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Anonymous #1
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What do do about this guy?
#18917314 - 10/01/13 05:10 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Edited by Anonymous (01/09/14 02:58 PM)
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Anonymous #2
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man up dude. if he likes throwing jabs at you, fire back immediately. why just let him shit on you? just because he's been hanging with them longer doesnt really make you the punk to be shit on.
i don't know the situation, but from my standpoint it sounds like he feels threatened one way or another by you, and is doing the usual 'shit on someone else' thing douchebags do to feel that they are keeping themselves on top of the totem pole. pull him down a few pegs man. if it leads to fists, it leads to fists. dont be a bitch, stand your ground and prove the respect you have for yourself.
everyone looses fights friend. when you fight for your self respect you never really loose unless you run away or call the cops. and dont think im telling you to get in his face and start a fight, i'm not. i avoid fights as much as i can, but when one is unavoidable, i stand my ground and do my thing.
most big guys fight like shit anyway. they're too used to the losers they hit once who just wont get back up. duck and weave man, go for the chin and the solar plexus. throw rapid punches, dont swing once and back off letting him get his shit back together.
but ya man, just stand up for yourself. you'll feel better.
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Anonymous #3
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It's obvious you two need to bang.
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Anonymous #4
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Anonymous #3 said: It's obvious you two need to bang.
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Anonymous #2
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Anonymous #3 said: It's obvious you two need to bang.
or 
lol
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Anonymous #5
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Anonymous #6
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Do people really think this way? Like analyze jabs and insults before sticking up for yourself?
Just do what any person would say, "Whats your deal man?" If a fight proceeds, so be it. But most likely he won't and will stop saying shit.
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Anonymous #7
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Ya I'd pull him aside and tell him to treat you with a little respect or your gonna make him swallow his fucking teeth. See what happens. Then beat his ass if he wants to act tough. I'm a big guy myself and I never could stomach bullies, I always thought it was interesting to belittle them.
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Anonymous #8
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Anonymous #1 said: There's this one guy, he occasionally mentions getting into fights in a braggy fashion and occasionally posts how he has really violent thoughts.
"Posts"?
A wild assumption but I'm going out on a leg that OP is st1ll, and he's talking about an online friend who intimidates him, probably someone from DTC
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Anonymous #6
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i second that
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Anonymous #9
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suck his cock bro
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Anonymous #10
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Call the dude out, don't take shit. If your friends don't back you up, find new friends.
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Anonymous #11
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Do nothing.
It is a test.
Just assume he is mentally challenged and have compassion for him.
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Anonymous #1
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Anonymous #8 said:
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Anonymous #1 said: There's this one guy, he occasionally mentions getting into fights in a braggy fashion and occasionally posts how he has really violent thoughts.
"Posts"?
A wild assumption but I'm going out on a leg that OP is st1ll, and he's talking about an online friend who intimidates him, probably someone from DTC 
naw I mean on FB.
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Anonymous #7 said: Ya I'd pull him aside and tell him to treat you with a little respect or your gonna make him swallow his fucking teeth. See what happens. Then beat his ass if he wants to act tough. I'm a big guy myself and I never could stomach bullies, I always thought it was interesting to belittle them.
He's taller, bigger than me and he fights plenty. I've never been in an actual fight and I don't like to (or do, ever) threaten people with violence, plus he gives off mixed signals basically like this satire article.
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Anonymous #10
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Re: What do do about this guy? [Re: Anonymous #1] 1
#18925890 - 10/03/13 01:28 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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He's a ball buster, you have two choices, 1. bust his balls as well, which is what most guys do. 2. call him out to stop it.
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Anonymous #1
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Anonymous #10 said: He's a ball buster, you have two choices, 1. bust his balls as well, which is what most guys do. 2. call him out to stop it.
Care to elaborate a bit on what you meant?
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Anonymous #10
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Anonymous #1 said:
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Anonymous #10 said: He's a ball buster, you have two choices, 1. bust his balls as well, which is what most guys do. 2. call him out to stop it.
Care to elaborate a bit on what you meant?
Guys bust each others balls sometimes, the next time he does it, criticize something about him, at least he will know you aren't a total push over. If he gets offended, tell him he's a pussy that does it to other people but can't handle it on himself.
If you're not into getting down to his level, call him out, say "dude, do you have a problem with me?"
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Anonymous #12
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Look man, this is all pecking order. People do this all the time but people have no idea what's going on and misinterpret it as bullying. Show this guy you're a cool guy, but not at the bottom of the food chain. People that criticize others are low in the pecking order and are simply trying to get one level higher by lowering another. Rule #1 Don't take this guys shit like a wimp, otherwise you're giving in to him. Rule #2 If you want to get higher in the pecking order (which is always beneficial), don't buy into his games. He insulted you, but don't insult him back. Rule #3 Give him what he wants indirectly. This will make him happy without you giving up your place.
These rules are ranked in order of most importance to the least, (#1 being the most important, ect). Following all three will be the most beneficial strategy for you.
How to do #3. First you have to ask, what does this guy want? He wants to get higher in the pecking order. You can't give that to him without loosing your own place which you must not give up. So instead show him that it would be in his best interest to not treat you like that. Treat his insults like they're pointless, and have no affect on you; but at the same time being careful not to insult him. Look him in the eyes too, to show you're not fearful of him. If you can, point out something he's done, like 'spoken his mind' (when he insults you) and then proceed to tell him how not many people do this and you respect him (as hard as that may be) for being able to do it. Doing this makes it clear to him that you're not the right person to knock down from the pecking order because you see a good quality in him and may help him later.
People usually don't think about this stuff consciously, but it registers in their unconscious mind. Realizing this can give you a lot of control over your social group. Good luck.
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Anonymous #13
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Anonymous #2 said: man up dude. if he likes throwing jabs at you, fire back immediately. why just let him shit on you? just because he's been hanging with them longer doesnt really make you the punk to be shit on.
i don't know the situation, but from my standpoint it sounds like he feels threatened one way or another by you, and is doing the usual 'shit on someone else' thing douchebags do to feel that they are keeping themselves on top of the totem pole. pull him down a few pegs man. if it leads to fists, it leads to fists. dont be a bitch, stand your ground and prove the respect you have for yourself.
everyone looses fights friend. when you fight for your self respect you never really loose unless you run away or call the cops. and dont think im telling you to get in his face and start a fight, i'm not. i avoid fights as much as i can, but when one is unavoidable, i stand my ground and do my thing.
most big guys fight like shit anyway. they're too used to the losers they hit once who just wont get back up. duck and weave man, go for the chin and the solar plexus. throw rapid punches, dont swing once and back off letting him get his shit back together.
but ya man, just stand up for yourself. you'll feel better.
Didnt bother reading the rest of the thread. This is your answer.
Jab back insult wise, if he swings duck and throw straight fast punches
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Anonymous #14
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I had a similar problem once. My stats: 5'9", 145 lbs. His stats: 6'2", 195lbs. I got him to workout with me one day. I had this small canvas sandbag i had hung at about a six foot guys head height to practice jabs and uppercuts. I start doing my thing and start wailing on this bag. At the end of the round (2 minutes per round) I threw a uppercut left hook combo and there is this loud as hell ripping sound, my hand is in the damn bag and sand got everywhere. The look on this guys face was priceless. After that he treated me like a god. I didn't tell him the bag was about five years old and pretty worn out at that point.
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Anonymous #13
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Ahahahaha brilliant
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Anonymous #15
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give him a chance to repent, then after he refuses stab that cunt on the inside of his leg where his dick nerves are.
Fuck that hoe
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