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25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat
#18920623 - 10/02/13 11:35 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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According to occult science, 25% of men in a committed relationship (marriage, monogamy etc) cheat on their partners.
So, are you a cheater?
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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Moonshoe] 2
#18920630 - 10/02/13 11:37 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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I think cheating after marriage is pretty low.
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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Konyap]
#18920643 - 10/02/13 11:39 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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I think that is highly unlikely.
Cheating after marriage is very common in my opinion.
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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Moonshoe] 2
#18920646 - 10/02/13 11:40 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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cheating in general is so dum8
if you don't like your current partner, stop seeing them
it's not fucking rocket science.
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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Moonshoe]
#18920647 - 10/02/13 11:40 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Moonshoe said: I think that is highly unlikely.
Cheating after marriage is very common in my opinion.
Divorce is pretty common.
I was saying it was a low thing to do though
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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Moonshoe]
#18920661 - 10/02/13 11:43 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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This website says Percent of married men who have strayed at least once during their married lives "22%"
as opposed to 14% of married women.
I can only assume by "Stray" they mean cheat.
http://www.statisticbrain.com/infidelity-statistics/
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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Konyap]
#18920664 - 10/02/13 11:43 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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OH LOL I agree
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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Konyap]
#18920668 - 10/02/13 11:44 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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never cheated and never will my ex girl friend cheated on me made me feel bad at the time I was like
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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Vriska Serket]
#18920675 - 10/02/13 11:45 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Vriska Serket said: cheating in general is so dum8
if you don't like your current partner, stop seeing them
it's not fucking rocket science.
I agree with you. The problem is the way the marriage system works getting divorce can bankrupt you, put your through years of legal hell and make you lose all your money and ruin your life.
Sadly that makes cheating more likely, as many men would rather cheat than go through the grueling battle of divorce.
Its kind of like drug prohibition laws, where the laws cause the opposite of what they intend to protect (drug illegality fuels use, marriage laws fuel infidelity).
ON the flip side some men who might otherwise cheat may not do so out of fear for the hell of divorce.
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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Moonshoe]
#18920677 - 10/02/13 11:46 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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That's why you shouldn't get married in the first place
if you really love someone why do you need a certificate to prove it?
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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Vriska Serket]
#18920681 - 10/02/13 11:47 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Vriska Serket said: That's why you shouldn't get married in the first place
if you really love someone why do you need a certificate to prove it?
Rights to hospital visitations, less taxes etc.
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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Moonshoe]
#18920682 - 10/02/13 11:47 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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One more question seems relevant here
If your partner cheated on you, would you forgive them or is that an automatic deal breaker?
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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Moonshoe]
#18920690 - 10/02/13 11:49 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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I would 8e less angry and more interested in figuring out where the rel8tionship went wrong and how we could fix it, if I really loved them.
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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Vriska Serket]
#18920691 - 10/02/13 11:49 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Vriska Serket said: That's why you shouldn't get married in the first place
if you really love someone why do you need a certificate to prove it?
Also by marrying my wife I can now get a citizenship to Barbados, which is pretty awesome. I can be a legal Baijan and bail to Barbados if Canada gets over run by cock eating rabbits.
Seriously though I always thought marriage was stupid, unnescessary and a bad call, but when I fell in love with my wife I went into a trance and married her, and I absolutely love married life and wouldn't have it any other way.
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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Moonshoe]
#18920703 - 10/02/13 11:51 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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fair enough m8. I'm happy for you! ::::)
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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Vriska Serket]
#18920706 - 10/02/13 11:54 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Thanks! 
still my parents were like the perfect married couple (everybody thought) and after 35 years married they had an ugly messy divorce, so I always know I can never take anything for granted and as much as I love being married now I might regret it later. Sad but true. I am sure we will make it but then again if my parents made it 35 years before folding how can you be sure?
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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Moonshoe]
#18920715 - 10/02/13 11:56 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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ya just never can 8e sure.
life.
woah.
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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Vriska Serket]
#18920771 - 10/02/13 12:10 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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I have mixed opinions about cheating. However, it intertwines with my mixed opinions about marriage.
Take it back 150 years or so, having mistresses wasn't that uncommon.
Anyone ever listen to Patrice O'Neal? I think he has one of the best analogies when it comes to what cheating is compared to a man and woman.
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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Konichiwaffle]
#18920774 - 10/02/13 12:11 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Man is basically sewing his oats a women is looking for something she can't get from the man.
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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Moonshoe]
#18920775 - 10/02/13 12:12 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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I have thankfully always been a person blessed with the fortune to take my woman into my arms, never allowing her to ever get to far, to always know that she will return, to never have her get too far without me being there to make a simple gesture acknowledging her urge to return to me was directly responsible because my brother had first persuaded her that I should be with her, and whom was the person that first showed me to two woman before I did meet my wife, though when I met my wife I realized that she looked oddly familar, as if I had saw her before in a dream or something.
You may even say that she may have been the one who first willing placed herself in these dreams, that is, that it was her plan to have occupied the role of someone feigning the desire to approach the threshold of invading someones dreams. My wife also said that she thought someone had saw me before that told her how I looked, and since they told her she had a good idea of how I would look once I met her. My wife and I live in Alaska where we moved to 3 years ago, but my brother first urged us to move to London, but we declined in favor of this more elegant location.
I didn't realize that my brother also told someone that they shouldn't go to London until December, and when he said this we were confused because he usually only said this to people close to him, not people that he just saw on the st and decided to articulate a random useless message which signified in direct proportion the vagueness of the assuming moment when we identify with the predicament of being assembled into the order of a higher power, and if we yield to the influence which proposes this force in order to assuage the previous encounters of this force, we may find us in a good shoe.
I forgot to mention that a year ago I had a gf I had committed my first infidelity against, but I assured her afterwards that there was some slight misunderstanding on my part and that she needn't take it personal, nonetheless, she absolutely did. After I abandoned her in favor for my wife that is 100 times much more beautiful than her, thus my choice to leave her wasn't cast with any doubt of it being readily apparent that my decision was silly. I talked to her brother about wanting to see her after she left, but he said that she was inclined to view that she could never forgive me, that to see my face would inspire her to commit another wicked action. I only was with her for two weeks before I left her for someone new, but before I left she told me she thought that I was trying to control her, to keep her from attaining the freedom she deserved, which she would always want as far away from as possible in order to play a role occupying itself as some sort of compensation to removing the elements of freedom.
I later received a note that said that my wife was deciding to leave me for another man, that she had found someone that she thought would be a much better husband than I was, someone so charming that I had become a last resort. Though later I discovered that she had some indecision about whether or not she should start a relationship with a new man or return to me, and for some reason she thought a life here with me would solve all of her problems. I saw that her sister also urged her to decide to abandon her decision to return to me, which was strange to me whom hadn't decided to acknowledge that her sister should have a say on our relationship.
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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Moonshoe]
#18920776 - 10/02/13 12:12 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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I believe its higher than that, cheating is one of those lies you don't tell anyone. Might as ask the general population how many of you have gotten away with killing someone.
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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: fapjack]
#18920790 - 10/02/13 12:15 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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When I was 13 I had a girlfriend and I danced with her friend at a school thing. Other than that I can't say that I've ever cheated and I'm 23.
Many years back the man that I have most respect for in this world of mine was cheating on his wife. It was discussed and figured out and as far as I know that hasn't happened ever again.
I could see 25% being an accurate figure though. It is probably higher because cheating is usually a secret and they would never tell a poll about this.
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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Vriska Serket] 1
#18920791 - 10/02/13 12:16 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Vriska Serket said: cheating in general is so dum8
if you don't like your current partner, stop seeing them
it's not fucking rocket science.
People don't cheat because they no longer like their partner. They cheat because they want to fuck someone in addition to their partner.
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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: fapjack]
#18920800 - 10/02/13 12:18 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Yeah I think the number is much higher than 25%, literally like everyone I know cheats, and a lot of times they do it all the time..
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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: TrentBoyett]
#18920806 - 10/02/13 12:20 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Perhaps the people you know are not a representative sample of the population though.
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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: psi]
#18920809 - 10/02/13 12:21 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Or perhaps he is using the word "know" in the biblical sense, which would skew the statistics.
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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Konyap]
#18920819 - 10/02/13 12:25 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Illyabo said: Man is basically sewing his oats a women is looking for something she can't get from the man.
Women also like getting fucked by new dick, just like men like new pussy.
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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: qman]
#18920847 - 10/02/13 12:29 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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qman said:
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Illyabo said: Man is basically sewing his oats a women is looking for something she can't get from the man.
Women also like getting fucked by new dick, just like men like new pussy.
Watch any movie where a guy chooses between two girls. One is more generic and the other is usually poorer. The poorer usually wins.
Watch the same thing with a girl. Younger guy, money, big dick.
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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Vriska Serket]
#18920850 - 10/02/13 12:30 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Vriska Serket said: That's why you shouldn't get married in the first place
if you really love someone why do you need a certificate to prove it?
My sentiments exactly. Unfortunately not many others share that view, women in particular.
Personally, I've never cheated & never would. I'm just not that type of person. I've been cheated on before though, and it's sure a shitty feeling.
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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: watermelon mon]
#18920861 - 10/02/13 12:33 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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watermelon mon said: never cheated and never will my ex girl friend cheated on me made me feel bad at the time I was like 
Oh Yeah bro I took a ride down that road about 9 months ago.
Im convinced women cheat a lot more then men, at least of the younger generations.
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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Shins]
#18920875 - 10/02/13 12:35 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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One girl I knew cheated was basically just saying she didn't like her guy because he didn't stick up for himself and this was after she cheated, she was still carrying on the relationship talking to us about it.
With my friends they would break up or get into some mind games when they did it.
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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Shins]
#18920879 - 10/02/13 12:37 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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I never cheated. Can't say if I ever will (most likely not). The thing is, I don't get attached to people the way normal people do, so if I planned on cheating, I'd just ditch the girlfriend first.
If she cheated on me though, It wouldn't even take me a minute to make the decision to break up with her. Given the fact I don't get attached, break ups are easy for me they are simple decisions to make. I'd probably only break up due to the social stigma.
Anyway, I'm weird/borderline sociopath. So I'm not really the best to analyze these situations
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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Patlal]
#18920900 - 10/02/13 12:41 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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I'd marry a chick FOR THE SOLE PURPOSE of cheating on her.
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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Enlil]
#18920913 - 10/02/13 12:43 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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fuck I know another girl that did the same shit, just casually fucking behind the dudes back
another girl and her boyfriend would play mind games, found out I shared my pussy with 20 other dudes!
she was 18!
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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Enlil]
#18920914 - 10/02/13 12:43 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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It's called "side pussy".
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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Konichiwaffle]
#18921312 - 10/02/13 01:25 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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I don't really get why cheating is such a big deal. I mean yeah broken trust and yadda yadda yadda. But there's such a huge visceral reaction most people have that's disproportionate it seems.
Tbh, some people just don't like monogamy. Why's that a bad thing?
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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Shroomerited]
#18921327 - 10/02/13 01:27 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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The very same people that don't like monogamy also fail at polygamy
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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Enlil]
#18921698 - 10/02/13 02:51 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Shroomerited said: I don't really get why cheating is such a big deal. I mean yeah broken trust and yadda yadda yadda. But there's such a huge visceral reaction most people have that's disproportionate it seems.
Tbh, some people just don't like monogamy. Why's that a bad thing? 
It's a bad thing when you pretend like you're okay with it. If you want to screw a bunch of people at once, then try opening with "Hi, my name's ____ and I'm gonna fuck a bunch of other people during our relationship." Don't fuckin pretend to be monogamous if you don't intend to be so.
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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Synthe]
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Synthe said:
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Shroomerited said: I don't really get why cheating is such a big deal. I mean yeah broken trust and yadda yadda yadda. But there's such a huge visceral reaction most people have that's disproportionate it seems.
Tbh, some people just don't like monogamy. Why's that a bad thing? 
It's a bad thing when you pretend like you're okay with it. If you want to screw a bunch of people at once, then try opening with "Hi, my name's ____ and I'm gonna fuck a bunch of other people during our relationship." Don't fuckin pretend to be monogamous if you don't intend to be so.
I mean I agree that it's hurtful to lie to your significant other, but why is that lie so much worse than other ones? I hear about people assaulting/killing their significant other over cheating, but not really other lies. I know it's an extreme case, but a lot of people can sympathize. I know people who have been cheated on 20 years ago and still are mad about it.
I understand it's hurtful but I don't understand the huge reaction. I think people just react badly because that's what you're "supposed" to do.
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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Shroomerited]
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My guess is you are someone who has cheated and is rationalizing it.
I could be wrong . Either that or you have never been in a serious romantic relationship .
Otherwise I find it very hard to believe you can't understand why cheating effects people so much.
It's not at all just about lying. It's also about the act itself.
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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Moonshoe]
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Moonshoe said: My guess is you are someone who has cheated and is rationalizing it.
I could be wrong . Either that or you have never been in a serious romantic relationship .
Otherwise I find it very hard to believe you can't understand why cheating effects people so much.
It's not at all just about lying. It's also about the act itself.
I have never been in a serious romantic relationship, nor do I want to be.
But WHAT about the act elicits that much of a response?
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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Shroomerited]
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I'm not saying it's not a big deal, cause it obviously is to people, but I just don't get it.
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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Shroomerited]
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Shroomerited said:
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Moonshoe said: My guess is you are someone who has cheated and is rationalizing it.
I could be wrong . Either that or you have never been in a serious romantic relationship .
Otherwise I find it very hard to believe you can't understand why cheating effects people so much.
It's not at all just about lying. It's also about the act itself.
I have never been in a serious romantic relationship, nor do I want to be.
But WHAT about the act elicits that much of a response?
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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Shroomerited]
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It's a trust thang. As well as a HUGE blow to the partner's self-esteem.
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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Konyap]
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Illyabo said:
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Shroomerited said:
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Moonshoe said: My guess is you are someone who has cheated and is rationalizing it.
I could be wrong . Either that or you have never been in a serious romantic relationship .
Otherwise I find it very hard to believe you can't understand why cheating effects people so much.
It's not at all just about lying. It's also about the act itself.
I have never been in a serious romantic relationship, nor do I want to be.
But WHAT about the act elicits that much of a response?
herpes, babies, abrupt change in lifestyle
What?
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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: pcplease]
#18922017 - 10/02/13 03:42 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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pcplease said: It's a trust thang. As well as a HUGE blow to the partner's self-esteem.
But why?
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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Shroomerited]
#18922026 - 10/02/13 03:43 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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we gots aids from monkeys
monkeys have lots of random sex
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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Konyap]
#18922032 - 10/02/13 03:44 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Illyabo said: we gots aids from monkeys
monkeys have lots of random sex
I don't get what that has to do with anything.
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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Shroomerited]
#18922059 - 10/02/13 03:47 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Shroomerited said:
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pcplease said: It's a trust thang. As well as a HUGE blow to the partner's self-esteem.
But why?
Hey, you yourself said you've never been in a serious relationship.
Suppose you've met an amazing person who you're really falling for, and after being together for years, you walk in on them in the act with somebody else.
And you're telling me you'd just walk it off like, "oh you!"?
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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Synthe]
#18922079 - 10/02/13 03:51 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Synthe said:
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Shroomerited said:
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pcplease said: It's a trust thang. As well as a HUGE blow to the partner's self-esteem.
But why?
Hey, you yourself said you've never been in a serious relationship.
Suppose you've met an amazing person who you're really falling for, and after being together for years, you walk in on them in the act with somebody else.
And you're telling me you'd just walk it off like, "oh you!"?
I never said I wouldn't be hurt. I just said that I don't get the magnitude of the response most people have.
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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: Vriska Serket]
#18922284 - 10/02/13 04:30 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Vriska Serket said: cheating in general is so dum8
if you don't like your current partner, stop seeing them
it's not fucking rocket science.
And vriska would be the one to say this...
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Re: 25 % of men in a committed relationship Cheat [Re: King Klick]
#18922403 - 10/02/13 04:51 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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As though women don't cheat, and aren't actually MORE promiscuous than men half the time? That's been my personal experience, but that doesn't mean I'm going to hold the next woman accountable for what past partners did to me. Just like no one should assume 25% of the men you speak to are cheaters based on "occult science" on the internet. Don't judge people based on uncertain data, judge them on their character.
People are individuals, not statistics.
Furthermore, if I get cheated on, I don't blame the partner. I blame MYSELF. For trusting this person in the first place, for not being smart enough to realize what's going on, for not being good enough for them to stay with me, whatever the reason.. Sometimes a person cheating on you can be a good lesson, you obviously didn't know the person well enough to trust and needed them out of your life before it got worse anyway, so you go through the emotional baggage and come out stronger and wiser for it.
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