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25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat
    #18920623 - 10/02/13 11:35 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

According to occult science, 25% of men in a committed relationship (marriage, monogamy etc) cheat on their partners.

So, are you a cheater?
Have you cheated on your current partner?
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Have you ever cheated on a partner in a serious committed relationship?
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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Moonshoe] * 2
    #18920630 - 10/02/13 11:37 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

I think cheating after marriage is pretty low.


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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Konyap]
    #18920643 - 10/02/13 11:39 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

I think that is highly unlikely.

Cheating after marriage is very common in my opinion.


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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Moonshoe] * 2
    #18920646 - 10/02/13 11:40 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

cheating in general is so dum8

if you don't like your current partner, stop seeing them

it's not fucking rocket science.


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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Moonshoe]
    #18920647 - 10/02/13 11:40 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

Quote:

Moonshoe said:
I think that is highly unlikely.

Cheating after marriage is very common in my opinion.




Divorce is pretty common.

I was saying it was a low thing to do though:lol:


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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Moonshoe]
    #18920661 - 10/02/13 11:43 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

This website says Percent of married men who have strayed at least once during their married lives "22%"

as opposed to 14% of married women.

I can only assume by "Stray" they mean cheat.

http://www.statisticbrain.com/infidelity-statistics/


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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Konyap]
    #18920664 - 10/02/13 11:43 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

OH LOL I agree


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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Konyap]
    #18920668 - 10/02/13 11:44 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

never cheated and never will my ex girl friend cheated on me made me feel bad at the time I was like  :doublefu:


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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Vriska Serket]
    #18920675 - 10/02/13 11:45 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

Quote:

Vriska Serket said:
cheating in general is so dum8

if you don't like your current partner, stop seeing them

it's not fucking rocket science.




I agree with you. The problem is the way the marriage system works getting divorce can bankrupt you, put your through years of legal hell and make you lose all your money and ruin your life.

Sadly that makes cheating more likely, as many men would rather cheat than go through the grueling battle of divorce.

Its kind of like drug prohibition laws, where the laws cause the opposite of what they intend to protect (drug illegality fuels use, marriage laws fuel infidelity).


ON the flip side some men who might otherwise cheat may not do so out of fear for the hell of divorce.


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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Moonshoe]
    #18920677 - 10/02/13 11:46 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

That's why you shouldn't get married in the first place


if you really love someone why do you need a certificate to prove it?


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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Vriska Serket]
    #18920681 - 10/02/13 11:47 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

Quote:

Vriska Serket said:
That's why you shouldn't get married in the first place


if you really love someone why do you need a certificate to prove it?




Rights to hospital visitations, less taxes etc.


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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Moonshoe]
    #18920682 - 10/02/13 11:47 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

One more question seems relevant here

If your partner cheated on you, would you forgive them or is that an automatic deal breaker?
If your partner cheated on you, would you give them a second chance or break up with them automatically?
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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Moonshoe]
    #18920690 - 10/02/13 11:49 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

I would 8e less angry and more interested in figuring out where the rel8tionship went wrong and how we could fix it, if I really loved them.


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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Vriska Serket]
    #18920691 - 10/02/13 11:49 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

Quote:

Vriska Serket said:
That's why you shouldn't get married in the first place


if you really love someone why do you need a certificate to prove it?




Also by marrying my wife I can now get a citizenship to Barbados, which is pretty awesome. I can be a legal Baijan and bail to Barbados if Canada gets over run by cock eating rabbits.

Seriously though I always thought marriage was stupid, unnescessary and a bad call, but when I fell in love with my wife I went into a trance and married her, and I absolutely love married life and wouldn't have it any other way.


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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Moonshoe]
    #18920703 - 10/02/13 11:51 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

fair enough m8. I'm happy for you! ::::)


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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Vriska Serket]
    #18920706 - 10/02/13 11:54 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

Thanks! :hug:


still my parents were like the perfect married couple (everybody thought) and after 35 years married they had an ugly messy divorce, so I always know I can never take anything for granted and as much as I love being married now I might regret it later. Sad but true. I am sure we will make it but then again if my parents made it 35 years before folding how can you be sure?


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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Moonshoe]
    #18920715 - 10/02/13 11:56 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

ya just never can 8e sure.

life.

woah.


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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Vriska Serket]
    #18920771 - 10/02/13 12:10 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

I have mixed opinions about cheating.  However, it intertwines with my mixed opinions about marriage.

Take it back 150 years or so, having mistresses wasn't that uncommon. 

Anyone ever listen to Patrice O'Neal?  I think he has one of the best analogies when it comes to what cheating is compared to a  man and woman.


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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Konichiwaffle]
    #18920774 - 10/02/13 12:11 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

Man is basically sewing his oats a women is looking for something she can't get from the man.


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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Moonshoe]
    #18920775 - 10/02/13 12:12 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

I have thankfully always been a person blessed with the fortune to take my woman into my arms, never allowing her to ever get to far, to always know that she will return, to never have her get too far without me being there to make a simple gesture acknowledging her urge to return to me was directly responsible because my brother had first persuaded her that I should be with her, and whom was the person that first showed me to two woman before I did meet my wife, though when I met my wife I realized that she looked oddly familar, as if I had saw her before in a dream or something.

You may even say that she may have been the one who first willing placed herself in these dreams, that is, that it was her plan to have occupied the role of someone feigning the desire to approach the threshold of invading someones dreams. My wife also said that she thought someone had saw me before that told her how I looked, and since they told her she had a good idea of how I would look once I met her. My wife and I live in Alaska where we moved to 3 years ago, but my brother first urged us to move to London, but we declined in favor of this more elegant location.

I didn't realize that my brother also told someone that they shouldn't go to London until December, and when he said this we were confused because he usually only said this to people close to him, not people that he just saw on the st and decided to articulate a random useless message which signified in direct proportion the vagueness of the assuming moment when we identify with the predicament of being assembled into the order of a higher power, and if we yield to the influence which proposes this force in order to assuage the previous encounters of this force, we may find us in a good shoe.

I forgot to mention that a year ago I had a gf I had committed my first infidelity against, but I assured her afterwards that there was some slight misunderstanding on my part and that she needn't take it personal, nonetheless, she absolutely did. After I abandoned her in favor for my wife that is 100 times much more beautiful than her, thus my choice to leave her wasn't cast with any doubt of it being readily apparent that my decision was silly. I talked to her brother about wanting to see her after she left, but he said that she was inclined to view that she could never forgive me, that to see my face would inspire her to commit another wicked action. I only was with her for two weeks before I left her for someone new, but before I left she told me she thought that I was trying to control her, to keep her from attaining the freedom she deserved, which she would always want as far away from as possible in order to play a role occupying itself as some sort of compensation to removing the elements of freedom.

I later received a note that said that my wife was deciding to leave me for another man, that she had found someone that she thought would be a much better husband than I was, someone so charming that I had become a last resort. Though later I discovered that she had some indecision about whether or not she should start a relationship with a new man or return to me, and for some reason she thought a life here with me would solve all of her problems. I saw that her sister also urged her to decide to abandon her decision to return to me, which was strange to me whom hadn't decided to acknowledge that her sister should have a say on our relationship.


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