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EdibleStereos
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Ex going to see my favourite band.
#18906784 - 09/29/13 11:49 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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So I have an ex from 2 years ago, super passionate and heavy relationship, but it didnt work out because we were both drug addicts and I was an alcoholic at the time. She cheated on me, I cheated on her. It was a bad relationship, but we were extremely close. And the sex was the best, according to her, I'd agree.
We hooked up for several months after we broke up, blah blah. She contacted me a few months ago out of the blue after a year of no contact, said she couldnt handle it.
Well my favourite band is coming to town, and to a small venue, maybe only 100 people max. Anyways, she has RSVP'd to go to this show as well.
My heart is pounding already just thinking about it. I still love her in a way, and she is the closest ive been to having my perfect girl. \it seems like a backwards step. But nobody has known about my past and shit that has happened and still loved me like she did.
I dont even know what Im talking about. I want to see this band, but not sure If i want to see her again, last time I ran into her at the bar I ran up a $100 bar tab with $4 beers and then blacked out and almost got in an unrelated fight.
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crimsonking91
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Re: Ex going to see my favourite band. [Re: EdibleStereos]
#18906889 - 09/29/13 12:12 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Idk dude love can be strong and hard to say no to. I'm sure you know the right decision, maybe you just need more time to figure out the right thing to do
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EdibleStereos
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Re: Ex going to see my favourite band. [Re: crimsonking91]
#18907184 - 09/29/13 01:37 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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crimsonking91 said: Idk dude love can be strong and hard to say no to. I'm sure you know the right decision, maybe you just need more time to figure out the right thing to do
I think she still has feelings for me as well.
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BeanyBud
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Re: Ex going to see my favourite band. [Re: EdibleStereos]
#18907207 - 09/29/13 01:44 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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dont worry about it, if it works out then it works out
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Re: Ex going to see my favourite band. [Re: BeanyBud]
#18909801 - 09/30/13 02:33 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Drink before you go to the show so when you blackout you will have saved $100.
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EdibleStereos
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Re: Ex going to see my favourite band. [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18909812 - 09/30/13 02:43 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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If I go I probably wont drink. Just smoke weed and maybe some benzos. If I cant find benzos I'll go in with a $20 only. Cant blackout on $20 at the bar. Way to be anonymous though .
Anyways, I talked to one of her friends, and she told me definitely to go. And said my ex recently posted some photos from 4 years ago of us together.
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Re: Ex going to see my favourite band. [Re: EdibleStereos]
#18909824 - 09/30/13 02:59 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Your real life friends giving you better advice than the Shroomery, who would have thought?
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EdibleStereos
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Re: Ex going to see my favourite band. [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18909834 - 09/30/13 03:07 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Anonymous said: Your real life friends giving you better advice than the Shroomery, who would have thought?
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Anonymous said: Your real life friends giving you better advice than the Shroomery, who would have thought?
I think you aren't giving enough credit to the amount of wise users and good advice on the shroomery.
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Re: Ex going to see my favourite band. [Re: EdibleStereos]
#18909840 - 09/30/13 03:13 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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i think you may be giving too much.
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EdibleStereos
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Re: Ex going to see my favourite band. [Re: Acidic_Sloth]
#18910509 - 09/30/13 09:18 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Acidic_Sloth said: i think you may be giving too much.
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Acidic_Sloth said: i think you may be giving too much.
It isn't what it was before. and some good members have left. But at least once a day someone here says something that I learn from.
you were annon 1?
Edited by EdibleStereos (09/30/13 09:19 AM)
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Black_Sunset
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Re: Ex going to see my favourite band. [Re: EdibleStereos]
#18910867 - 09/30/13 11:26 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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You said it yourself you guys weren't ready before but time has passed and you have both grown. Maybe you are ready for each other? You don't have to decide right now just go no expectations.
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EdibleStereos
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Re: Ex going to see my favourite band. [Re: Black_Sunset]
#18911066 - 09/30/13 12:12 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Black_Sunset said: You said it yourself you guys weren't ready before but time has passed and you have both grown. Maybe you are ready for each other? You don't have to decide right now just go no expectations.
That was sort of the conclusion we came to when we broke up. That we could have been amazing if the circumstances were different.
Losing that relationship taught me a lot about my priorities and how to treat people in relationships.
I'd even just like to be friends with her, since we were like best friends when dating. And were friends for quite a while before dating.
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Re: Ex going to see my favourite band. [Re: EdibleStereos]
#18912008 - 09/30/13 04:37 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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I'd go I wouldn't miss my favorite band for my own subconcious fucking with me.
Love isn't perfect. Who knows I bet either way you would be happy you went.
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Re: Ex going to see my favourite band. [Re: Enjoywho]
#18921516 - 10/02/13 02:08 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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I'd go to see the band and I'd try to rekindle shit, mang.
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unknown1123
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Re: Ex going to see my favourite band. [Re: EdibleStereos]
#18923146 - 10/02/13 08:01 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Ask yourself. WWKO do? hint: What would Kardinal Offissial do?
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Re: Ex going to see my favourite band. [Re: unknown1123]
#18924317 - 10/03/13 02:38 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Who cares I only take advice from bryan boytano.
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