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Another Ex thread
#18923425 - 10/02/13 09:12 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Feel like I been seeing a lot of these lately.
Let's see, I've known this girl for 3, going on 4 years or so. We dated for one of those years. CRAZY shit man, from the jump it was a crazy and roller coaster of a relationship. But we still had a lot of good times, I think.
Anyway, I have a class with her this semester and we're doing a project together. A documentary type-deal and it's gonna take all semester long. It was this or a paper and FUCK papers. So it's me, her, and six other people doing this project. So FAR only me and her, but that's beside the point.
Dude, she's still fine as all hell to me. Them legs MAN, those muthafuckn LEGS!!
But yea, remember I said it was a CRAZY relationship. We have a HISTORY together, like, public-record history and shit. I mean, when we broke-up it was cool at first; no hard feelings. She broke it off but we were still doing the nasty-nasty like shit didn't happen. I was kind of a super-jealous bf at the time. We stayed away from each other for a summer and then shit got bad. Somehow, coincidentally we end up living in the same apt complex; small town. We end up smashing again for a while. But then she goes on to do her own thing and I'm still hung-up on her. By the END of everything, we both have an assault charge on our records.
Shit is cool now though. I don't think/know if we were ever really pissed at each other, just really fuckn dumb.
Thing is, I might still like that girl. I dunno if I just wanna smash, cuz it HAS been a while since I've had some ass. Or if I would actually consider dating her again. I mean, she was my first gf. I've been with other chicks since then, but she just had it going on :/
I think I know my answer, and that is to think with my head and not my dick. But I dunno. Tell me what to do shroomery!! Tell me what to FEEL!!!
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Crazies fun. Go for it.
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Anonymous #1
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Bodhi of Ankou said: Crazies fun. Go for it.
Crazy IS fun! I seem to attract em
I just don't wanna go to jail again or, you know, get my heart broken or whatever
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Anonymous #1
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What would shroomry do?!
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just remember. Psychotic and erotic rhyme for a reason.
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Anonymous said: What would shroomry do?!
Tap that shit and post pics.
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Bodhi of Ankou said:
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Anonymous said: What would shroomry do?!
Tap that shit and post pics.
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itchmynipple
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Anonymous said: Feel like I been seeing a lot of these lately.
Let's see, I've known this girl for 3, going on 4 years or so. We dated for one of those years. CRAZY shit man, from the jump it was a crazy and roller coaster of a relationship. But we still had a lot of good times, I think.
Anyway, I have a class with her this semester and we're doing a project together. A documentary type-deal and it's gonna take all semester long. It was this or a paper and FUCK papers. So it's me, her, and six other people doing this project. So FAR only me and her, but that's beside the point.
Dude, she's still fine as all hell to me. Them legs MAN, those muthafuckn LEGS!!
But yea, remember I said it was a CRAZY relationship. We have a HISTORY together, like, public-record history and shit. I mean, when we broke-up it was cool at first; no hard feelings. She broke it off but we were still doing the nasty-nasty like shit didn't happen. I was kind of a super-jealous bf at the time. We stayed away from each other for a summer and then shit got bad. Somehow, coincidentally we end up living in the same apt complex; small town. We end up smashing again for a while. But then she goes on to do her own thing and I'm still hung-up on her. By the END of everything, we both have an assault charge on our records.
Shit is cool now though. I don't think/know if we were ever really pissed at each other, just really fuckn dumb.
Thing is, I might still like that girl. I dunno if I just wanna smash, cuz it HAS been a while since I've had some ass. Or if I would actually consider dating her again. I mean, she was my first gf. I've been with other chicks since then, but she just had it going on :/
I think I know my answer, and that is to think with my head and not my dick. But I dunno. Tell me what to do shroomery!! Tell me what to FEEL!!!
well honestly, you guys sound like ' you guys are married'
ever heard that term with early gfs?
anyways, you two imo sound like you keep running into eachother somehow, maybe its a sign :P
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itchmynipple said:
well honestly, you guys sound like ' you guys are married'
ever heard that term with early gfs?
anyways, you two imo sound like you keep running into eachother somehow, maybe its a sign :P
I HAVE heard that before. But it was mostly when we dated, we were practically inseparable. And maybe your right, this isn't the first class we've had together after we've been broken up Quote:
psyconaught said: just remember. Psychotic and erotic rhyme for a reason.
I'll deff keep that in mind brother Quote:
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Anonymous said: What would shroomry do?!
Tap that shit and post pics.
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i say have fun
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I'll just post exactly what I posted in the other ex thread.
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Anonymous said: No.
Exes are exes for a reason.
That off and on again shit never ever works in reality.
Once I break up with someone we stay broken up. There's usually not even any contact after the fact.
In some VERY RARE cases, if you are both mature enough.. and were good friends, then you could stay friends in the future. But that is extremely rare. But to try and become lovers again, after you have already broken it off once. I have NEVER seen that work. And I've seen a LOT of cases of BF/GF breaking up, getting back together, breaking up, getting back together. Been there myself before. It always end catastrophically. Save yourself the torment.
This goes TRIPLE for you. You said yourself, you already have a CRAZY rollercoaster history with this girl. You both have ASSAULT charges from it. What makes you think hooking back up with her, even if it's just to fuck, isn't going to end up just as bad, if not worse? You think it's just going to magically be all rainbows? Bad idea man. Bad bad idea. There are plenty of other chicks out there that you don't have a psychotic history with. I'd venture a guess that most of the people egging you on here don't have much experience in such matters. I've seen about 200 cases of this scenario not working out, and 0 of it working out beautifully. But it's your call.
You only want her because you've been there before. It seems comforting and familiar. She was your first GF, I understand - But it's BAD JUJU. Seriously, find another chick.
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this dude really thinks he's helpful. i despise people like you. you're goin around spewing toxic ways of thought under the guise of advice, and you probably really believe you are helping. i bet you stroke your ego like it's the most precious fuckin prize in the world. if you really wanna help society so badly, go jump off a fucking cliff.
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*sigh*I know...

We seem to be getting along great just being friends and stuff. I'm excited to be doing this documentary with her and maybe I should just leave it at that.
It is comforting. She was good to me and I was to her when we weren't picking each other apart. But I shouldn't be idolizing the idea/her because we did a lot of fucked up shit to each other at times :/
Only time will tell, I guess. But I don't think I'll be pursuing it with any force...if she comes on to me or sumn If we dated again, I believe I'm more mature now to where I won't act like a jealous little twat like I used to. She used to get crazy on me though, big-time instigator; get ALL in your face when she had a point to prove hehe. I wonder if she's calmed down...But, I don't see us dating anytime soon, if ever, again...
She just broke up with another crazy, jealous niggah. He fucked up her car and put gatorade in the gas tank and he had to pay for the damages
When we first started dating, our relationship revolved around drugs and sex, I think. I think it would be different this time around because we're both not so dumb anymore and more mature. But again, who knows It all seems like playing w/fire.
FUCK, I need some ass!!
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JesusGoneRogue said: this dude really thinks he's helpful. i despise people like you. you're goin around spewing toxic ways of thought under the guise of advice, and you probably really believe you are helping. i bet you stroke your ego like it's the most precious fuckin prize in the world. if you really wanna help society so badly, go jump off a fucking cliff.

What did he do wrong??
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JesusGoneRogue


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i've already answered that in the text that you quoted.
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JesusGoneRogue said: i've already answered that in the text that you quoted.
I dunno man. His advice seemed genuine. Your's did too until you made that remark up there.
Why you trolling? I'm looking for legit advice dude.
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JesusGoneRogue


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i'm not trolling. i simply have no tolerance for ignorance. either way i still hope you find the advice you need.
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Thanks brother. Although I fail to see the ignorance in his post, I just wanna keep the peace. Maybe I'm ignant too
Regardless, I do appreciate all the insight that has been given so far.
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JesusGoneRogue


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yeah i feel ya man. everybody in the entire world has a right to their own opinion. it ain't my job to judge. lol, i'm just the executioner. that being said, i would much rather keep the peace like you. glad we're both mature enough to handle this so well. i apologize for bringin some rage into your thread. i'll keep my mouth shut.
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Anonymous said: I'll just post exactly what I posted in the other ex thread.
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Anonymous said: No.
Exes are exes for a reason.
That off and on again shit never ever works in reality.
Once I break up with someone we stay broken up. There's usually not even any contact after the fact.
In some VERY RARE cases, if you are both mature enough.. and were good friends, then you could stay friends in the future. But that is extremely rare. But to try and become lovers again, after you have already broken it off once. I have NEVER seen that work. And I've seen a LOT of cases of BF/GF breaking up, getting back together, breaking up, getting back together. Been there myself before. It always end catastrophically. Save yourself the torment.
I have a friend who is married to someone that matches this exact situation. Literally grew up with this guy since I was like 12 years old, had the exact thing happen in his relationship with her... they broke up like 7 times or something, on again off again and then were split for like a year or two... Now they are married and the ONLY couple I grew up with that are still together and very happy.
Food for thought man
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Anonymous #1
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*sigh*life!
There's a party at my house and I just talked myself out of seeing if she wanted to come, but now I wanna invite her
There's gonna be a buncha other sluts here though...
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I invited her but she didn't come.
I know exactly what I need to do and I'm just gonna keep the friendship we have going right now. It ain't broke, so why try and fix it.
I don't have many homies in this small town, they're all in my hometown. But she's a good homie. And I'll just leave it at that
I NEED to get laid though
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Yea so, despite what was said up there. I actually did ask her on a date and she said no. I was actually pretty benzoed and slightly drunk when I did this.
She's pretty hell-bent on saying that we are toxic for each other, and we probably are. But I mean, we get along fine now and are pretty good friends, so we can't be THAT toxic for each other. I dunno man.
I'm not mad or hurt by it or anything and I hope I didn't make shit awkward because we still gotta do this group project together and I still consider her a friend. I just wanted to see if she would go for it, I guess
Sometimes, especially since we've grown older, I wish she would try this thing out again but maybe that'll never happen. But I shouldn't idolize her like that.
There's SOO many gorgeous women in this town and I've got nothing to lose so I needa get out there.
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Anonymous said: Yea so, despite what was said up there. I actually did ask her on a date and she said no. I was actually pretty benzoed and slightly drunk when I did this.
She's pretty hell-bent on saying that we are toxic for each other, and we probably are. But I mean, we get along fine now and are pretty good friends, so we can't be THAT toxic for each other. I dunno man.
I'm not mad or hurt by it or anything and I hope I didn't make shit awkward because we still gotta do this group project together and I still consider her a friend. I just wanted to see if she would go for it, I guess
Sometimes, especially since we've grown older, I wish she would try this thing out again but maybe that'll never happen. But I shouldn't idolize her like that.
There's SOO many gorgeous women in this town and I've got nothing to lose so I needa get out there.
if your taking this loss heavily let those emotions flow man, don't stress over the emotions in other words. just let the thoughts be there and go away, they will while don't stress about them. the more you stress the more it will be stuck in your mind.
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Anonymous said: Yea so, despite what was said up there. I actually did ask her on a date and she said no. I was actually pretty benzoed and slightly drunk when I did this.
She's pretty hell-bent on saying that we are toxic for each other, and we probably are. But I mean, we get along fine now and are pretty good friends, so we can't be THAT toxic for each other. I dunno man.
I'm not mad or hurt by it or anything and I hope I didn't make shit awkward because we still gotta do this group project together and I still consider her a friend. I just wanted to see if she would go for it, I guess
Sometimes, especially since we've grown older, I wish she would try this thing out again but maybe that'll never happen. But I shouldn't idolize her like that.
There's SOO many gorgeous women in this town and I've got nothing to lose so I needa get out there.
if your taking this loss heavily let those emotions flow man, don't stress over the emotions in other words. just let the thoughts be there and go away, they will while don't stress about them. the more you stress the more it will be stuck in your mind.
I'm not really stressing. It just is what it is, I guess. We did some pretty unforgivable things to each other and while we can be civil now, I don't think all has been forgotten.
That old saying you can fogive, but you never forget...bullshit.
But I mean, it's cool. It hasn't weighed heavy on me or anything. I haven't spoken to her since yesterday, when I asked her. But that's not like a big deal or nothing. And now I'm wondering if I should apologize or some shit, but that would probably make it more awkward :/ Whatever man, I'll probably just see her in class.*sigh*
I dunno man, she's a real cool chick. But, fuck dude, shit happens. I just hope I can deal with it when she starts talking to other guys. Which, hopefully by then, I'll have a chica of my own to keep me company.
Main thing is, I need to get LAID!! And, I mean the company would be awesome. I could use some company.
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you should ride out the shitty emotions. seriously puts some hair on your chest and once they subside, you feel unfuckinstoppable.
with the seeing her with other dudes thing, that's your ego tricking you into thinking you have some sort of say in who she gets to be with. if you can get over that and keep emotions unattached to her, it won't effect you.
if you are fixin to just smash with no emotions, you should check out the Black Philip show. Patrice O'neal had a brilliant mind about these matters.
it'll work out ,man. remember, she can only let you feel that way if you let her.
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True.
I had my chance at flirting with a few girls at work today and it boosted my ego a bit. Had her blushing I think, but didn't get the #.
I'll be ok, I think.
I'm gonna check that show, just cuz Patrice O'Neal is a funny muhfuckah
I'll do my homework tomorrow
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Aight, so here's the science:
Halloween party tomorrow at my house, should be a buncha ppl there. Homegirl is coming too, the girl this thread is about. She seemed pretty excited about it, was making a costume and everything when I saw her.
Dude, I still can't read the situation, but whatever. I think she likes me or likes that I care or something; even through all the bullshit. Still haven't hooked up since the last time we hooked up, which was about a year ago or more.
Thing is, I'm probably gonna try to put the moves on her at this party. Maybe. Pretty sure I'm gonna do it though. It's mostly gonna be my roommates and all their rugby buddies, a few of which I know but that doesn't matter. There will be other hot girls there too, just you know...
I just hope I don't make shit awkward but I guess I'll let future-anon worry about that.
What do?! Put my shoes for a sec and see what you think? I think I know what I wanna do and what my penis wants, but I just don't know if it's a solid move. Does this shit even happen to other people?!
Best not to overthink it though and just roll with it. Should be an interesting weekend.
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I'm so dumb. I'm gonna go after some strange tomorrow. I don't even think she's gonna come thru, maybe for a bit but she said she planned on going to the bars. So dumb.
IDK why I get wrapped up in her so much.
Oh well. Here's to me gettin laid tomorrow!
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Good luck OP, honestly I would just try and forget about about her and try to talk to someone else, if she does happen to come through DSHSB real quick and then when she leaves go back to doing what you were doing.
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She never came thru and I never gave it a second thought
I think it's cool to just stay friends with her. I'm cool with that, plus I don't think she's really forgiven me for things I've done in the past. I've forgiven her. But that shit takes time. But we are really good friends.
Ain't trippin. I was macking on all the honeys either way. Slept in the bed alone but it's all gravy. I probably coulda gone home with this one chick; my roomie went home with her friend...but I wanted food at 5 in the morning and they wanted to go home I was hungry and pussy wouldn't have satisfied my appetite
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I'm so dumb. I'm gonna go after some strange tomorrow. I don't even think she's gonna come thru, maybe for a bit but she said she planned on going to the bars. So dumb.
IDK why I get wrapped up in her so much.
Oh well. Here's to me gettin laid tomorrow!
! need some strange r!ght MEOW
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JesusGoneRogue said:
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Anonymous said:
I'm so dumb. I'm gonna go after some strange tomorrow. I don't even think she's gonna come thru, maybe for a bit but she said she planned on going to the bars. So dumb.
IDK why I get wrapped up in her so much.
Oh well. Here's to me gettin laid tomorrow!
! need some strange r!ght MEOW
It's true. I do need some strange.
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Well yeah, she started talking to another dude. She hasn't said so explicitly but I can just tell.
She came over last night to buy some vyvanse and brought dude along with her. Was like "umm, I didn't know you were bringing company..." But I can just tell that she's hooking up with him or at least talking to him. I shouldn't assume but, yea. I just got a vibe. I was kind of an ass, just really wanted em out my house.
Plus she sounded fucked up on xanax. Said she didn't take any yesterday but I find that HARD to believe the way she was acting.
Maybe I just shouldn't give a fuck. Well, I know I shouldn't. Co-dependency sucks sometimes.
feels. Like I said, I just need some strange and a LIL bit more self-esteem. It's whatever though. I ain't mad. Sad a little bit, but I'm a big boy and mama didn't raise no punk
Just felt like filling yall in.
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OP remember how you said your girl is like me with BPD. Its not worth it man, if I were a girl I wouldn't dâte me vica versa. I. Wish you the best but she's not going to change its her PERSONALLY not just a period u know?
That said, you have an attraction I know to well. And no matter how hard you. Try and stay away you'll end up together again unless you or her move or die.
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Re: Another Ex thread [Re: dark3st]
#19129306 - 11/12/13 11:28 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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anon2 to anon 1 do you read me?
LOUD AND CLEAR
i'll try and give advice on this tomorrow buddy
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fuck you anon 2 i guess i'm anon 3
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Loud and clear brother.
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crazy girls are trouble
you have been warned
they are also really fun as stated above, go for it and prepare for heart break
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Re: Another Ex thread [Re: SnowDaze]
#19131367 - 11/13/13 01:43 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Which is probably exactly what would happen. I dunno why it would be different for the 6th or 7th time
Life's fun.
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Einstein's definition of insanity is "doing the same thing over and over while expecting different results." Nothing changes if nothing changes...lol That's it for my wisdom on this matter.
I have had a volatile relationship with a woman over a six year period....she was stone cold nuts! Extreme jealousy....couldn't even look the direction of a pretty girl. Your situation reminds me of this....it was a dead end and the one thing that kept us coming back was the sex....sex was crazy good and she had a smokin body. THAT DOESN'T CUT IT FOR A LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP.No one could tell me that though. The other thing was "alcohol" ...every time we drank we wound up fighting....then fucking.It was a crazy period and probably took years off of my life.
I finally wised up eventually and all I can say is "Live and Learn"...I guess it took that to make me who I am now but....holy shit! Any way....just wanted to give you a real life example. Good luck to you !
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baltimark said: Einstein's definition of insanity is "doing the same thing over and over while expecting different results." Nothing changes if nothing changes...lol That's it for my wisdom on this matter.
I have had a volatile relationship with a woman over a six year period....she was stone cold nuts! Extreme jealousy....couldn't even look the direction of a pretty girl. Your situation reminds me of this....it was a dead end and the one thing that kept us coming back was the sex....sex was crazy good and she had a smokin body. THAT DOESN'T CUT IT FOR A LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP.No one could tell me that though. The other thing was "alcohol" ...every time we drank we wound up fighting....then fucking.It was a crazy period and probably took years off of my life.
I finally wised up eventually and all I can say is "Live and Learn"...I guess it took that to make me who I am now but....holy shit! Any way....just wanted to give you a real life example. Good luck to you !
What about the hadron partical accelerator? (spelling is not my concern atm)
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Anonymous said: I've been with other chicks since then, but she just had it going on :/
I kinda know what you mean by that. It's tough when you've dated someone you really liked a lot, and then other girls just don't really stack up. Maybe you should just tell her how you feel and if she wants to get back together with you then that's great, but if she doesn't try not to get hung up about it cuz at least you'll have an answer and then you can focus your energy somewhere else.
People are strange (and that includes women)
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Anonymous said: I've been with other chicks since then, but she just had it going on :/
I kinda know what you mean by that. It's tough when you've dated someone you really liked a lot, and then other girls just don't really stack up. Maybe you should just tell her how you feel and if she wants to get back together with you then that's great, but if she doesn't try not to get hung up about it cuz at least you'll have an answer and then you can focus your energy somewhere else.)after a month long depression )
People are strange (and that includes women) 
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baltimark said: Einstein's definition of insanity is "doing the same thing over and over while expecting different results." Nothing changes if nothing changes...lol That's it for my wisdom on this matter.
I have had a volatile relationship with a woman over a six year period....she was stone cold nuts! Extreme jealousy....couldn't even look the direction of a pretty girl. Your situation reminds me of this....it was a dead end and the one thing that kept us coming back was the sex....sex was crazy good and she had a smokin body. THAT DOESN'T CUT IT FOR A LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP.No one could tell me that though. The other thing was "alcohol" ...every time we drank we wound up fighting....then fucking.It was a crazy period and probably took years off of my life.
I finally wised up eventually and all I can say is "Live and Learn"...I guess it took that to make me who I am now but....holy shit! Any way....just wanted to give you a real life example. Good luck to you !
This is good advice. Our relationship also tended to revolve around sex and drugs, which I guess is unhealthy.n Who knew
And thanks for the other insights guys!
I've told her how I feel and how I'd like it to be. But she doesn't feel the same. So it's just time to move on to the next one, even though I shoulda done that years ago. Better late than never, I suppose.
I can still be her homie, but I gotta keep the physical and especially emotional distance far far away. For my own happiness and sanity.
So that's what I'll do...
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As you know, the last comment you said is a lot harder done than said. Your going to fuck her again. And you'll like it!

I wish you the best OP as you know. But I bet anything (I was in an almost identical relationship) your going to be on a lot of ups and Downs untill it's actually over.
Its like an addiction for both of you. Those natural neurotransmitters are God damn stronger than any drug you've done and you know this as well. .
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Re: Another Ex thread [Re: dark3st]
#19131857 - 11/13/13 03:40 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Only the universe knows what will unfold!
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I am the universe 
I hope I made you laugh, I want you to smile through this situation in your path
-------------------- Back.. I'm going to do it...I'm getting sober from opiates ... I got weed, gabapentin, propranolol, and GHB, I have 100mg tramadol left. I can do this. I can do this. OFINTQWGVGAKGCYKBUBX free dark P. Tampanensis prints to ODD members.
no stamps atm FREE SEEDS for ODD WCA members ONLY I have these seeds: Orange, red, and yellow sweet peppers, Purple poppies, White Habanero, Yellow Thai, Bolivian rainbow peppers, milk thistle, red chilly pepper, HBWR.
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Re: Another Ex thread [Re: dark3st]
#19140600 - 11/15/13 11:31 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Yea, IDK what the fuck I was thinking with this one. Just gonna keep it at a distance and finish this project we have to do.
we can be cool, but I really don't wanna hang out with her at all. I guess I'm not that good a friend
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baltimark said: Einstein's definition of insanity is "doing the same thing over and over while expecting different results." Nothing changes if nothing changes...lol That's it for my wisdom on this matter.
I have had a volatile relationship with a woman over a six year period....she was stone cold nuts! Extreme jealousy....couldn't even look the direction of a pretty girl. Your situation reminds me of this....it was a dead end and the one thing that kept us coming back was the sex....sex was crazy good and she had a smokin body. THAT DOESN'T CUT IT FOR A LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP.No one could tell me that though. The other thing was "alcohol" ...every time we drank we wound up fighting....then fucking.It was a crazy period and probably took years off of my life.
I finally wised up eventually and all I can say is "Live and Learn"...I guess it took that to make me who I am now but....holy shit! Any way....just wanted to give you a real life example. Good luck to you !
What about the hadron partical accelerator? (spelling is not my concern atm)
What about it??
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