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deadwk
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What to expect, pretty major conversation incoming with the GF
#18933867 - 10/04/13 11:25 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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So me and my gf have been having a few problems this past week. I've been udner a lot of stress from school (one of the most intensive programs offered by my college) which has cause me to become aggresive and similar with my girlfriend.
We had plans today, but I abandoned them so I could do cocaine. I ended up telling her and she's on her way over to talk.
Has anyone been in this position before? If so, what was the outcome?
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Re: What to expect, pretty major conversation incoming with the GF [Re: deadwk]
#18933907 - 10/04/13 11:32 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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I dont thinks there's a perfect answer. Results are different depending on the parties attitudes. Be honest and hope she understands. If you want to work it out, think through how best you can communicate what youve been going through in a way that she'll understand. Good luck!
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Re: What to expect, pretty major conversation incoming with the GF [Re: DustJuice]
#18933913 - 10/04/13 11:34 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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DustJuice said: I dont thinks there's a perfect answer. Results are different depending on the parties attitudes. Be honest and hope she understands. If you want to work it out, think through how best you can communicate what youve been going through in a way that she'll understand. Good luck!
Yea, I think the key here is honesty. I've lied to her in the past about doing shit like this, but lately I've been a lot more honest, so I think that'll help.
The fact she's coming over while this is happening, is pretty surprising. I get the vibes from her taht she's going to be very understanding.
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Re: What to expect, pretty major conversation incoming with the GF [Re: deadwk]
#18933915 - 10/04/13 11:35 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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well unfortunately lol I have been there. If she is ok with the occasional coke its cool. But if it was like with me where my girl was against it all the way, it could get bad. And trying to reason with someone about something they deem unreasonable is useless, especially for me because her huge problems, 1)I was doing coke 2)I ditched her for coke 3)again I was doing coke lol. We had it out pretty good. She didn't want to touch me rest of night cuz I was pretty coked up, but the next day things were cool, I just didn't get caught in that situation again. If you're gonna do shit your chick doesn't like, don't break plans with her to do it, be honest about it, or if you must, don't get caught
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Re: What to expect, pretty major conversation incoming with the GF [Re: dirty]
#18933934 - 10/04/13 11:39 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Well I can't be dishonest with her anymore, I feel like that would a quick route for things to end.
I feel like this is the last chance to save our relationship.
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Re: What to expect, pretty major conversation incoming with the GF [Re: deadwk]
#18933978 - 10/04/13 11:49 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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If she's coming to you, it sounds like you might have the upper hand. Work out what your going to say before it happens so that you're really clear and concise. Let the dust settle. Move on with a better understanding of what each other expects.
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Re: What to expect, pretty major conversation incoming with the GF [Re: deadwk]
#18933992 - 10/04/13 11:51 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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thedeadwalkk said: So me and my gf have been having a few problems this past week. I've been udner a lot of stress from school (one of the most intensive programs offered by my college) which has cause me to become aggresive and similar with my girlfriend.
We had plans today, but I abandoned them so I could do cocaine. I ended up telling her and she's on her way over to talk.
Has anyone been in this position before? If so, what was the outcome?
i think you should kill yourself. you're fucked. haha
no really i think you should avoid her again and buy more coke and a hooker. kidding again 
seriously youre fucked and i would never be that inconsiderate. time to man up and take your shitstorm.
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Re: What to expect, pretty major conversation incoming with the GF [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18934187 - 10/05/13 12:51 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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We talked and she says she has more trust for me because I fessed up about it. So we're going to continue, I told her that I'm leaving the drug scene for awhile.
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Re: What to expect, pretty major conversation incoming with the GF [Re: deadwk]
#18935791 - 10/05/13 11:58 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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You ditched out on your gf for coke? Nice move... /sarcasm
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Re: What to expect, pretty major conversation incoming with the GF [Re: Forestdie]
#18936544 - 10/05/13 03:32 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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If she starts picking a fight with you - just leave.
Most women abandon reason and logic in an argument and it's all emotionally messy bullshit.
Just leave, and pretty soon she'll just wonder where you are and won't care about the argument.
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Re: What to expect, pretty major conversation incoming with the GF [Re: JesusIsLord]
#18937326 - 10/05/13 06:31 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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I predict the outcome will be bad
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Re: What to expect, pretty major conversation incoming with the GF [Re: deadwk] 1
#18938202 - 10/05/13 10:16 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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thedeadwalkk said: So me and my gf have been having a few problems this past week. I've been udner a lot of stress from school (one of the most intensive programs offered by my college) which has cause me to become aggresive and similar with my girlfriend.
We had plans today, but I abandoned them so I could do cocaine. I ended up telling her and she's on her way over to talk.
Has anyone been in this position before? If so, what was the outcome?
I read the bolded part and immediately thought "bullshit". No matter how stressed you are, YOU chose to be a dick to your girlfriend. YOU. It was your decision.
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Re: What to expect, pretty major conversation incoming with the GF [Re: Shroomerited]
#18938392 - 10/05/13 11:20 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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She's probably mad you didn't let her snort that line off your titties
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Re: What to expect, pretty major conversation incoming with the GF [Re: MystiqueMushroom]
#18938784 - 10/06/13 02:37 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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i think you should be worrying about if your girlfriends head is strong, so i think you should stop being a selfish prick and doing cocaine and other drugs whenever you want, or whatever your lying about and confessing to her.
you need to re-arrange your frame of mind if you want it to work pretty much. i think it takes time, but its possible to reprogramm you mind to where it once was if you continue to pursue the same ideals you did when you first met.. which are basic concepts and themes to live by when you meet someone you want to marry truly...
i dont think your actually a selfish prick. but its just people will assume you are a selfish prick as soon as there done being on your side..
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