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SprewellSleeve



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Two of my friends who were dating each other broke up, the girl isn't talking to us
#18938715 - 10/06/13 01:55 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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My close friend, the guy, was dating our friend. All of us are friends and co-workers .They never were official (dated since February). They "broke up" a few weeks ago. A few weeks ago I took my vacation, and before I took my one week vacation me and the girl talked like usual. After three weeks of not seeing her, I saw her yesterday. I first saw her in the breakroom after I clocked in and went to put my sandwich in the refrigerator. I was gonna ignore her because I think she weirdly deleted my comment on her Instagram a few weeks ago (my post wasn't anything bad, and I wasn't gonna keep ignoring her, obviously it wasn't that serious). I noticed she didn't even look at me, so maybe I did have a right to ignore her, after all, this girl has given these odd vibes before of ignoring me/others randomly at least a while ago. Later on my other co-worker called me over when he saw me while he was talking to her, and when I got there, she immediately left.
Later I asked my friend who "broke up" with her if they've been talking, and he said no. He said he said hey to her and she looked at him weird and walked away.
Next time I get a chance I'm gonna say hi to her, if she doesn't respond, I'm gonna tell her exactly how it is, none of these stupid ignoring games.
I'm not even worked up over this or anything, but it's pretty stupid. What is she taking this out on my just because my friend broke up with her? Isn't that a little late considering she talked to me before that?
Anybody have a situation like this before?
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Edited by SprewellSleeve (10/06/13 01:59 AM)
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Re: Two of my friends who were dating each other broke up, the girl isn't talking to us [Re: SprewellSleeve] 1
#18938734 - 10/06/13 02:08 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Lol you were thinking about ignoring somebody in real life when you saw them because a few weeks prior they deleted a comment of yours on instagram?
Also I don't neccessarily think ignoring you equates to "taking anything out on you"
Life is weird man i dunno lmao
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SprewellSleeve



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Re: Two of my friends who were dating each other broke up, the girl isn't talking to us [Re: Sheekle]
#18938758 - 10/06/13 02:23 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Sheekle said: Lol you were thinking about ignoring somebody in real life when you saw them because a few weeks prior they deleted a comment of yours on instagram?
Also I don't neccessarily think ignoring you equates to "taking anything out on you"
Life is weird man i dunno lmao
Nah, I'm just tired of her being weird like like that .
It's pretty strange to ignore someone who didn't do anything to you.
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Re: Two of my friends who were dating each other broke up, the girl isn't talking to us [Re: SprewellSleeve]
#18938822 - 10/06/13 03:28 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Sounds like she's spiteful, not weird; just upset.
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Re: Two of my friends who were dating each other broke up, the girl isn't talking to us [Re: Acaterpillar] 1
#18938869 - 10/06/13 04:09 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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She sounds a bit odd, she may be holding a grudge..
I'm not sure... It's hard to really put yourself in her mind and know exactly what she's thinking..
She obviously doesn't want to communicate with you and she obviously isn't too fond of him either..
I would assume by her body language and actions that she wants to forget about both of you.
Her "games" seem to have gotten to your head and now you can't stop thinking about her.
My advice would be, leave her alone, and tell your friend (the guy) to leave her alone too..
Edited by Cpt.Crunch (10/06/13 04:10 AM)
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Re: Two of my friends who were dating each other broke up, the girl isn't talking to us [Re: Cpt.Crunch]
#18938889 - 10/06/13 04:30 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Shes just Jealous, shell come around soon enough.
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Re: Two of my friends who were dating each other broke up, the girl isn't talking to us *DELETED* [Re: SprewellSleeve]
#18938932 - 10/06/13 04:59 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Re: Two of my friends who were dating each other broke up, the girl isn't talking to us [Re: rulesq]
#18938939 - 10/06/13 05:02 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Sounds to me like she's pissed because both of you talked to her and it didn't work out with either of you. Simple as that. She probably feels played or used.
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Re: Two of my friends who were dating each other broke up, the girl isn't talking to us [Re: Sheekle]
#18938962 - 10/06/13 05:22 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Sheekle said: Lol you were thinking about ignoring somebody in real life when you saw them because a few weeks prior they deleted a comment of yours on instagram?
Also I don't neccessarily think ignoring you equates to "taking anything out on you"
Life is weird man i dunno lmao
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Re: Two of my friends who were dating each other broke up, the girl isn't talking to us [Re: SprewellSleeve] 2
#18938967 - 10/06/13 05:25 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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she probably thinks your closer to him then you are to her, and thus your on his side not hers.
when i get into drama with troublesome females i have to avoid them and their friends, because their friends act as extensions of themselves and try to ellicit further information or carry out their bidding vicariously
workplace drama ftl
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Re: Two of my friends who were dating each other broke up, the girl isn't talking to us [Re: SprewellSleeve]
#18939025 - 10/06/13 06:22 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Hopefully you can make nice with her so you can do the no pants dance together.
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Re: Two of my friends who were dating each other broke up, the girl isn't talking to us [Re: SprewellSleeve] 2
#18939057 - 10/06/13 06:43 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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>I was gonna ignore her because I think she weirdly deleted my comment on her Instagram a few weeks ago >I was gonna ignore her >I'm gonna tell her exactly how it is, none of these stupid ignoring games. >none of these stupid ignoring games.
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Re: Two of my friends who were dating each other broke up, the girl isn't talking to us [Re: Dawks]
#18939836 - 10/06/13 11:34 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Dawks said: >I was gonna ignore her because I think she weirdly deleted my comment on her Instagram a few weeks ago >I was gonna ignore her >I'm gonna tell her exactly how it is, none of these stupid ignoring games. >none of these stupid ignoring games.


It does seem a little more contradictory when you contrast the two like that...
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Re: Two of my friends who were dating each other broke up, the girl isn't talking to us [Re: Acaterpillar] 1
#18940307 - 10/06/13 01:20 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Is it just me or is OP's problem stupid?
No offense to OP of course, but it seems like a useless psychological conflict. Typical social bullshit.
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Re: Two of my friends who were dating each other broke up, the girl isn't talking to us [Re: Dawks]
#18940439 - 10/06/13 01:57 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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LoveYourLife said: Sounds to me like she's pissed because both of you talked to her and it didn't work out with either of you. Simple as that. She probably feels played or used.
I seriously never did anything bad to her. In fact I was always open to talk to her about things she was worried about.Quote:
LoveYourLife said: Sounds to me like she's pissed because both of you talked to her and it didn't work out with either of you. Simple as that. She probably feels played or used.
I didn't go out with her. I didn't play her in any conceivable way.
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Cpt.Crunch said: She sounds a bit odd, she may be holding a grudge..
I'm not sure... It's hard to really put yourself in her mind and know exactly what she's thinking..
She obviously doesn't want to communicate with you and she obviously isn't too fond of him either..
I would assume by her body language and actions that she wants to forget about both of you.
Her "games" seem to have gotten to your head and now you can't stop thinking about her.
My advice would be, leave her alone, and tell your friend (the guy) to leave her alone too..
My friend who broke up with her said and seems to not even care. He said her actions explains why he broke up with her.
She hasn't been on my mind much, just wanted to read other people's similar stories.
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Soulidarity said: she probably thinks your closer to him then you are to her, and thus your on his side not hers.
when i get into drama with troublesome females i have to avoid them and their friends, because their friends act as extensions of themselves and try to ellicit further information or carry out their bidding vicariously
workplace drama ftl
The strange thing is she stopped talking to one of her close friends who also worked with us a couple of months ago for something ridiculous, then they started being friends ago a week before yesterday, and now her friend hasn't been texting me as much since. She still does, just not as much. They definitely have some reflections. I'm not gonna stop talking to the other girl, just yeah. The extensions of themselves was what I was thinking.
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Dawks said: >I was gonna ignore her because I think she weirdly deleted my comment on her Instagram a few weeks ago >I was gonna ignore her >I'm gonna tell her exactly how it is, none of these stupid ignoring games. >none of these stupid ignoring games.

LOL
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