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itchmynipple
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Re: Is it even possible to ever restore trust? [Re: JesusGoneRogue]
#18930849 - 10/04/13 11:47 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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well you know,
when an ex cheated on me, what goes through my mind is how she felt/what she was thinking when she was doing it... its a terrible thing to think about, and it doesn't really go away unfortunately..
you can see the sadness on the persons face, whoever got cheated on. almost like there stuck and dont know what to do because they love you but they know it will never be the same.
Key sentence, it was never the same.
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JesusGoneRogue


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Re: Is it even possible to ever restore trust? [Re: itchmynipple]
#18931525 - 10/04/13 02:42 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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damn it nipple! You're hitting me right in my feels! one fateful day i was tripping on some lsa seeds and i was speaking with my ex. everythings goin all smooth, and then she drops a fucking bomb on me. she basically admits to sleeping with like ten guys throughout our "relationship" and that she cheated on me from the very beginning. on the outside i was like but on the inside i was like at that moment my heart shattered into billions of pieces. i was DEVASTATED
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tarponio
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Re: Is it even possible to ever restore trust? [Re: JesusGoneRogue]
#18932439 - 10/04/13 06:04 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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I love all of you. Be strong everyone can get through it. Just try to remember the good times. After that put her face on a target and go shoot 50 cal bullets at her or him. Find a companion who is worthy of what you want. Get a fucking dog. lol. For real though LOVE is letting go and loving them for what devils they are.
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Re: Is it even possible to ever restore trust? [Re: tarponio]
#18932760 - 10/04/13 07:12 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Complete exclusivity is a very nice romantic notion that is a great thing to aspire to. In the long run it is very difficult to achieve. Some people physically cheat while others simply engage in establishing unacceptably close emotional relationships. I think in both of those cases it is more apt to happen to people that are particularly insecure. People need to feel attractive and desired. When you have been in a long term relationship you can start to feel less desired as time goes by. Flirtatious emails, conversations and texts can help feed someones ego and temporarily make them feel better. I don't think it always means that they were intending to 'cheat', although it can be a slippery slope. Maybe she just needs to feel more desire from you. You need to ravage the shit outta her
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Re: Is it even possible to ever restore trust? [Re: pslyke]
#18932794 - 10/04/13 07:24 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Yes, but you truly have to want it otherwise it will never happen. If you want to try then you should start be treating her like you did when you first met and not stop, you should start texting her dirty shit like she wants. All im sayen is she is bored, if you let her get to bored she will take it to the next level. You caught it at the beginning, feel lucky.
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itchmynipple
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Re: Is it even possible to ever restore trust? [Re: JesusGoneRogue]
#18933244 - 10/04/13 09:15 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Quote:
JesusGoneRogue said: damn it nipple! You're hitting me right in my feels! one fateful day i was tripping on some lsa seeds and i was speaking with my ex. everythings goin all smooth, and then she drops a fucking bomb on me. she basically admits to sleeping with like ten guys throughout our "relationship" and that she cheated on me from the very beginning. on the outside i was like but on the inside i was like at that moment my heart shattered into billions of pieces. i was DEVASTATED
thats pretty fucked man. the best way to go about those things is pretend it was literally a nightmare you had when you were sleeping, this way you can detach from her like it was nothing..
hope you broke up with her after.
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Re: Is it even possible to ever restore trust? [Re: tarponio]
#18933261 - 10/04/13 09:19 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Quote:
tarponio said: I love all of you. Be strong everyone can get through it. Just try to remember the good times. After that put her face on a target and go shoot 50 cal bullets at her or him. Find a companion who is worthy of what you want. Get a fucking dog. lol. For real though LOVE is letting go and loving them for what devils they are.
what kind of love world do you live in?
the one where 1 of the people in the relationship think they are in a dedicated relationship, and the other gets to fuck people n put the relationship on silent-hold, lustful moments for selfish desires that Won't be found with the 'right' partner/someone who doesn't want to live like a monkey?
human beings will be naturally attracted to eachother, its who you want to be with every night and who you will Forget attractions for
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Re: Is it even possible to ever restore trust? [Re: itchmynipple]
#18941968 - 10/06/13 07:28 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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I did something simular to my ex husband because I wasnt really happy in the relationship. I eventually cheated on him for real, and left him. If she is entertaining the idea, she will do it one day.
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