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Anonymous #1

Close friend gets all the girls
    #18901308 - 09/28/13 01:45 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

So my really close friend/roommmate is a very attractive man.  Like, when we go out all the girls want to talk to him and flirt with him and such.  He already has a girlfriend (who lives in Europe currently), so nothing ever happens though.  I'm newly single and am trying to get into things, but whenever we go out he steals all the female attention.  I had thought I was fairly attractive myself - but I'm just clearly the worse option from the female perspective.  The real problem is I'm not clearly far less attractive than him - any girl that thinks she has a shot with me probably also has a shot with a guy like him - so there's not a set of girls who would've wanted to get with me who don't also want to get with him.  It's like I'm Karl Malone to his Michael Jordan.  What do I do?


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Re: Close friend gets all the girls [Re: Anonymous #1] * 1
    #18901317 - 09/28/13 01:51 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

Don't take him with you when you're going out to pick up girls...kind of obvious, don't you think? :wink:


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Re: Close friend gets all the girls [Re: koraks]
    #18901327 - 09/28/13 01:59 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

It is - but I eventually they're gonna have to meet up with him if want anything long term.  Plus all of my friends are his friends and vice versa...and it's effing hard trying to just go out solo dolo inserting yourself into random conversations with girls you have no connection to, I have to be stupid drunk...


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Re: Close friend gets all the girls [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #18901338 - 09/28/13 02:08 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

Somebody needs to work on their interpersonal skills, women see that this man affects you which is glaringly obvious through your text, quit being the betabitch thats needy as fuck and start taking pussy like you already  own it!


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Re: Close friend gets all the girls [Re: dutchfunkle]
    #18901346 - 09/28/13 02:15 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

I'm not some social maladroit here, I'm just clearly the inferior product.  Before this ex I never had a problem getting girls before, but like I said I'm recently single and I've spent months getting back into the game, I just can't swing anything when he's around.  He's one of my best friends, we're alike on so many levels...he just happens to one-up me on nearly every attractive quality I've got.


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Re: Close friend gets all the girls [Re: Anonymous #1] * 2
    #18901377 - 09/28/13 02:41 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

If you THINKETH,then you ARE the inferior product. Women have a sixth sense and will be so turned off by this negative vibe youre putting out there,keep it up bro and youll be in the psych ward in no time...You need to own who you are and work daily on things that need improvement. Find your purpose in life and quit letting others define who you are and the actions you take. Time to start being a leader...


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Re: Close friend gets all the girls [Re: dutchfunkle]
    #18901387 - 09/28/13 02:49 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

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dutchfunkle said:
Time to start being a leader...



Not everyone is a leader. In fact, the vast majority of people aren't and they will never be, regardless of how they try. But I do agree that confidence does help.

OP: not all girls will favor your roommate over you. It seems to me you're only focusing on the ones that flirt with him and chat him up (and vice versa). But that leaves out the hordes of other girls who aren't attracted to him. Some of them could be into you. Take some initiative.

And you're not the inferior product, that's nonsense. If that was the way the world works, then there would be only one legitimate couple: the Best Man and the Best Woman.

I think dutchfunkle and I would agree that confidence is your main issue. How does this perspective work for you: the fact that your roommate could get lots of women, doesn't mean that you could do too. Plenty of fish!


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Re: Close friend gets all the girls [Re: koraks]
    #18901434 - 09/28/13 03:33 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

next time you go out try to be a good wing man. forget about yourself and support your friend. help him get more girls, help them like him more than they already do.


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Re: Close friend gets all the girls [Re: Anonymous #2]
    #18901967 - 09/28/13 08:55 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

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next time you go out try to be a good wing man. forget about yourself and support your friend. help him get more girls, help them like him more than they already do.



Uhh what? His friend doesn't actually do anything with the girls because he's in a monogomous relationship. He should be a wingman for the OP


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Re: Close friend gets all the girls [Re: Sheekle]
    #18901972 - 09/28/13 08:56 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

Cynicism, Sheekle. Practice it a bit more.


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Re: Close friend gets all the girls [Re: Sheekle] * 1
    #18902077 - 09/28/13 09:31 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

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Anonymous said:
next time you go out try to be a good wing man. forget about yourself and support your friend. help him get more girls, help them like him more than they already do.



Uhh what? His friend doesn't actually do anything with the girls because he's in a monogomous relationship. He should be a wingman for the OP



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Re: Close friend gets all the girls [Re: The Doobie Dude]
    #18902103 - 09/28/13 09:41 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

Hey man if the girls come to him, it's nobody's fault. That lies within the construct of attraction. If you and him are close, why not disclose some info and ask him to help you out as a wingman? He can help you by asking leading questions toward you and comment on positive attributes? And you can help him back, since you also perceive yourself as attractive.

Hot girls date cold(ugly:lol:) guys. Clearly, the look within can shine throughout.


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Re: Close friend gets all the girls [Re: TwinEclipse]
    #18902437 - 09/28/13 11:29 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

Charisma is a bitch! Some people just have more of it  :shrug:

Also internet dating.


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Re: Close friend gets all the girls [Re: Anonymous #1] * 1
    #18902489 - 09/28/13 11:46 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

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The real problem is I'm not clearly far less attractive than him - any girl that thinks she has a shot with me probably also has a shot with a guy like him - so there's not a set of girls who would've wanted to get with me who don't also want to get with him. 



that's really not how it works man. there are a lot of factors that go into who we (as people) are attracted to, and personality is one of the major ones.

hypothetically if i were out and there were two attractive guys i wouldn't brush you off because your friend is more attractive- that doesn't even make sense. everyone is attracted to different things physically. even if i found your friend more physically attractive but your personality was more in line with what i look for, i would be more interested in you.


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Re: Close friend gets all the girls [Re: claraclairvoyant]
    #18903139 - 09/28/13 02:59 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

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Anonymous said:
The real problem is I'm not clearly far less attractive than him - any girl that thinks she has a shot with me probably also has a shot with a guy like him - so there's not a set of girls who would've wanted to get with me who don't also want to get with him. 



that's really not how it works man. there are a lot of factors that go into who we (as people) are attracted to, and personality is one of the major ones.

hypothetically if i were out and there were two attractive guys i wouldn't brush you off because your friend is more attractive- that doesn't even make sense. everyone is attracted to different things physically. even if i found your friend more physically attractive but your personality was more in line with what i look for, i would be more interested in you.



Exactly.  For me, for physical attraction, there's a certain line, and once someone is above that line (the "dickable" line :lol:), then the judgement is entirely on other factors such as personality and intelligence.


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Re: Close friend gets all the girls [Re: pwnasaurus]
    #18903161 - 09/28/13 03:06 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

I know plenty of clearly not the best looking guys who still score hot chicks based on how they are.


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Re: Close friend gets all the girls [Re: dirty] * 2
    #18906800 - 09/29/13 11:52 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

I think OP is looking at this all wrong, and its causing him to miss out on a perfect opportunity.  Instead of thinking, "Oh, these girls came over here to talk to him, not me..." look at it as "My friend just did the hardest part for me.  Now I've got these girls over here to start talking to and a conversation already happening."


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Re: Close friend gets all the girls [Re: Shpongle1]
    #18908748 - 09/29/13 08:12 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

If he steps on a pussy land mine your bound to get hit with some shrapnel. hahaha :lol:

but foreal I got a friend that is like this accept I wouldn't say he out does me every time.. He just can't not try to fuck every girl he meets. It's pretty insane. he has little to no standards..

He basically makes a move on every girl he can. That is how he works. and almost 95% of the time the girl reciprocates b.c they don't know what else to do hahahahah

myself I need a girl to be laid back and sexy.


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Re: Close friend gets all the girls [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #18909073 - 09/29/13 09:20 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

crappy attitude dude:thumbdown: you need to drink from the skull's of your enemies, slap some bitche's around and damand the pussy:thumbup: just kiding :lmafo: but Just talk to your friend If he is a true friend then he will help you :shrug:


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Re: Close friend gets all the girls [Re: kinkaku]
    #18929324 - 10/04/13 01:54 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

i just want to apologize on behalf of guys like me. i really don't mean to make every girl i come into contact with lust for me. i'm just being myself. it actually can get bothersome at times cuz i have to kindly turn girls down, and i really don't like to hurt peoples' feelings. sorry ta evey guy out there. please know i try very hard to be humble about it and not let it go to my head.


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