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Re: Loss of libido- is it necessarily a bad thing? [Re: morrowasted]
#18930447 - 10/04/13 09:56 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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fuck going out. dude, casually talk to some of the females at your school. create a school friendship. after awhile an attraction will grow. invite her back to skirp a little derg and let nature take its course.
the chase is always just as fun as the actually dicking of the female.
i would also suggest becoming a bit more active. maybe grab a bike from a pawn shop or some shit. i know damn well houston has 100s of pawn shops.
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Re: Loss of libido- is it necessarily a bad thing? [Re: Not Responding]
#18930456 - 10/04/13 09:58 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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you only live once!

i dont know shit about ssris or whatever. do you have to take it? how long do you have to wait after taking it? is it really worth it in the first place? sounds like the shit is holding you back quite a bit.
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Re: Loss of libido- is it necessarily a bad thing? [Re: Not Responding]
#18930458 - 10/04/13 09:59 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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My sex drive SUCKED REALLY BAD on SSRI meds from the time I was 17 to 20. I was having sex once a month in a committed relationship. It progressively got better as I found the right medication and I feel like I did when I first started having sex.
Sex is important, but you should enjoy it. If you don't care about having sex, don't have sex. It's not a competition, it's all about you and your partner.
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Re: Loss of libido- is it necessarily a bad thing? [Re: Not Responding]
#18930645 - 10/04/13 10:52 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Not Responding said: fuck going out. dude, casually talk to some of the females at your school. create a school friendship. after awhile an attraction will grow. invite her back to skirp a little derg and let nature take its course.
the chase is always just as fun as the actually dicking of the female.
i would also suggest becoming a bit more active. maybe grab a bike from a pawn shop or some shit. i know damn well houston has 100s of pawn shops.
yeah they have like 5 of my former bikes 
i recently started taking my dog for a 4 mile walk every day thats been good
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Re: Loss of libido- is it necessarily a bad thing? [Re: Not Responding]
#18930656 - 10/04/13 10:55 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Not Responding said: you only live once!

i dont know shit about ssris or whatever. do you have to take it? how long do you have to wait after taking it? is it really worth it in the first place? sounds like the shit is holding you back quite a bit.
problem is I am heavily dependent on them since I've been on them for 9 years. I've cut back. I used to take 120mg of cymbalta and now I only take 60 but it's still a hefty dose and very hard to quit. last time I quit SSRIs cold turkey I went off the deep end taking psychedelics almost every single day and got super paranoid, crazy, and depressed to the point of suicidality.
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Re: Loss of libido- is it necessarily a bad thing? [Re: morrowasted]
#18930753 - 10/04/13 11:21 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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theres no alternatives? you take it for depression? i dont know shit about shit, but couldnt a diet change, some exercise, mass amounts of water, bud, and a female help with that?
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Re: Loss of libido- is it necessarily a bad thing? [Re: Not Responding]
#18930758 - 10/04/13 11:22 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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yeah all of those things can help (except probably weed) but dependence to an SSRI is very strong. I am just not at a point in my life where I feel stable enough to do it. maybe when I finish school.
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Re: Loss of libido- is it necessarily a bad thing? [Re: morrowasted]
#18930772 - 10/04/13 11:27 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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that sucks. well shit man. i dunno. i guess focus on building a healthy friendship with a female. lower your bar a bit too... dont even think about sex, just focus on her. nature will always poke a few butts without you even knowing. before you know it! BAM!
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Re: Loss of libido- is it necessarily a bad thing? [Re: Greendreams]
#18931644 - 10/04/13 03:04 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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eh... as long as the cock keeps cocking, im good
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Re: Loss of libido- is it necessarily a bad thing? [Re: Not Responding]
#18931704 - 10/04/13 03:18 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Not Responding said: that sucks. well shit man. i dunno. i guess focus on building a healthy friendship with a female. lower your bar a bit too... dont even think about sex, just focus on her. nature will always poke a few butts without you even knowing. before you know it! BAM!
In the past I have always just fallen into relationships. Some girl will magically come into my life and obviously be very attracted to me and I just let it happen. They have always been the type of girls who were extremely low maintenance, in fact in some cases they were maintaining me somewhat.
Now that I'm in grad school I doubt any of the women are interested in a guy who lives with his parents and makes $1000 a month and has an almost daily drug habit
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Re: Loss of libido- is it necessarily a bad thing? [Re: Not Responding]
#18931737 - 10/04/13 03:25 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Not Responding said: eh... as long as the cock keeps cocking, im good
thanks for posting in this thread, all of your posts are gold 
morrow i'm pretty fascinated that SSRIs seem to help you as much as they do. all the other benefits you seem to get from them seem like they're worth it. i personally couldn't stand them when i tried them but i'd get really bad physical side effects.
since it doesn't really seem to be bothering you i think you have the right idea to keep taking them as long as you feel comfortable, and then maybe when you finish school you can rethink them if you want.
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In the past I have always just fallen into relationships. Some girl will magically come into my life and obviously be very attracted to me and I just let it happen. They have always been the type of girls who were extremely low maintenance, in fact in some cases they were maintaining me somewhat.
Now that I'm in grad school I doubt any of the women are interested in a guy who lives with his parents and makes $1000 a month and has an almost daily drug habit
i can dig that, i'm in a similar situation except i'm not in grad school, i'm basically still in year one in community college 
seems like you still live responsibly though, which is good. i don't think that many people would be TOO put off by your habits (i struggle trying to tell myself the same thing) i do harder drugs somewhat frequently but i still get things done. i really wonder how much girls would or wouldn't be put off by that.
Loss of libido- is it necessarily a bad thing?
I'm gonna say no, if it doesn't bother you.
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Re: Loss of libido- is it necessarily a bad thing? [Re: Gilgamesh18]
#18931921 - 10/04/13 04:09 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Lynnch said: It doesn't seem like there was ever a time where you got to enjoy having a strong libido, it's unsurprising that you'd think that. Sex is fun. I'd prefer to have sex as the underlying motivation for humanities actions rather than say, war.
I have a strong libido and I hate it because I am terrible with women 
This XD
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Re: Loss of libido- is it necessarily a bad thing? [Re: kakashi68]
#18931926 - 10/04/13 04:11 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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I can't get pussy off my mind.. lucky you.
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Re: Loss of libido- is it necessarily a bad thing? [Re: extreme]
#18931951 - 10/04/13 04:16 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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You'd be surprised, some girls like the idea of being a "sugar mama".
Since someone mentioned sex on MDMA, I feel obligated to throw out sex on mephedrone 
But honestly, I'm not sure what to say other than "whatever makes you happy". However it sure doesn't seem to me that SSRIs are providing you with wholesome happiness, and that there's something missing. It could well be sex  You could look at boosting testosterone while staying on SSRIs, that will help a ton. Exercise helps me, and I'm sure diet is important, but there's more ways to raise your T than just those two.
But in any case, hope you find whatever it is you're missing, if I was right in thinking that. I'm sure once you are outta school, and outta the house, that things will seem MUCH better.
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Lynnch said: It doesn't seem like there was ever a time where you got to enjoy having a strong libido, it's unsurprising that you'd think that. Sex is fun. I'd prefer to have sex as the underlying motivation for humanities actions rather than say, war.
I have a strong libido and I hate it because I am terrible with women 
This XD
Sorry to hear that. My low sex drives seems to increase women's attraction to me. Just remembber than females are people too, not just a vagins with a bunch of useless stuff attached, which is how a lot of guys seem to think of girls based on the way they often often talk about them
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Re: Loss of libido- is it necessarily a bad thing? [Re: morrowasted]
#18931963 - 10/04/13 04:19 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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You'd be surprised, some girls like the idea of being a "sugar mama".
Oh believe me, I know. I cant believe I got away with it for as long as I did. I have one girl who flies me out to San Francisco all expenses paid, but she couldn't afford to be a full time sugar mama... plus she is a bit fat
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Re: Loss of libido- is it necessarily a bad thing? [Re: morrowasted]
#18931974 - 10/04/13 04:21 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Honestly I think I have high testosterone levels because of how hairy and naturally muscular I am. It role in the sexual arousal process just get suppressed significantly by SSRIs
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Re: Loss of libido- is it necessarily a bad thing? [Re: extreme]
#18932026 - 10/04/13 04:32 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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you being sarcastic?
@ the mdma comment.
i meant more for hanging out and getting aroused. then if sex happens, it happens.
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Re: Loss of libido- is it necessarily a bad thing? [Re: Not Responding]
#18932050 - 10/04/13 04:38 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Who, me?? No, mephedrone is even more arousing and entactogenic (touch-enhancing) than MDMA, if you can believe that's possible
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