harm doing all that fucked up shit does made me think it was ok to get fucked up out of my mind and fuck shit up. I am a single parent myself now and finally came to the conclusion that all that shit does is ruin your life and those around you I couldn't continue on like that and fuck my kids life up. So pretty much your situation in reverse. I hope your dad can turn things around as I have best wishes to you bro!
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Re: So my dad just sped away to go smoke crack... [Re: Imperfect Iam]
#18942624 - 10/06/13 10:23 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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I think you have the right idea about what to do. Be completely open with your dad about how disappointed you are and try to get him to see what he's doing from your perspective or your mother's. Good luck in your endeavors.
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Re: So my dad just sped away to go smoke crack... [Re: TrentBoyett]
#18943647 - 10/07/13 07:04 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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mjmihalov said: The only reason I did it is because I'm addicted to not being sober.
lol wtf
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Re: So my dad just sped away to go smoke crack... [Re: TrentBoyett]
#18978507 - 10/14/13 08:29 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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So sorry for your painful situation brother, I can relate. My father has an out of control gambling addiction that destroyed his life and caused massive stress for our entire family .
I find its essential to find some space for yourself mentally and physically to get away from it , by which I mean try to accept that his life is out of your control and focus on your own emotional well being , goals and interests.
Yes , do what you can to help , but realize you can't control his life and you can't let his problems consume you .
When you are too stressed, try to take a step back , go out with friends, go for a walk, a movie , whatever, just give yourself some space and remember its not your fault or your responsibility .
If possible get your own place .
My best wishes for you and your family.
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Re: So my dad just sped away to go smoke crack... [Re: Moonshoe]
#18978560 - 10/14/13 08:40 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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dude just wants to take a few blasts and you guys are all up on him.. let him do his thing. i hate when people are always on my case no matter what drug it is. id prolly dip out too if i was in his situation. i do agree with you about all the shit getting soled tho, ohh well shit happens
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Re: So my dad just sped away to go smoke crack... [Re: TrentBoyett]
#18978647 - 10/14/13 08:53 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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maybe you can get him to trip and look at his life from a different perspective? it might work, it might make it worse, but i guess it could be a last option if he really doesn't want to look at how crack will eventually affect his future.
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Re: So my dad just sped away to go smoke crack... [Re: TrentBoyett]
#18978655 - 10/14/13 08:56 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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get your dad an eight of shrooms for crying out loud. psychedelics can't fix everything, but they can sure help you do better and safer drugs.
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Re: So my dad just sped away to go smoke crack... [Re: TrentBoyett]
#18978671 - 10/14/13 09:00 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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well i think it's about time you start.
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