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Patlal
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Have you ever been in an abusive relationship?
#18921566 - 10/02/13 02:21 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Has you partner ever:
- physically assaulted you? - psychologically abused you? - Verbally abused you? - Threatened to kill you if...? - Controlled your schedule and social encounters? - Threatened to commit suicide if you left? - Financially abused you? - Convinced you that you were worthless without him/her? - Constantly cheat on you? - Blaming you for everything bad in the relationship? - Justifying his abusing behavior by saying you brought it on yourself?
If so, describe your experience. If you haven't lived it, maybe describe the situation your friend/family member might have been in.
How did you get out of it?
Are you still living in these condition? Why?
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Have you ever been in an abusive relationship? [Re: Patlal]
#18921663 - 10/02/13 02:44 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Sometimes I feel like my girlfriend emotionally/verbally abuses me
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Anonymous #2
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Re: Have you ever been in an abusive relationship? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18921674 - 10/02/13 02:46 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Anonymous said: Sometimes I feel like my girlfriend emotionally/verbally abuses me 
She probably does, what a meanie.
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Vriska Serket
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Re: Have you ever been in an abusive relationship? [Re: Patlal]
#18921701 - 10/02/13 02:52 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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when I was 17 I d8ted a guy who did all of that to me.
I finally got out of it when my 8rother kicked his ass really hard.
i love my 8rother.
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Re: Have you ever been in an abusive relationship? [Re: Vriska Serket]
#18922016 - 10/02/13 03:42 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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ive been on both ends of the spectrum..
ive come to the conclusion that the acts i have done, should not define who i am if i made a commitment to change, which includes goingto a therapist 1 on 1, to sort out and eliminate the causes for aggression/jealousy/etc..
ive never punched a woman, but ive been in situations that have caused me to grab and push two of them because they are literally attacking me. and i won't take that.
if you hit me first, i dont care if your a sidewalk, a tree, a girl, etc, i will hit you back if i feel threatened.
Just saying: chris brown got shunned for hitting rihanna. if im correct she was hitting him while he was driving the car, which is why he started to punch her to stop her from trying to crash the car. Of course, no relationship should get to this point - but no one cares that what he did could of stopped the two of them from potentially getting into a stretcher to the hospital or worse, death..
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Re: Have you ever been in an abusive relationship? [Re: Vriska Serket]
#18923795 - 10/02/13 10:37 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Vriska Serket said: when I was 17 I d8ted a guy who did all of that to me.
I finally got out of it when my 8rother kicked his ass really hard.
i love my 8rother.
I would beat someone who thought "8" was a letter in the alphabet.
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Re: Have you ever been in an abusive relationship? [Re: koods]
#18924818 - 10/03/13 07:45 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Do you need a permit to 8e that edgy?
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Re: Have you ever been in an abusive relationship? [Re: Vriska Serket] 2
#18924987 - 10/03/13 08:43 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Vriska Serket said: Do you need a permit to 8e that edgy?
That's adora8le.
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Cyclohexylamine
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Re: Have you ever been in an abusive relationship? [Re: koods]
#18925277 - 10/03/13 10:32 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Re: Have you ever been in an abusive relationship? [Re: Cyclohexylamine]
#18926758 - 10/03/13 05:11 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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I think im currently in an abusive relationship,
Like i cant buy anything cause somehow she kept doing bad choices that makes her broke, so i end having to pay for the rent and everything.
I used to be cool about this cause i thought that shit happens, but the more the relationship progress, the more i notice its a redundant pattern.
When i try to confront her, she gets on the defensive and throws all the thing that i've done bad in the past.
I think that its some kind of psychological manipulation/control, but im not good to discern people feelings and such.
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Re: Have you ever been in an abusive relationship? [Re: Vriska Serket]
#18926811 - 10/03/13 05:24 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Vriska Serket said: Do you need a permit to 8e that edgy?
Hahahahaha nice one
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Re: Have you ever been in an abusive relationship? [Re: Anonymous #3] 1
#18927098 - 10/03/13 06:20 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Anonymous said: I think im currently in an abusive relationship,
Like i cant buy anything cause somehow she kept doing bad choices that makes her broke, so i end having to pay for the rent and everything.
I used to be cool about this cause i thought that shit happens, but the more the relationship progress, the more i notice its a redundant pattern.
When i try to confront her, she gets on the defensive and throws all the thing that i've done bad in the past.
I think that its some kind of psychological manipulation/control, but im not good to discern people feelings and such.
Sounds like she's pretty manipulative. I dated a girl like that once, never again.
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Re: Have you ever been in an abusive relationship? [Re: pwnasaurus]
#18927403 - 10/03/13 07:03 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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I think everyone has been in a relationship that entailed at least one of these things.
Also, typing with num8ers is fucking 8ull shit. It makes you appear underage, immature and unintelligent. Just saying...
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Re: Have you ever been in an abusive relationship? [Re: GreySatyr]
#18927481 - 10/03/13 07:14 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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GreyMorph said: I think everyone has been in a relationship that entailed at least one of these things.
Also, typing with num8ers is fucking 8ull shit. It makes you appear underage, immature and unintelligent. Just saying...
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Re: Have you ever been in an abusive relationship? [Re: psyconaught]
#18927522 - 10/03/13 07:21 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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I know it, bro ham.
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Re: Have you ever been in an abusive relationship? [Re: GreySatyr]
#18927539 - 10/03/13 07:23 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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GreyMorph said: I think everyone has been in a relationship that entailed at least one of these things.
Also, typing with num8ers is fucking 8ull shit. It makes you appear underage, immature and unintelligent. Just saying...
these days i only see latinas and puerto ricans od'ing on the numbers and text slang.
doesnt mean i want to bang them any less just saying
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Re: Have you ever been in an abusive relationship? [Re: VivaLaMushie]
#18931338 - 10/04/13 01:58 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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VivaLaMushie said:
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Vriska Serket said: Do you need a permit to 8e that edgy?
Hahahahaha nice one
Thanks m8!
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Re: Have you ever been in an abusive relationship? [Re: Patlal]
#18939980 - 10/06/13 12:15 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Patlal said: Has you partner ever:
- physically assaulted you? - psychologically abused you? - Verbally abused you? - Threatened to kill you if...? - Controlled your schedule and social encounters? - Threatened to commit suicide if you left? - Financially abused you? - Convinced you that you were worthless without him/her? - Constantly cheat on you? - Blaming you for everything bad in the relationship? - Justifying his abusing behavior by saying you brought it on yourself?
If so, describe your experience. If you haven't lived it, maybe describe the situation your friend/family member might have been in.
How did you get out of it?
Are you still living in these condition? Why?
What kind of asshole came up with that as a list of abuse? Much of it is normal life. I particularly liked the last one. Justifying "his" abusive behavior.... Really? Just "his"?
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Patlal
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Re: Have you ever been in an abusive relationship? [Re: zappaisgod]
#18940078 - 10/06/13 12:34 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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zappaisgod said:
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Patlal said: Has you partner ever:
- physically assaulted you? - psychologically abused you? - Verbally abused you? - Threatened to kill you if...? - Controlled your schedule and social encounters? - Threatened to commit suicide if you left? - Financially abused you? - Convinced you that you were worthless without him/her? - Constantly cheat on you? - Blaming you for everything bad in the relationship? - Justifying his abusing behavior by saying you brought it on yourself?
If so, describe your experience. If you haven't lived it, maybe describe the situation your friend/family member might have been in.
How did you get out of it?
Are you still living in these condition? Why?
What kind of asshole came up with that as a list of abuse? Much of it is normal life. I particularly liked the last one. Justifying "his" abusive behavior.... Really? Just "his"?
Go fuck yourself... lol
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Re: Have you ever been in an abusive relationship? [Re: Patlal]
#18940318 - 10/06/13 01:23 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Patlal said:
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zappaisgod said:
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Patlal said: Has you partner ever:
- physically assaulted you? - psychologically abused you? - Verbally abused you? - Threatened to kill you if...? - Controlled your schedule and social encounters? - Threatened to commit suicide if you left? - Financially abused you? - Convinced you that you were worthless without him/her? - Constantly cheat on you? - Blaming you for everything bad in the relationship? - Justifying his abusing behavior by saying you brought it on yourself?
If so, describe your experience. If you haven't lived it, maybe describe the situation your friend/family member might have been in.
How did you get out of it?
Are you still living in these condition? Why?
What kind of asshole came up with that as a list of abuse? Much of it is normal life. I particularly liked the last one. Justifying "his" abusive behavior.... Really? Just "his"?
Go fuck yourself... lol
- psychologically abused me - Verbally abused me - Blaming me for everything bad in the relationship
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