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InvisibleTheShroomingAtheis
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What to say to girls probably interested but hestitant?
    #18916963 - 10/01/13 04:01 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

What are some good interesting conversetions to start with a girl? And how to approach? What if things go stale? How to get out of the awkwardness?


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Re: What to say to girls probably interested but hestitant? [Re: TheShroomingAtheis] * 3
    #18916971 - 10/01/13 04:02 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

Pretend they are just normal people and go from there.


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Re: What to say to girls probably interested but hestitant? [Re: psi]
    #18916991 - 10/01/13 04:05 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

Shiet. THat'll get me in the friend zone, won't it?


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Re: What to say to girls probably interested but hestitant? [Re: TheShroomingAtheis]
    #18917030 - 10/01/13 04:13 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

The friend zone is basically where they just aren't attracted to you anyway. I would say just try to get to a place where you can joke around and shit, and if she is attracted to you it will become clear sooner or later. If you start from the assumption that they are totally different from you and you need to put on some act, you just come off as weird and desperate.


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Re: What to say to girls probably interested but hestitant? [Re: TheShroomingAtheis]
    #18917038 - 10/01/13 04:15 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

Well, I guess you're right. But she's much more different from me. That's the sad part. I can't act normally, you see.


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Re: What to say to girls probably interested but hestitant? [Re: TheShroomingAtheis]
    #18917046 - 10/01/13 04:17 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

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What are some good interesting conversetions to start with a girl? And how to approach? What if things go stale? How to get out of the awkwardness?




This is going to sound very cliche, but it usually works.

Be yourself, and be confidant. Confidence really is key!


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Re: What to say to girls probably interested but hestitant? [Re: TheShroomingAtheis]
    #18917047 - 10/01/13 04:17 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

I remember when I first met my wife, it was like yesterday. I saw her in the lobby of this doctors office, and she was sitting there engrossed in a crime mystery novel. Some cheap book she picked up at a garage sale for 10 cents. Anyway I saw someone else approach her, but they only spoke for 10 minutes before leaving. He didn't seem to have wanted to have formed a bond with her, but only wanted to see what she was reading. Seeing that this was a great opportunity to take advantage of my chance to speak to a good looking girl I sat near her. For 10 minutes neither of us seemed to budge from our spots, noone wanted to break the ice, that awkward transition from silence to audible articulations of the tongue always seemed the most troubling for us introverts.

She placed her book on the chair beside her and looked at a statue of a cat near the reception desk, and as her gaze was diverted from her book and placed on this statue I knew she might, as she placed her vision back into the book she read, may see me and have her curiosity aroused at the sight of a charming fellow. Well I was correct in the guess that she would have spotted me and her eyes met mine for a moment until, perhaps from some shyness which was encouraging her to appear to seem hesitant to directing her eyes to mine, put them down to the floor.

I summoned up the courage to speak to this good looking girl and we spoke about our interests, books, movies, sexual positions we like to experiment in, what our favorite pets are, how our grandma always bakes us cookies and we bring them to picnics. So we had alot in common, even in our mannerisms I could see we resembled each other alot, both had that sort of quaint way of viewing things which went together fine. We even decided that in a month we were going to take a stroll in a park and feed ducks together, and she even advised me to take our dog with us to enjoy the ducks. And our grandmas started collaborating their cookie recipes to create a much more sensational dish, so we had it made in heaven, it was like a dream come true. Though ofc love usually runs short, and you will find your heart has turned hollow & cold.


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Re: What to say to girls probably interested but hestitant? [Re: TheShroomingAtheis]
    #18917132 - 10/01/13 04:35 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

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TheShroomingAtheis said:
Shiet. THat'll get me in the friend zone, won't it?





When you're friend zoned, a girl straight up just isn't into you and likes you as a friend. It doesn't mean that if you become friends with a girl that they won't want to be anything more down the line. The girl I'm with now, I chilled with every day just as friends for 3-4 weeks before we both decided a relationship is what we want.

Anyway, get to know her like you know any guy friend. Be sure to be confident, funny, and interested in her. It's all you, really. You're as good as you make yourself out to be.

You got it man


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Re: What to say to girls probably interested but hestitant? [Re: OZA]
    #18917199 - 10/01/13 04:47 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

Thanks for the great replies guys. Let's hope I can turn this into something good :wink:


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Re: What to say to girls probably interested but hestitant? [Re: TheShroomingAtheis]
    #18917207 - 10/01/13 04:48 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

forget about the 'friend zone' just talk to them about things you like, always go out of your comfort zone if you can...shoot for better and better 'off the bat' interactions. and yeah, just be yourself.

as far as opening lines go, it can be anything, i think simple is usually best. trust the flow of events and things will come up naturally


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Re: What to say to girls probably interested but hestitant? [Re: TheShroomingAtheis]
    #18917252 - 10/01/13 04:56 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

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Shiet. THat'll get me in the friend zone, won't it?



:facepalm:

Buddy, there's no such thing as the "friend zone." :nonono:


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Re: What to say to girls probably interested but hestitant? [Re: NetDiver]
    #18917305 - 10/01/13 05:08 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)



This man fucked Marylin so I think he knows whats up. :wink:

If you don't got confidence just fake it till ya make it. :thumbup:


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Re: What to say to girls probably interested but hestitant? [Re: NetDiver]
    #18917311 - 10/01/13 05:09 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

Just say hi how are you? My name is nwlight.
Theres no magic trick just be you.


so when u tryna fuck?


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Re: What to say to girls probably interested but hestitant? [Re: RockyRaccoon]
    #18917323 - 10/01/13 05:12 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

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TheShroomingAtheis said:
What are some good interesting conversetions to start with a girl? And how to approach? What if things go stale? How to get out of the awkwardness?




Confidence really is key!




Preach itt brobot!


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Re: What to say to girls probably interested but hestitant? [Re: NWlight]
    #18917336 - 10/01/13 05:14 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

confidence is all that matters. what you say doesn't matter if you say it with confidence. that aloof kind of confidence where you don't care about the outcome of saying something, being goofy, or whatever.

always worked for me - oh and usually i wasn't having some introspective analysis of my "game" - i just crack jokes and if things go well, then they do. no amount of tips people give you can give you a surefire formula for getting girls and if they could what would be the fun in that.


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