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#18925710 - 10/03/13 12:44 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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I dated this amazing girl for 7 years. She was just fucking stellar. Everything about her seemed perfect to me. I fell madly in love with her. I couldnt see a life without her. I was exploding with happiness and love when I was with her.
Then 2 years ago she started flirting with another guy online. She hid it behind my back for months untill I finally found out. When I had finally noticed what was going on, I realized how bad it was. She was sending nude videos and pictures to him. I was heartbroken. We broke up and went our seperate ways for a few weeks. She hopped on her first chance to go fuck him. She fucked him and his best friend in one night.
A few months later we worked things out. We had been together for so long we were both so in love. She brokedown and apologized for everything. She swore she made a mistake. She swore I was her soulmate and she would/could never hurt me again. I foolishly took her back.
6 months ago she left for school. We live 6 hours apart. Long distance was killing our relationship so we mutually split. We said we would remain single, both wanting to be together. Talk of being together forever was in the air.
Then she started talking to him again. She started fucking him again. Again, she kept this hidden behind my back for months.
I just found out.
We had the biggest fight of our lives. I told her I was so hurt and offended, I couldnt be in her life if she had to have him in hers. We had 7 years of history. I loved this girl with all my being. And she chose him over me.
Were arent talking anymore. The last conversation we had was the most painfull ever. She deleted me from her life. Ill never see her again.
I will never forgive this whore. She broke my heart and through me to the garbage. I hope she rots in hell.
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Re: Heartbroken and pissed off [Re: Anonymous #1] 3
#18925764 - 10/03/13 12:58 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Sounds about right . . .
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Anonymous #3
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Ouch. Bitches, man... bitches.
Don't go strangling any hookers over it or anything, I know you gave her a large portion of your life but shes just a girl, in time you will no longer think about her because some other girl will be on your nuts and your mind.
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Anonymous #4
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Lesson learned?
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Anonymous #5
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Here's my advice: find the guy on a random Tuesday night and beat the absolute fuck out of him. You're already never going to talk to the whore again, and you should definitely keep that mindset. You'll feel better about yourself when you put a couple of his teeth in your pocket.
Revenge is a visceral need that must be satisfied, lest the strong lose focus. - Damon Pope
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Anonymous #4
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I would advise against violence.
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Anonymous #1
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So the guy is a fucking black belt or some shit. Legit he trains in MMA and brazilian kickboxing. He could kick my ass without thinking about it.
But god dam it all to hell would I fucking love to beat this fucker into the ground! He has aspergers syndrome, and has no remorse or regret for the way he hurt me.
Some people are poison.
I am so fucking angry!
Thanks for all the vibes guys, I want revenge, nay I fucking deserve revenge! The shitty thing is I know if she broke up with him tomorrow and called me, Id take her back.
I need the fuck out of that mentallity. I know I dont want the slut back. Everything you guys can say to reinforce the fact that shes not worth a second thought, not worth shit at all. Helps A LOT!
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The shitty thing is I know if she broke up with him tomorrow and called me, Id take her back.
That's called an addictive relationship. You'll respect yourself a lot more if you can muster the strength not to go back into the unhealthy situation.
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Anonymous #6
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I'm sorry OP.
Ive been with my guy almost 9 years and if the tables were turned and he did something like that, id be devastated and extremely pissed so I can only imagine how you feel.
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Anonymous #1
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I know its unhealthy. She held me back mentally and emotionally for a long time. She stabbed me in the back intentionally more than once. She lied and lied over and over.
Its just that I spent 7 years with her, I fell head over heals in love with her. Im not exactly eager to let that go.
Although I am very sure I dont want her back, emotionally it would be easier to take her back and not think about it than to deal with it, like I know I have to.
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Anonymous #6
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Go have sex with someone else?
Would that make you feel any better?
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Anonymous #7
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Dont get back with her scrub. Quit being a punk ass. I mean that with the utmost respect and love. dont be a tool
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Anonymous #5
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Dude...seriously...you need to value yourself more. You only get one shot at life, afaik, so it seems counterintuitive to spend any additional portions of that life concerning yourself with her.
Don't you think your (relatively) few years of consciousness should be spent with people who will expand and challenge your mind? Who will love you and nurture your emotions? Those who will continually earn and deserve your trust? I'm telling you dude, that's a whole lot to give up.
You need to realize that, while you think it'd be easier to just get back together and sweep all of that shit under the carpet, it really won't be. You'll start resenting (and eventually hating) her, if you already don't. You'll start resenting (and eventually hating) yourself, if you already don't. She'll keep fucking other people, fucking w/your head, fucking your life.
Set your mind, look down and see if you still have a pair, and forget that she exists. Cut her out of your life entirely. Do not IM/e-mail/text/talk. AT ALL. When she leaves you a voicemail of her crying and saying she misses you and all that, just erase it. If she shows up at your home, don't answer the door.
100% for reals: find someone to fuck, and fuck her good. Then find another one, and do the same. Rinse, repeat. It's good for your self esteem, it's good for your mental health, it will restore your confidence, and goddamn is it fun. Giddyup. 
Take back control of your life and your heart, will your way through the process. She has moved on. Please do the same.
I say all of this out of love, because I've walked a lot of miles in those shoes. I'm really sorry, man.
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Anonymous #8
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At least you dont have poison ivy on the side of your shaft. I have that right now. shit is mind blowing.
that said, how old were you two?
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Anonymous #9
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Anonymous #1 said: I know its unhealthy. She held me back mentally and emotionally for a long time. She stabbed me in the back intentionally more than once. She lied and lied over and over.
Its just that I spent 7 years with her, I fell head over heals in love with her. Im not exactly eager to let that go.
Although I am very sure I dont want her back, emotionally it would be easier to take her back and not think about it than to deal with it, like I know I have to.
DONT even think about taking her back I have a friend who was in the same exact situation situation, only she as fucking other guys whiling dating him and he kept taking her back, it drove him into suicide but luckily he failed.. and now several months later after she fucked more then half of the school his thinking of taking her back
do yourself a favor by learning from your mistakes and his and just moving on
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Anonymous #9
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and sure it might hurt now but give it time, your heart will heal eventually then I'm sure youll meet someone who respects you and dosnt hurt you
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Anonymous #10
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Re: Heartbroken and pissed off [Re: Anonymous #1] 1
#18927122 - 10/03/13 06:23 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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fuck that stupid bitch. best thing to do is live a good life and be happy. That pisses off the assholes in your life more than anything. To know that you are happy.
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Anonymous #1
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Would that make you feel any better?
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Anonymous #5 said: Dude...seriously...you need to value yourself more. You only get one shot at life, afaik, so it seems counterintuitive to spend any additional portions of that life concerning yourself with her.
Don't you think your (relatively) few years of consciousness should be spent with people who will expand and challenge your mind? Who will love you and nurture your emotions? Those who will continually earn and deserve your trust? I'm telling you dude, that's a whole lot to give up.
You need to realize that, while you think it'd be easier to just get back together and sweep all of that shit under the carpet, it really won't be. You'll start resenting (and eventually hating) her, if you already don't. You'll start resenting (and eventually hating) yourself, if you already don't. She'll keep fucking other people, fucking w/your head, fucking your life.
Set your mind, look down and see if you still have a pair, and forget that she exists. Cut her out of your life entirely. Do not IM/e-mail/text/talk. AT ALL. When she leaves you a voicemail of her crying and saying she misses you and all that, just erase it. If she shows up at your home, don't answer the door.
100% for reals: find someone to fuck, and fuck her good. Then find another one, and do the same. Rinse, repeat. It's good for your self esteem, it's good for your mental health, it will restore your confidence, and goddamn is it fun. Giddyup. 
Take back control of your life and your heart, will your way through the process. She has moved on. Please do the same.
I say all of this out of love, because I've walked a lot of miles in those shoes. I'm really sorry, man. 
Your entirely right. I do pretty much hate her. I dont hate myself I regret the now seemingly epic waste of time I should have noticed.
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Anonymous #10 said: fuck that stupid bitch. best thing to do is live a good life and be happy. That pisses off the assholes in your life more than anything. To know that you are happy.
I am going to be happy! I actually have a lot going for me, I am about to graduate college and have an amazing job set up. I know it will piss him off to see me happy because he actively tore down my self esteem and through the situation in front of my eyes while he was getting with her to fuck with me.
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Anonymous #1 said: So the guy is a fucking black belt or some shit. Legit he trains in MMA and brazilian kickboxing. He could kick my ass without thinking about it.
But god dam it all to hell would I fucking love to beat this fucker into the ground! He has aspergers syndrome, and has no remorse or regret for the way he hurt me.
Some people are poison.
I am so fucking angry!
Thanks for all the vibes guys, I want revenge, nay I fucking deserve revenge! The shitty thing is I know if she broke up with him tomorrow and called me, Id take her back.
I need the fuck out of that mentallity. I know I dont want the slut back. Everything you guys can say to reinforce the fact that shes not worth a second thought, not worth shit at all. Helps A LOT!
Your GF fucks another guy, and you want to beat his ass? She's the slut, it's her fault.
Time to grow up dude, you were involved with a nasty slut, stop blaming other guys, wake up already.
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Anonymous #12
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YOU CAN T TURN A HO INTO A HOUSE WIFE.your GF is A fucking whore bag
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Anonymous #1
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Anonymous #1 said: So the guy is a fucking black belt or some shit. Legit he trains in MMA and brazilian kickboxing. He could kick my ass without thinking about it.
But god dam it all to hell would I fucking love to beat this fucker into the ground! He has aspergers syndrome, and has no remorse or regret for the way he hurt me.
Some people are poison.
I am so fucking angry!
Thanks for all the vibes guys, I want revenge, nay I fucking deserve revenge! The shitty thing is I know if she broke up with him tomorrow and called me, Id take her back.
I need the fuck out of that mentallity. I know I dont want the slut back. Everything you guys can say to reinforce the fact that shes not worth a second thought, not worth shit at all. Helps A LOT!
Your GF fucks another guy, and you want to beat his ass? She's the slut, it's her fault.
Time to grow up dude, you were involved with a nasty slut, stop blaming other guys, wake up already.
I want to kick his ass for the way he maliciously and intentionally put stress on our relationship. If it was as simple as shes a slut who fucked him Id hear what your saying. The fact is he was a dick, he tore me apart just to see me in pain. I want to kick his fucking ass for that.
Fuck her. 90% of my anger is over her for being the slut who I couldnt trust. 10% is over him.
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Anonymous #6
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How do you know this dude was doing all this to intentionally hurt you?
I say beat her ass, not his.
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Anonymous #11
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Anonymous #1 said: So the guy is a fucking black belt or some shit. Legit he trains in MMA and brazilian kickboxing. He could kick my ass without thinking about it.
But god dam it all to hell would I fucking love to beat this fucker into the ground! He has aspergers syndrome, and has no remorse or regret for the way he hurt me.
Some people are poison.
I am so fucking angry!
Thanks for all the vibes guys, I want revenge, nay I fucking deserve revenge! The shitty thing is I know if she broke up with him tomorrow and called me, Id take her back.
I need the fuck out of that mentallity. I know I dont want the slut back. Everything you guys can say to reinforce the fact that shes not worth a second thought, not worth shit at all. Helps A LOT!
Your GF fucks another guy, and you want to beat his ass? She's the slut, it's her fault.
Time to grow up dude, you were involved with a nasty slut, stop blaming other guys, wake up already.
I want to kick his ass for the way he maliciously and intentionally put stress on our relationship. If it was as simple as shes a slut who fucked him Id hear what your saying. The fact is he was a dick, he tore me apart just to see me in pain. I want to kick his fucking ass for that.
Fuck her. 90% of my anger is over her for being the slut who I couldnt trust. 10% is over him.
If it wasn't this guy that fucked her, it could have been me that fucked her, what does it matter?
If sluts want to give me the pussy, I take it, that's the bottom line. Loyal girls don't pull that BS, learn the difference.
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Anonymous #1 said: So the guy is a fucking black belt or some shit. Legit he trains in MMA and brazilian kickboxing. He could kick my ass without thinking about it.
But god dam it all to hell would I fucking love to beat this fucker into the ground! He has aspergers syndrome, and has no remorse or regret for the way he hurt me.
Some people are poison.
I am so fucking angry!
Thanks for all the vibes guys, I want revenge, nay I fucking deserve revenge! The shitty thing is I know if she broke up with him tomorrow and called me, Id take her back.
I need the fuck out of that mentallity. I know I dont want the slut back. Everything you guys can say to reinforce the fact that shes not worth a second thought, not worth shit at all. Helps A LOT!
Your GF fucks another guy, and you want to beat his ass? She's the slut, it's her fault.
Time to grow up dude, you were involved with a nasty slut, stop blaming other guys, wake up already.
I want to kick his ass for the way he maliciously and intentionally put stress on our relationship. If it was as simple as shes a slut who fucked him Id hear what your saying. The fact is he was a dick, he tore me apart just to see me in pain. I want to kick his fucking ass for that.
Fuck her. 90% of my anger is over her for being the slut who I couldnt trust. 10% is over him.
If it wasn't this guy that fucked her, it could have been me that fucked her, what does it matter?
If sluts want to give me the pussy, I take it, that's the bottom line. Loyal girls don't pull that BS, learn the difference.
QFT
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Anonymous #1
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Anonymous #6 said: How do you know this dude was doing all this to intentionally hurt you?
I say beat her ass, not his.
Because when I found out what they were doing behind my back he started texting and emailing me saying stuff like hes better than me, hes going to beat me, hes going to 'win', im not good enough, hed say im not as good looking, or shell leave me cuz im not as ripped as him, hed tell me im a bad person for her and I ruined her life, he made fun of me for being in love at all because he only believes in polygamy and said Im stupid for believing monogamy can ever work, he actively supported and encouraged her to sleep with other people and told her to tell me that we should have a polygamous relationship, he told lies about me to a mutual group of friends, he told me that the same mutaul group of friends thought I was a piece of shit and they all thought she was better off with him not me.
He also broke up a really good friends relationship because he actually has admitted that he likes going for girls who are taken and destroying couples doesnt bother him because monogamy makes him sick. He basically thinks hes doing girls a favour by getting them out of monogamous relationships.
And I cant hit a girl, thats just not who i am. I could emotionally hurt her. But Ive already completly cut her out of my life so I dont want to even talk to her to tear her apart. It would be nice to flip out and make her feel like garbage but in the end I just dont even want to talk to her.
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Anonymous #11
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Move on with your life, and seek higher quality people in the future, they both sounds like scum bags.
My advice, stay out of serious relationships at such a young age, focus on yourself.
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Anonymous #13
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OP,
I was in the same boat it's amazing you can be the best possible partner and still be fucked over by some women.
But I also had ideas of violence I pulled up at her house one night and saw his car parked out front. Worse she still denied anything was going on. I said you expect me to believe you guys were in there playing video games. But on the real I seriously thought about waiting outside till he came out and beating the living shit out of him. Her and I were done I caught her ass red-handed so I thought what did it matter if I exacted some revenge. But I decided against it there would have been too many witnesses and I definitely would have gone to jail and ruined my life over this pos and bitch who probably would of laughed her ass off as I was being led away in cuffs.
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Anonymous #1
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So what should I do if she calls? I deleted her number, email, through out all the shit I had of hers, including gifts from her. Mailed her back the picture of us from our 5 year anniversary. That will be a huge middle finger to her, long story short theres a huge history behind that picture of us. I honestly plan on never talking to her again, theres nothing left to say and I believe that, so if she tries to contact me in any way I shouldnt anwer right? I dont owe her sweet fuck all, so ignore her I will.
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Anonymous #3
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If she calls you should ignore it, and then asap text her a pic of some other chick sucking your cock. Then ignore her calls and all the texts that follow. Repeat until you find a good lil' cock sucker and then ignore the ex forever.
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Anonymous #14
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romance is overrated ...
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Anonymous #15
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Anonymous #1 said: He has aspergers syndrome, and has no remorse or regret for the way he hurt me.
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Now I'm confused. Also why is she a slut? just cause she dumped you?
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Anonymous #15
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Anonymous #1 said: He has aspergers syndrome, and has no remorse or regret for the way he hurt me.

Now I'm confused. Also why is she a slut? just cause she dumped you?
If you read the op she sent him pics and vids while they were still dating...
How bad is the Aspergers?
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Anonymous #2
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How bad is the Aspergers?

It's pretty bad i'm afraid . .
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Anonymous #16
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Anonymous #12 said: YOU CAN T TURN A HO INTO A HOUSE WIFE.your GF is A fucking whore bag
yeah, you're fucking dumb.
you've never done anything that woud hurt your S/O's feelings right?
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Anonymous #1
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I dont know how severe the aspergers is. He tries to hide the fact that he has it. I know he has it because he told my ex multiple times and asked her not to tell anyone but over the past few years between the first time she was talking to him and this time she told me about him having it. Another friend who used to hang out with him but doesnt anymore also told me he has it.
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Anonymous #8
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the fuck is aspergers? Sounds made up 21st century bs
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Anonymous #2
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Anonymous #8 said: the fuck is aspergers? Sounds made up 21st century bs
:assburgers:
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Anonymous #15
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Anonymous #8 said: the fuck is aspergers? Sounds made up 21st century bs
A form of Autism, usually serious social awkardness
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Anonymous #17
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you fucking ass clowns--but it is funny--lol---but hey #1 at least you aint got kids by the whore right??--fuck that bitch man--forget about her--don't give her another second of your life by even thinking about her---there are better out there anyway--go looking---happy huntin' man
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Anonymous #8
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A form of Autism, usually serious social awkardness
so yea, made up bs
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Anonymous #1
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So I just got a package in the mail from her. Had a notebook we used to write to eachother in, a picture of me I gave her, and a small letter from her explaining how regretfull and sad she is. She said how she knows its all her fault and she lost a good thing. Says shes sorry for what she did to me.
She didnt ask for me to be part of her life again. She just expressed guilt and regret. How should I read into this? Burn everything and continue not talking to her right?
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Anonymous #15
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Burn it all
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Anonymous #1
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I thought that would be the most appropriate move. I can never forgive her so I dont see the point in reading these letters drudging up old fights or even old good memories, either way, I dont see the point.
Burning it all is the plan then. I just thought I was kinda done with it already, I should have expected some sort of attempt at contact but I dont know, I didnt really even want to think about her anymore. didnt need this box of shit.
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Anonymous #18
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How old are you? You sound really young.
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Anonymous #15
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Just move on...you dont need to burn shit to move on. There are many more fish in the sea
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Anonymous #1
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24. Relatively young. And I like burning stuff. It cant make it worse to burn stuff.
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burn it, thought you were younger tho! cheers!
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Anonymous #18
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Plenty young to forget this whore exists and move on with your life. Onto the next bitch.
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Anonymous #1
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I agree I should move on and forget her. I dont want anything at all to do with her anymore. Is it worth keeping anythng to remember her by? Ive burnt or somehow destroyed mostly everything. This package would be all I have left to remid me of the time we spent together. As much as I hope the slut gets a taste of her own shit, I did love her and I ponder whether a keepsake is worth it or not. Thinking for mental health/sanity...
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Anonymous #8
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if you want something to remind you of a whore its better to have nudity pics rather than a notebook full of memories.
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Anonymous #2
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So is that her way of admitting she was banging the gay dude?
Or is she still claiming just friends?
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Anonymous #1
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No shes open now about banging him. I think its her way of having the last word. So its ME who throws away our past and not HER. She "tried" to "appologize" and if I dont respond (which IS the plan) then to her it looks like I dont care and am throwing away our history. I could try and get the last word but that would be useless, painfull, and childish.
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Anonymous #2
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Fuckin' whores man . . .
Yeah how could she pull that shit and then expect it to all be ok because she said sorry . . .
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Anonymous #19
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No harm in a keepsake as long as you DON'T LOOK AT IT. I mean for years. But it might be cool to have something to look back on when you're a bit older, who knows?
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Anonymous #20
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Hmmm. OP, I can sympathise with you, in a strange way...
My GF broke up with her fiancee to be with me, many years ago. But unlike the asshole in your situation I wasn't pursuing her (we worked together, maybe a little flirting but no more than I flirted with other girls in the office) and hadn't even kissed her, and we'd never talked about being together. When she told me she'd ended it with her fiancee to be with me, I was pretty shocked, and to this day (14 years later) I still feel bad for her ex, whom she's never spoken to since.
If you love someone, the greatest thing you can do is set them free. In your situation that means letting go of her, but more importantly if you love yourself you need to also allow yourself to be free. Easier to say than do, but if you believe this you're half-way there already.
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Anonymous #1
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She texted me yesterday to say she hopes "the universe" brings us back together one day and that her life is painted with memories of me...
I didnt respond. Instead I deleted the text and went out with this girl Im trying to bang, good decision I thought.
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Anonymous #1
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Hey guys, I have a date tonight with a super cute girl, I havent talked to my ex since the day of the OP and I can confidently say Im done with her.
However I have not been on a date, or been part of the dating scene for soooo long on account of remaining faithful with my ex for 7 fucking years. Needless to say Im not on my 'A' game anymore cuz Ive been on the bench for so bloody long.
Im anxious because this girl seems awesome, we have so many things in common, and shes HOT. I really hope I dont screw up. Im not going to ask for advice but everyone wish me luck!
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Anonymous #4
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Goodluck man hope it goes well.
I would let this thread drop so you don't even have to see it, if it were me at least
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Anonymous #21
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OP, throughout this thread it seems really weird that you're mad and blaming and hating on everybody except yourself. The girl is a slut, the guy is an asshole, all the while forgetting that happy satisfied girls don't go out shopping for new men. If she would have been a cheap slut no way she would have spent 7 years in a relationship.
Could it be that you were at least a bit pussy whipped? Not much, just a bit is usually enough to get things started.
Could it be that your girl would have liked some kinky sex, maybe some bondage, maybe another girl to play with, but you never noticed nor proposed anything interesting, due to "being in love" as you put it?
If you're mad 90% at her and 10% at the guy, am I to understand you believe yourself to be absolutely fucking perfect? First thing I do if I mess up some girl interaction is look at where I fucked up. Usually there are shitty moments where I fucked up, where I was at least somewhat of a wuss, insecure or whatever. Apparently you have none of that eh? It's all the girl's fault. 
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he made fun of me for being in love at all because he only believes in polygamy and said Im stupid for believing monogamy can ever work, he actively supported and encouraged her to sleep with other people and told her to tell me that we should have a polygamous relationship, he told lies about me to a mutual group of friends, he told me that the same mutaul group of friends thought I was a piece of shit and they all thought she was better off with him not me.
He also broke up a really good friends relationship because he actually has admitted that he likes going for girls who are taken and destroying couples doesnt bother him because monogamy makes him sick. He basically thinks hes doing girls a favour by getting them out of monogamous relationships.
Sounds like a nice guy, definitely alpha, and just for the record, I also deeply believe in "testing" people's relationships. If they hold, the girl will actually be happier, knowing she has a good man. If they break, the girls needs to get out of it anyway, she has a lame relationship and could do better. I consider it my job to test these things when I'm single, and I think it's justified. If you have a good girl at home it's on you to fucking keep her satisfied or she'll end up with someone who can. Even playing field.
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Anonymous #1 said: Hey guys, I have a date tonight with a super cute girl, I havent talked to my ex since the day of the OP and I can confidently say Im done with her.
However I have not been on a date, or been part of the dating scene for soooo long on account of remaining faithful with my ex for 7 fucking years. Needless to say Im not on my 'A' game anymore cuz Ive been on the bench for so bloody long.
Im anxious because this girl seems awesome, we have so many things in common, and shes HOT. I really hope I dont screw up. Im not going to ask for advice but everyone wish me luck!
PUA material. It's the only way.
Be yourself and all that, individuality is important. That being said we go to school to learn maths, driving skills, all kinds of shit. Makes you more qualified on that topic. Same with girls, there's stuff to be learned.
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