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Anonymous #1
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Heartbroken and pissed off 1
#18925710 - 10/03/13 12:44 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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I dated this amazing girl for 7 years. She was just fucking stellar. Everything about her seemed perfect to me. I fell madly in love with her. I couldnt see a life without her. I was exploding with happiness and love when I was with her.
Then 2 years ago she started flirting with another guy online. She hid it behind my back for months untill I finally found out. When I had finally noticed what was going on, I realized how bad it was. She was sending nude videos and pictures to him. I was heartbroken. We broke up and went our seperate ways for a few weeks. She hopped on her first chance to go fuck him. She fucked him and his best friend in one night.
A few months later we worked things out. We had been together for so long we were both so in love. She brokedown and apologized for everything. She swore she made a mistake. She swore I was her soulmate and she would/could never hurt me again. I foolishly took her back.
6 months ago she left for school. We live 6 hours apart. Long distance was killing our relationship so we mutually split. We said we would remain single, both wanting to be together. Talk of being together forever was in the air.
Then she started talking to him again. She started fucking him again. Again, she kept this hidden behind my back for months.
I just found out.
We had the biggest fight of our lives. I told her I was so hurt and offended, I couldnt be in her life if she had to have him in hers. We had 7 years of history. I loved this girl with all my being. And she chose him over me.
Were arent talking anymore. The last conversation we had was the most painfull ever. She deleted me from her life. Ill never see her again.
I will never forgive this whore. She broke my heart and through me to the garbage. I hope she rots in hell.
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Anonymous #2
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Re: Heartbroken and pissed off [Re: Anonymous #1] 3
#18925764 - 10/03/13 12:58 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Sounds about right . . .
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Anonymous #3
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Ouch. Bitches, man... bitches.
Don't go strangling any hookers over it or anything, I know you gave her a large portion of your life but shes just a girl, in time you will no longer think about her because some other girl will be on your nuts and your mind.
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Anonymous #4
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Lesson learned?
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Anonymous #5
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Here's my advice: find the guy on a random Tuesday night and beat the absolute fuck out of him. You're already never going to talk to the whore again, and you should definitely keep that mindset. You'll feel better about yourself when you put a couple of his teeth in your pocket.
Revenge is a visceral need that must be satisfied, lest the strong lose focus. - Damon Pope
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Anonymous #4
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I would advise against violence.
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Anonymous #1
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So the guy is a fucking black belt or some shit. Legit he trains in MMA and brazilian kickboxing. He could kick my ass without thinking about it.
But god dam it all to hell would I fucking love to beat this fucker into the ground! He has aspergers syndrome, and has no remorse or regret for the way he hurt me.
Some people are poison.
I am so fucking angry!
Thanks for all the vibes guys, I want revenge, nay I fucking deserve revenge! The shitty thing is I know if she broke up with him tomorrow and called me, Id take her back.
I need the fuck out of that mentallity. I know I dont want the slut back. Everything you guys can say to reinforce the fact that shes not worth a second thought, not worth shit at all. Helps A LOT!
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Anonymous #4
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Anonymous #1 said:
The shitty thing is I know if she broke up with him tomorrow and called me, Id take her back.
That's called an addictive relationship. You'll respect yourself a lot more if you can muster the strength not to go back into the unhealthy situation.
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Anonymous #6
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I'm sorry OP.
Ive been with my guy almost 9 years and if the tables were turned and he did something like that, id be devastated and extremely pissed so I can only imagine how you feel.
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Anonymous #1
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I know its unhealthy. She held me back mentally and emotionally for a long time. She stabbed me in the back intentionally more than once. She lied and lied over and over.
Its just that I spent 7 years with her, I fell head over heals in love with her. Im not exactly eager to let that go.
Although I am very sure I dont want her back, emotionally it would be easier to take her back and not think about it than to deal with it, like I know I have to.
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Anonymous #6
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Go have sex with someone else?
Would that make you feel any better?
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Anonymous #7
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Dont get back with her scrub. Quit being a punk ass. I mean that with the utmost respect and love. dont be a tool
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Anonymous #5
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Dude...seriously...you need to value yourself more. You only get one shot at life, afaik, so it seems counterintuitive to spend any additional portions of that life concerning yourself with her.
Don't you think your (relatively) few years of consciousness should be spent with people who will expand and challenge your mind? Who will love you and nurture your emotions? Those who will continually earn and deserve your trust? I'm telling you dude, that's a whole lot to give up.
You need to realize that, while you think it'd be easier to just get back together and sweep all of that shit under the carpet, it really won't be. You'll start resenting (and eventually hating) her, if you already don't. You'll start resenting (and eventually hating) yourself, if you already don't. She'll keep fucking other people, fucking w/your head, fucking your life.
Set your mind, look down and see if you still have a pair, and forget that she exists. Cut her out of your life entirely. Do not IM/e-mail/text/talk. AT ALL. When she leaves you a voicemail of her crying and saying she misses you and all that, just erase it. If she shows up at your home, don't answer the door.
100% for reals: find someone to fuck, and fuck her good. Then find another one, and do the same. Rinse, repeat. It's good for your self esteem, it's good for your mental health, it will restore your confidence, and goddamn is it fun. Giddyup. 
Take back control of your life and your heart, will your way through the process. She has moved on. Please do the same.
I say all of this out of love, because I've walked a lot of miles in those shoes. I'm really sorry, man.
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Anonymous #8
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At least you dont have poison ivy on the side of your shaft. I have that right now. shit is mind blowing.
that said, how old were you two?
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Anonymous #9
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Quote:
Anonymous #1 said: I know its unhealthy. She held me back mentally and emotionally for a long time. She stabbed me in the back intentionally more than once. She lied and lied over and over.
Its just that I spent 7 years with her, I fell head over heals in love with her. Im not exactly eager to let that go.
Although I am very sure I dont want her back, emotionally it would be easier to take her back and not think about it than to deal with it, like I know I have to.
DONT even think about taking her back I have a friend who was in the same exact situation situation, only she as fucking other guys whiling dating him and he kept taking her back, it drove him into suicide but luckily he failed.. and now several months later after she fucked more then half of the school his thinking of taking her back
do yourself a favor by learning from your mistakes and his and just moving on
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Anonymous #9
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and sure it might hurt now but give it time, your heart will heal eventually then I'm sure youll meet someone who respects you and dosnt hurt you
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Anonymous #10
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Re: Heartbroken and pissed off [Re: Anonymous #1] 1
#18927122 - 10/03/13 06:23 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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fuck that stupid bitch. best thing to do is live a good life and be happy. That pisses off the assholes in your life more than anything. To know that you are happy.
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Anonymous #1
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Quote:
Anonymous #6 said: Go have sex with someone else?
Would that make you feel any better?
Yes sir, I do think so  Considering I was faithful for the whole time, I think this is deffinatly called for.Quote:
Anonymous #5 said: Dude...seriously...you need to value yourself more. You only get one shot at life, afaik, so it seems counterintuitive to spend any additional portions of that life concerning yourself with her.
Don't you think your (relatively) few years of consciousness should be spent with people who will expand and challenge your mind? Who will love you and nurture your emotions? Those who will continually earn and deserve your trust? I'm telling you dude, that's a whole lot to give up.
You need to realize that, while you think it'd be easier to just get back together and sweep all of that shit under the carpet, it really won't be. You'll start resenting (and eventually hating) her, if you already don't. You'll start resenting (and eventually hating) yourself, if you already don't. She'll keep fucking other people, fucking w/your head, fucking your life.
Set your mind, look down and see if you still have a pair, and forget that she exists. Cut her out of your life entirely. Do not IM/e-mail/text/talk. AT ALL. When she leaves you a voicemail of her crying and saying she misses you and all that, just erase it. If she shows up at your home, don't answer the door.
100% for reals: find someone to fuck, and fuck her good. Then find another one, and do the same. Rinse, repeat. It's good for your self esteem, it's good for your mental health, it will restore your confidence, and goddamn is it fun. Giddyup. 
Take back control of your life and your heart, will your way through the process. She has moved on. Please do the same.
I say all of this out of love, because I've walked a lot of miles in those shoes. I'm really sorry, man. 
Your entirely right. I do pretty much hate her. I dont hate myself I regret the now seemingly epic waste of time I should have noticed.
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Anonymous #10 said: fuck that stupid bitch. best thing to do is live a good life and be happy. That pisses off the assholes in your life more than anything. To know that you are happy.
I am going to be happy! I actually have a lot going for me, I am about to graduate college and have an amazing job set up. I know it will piss him off to see me happy because he actively tore down my self esteem and through the situation in front of my eyes while he was getting with her to fuck with me.
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Anonymous #11
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Quote:
Anonymous #1 said: So the guy is a fucking black belt or some shit. Legit he trains in MMA and brazilian kickboxing. He could kick my ass without thinking about it.
But god dam it all to hell would I fucking love to beat this fucker into the ground! He has aspergers syndrome, and has no remorse or regret for the way he hurt me.
Some people are poison.
I am so fucking angry!
Thanks for all the vibes guys, I want revenge, nay I fucking deserve revenge! The shitty thing is I know if she broke up with him tomorrow and called me, Id take her back.
I need the fuck out of that mentallity. I know I dont want the slut back. Everything you guys can say to reinforce the fact that shes not worth a second thought, not worth shit at all. Helps A LOT!
Your GF fucks another guy, and you want to beat his ass? She's the slut, it's her fault.
Time to grow up dude, you were involved with a nasty slut, stop blaming other guys, wake up already.
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Anonymous #12
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YOU CAN T TURN A HO INTO A HOUSE WIFE.your GF is A fucking whore bag
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