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Anonymous said: No.
Exes are exes for a reason.
That off and on again shit never ever works in reality.
Once I break up with someone we stay broken up. There's usually not even any contact after the fact.
In some VERY RARE cases, if you are both mature enough.. and were good friends, then you could stay friends in the future. But that is extremely rare. But to try and become lovers again, after you have already broken it off once. I have NEVER seen that work. And I've seen a LOT of cases of BF/GF breaking up, getting back together, breaking up, getting back together. Been there myself before. It always end catastrophically. Save yourself the torment.
the off and on relationships Doesn't work, its Tormenting as fuck.
My sister and her boyfriend broke up a year in, got back together shortly after and have been getting stronger as a couple over two years. so they've been together for 3-4 years, and i have to say i hope they continue down this path and get married. he's 28, shes 24.
i think there are two relationships. the type that can get there shit together because they know what/who they want in this life(usually older more experienced people), and the type that don't get there shit together because there not sure if its worth it entirely (younger, less experienced people)
TIME is a huge factor in relationships, some people feel too young halfway through there lifespan of the relationship, so they need to get out before its too late... some people feel there getting older and its getting to late to not be in a relationship..
all in all - i think if two people get into the relationship with Great intentions and no bulshit and Mean/feel what they do/say, you will last years if not till the end. Don't tell your fucking girlfriend you love her if your not sure. nah mean? - communicate this to her, eliminate that stress/naggyquestion if you love her or not, n let the relationship grow- and maybe you will actually fall in love with her, but if you lie, the lies build up as nagging doubts and thoughts till you need a release and its just to late to just 'talk' to your partner about your problems because your minds already made and your current partner is nothing but a permanent stress producer
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