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Re: Why do so many people feel the need to lie? [Re: Legend]
#18940704 - 10/06/13 02:57 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Legend said: It seems most everyone I know lies. Even about little things, in attempt to make people happier. So I mean, whether the intention is good or bad, it seems everybody does it. So I guess It'd be cool to hear what you guys have to say.
You are not ugly.
That's about it.
I don't lie unlesss it will hurt someone feeling.
Your ass in those pants.
You get it.
Ask me a question on this shroomery and I will tell you o lie.
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aylarun


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Re: Why do so many people feel the need to lie? [Re: NWlight]
#18941239 - 10/06/13 04:54 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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in my opinion, many people mistake the need for tact with lying.
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NWlight said: like last night I didnt feel like hangin out with my friend so I said I wasnt feeling well but really i just didnt want to hang out with him.
no reason for me to hurt his feelings, y'know?
good quality relationships should be based on respect and mutual understandings.
id like to hope if i told a friend, tactfully, i just wasnt down for hangs they could respect that and wed leave the conversation with no hard feelings.. white lies walk a fine line with mind games.
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Patlal
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Re: Why do so many people feel the need to lie? [Re: Legend]
#18941324 - 10/06/13 05:14 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Legend said: It seems most everyone I know lies. Even about little things, in attempt to make people happier. So I mean, whether the intention is good or bad, it seems everybody does it. So I guess It'd be cool to hear what you guys have to say.
You answered your own question.
It's an attempt to make people happier.
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Re: Why do so many people feel the need to lie? [Re: aylarun]
#18941385 - 10/06/13 05:32 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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aylarun said: in my opinion, many people mistake the need for tact with lying.
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NWlight said: like last night I didnt feel like hangin out with my friend so I said I wasnt feeling well but really i just didnt want to hang out with him.
no reason for me to hurt his feelings, y'know?
good quality relationships should be based on respect and mutual understandings.
id like to hope if i told a friend, tactfully, i just wasnt down for hangs they could respect that and wed leave the conversation with no hard feelings.. white lies walk a fine line with mind games.
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Re: Why do so many people feel the need to lie? [Re: Sheekle]
#18941435 - 10/06/13 05:44 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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that doesnt really work with people who you don't know super well.
its only like the 2nd or 3rd time we wouldve hung out.
can't flake on people when ur friendship is that new
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Re: Why do so many people feel the need to lie? [Re: NWlight]
#18941600 - 10/06/13 06:14 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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I don't lie often if at all don't over exaggerate things and try to be straight forward but sometimes its not bad to lie about little things it all depends I used to know a pathological liar he was a idiot
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Sheekle
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Re: Why do so many people feel the need to lie? [Re: NWlight]
#18941648 - 10/06/13 06:25 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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NWlight said: that doesnt really work with people who you don't know super well.
its only like the 2nd or 3rd time we wouldve hung out.
can't flake on people when ur friendship is that new
you could make sure they know it's not a personal thing and that you'd look forward to hanging out with them in the future, seems pretty understandable to me
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Re: Why do so many people feel the need to lie? [Re: Sheekle]
#18941733 - 10/06/13 06:43 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Sometimes the truth hurts or is uncomfortable.
I wish more people were open, secure, and understanding so we didn't feel pressure to lie. Even little things. I try to be honest 100% of the time unless I'm talking to cops....cause... Ya know.
Would it really hurt your friends feelings if you just said "hey man it was cool hangin, but I think I'm gonna take off. I'll talk to you soon". ?
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