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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Moonshoe]
#18920776 - 10/02/13 12:12 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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I believe its higher than that, cheating is one of those lies you don't tell anyone. Might as ask the general population how many of you have gotten away with killing someone.
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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: fapjack]
#18920790 - 10/02/13 12:15 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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When I was 13 I had a girlfriend and I danced with her friend at a school thing. Other than that I can't say that I've ever cheated and I'm 23.
Many years back the man that I have most respect for in this world of mine was cheating on his wife. It was discussed and figured out and as far as I know that hasn't happened ever again.
I could see 25% being an accurate figure though. It is probably higher because cheating is usually a secret and they would never tell a poll about this.
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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Vriska Serket] 1
#18920791 - 10/02/13 12:16 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Vriska Serket said: cheating in general is so dum8
if you don't like your current partner, stop seeing them
it's not fucking rocket science.
People don't cheat because they no longer like their partner. They cheat because they want to fuck someone in addition to their partner.
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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: fapjack]
#18920800 - 10/02/13 12:18 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Yeah I think the number is much higher than 25%, literally like everyone I know cheats, and a lot of times they do it all the time..
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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: TrentBoyett]
#18920806 - 10/02/13 12:20 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Perhaps the people you know are not a representative sample of the population though.
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Enlil
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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: psi]
#18920809 - 10/02/13 12:21 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Or perhaps he is using the word "know" in the biblical sense, which would skew the statistics.
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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Konyap]
#18920819 - 10/02/13 12:25 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Illyabo said: Man is basically sewing his oats a women is looking for something she can't get from the man.
Women also like getting fucked by new dick, just like men like new pussy.
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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: qman]
#18920847 - 10/02/13 12:29 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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qman said:
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Illyabo said: Man is basically sewing his oats a women is looking for something she can't get from the man.
Women also like getting fucked by new dick, just like men like new pussy.
Watch any movie where a guy chooses between two girls. One is more generic and the other is usually poorer. The poorer usually wins.
Watch the same thing with a girl. Younger guy, money, big dick.
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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Vriska Serket]
#18920850 - 10/02/13 12:30 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Vriska Serket said: That's why you shouldn't get married in the first place
if you really love someone why do you need a certificate to prove it?
My sentiments exactly. Unfortunately not many others share that view, women in particular.
Personally, I've never cheated & never would. I'm just not that type of person. I've been cheated on before though, and it's sure a shitty feeling.
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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: watermelon mon]
#18920861 - 10/02/13 12:33 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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watermelon mon said: never cheated and never will my ex girl friend cheated on me made me feel bad at the time I was like 
Oh Yeah bro I took a ride down that road about 9 months ago.
Im convinced women cheat a lot more then men, at least of the younger generations.
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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Shins]
#18920875 - 10/02/13 12:35 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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One girl I knew cheated was basically just saying she didn't like her guy because he didn't stick up for himself and this was after she cheated, she was still carrying on the relationship talking to us about it.
With my friends they would break up or get into some mind games when they did it.
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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Shins]
#18920879 - 10/02/13 12:37 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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I never cheated. Can't say if I ever will (most likely not). The thing is, I don't get attached to people the way normal people do, so if I planned on cheating, I'd just ditch the girlfriend first.
If she cheated on me though, It wouldn't even take me a minute to make the decision to break up with her. Given the fact I don't get attached, break ups are easy for me they are simple decisions to make. I'd probably only break up due to the social stigma.
Anyway, I'm weird/borderline sociopath. So I'm not really the best to analyze these situations
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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Patlal]
#18920900 - 10/02/13 12:41 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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I'd marry a chick FOR THE SOLE PURPOSE of cheating on her.
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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Enlil]
#18920913 - 10/02/13 12:43 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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fuck I know another girl that did the same shit, just casually fucking behind the dudes back
another girl and her boyfriend would play mind games, found out I shared my pussy with 20 other dudes!
she was 18!
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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Enlil]
#18920914 - 10/02/13 12:43 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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It's called "side pussy".
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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Konichiwaffle]
#18921312 - 10/02/13 01:25 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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I don't really get why cheating is such a big deal. I mean yeah broken trust and yadda yadda yadda. But there's such a huge visceral reaction most people have that's disproportionate it seems.
Tbh, some people just don't like monogamy. Why's that a bad thing?
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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Shroomerited]
#18921327 - 10/02/13 01:27 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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The very same people that don't like monogamy also fail at polygamy
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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Enlil]
#18921698 - 10/02/13 02:51 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Shroomerited said: I don't really get why cheating is such a big deal. I mean yeah broken trust and yadda yadda yadda. But there's such a huge visceral reaction most people have that's disproportionate it seems.
Tbh, some people just don't like monogamy. Why's that a bad thing? 
It's a bad thing when you pretend like you're okay with it. If you want to screw a bunch of people at once, then try opening with "Hi, my name's ____ and I'm gonna fuck a bunch of other people during our relationship." Don't fuckin pretend to be monogamous if you don't intend to be so.
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Enlil said: I'd marry a chick FOR THE SOLE PURPOSE of cheating on her.
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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Synthe]
#18921885 - 10/02/13 03:23 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Synthe said:
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Shroomerited said: I don't really get why cheating is such a big deal. I mean yeah broken trust and yadda yadda yadda. But there's such a huge visceral reaction most people have that's disproportionate it seems.
Tbh, some people just don't like monogamy. Why's that a bad thing? 
It's a bad thing when you pretend like you're okay with it. If you want to screw a bunch of people at once, then try opening with "Hi, my name's ____ and I'm gonna fuck a bunch of other people during our relationship." Don't fuckin pretend to be monogamous if you don't intend to be so.
I mean I agree that it's hurtful to lie to your significant other, but why is that lie so much worse than other ones? I hear about people assaulting/killing their significant other over cheating, but not really other lies. I know it's an extreme case, but a lot of people can sympathize. I know people who have been cheated on 20 years ago and still are mad about it.
I understand it's hurtful but I don't understand the huge reaction. I think people just react badly because that's what you're "supposed" to do.
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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Shroomerited]
#18921936 - 10/02/13 03:31 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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My guess is you are someone who has cheated and is rationalizing it.
I could be wrong . Either that or you have never been in a serious romantic relationship .
Otherwise I find it very hard to believe you can't understand why cheating effects people so much.
It's not at all just about lying. It's also about the act itself.
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