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should i care that my boyfriend looks at porn daily?
    #18929789 - 10/04/13 05:42 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

so usually every morning (i know this bc i look at his browser history) my bf either looks at porn or is looking at naked pics of anon chicks on reddit. it bothers the fuck out of me. we have sex every day/every other day and have a good relationship otherwise. it really makes me feel shitty about myself. he thinks its ok but to me thats him rubbing his dick to another chick... regardless if its on the internet. it makes me feel so spiteful. ugh shroomery should i let this get to me??


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Re: should i care that my boyfriend looks at porn daily? [Re: Anonymous #1] * 6
    #18929806 - 10/04/13 05:50 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

No. Not at all. Guys beat off no matter how much sex they get. You can also EASILY safe yourself the feelings of shittyness by not snooping through his net history. Dont take him masterbating to porn personally. Its just how were wired.

Do you only think about him when hes banging you? If he insisted you only think of him and his dong when your masterbating or having sex how would you feel?


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Re: should i care that my boyfriend looks at porn daily? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #18929809 - 10/04/13 05:51 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

It's not that big of a deal. But if it means that much to you, why don't you tell him to stop jerkin' the gerkin' while interweb lurkin' and pay more attention to real life. Proceed to stick your fingers in his mouth and squat up and down on the spot.


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Re: should i care that my boyfriend looks at porn daily? [Re: Rewindicus]
    #18929813 - 10/04/13 05:53 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

so im just supposed to take the blind approach and out of sight out of mind? he can watch all this porn but im not allowed to do any sort of nude cam modeling/ photos that would make me profit? but its ok for him to rub his dick to girls on the internet.


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Re: should i care that my boyfriend looks at porn daily? [Re: Anonymous #1] * 1
    #18929834 - 10/04/13 06:02 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

You don't understand men.  Go try to find one that doesn't do this.  If you do, he probably has lots of way worse problems.

Now if he is creating a double standard, like it's okay for him but not for you, then he's an idiot and you should lose him.


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Re: should i care that my boyfriend looks at porn daily? [Re: Old Pokey] * 1
    #18929839 - 10/04/13 06:07 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

Yah I didnt know the cam thing about you. THAT IS A DOUBLE STANDARD AND NOT COOL.

It sounds like you both need to have a talk. I think an out of sight out of mind agreement would work for you two bit it only works if both sides make an effort, as in you two dont get lazy and leave your evidence out in the open but also dont go looking for it.


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Re: should i care that my boyfriend looks at porn daily? [Re: Old Pokey]
    #18929840 - 10/04/13 06:09 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

No, its normal. Men NEED to release their nuts daily. If you're not a part of that process, and giving him grief for it.. reverse course and make his fantasies come true, on your own level. If you don't, kiss your bf goodbye.

Make him happy. Don't cheat on him, don't have random dudes he doesn't know at your home n shit when he comes home.

Live up to the level of being a decent human being.


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Re: should i care that my boyfriend looks at porn daily? [Re: GOATOAD]
    #18929841 - 10/04/13 06:10 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

If not, you're a fucking whore and you deserve to be left alone.


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Re: should i care that my boyfriend looks at porn daily? [Re: Rewindicus]
    #18929850 - 10/04/13 06:15 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

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Rewindicus said:
Yah I didnt know the cam thing about you. THAT IS A DOUBLE STANDARD AND NOT COOL.

It sounds like you both need to have a talk. I think an out of sight out of mind agreement would work for you two bit it only works if both sides make an effort, as in you two dont get lazy and leave your evidence out in the open but also dont go looking for it.




Agree with Rewindicus. Double standards are not cool.


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Re: should i care that my boyfriend looks at porn daily? [Re: Anonymous #1] * 1
    #18929863 - 10/04/13 06:21 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

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so im just supposed to take the blind approach and out of sight out of mind? he can watch all this porn but im not allowed to do any sort of nude cam modeling/ photos that would make me profit? but its ok for him to rub his dick to girls on the internet.




i think if he jacks off every morning thats a bit much. i mean a few times a week is cool but thats a bit much.

i dont know how the two situations are that relative  when it comes to doing porn though. i mean i wouldnt want my woman doing porn of any kind. i wouldnt go out of my way to be controlling or stop her either though. more of a id appreciate it if didnt, if you really care about how i feel about our relationship type of respect thing. but yeah once again i dont think that those two scenarios have anything to do with eachother. theyre totally different. maybe if your bf was going to strip clubs and getting lap dances 24/7 theyd be a little closer. :shrug:


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Re: should i care that my boyfriend looks at porn daily? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #18929869 - 10/04/13 06:25 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

oh and i think you should be honest and say how you feel. and if he  gets it cool if not f it and do what you want like your bf is.


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Re: should i care that my boyfriend looks at porn daily? [Re: Anonymous #1] * 3
    #18929871 - 10/04/13 06:26 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

Wouldn't you be more upset if he was putting on webcam shows for other girls?

Him watching porn does not justify you being a cam whore.

He's just jerking off, that's not the same as letting people watch.


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Re: should i care that my boyfriend looks at porn daily? [Re: Anonymous #2]
    #18929879 - 10/04/13 06:30 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

Why do you phrase it as "cam whore"...
What is wrong with nude modelling / photos? Would you be that insecure that you would feel threatened by that?
Jealousy is never attractive..


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Re: should i care that my boyfriend looks at porn daily? [Re: Anonymous #2]
    #18929882 - 10/04/13 06:33 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

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Wouldn't you be more upset if he was putting on webcam shows for other girls?

Him watching porn does not justify you being a cam whore.

He's just jerking off, that's not the same as letting people watch.




your point is unrealistic. only guys and dikes pay for that crap. :lol:


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Re: should i care that my boyfriend looks at porn daily? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #18929891 - 10/04/13 06:39 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

No you should not care at all. It has absolutely nothing to do with you, and nothing to do with him wanting other chicks.
Men are wired differently. We are mostly visual creatures. And pretty much have to bust a nut every day.
If we don't it happens naturally in our sleep. The shit has to come out. 

Even if you are having sex 30 times a week, he will still find time to beat off on his own time.
Looking at porn is completely harmless (for the most part... unless it becomes a SERIOUS addiction)

Listen to Loveline. This topic comes up every day pretty much for the last 20+ years.
Girlfriend calls in mad/jealous that the BF looks at porn. Consensus from all the experts is almost always that it's perfectly normal and as long as he's still paying attention to you and whatnot when you are together.. and you otherwise have a healthy relationship... then it's not really any of your fucking business.

Now were he fishing for REAL chicks on craigslist or adultfriendfinder or putting his pics up on some hookup website or something... THAT is a completely different story.

But just watching porn and jerking off is completely normal and EVERY GUY DOES IT even when in a completely committed relationship.


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so im just supposed to take the blind approach and out of sight out of mind? he can watch all this porn but im not allowed to do any sort of nude cam modeling/ photos that would make me profit? but its ok for him to rub his dick to girls on the internet.




That's pretty fucked up thinking. Him jacking off to porn and you actually exposing your body to strangers and doing nude cam modeling for profit are not fucking equal.
He's LOOKING at porn. And you want to "get even" with him by PARTICIPATING in porn, and BEING the porn that random guys beat off to? Grow up.



I am glad my girlfriend is not like this. We have a great sex life, great relationship.
She knows I look at porn and beat off. She understands it's completely harmless. She never gives me shit for it.
Even if we are having sex 2 times a day, I still find time for it.
Shit, sometimes she will even look at the porn I was watching when I'm not around, just to see what I might be into to get ideas for things to turn me on.

Bottom line - Men are visual creatures when it comes to this. Women are emotional.
Don't get jealous of him doing what is perfectly normal for virtually every guy out there.
If it's not effecting your relationship in a negative way then it's not really your concern.


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Re: should i care that my boyfriend looks at porn daily? [Re: Cyclohexylamine] * 6
    #18929892 - 10/04/13 06:40 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

I simply think that just because her boyfriend looks at porn, doesn't equate to her right to BE porn. I doubt she'd be happy were things the other way around.

Unless he doesn't care. Then who am I to judge.

But if you've ever been on one those sites, it's girls doing whatever's asked of them sexually for money via webcam. Hence, "cam whore".


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Re: should i care that my boyfriend looks at porn daily? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #18929933 - 10/04/13 07:04 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

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Anonymous said:

i think if he jacks off every morning thats a bit much. i mean a few times a week is cool but thats a bit much.




Who are you to say what's too much jacking off for someone else? As if there is some predetermined limit.
A few times a week is 'cool' but every day is a bit much? :what:

20 times a day is probably "too much". But I would venture to guess that the majority of men probably do it on a daily basis.


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Re: should i care that my boyfriend looks at porn daily? [Re: Anonymous #4] * 1
    #18930023 - 10/04/13 07:53 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

Sure, dudes have the natural inclination to watch porn at any time. We don't do it at the dinner table, or at work or many other places where it isn't appropriate. He has a girl he lives with, he probably should show a little restraint - even a well adjusted, enlightened partner is going to have feelings of inadequacy if their partner is jerking to porn when they are sexually available.

OP should stop looking for evidence, however. 


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Re: should i care that my boyfriend looks at porn daily? [Re: koods]
    #18930135 - 10/04/13 08:35 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

I hardly think him looking at porn when the GF is asleep or whatever as inappropriate.
I live with my woman and that's when I look at porn. I don't do it when she's awake and in the other room.
But it's not like I'm hiding it from her. It's just a private moment.

And it doesn't detract from our sex life at all. We still do it regularly.

Also sex is a time and energy investment. Sometimes you just want to whip it out, beat off and cum in 30 seconds then get back to whatever you were doing.
Sex takes time, foreplay and a lot of energy. And cumming in 30 seconds is not acceptable.
10+ minutes at the least, or at least until the girl is satisfied. At least that's my rule. If I don't break a sweat then I didn't do my job.
But you can't seriously expect a guy to have sex every single time he gets the urge. Sometimes you just gotta beat it for the release.


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Re: should i care that my boyfriend looks at porn daily? [Re: Cyclohexylamine]
    #18930249 - 10/04/13 09:08 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

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tymoteusz3 said:
Why do you phrase it as "cam whore"...
What is wrong with nude modelling / photos? Would you be that insecure that you would feel threatened by that?
Jealousy is never attractive..





exactly.

he faps it to random chicks on reddit, but she's not "allowed" to put images of herself out there.

to whoever said she is trying to get him back, unless im mistaken that's not the case. she would like to get into nude modeling and he won't let her, yet sits and faps it to porn and r/gonewild on the daily. that's fucked up if you ask me. it's the double standard that's the issue here.


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