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OfflineShroomerited
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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Moonshoe]
    #18921970 - 10/02/13 03:36 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

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Moonshoe said:
My guess is you are someone who has cheated and is rationalizing it.

I could be wrong . Either that or you have never been in a serious romantic relationship .

Otherwise I find it very hard to believe you can't understand why cheating effects people so much.

It's not at all just about lying. It's also about the act itself.




I have never been in a serious romantic relationship, nor do I want to be.

But WHAT about the act elicits that much of a response?


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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Shroomerited]
    #18921985 - 10/02/13 03:38 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

I'm not saying it's not a big deal, cause it obviously is to people, but I just don't get it. :shrug:


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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Shroomerited]
    #18921995 - 10/02/13 03:40 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

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Shroomerited said:
Quote:

Moonshoe said:
My guess is you are someone who has cheated and is rationalizing it.

I could be wrong . Either that or you have never been in a serious romantic relationship .

Otherwise I find it very hard to believe you can't understand why cheating effects people so much.

It's not at all just about lying. It's also about the act itself.




I have never been in a serious romantic relationship, nor do I want to be.

But WHAT about the act elicits that much of a response?




herpes, babies, abrupt change in lifestyle


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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Shroomerited]
    #18921999 - 10/02/13 03:40 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

It's a trust thang.
As well as a HUGE blow to the partner's self-esteem.


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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Konyap]
    #18922003 - 10/02/13 03:41 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

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Illyabo said:
Quote:

Shroomerited said:
Quote:

Moonshoe said:
My guess is you are someone who has cheated and is rationalizing it.

I could be wrong . Either that or you have never been in a serious romantic relationship .

Otherwise I find it very hard to believe you can't understand why cheating effects people so much.

It's not at all just about lying. It's also about the act itself.




I have never been in a serious romantic relationship, nor do I want to be.

But WHAT about the act elicits that much of a response?




herpes, babies, abrupt change in lifestyle



What?


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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: pcplease]
    #18922017 - 10/02/13 03:42 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

Quote:

pcplease said:
It's a trust thang.
As well as a HUGE blow to the partner's self-esteem.



But why?


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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Shroomerited]
    #18922026 - 10/02/13 03:43 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

we gots aids from monkeys

monkeys have lots of random sex


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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Konyap]
    #18922032 - 10/02/13 03:44 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

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Illyabo said:
we gots aids from monkeys

monkeys have lots of random sex



I don't get what that has to do with anything.


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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Shroomerited]
    #18922059 - 10/02/13 03:47 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

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Shroomerited said:
Quote:

pcplease said:
It's a trust thang.
As well as a HUGE blow to the partner's self-esteem.



But why?




Hey, you yourself said you've never been in a serious relationship.

Suppose you've met an amazing person who you're really falling for, and after being together for years, you walk in on them in the act with somebody else.



And you're telling me you'd just walk it off like, "oh you!"?


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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Synthe]
    #18922079 - 10/02/13 03:51 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

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Synthe said:
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Shroomerited said:
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pcplease said:
It's a trust thang.
As well as a HUGE blow to the partner's self-esteem.



But why?




Hey, you yourself said you've never been in a serious relationship.

Suppose you've met an amazing person who you're really falling for, and after being together for years, you walk in on them in the act with somebody else.



And you're telling me you'd just walk it off like, "oh you!"?




I never said I wouldn't be hurt. I just said that I don't get the magnitude of the response most people have.


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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Vriska Serket]
    #18922284 - 10/02/13 04:30 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

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Vriska Serket said:
cheating in general is so dum8

if you don't like your current partner, stop seeing them

it's not fucking rocket science.



And vriska would be the one to say this...


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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: King Klick]
    #18922403 - 10/02/13 04:51 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

As though women don't cheat, and aren't actually MORE promiscuous than men half the time? That's been my personal experience, but that doesn't mean I'm going to hold the next woman accountable for what past partners did to me. Just like no one should assume 25% of the men you speak to are cheaters based on "occult science" on the internet. Don't judge people based on uncertain data, judge them on their character.

People are individuals, not statistics.

Furthermore, if I get cheated on, I don't blame the partner. I blame MYSELF. For trusting this person in the first place, for not being smart enough to realize what's going on, for not being good enough for them to stay with me, whatever the reason.. Sometimes a person cheating on you can be a good lesson, you obviously didn't know the person well enough to trust and needed them out of your life before it got worse anyway, so you go through the emotional baggage and come out stronger and wiser for it.


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