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Re: I could use some date ideas [Re: Psilosopherr]
#18905338 - 09/29/13 12:51 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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make a movie night. i suggest the movie Teeth.
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Re: I could use some date ideas [Re: broken]
#18905346 - 09/29/13 12:54 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Smoke weed, get dinner, bowl, get ice cream, DSHSB
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Re: I could use some date ideas [Re: broken] 1
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oh a quick word of advice. ALWAYS masturbate before a first date if your intentions with this woman extends beyond physical attraction.
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Re: I could use some date ideas [Re: psyconaught] 3
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psyconaught said: oh a quick word of advice. ALWAYS masturbate during a first date if your intentions with this woman extends beyond physical attraction.
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Re: I could use some date ideas [Re: NotTheDevil]
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psyconaught said: oh a quick word of advice. ALWAYS masturbate during a first date if your intentions with this woman extends beyond physical attraction.
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Re: I could use some date ideas [Re: NotTheDevil]
#18905358 - 09/29/13 12:57 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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psyconaught said: oh a quick word of advice. ALWAYS masturbate during a first date if your intentions with this woman extends beyond physical attraction.
hahahaha shit i meant before not during
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Re: I could use some date ideas [Re: i95fl]
#18905364 - 09/29/13 12:58 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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rbalzer said: I met this girl the other day, and it went barely well enough that she wants to see me again.
I want this next time to actually be fun for her. Like we actually go somewhere and do something. I was thinking maybe dinner, but then someone suggested bowling, and that seemed like a really good idea to me.
I mean, you can play a game thats pretty fun for a good while, you can order food and drinks there, we can smoke buds before-hand. She's a stoner, how does that sound?
With the idea of playing a game being fun just because theres a girl, what other places might be fun to go? Or maybe something to do afterward that's not sex.
if you just met her brother, take it slow. don't rush things. Have a fun night out, maybe keep it simple, meet up for a drink, get to know each other a little bit better. You need to show interest, you need to show her that you are more exciting/interesting than the next guy..don't fake it though ha.
feel her out, see what she likes generally getting to know each other questions and whatnot. you can share this experience at a bar or a bowling alley. In my experiences meeting the girl at a bar or restaurant or a mall has always worked. Share your time with her, grab some coffee, relax.
I have done many different approaches before. They all seem to work fairly well, depending on the girl i will either fuck her the second or third date, then we decide if we want a relationship. Usually the ones that last out with sex are the keepers, keep an eye out for this. Don't think with your dick man. Do not lead her onto anything, unless she is this type of girl. The ones that i fucked very fast in the dating process, did not last very long.
It will happen, just let it flow naturally. If you guys are stoners, that is a good commune activity. Have fun out there, don't be too tense man! Life is good 
YEah I was really hoping for this to work out in the long run, and was trying to take is slow physically.
But she was wayy hotter than I expected.
And that tip of masturbating before hand is a great idea!
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Re: I could use some date ideas [Re: psyconaught] 2
#18905372 - 09/29/13 01:01 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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if you live near a pumpkin patch do that right around halloween and the do carve the pumkins at her house or your house
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Re: I could use some date ideas [Re: Psilosopherr]
#18905405 - 09/29/13 01:11 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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rbalzer said: I met this girl the other day, and it went barely well enough that she wants to see me again.
I want this next time to actually be fun for her. Like we actually go somewhere and do something. I was thinking maybe dinner, but then someone suggested bowling, and that seemed like a really good idea to me.
I mean, you can play a game thats pretty fun for a good while, you can order food and drinks there, we can smoke buds before-hand. She's a stoner, how does that sound?
With the idea of playing a game being fun just because theres a girl, what other places might be fun to go? Or maybe something to do afterward that's not sex.
if you just met her brother, take it slow. don't rush things. Have a fun night out, maybe keep it simple, meet up for a drink, get to know each other a little bit better. You need to show interest, you need to show her that you are more exciting/interesting than the next guy..don't fake it though ha.
feel her out, see what she likes generally getting to know each other questions and whatnot. you can share this experience at a bar or a bowling alley. In my experiences meeting the girl at a bar or restaurant or a mall has always worked. Share your time with her, grab some coffee, relax.
I have done many different approaches before. They all seem to work fairly well, depending on the girl i will either fuck her the second or third date, then we decide if we want a relationship. Usually the ones that last out with sex are the keepers, keep an eye out for this. Don't think with your dick man. Do not lead her onto anything, unless she is this type of girl. The ones that i fucked very fast in the dating process, did not last very long.
It will happen, just let it flow naturally. If you guys are stoners, that is a good commune activity. Have fun out there, don't be too tense man! Life is good 
YEah I was really hoping for this to work out in the long run, and was trying to take is slow physically.
But she was wayy hotter than I expected.
And that tip of masturbating before hand is a great idea!
i am telling you right now man. i have fucked some of the most beautiful women in my life here in brazil. Listen, you will automatically know when you get to talking on your 'first date' what she wants with you. It's easy, keep your ears open. Listen to her! If she is leading you onto anything, take the bait. Don't rush her, unless she is giving you body language. Don't be shy to lightly touch her, if she is feeling it, and the moment is right she is definitely digging you.. I hope you guys have made out already? this happens with me on the first time i meet the girl at a club or a bar. The 'first date' is to get to know the women, does she want a casual relationship (wine and dine, then fuck) , or does she want a relationship that's official? be careful what you wish for my friend..If you want to make her your sex slave let her know, if you want to make her your wifey well than get your serious face on!
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Hey whatsup man.
Idk guys its just bowling seems too quirky/childish for people that dont know eachother well, its more of a "we've been together for a really long time and this will be fun/cute" situation. The fact that she smokes makes it a little better, smoking before will make it a "hey we can do this" situation.
The weed and the date going well after eating and deciding to go bowling after would possibly work, I was just warning against going there first for a first date. I'd choose put put golf over bowling if you are going down that path.
Best bet is if the lunch/dinner goes well, ask her what she wants to do.
These are all just my opinions.
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Re: I could use some date ideas [Re: Psilosopherr]
#18905416 - 09/29/13 01:17 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Try taking her to a Haunted House since this is the season. Bar before and bar/restaurant afterwards.
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Re: I could use some date ideas [Re: Psilosopherr]
#18905436 - 09/29/13 01:22 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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DO NOT MASTURBATE BEFORE A DATE.
This causes your eyes to look baggy and have a tired/pervy look to them. Look up mugshots of pedophiles and rapists, they all have this look usually.
Im not lying, dont jack off for a day, then take a picture of yourself, then jack off, and take a picture of yourself.
Dont jack off, dress stylish, wash face, act confident. Take her to a halloween type place where they have houses and stuff since its halloween.
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Re: I could use some date ideas [Re: Chowder963] 2
#18905440 - 09/29/13 01:23 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Re: I could use some date ideas [Re: Gumby]
#18905443 - 09/29/13 01:24 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Its true.
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Re: I could use some date ideas [Re: Chowder963]
#18905466 - 09/29/13 01:30 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Chowder963 said: Hey whatsup man.
Idk guys its just bowling seems too quirky/childish for people that dont know eachother well, its more of a "we've been together for a really long time and this will be fun/cute" situation. The fact that she smokes makes it a little better, smoking before will make it a "hey we can do this" situation.
The weed and the date going well after eating and deciding to go bowling after would possibly work, I was just warning against going there first for a first date. I'd choose put put golf over bowling if you are going down that path.
Best bet is if the lunch/dinner goes well, ask her what she wants to do.
These are all just my opinions.
Not childish at the least. I am pretty sure couples have fun bowling together with a few beers and fun. Me personally always a bar, restaurant, a vibing atmosphere. Nothing serious bro! Get to know each other.
And where did this masturbating shit come from? Definitley do not masturbate the night before unless you have high testostorone levels. Well, OP i don't know if viagra is OTC in your country but always have one of those fuckers handy. When you give her what she wants and then some, she will always be coming back for more. Be prepared bro, don't wanna fuck it up with a in and out in 10 minutes.
Like i said in my post above, its not a life or death situation, there are so many women out there looking for a man, you just need to keep your eyes open! If it does not set well, its okay. But don't whip out your dick on the dinner table telling her your feelings.
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Re: I could use some date ideas [Re: i95fl]
#18905474 - 09/29/13 01:33 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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i95fl said:
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rbalzer said:
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i95fl said:
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rbalzer said: I met this girl the other day, and it went barely well enough that she wants to see me again.
I want this next time to actually be fun for her. Like we actually go somewhere and do something. I was thinking maybe dinner, but then someone suggested bowling, and that seemed like a really good idea to me.
I mean, you can play a game thats pretty fun for a good while, you can order food and drinks there, we can smoke buds before-hand. She's a stoner, how does that sound?
With the idea of playing a game being fun just because theres a girl, what other places might be fun to go? Or maybe something to do afterward that's not sex.
if you just met her brother, take it slow. don't rush things. Have a fun night out, maybe keep it simple, meet up for a drink, get to know each other a little bit better. You need to show interest, you need to show her that you are more exciting/interesting than the next guy..don't fake it though ha.
feel her out, see what she likes generally getting to know each other questions and whatnot. you can share this experience at a bar or a bowling alley. In my experiences meeting the girl at a bar or restaurant or a mall has always worked. Share your time with her, grab some coffee, relax.
I have done many different approaches before. They all seem to work fairly well, depending on the girl i will either fuck her the second or third date, then we decide if we want a relationship. Usually the ones that last out with sex are the keepers, keep an eye out for this. Don't think with your dick man. Do not lead her onto anything, unless she is this type of girl. The ones that i fucked very fast in the dating process, did not last very long.
It will happen, just let it flow naturally. If you guys are stoners, that is a good commune activity. Have fun out there, don't be too tense man! Life is good 
YEah I was really hoping for this to work out in the long run, and was trying to take is slow physically.
But she was wayy hotter than I expected.
And that tip of masturbating before hand is a great idea!
i am telling you right now man. i have fucked some of the most beautiful women in my life here in brazil. Listen, you will automatically know when you get to talking on your 'first date' what she wants with you. It's easy, keep your ears open. Listen to her! If she is leading you onto anything, take the bait. Don't rush her, unless she is giving you body language. Don't be shy to lightly touch her, if she is feeling it, and the moment is right she is definitely digging you.. I hope you guys have made out already? this happens with me on the first time i meet the girl at a club or a bar. The 'first date' is to get to know the women, does she want a casual relationship (wine and dine, then fuck) , or does she want a relationship that's official? be careful what you wish for my friend..If you want to make her your sex slave let her know, if you want to make her your wifey well than get your serious face on!
you hope we made out already? I only hung out with and talked to her for an hour or two.
I was pretty scared to even try to touch her. Like even her hand. And I don't think I know how to flirt at all.
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Re: I could use some date ideas [Re: i95fl]
#18905478 - 09/29/13 01:34 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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i95fl said:
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Chowder963 said: Hey whatsup man.
Idk guys its just bowling seems too quirky/childish for people that dont know eachother well, its more of a "we've been together for a really long time and this will be fun/cute" situation. The fact that she smokes makes it a little better, smoking before will make it a "hey we can do this" situation.
The weed and the date going well after eating and deciding to go bowling after would possibly work, I was just warning against going there first for a first date. I'd choose put put golf over bowling if you are going down that path.
Best bet is if the lunch/dinner goes well, ask her what she wants to do.
These are all just my opinions.
Not childish at the least. I am pretty sure couples have fun bowling together with a few beers and fun. Me personally always a bar, restaurant, a vibing atmosphere. Nothing serious bro! Get to know each other.
And where did this masturbating shit come from? Definitley do not masturbate the night before unless you have high testostorone levels. Well, OP i don't know if viagra is OTC in your country but always have one of those fuckers handy. When you give her what she wants and then some, she will always be coming back for more. Be prepared bro, don't wanna fuck it up with a in and out in 10 minutes.
Like i said in my post above, its not a life or death situation, there are so many women out there looking for a man, you just need to keep your eyes open! If it does not set well, its okay. But don't whip out your dick on the dinner table telling her your feelings. 
I really don't think that masturbating lowers your testosterone levels 
Edit: or makes you look different. that seems ridiculous to me
Edited by Psilosopherr (09/29/13 01:37 AM)
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Re: I could use some date ideas [Re: Gumby]
#18905485 - 09/29/13 01:36 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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He's been saying this a long time.
considering 99% of men masturbate I guess we all look like peodphiles
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Re: I could use some date ideas [Re: Psilosopherr]
#18905504 - 09/29/13 01:42 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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oh man, shiiiiiiit. lets get back to the basics then.
you are obviously over-thinking everything. I understand what is going through your mind, a rollercoaster of emotions. Listen, everytime i met a girl at a club or bar i always make out with them. When i invite them out for the "first date" , i always have butterflies in my stomach, its normal. But once you are with her, let everything flow naturally. Let her do most of the talking, ask questions dude. Don't have to be hitting on her immediately, that comes later on. IF everything is going smoothly, and the conversations are sure-fired. This is a good start.
One thing i will stress, is that keeping eye contact(Not creepy eye contact) is very important as well as listening to her intently. Secondly body language is very important from both sides, mostly from the dominant male. When you are talking and starting to hit on her, lightly touch her hand softly or something to this sort. This will send messages to her, not only are you confident and well spoken at this point, but you are already two more steps to home plate.
So since you have not made out with her, this is your chance. USE BODY LANGUAGE! If she is not feeling you don't be a creep. Let her know how you feel about her, etc etc..It really is simple dude, you sound shy and nervous. But this is normal. You say she is hot, perfect for you. Don't let this fuck with your thinking, because it can, easily. Have normal conversations, then start to hit on her.
My brother..Keep calm! You will pass with flying colors, take my advice
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Re: I could use some date ideas [Re: Psilosopherr]
#18905516 - 09/29/13 01:46 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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rbalzer said:
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i95fl said:
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Chowder963 said: Hey whatsup man.
Idk guys its just bowling seems too quirky/childish for people that dont know eachother well, its more of a "we've been together for a really long time and this will be fun/cute" situation. The fact that she smokes makes it a little better, smoking before will make it a "hey we can do this" situation.
The weed and the date going well after eating and deciding to go bowling after would possibly work, I was just warning against going there first for a first date. I'd choose put put golf over bowling if you are going down that path.
Best bet is if the lunch/dinner goes well, ask her what she wants to do.
These are all just my opinions.
Not childish at the least. I am pretty sure couples have fun bowling together with a few beers and fun. Me personally always a bar, restaurant, a vibing atmosphere. Nothing serious bro! Get to know each other.
And where did this masturbating shit come from? Definitley do not masturbate the night before unless you have high testostorone levels. Well, OP i don't know if viagra is OTC in your country but always have one of those fuckers handy. When you give her what she wants and then some, she will always be coming back for more. Be prepared bro, don't wanna fuck it up with a in and out in 10 minutes.
Like i said in my post above, its not a life or death situation, there are so many women out there looking for a man, you just need to keep your eyes open! If it does not set well, its okay. But don't whip out your dick on the dinner table telling her your feelings. 
I really don't think that masturbating lowers your testosterone levels 
Edit: or makes you look different. that seems ridiculous to me
No, i never said it lowers testostorone. I fucked my girlfriend about 8 hours before a male hormonal panel, and my test levels were still higher than normal.
If you are worried about your performance(fucking her) , i would jack off the night before get a load out, and then have a fresh system for the next night. Or just take a viagra if you know you are going to the boom room, works well.
If you have abnormally high testostorone levels, you should have no issues fucking about 5 times a day with no worries, performance issues bro, don't rush your dick into her pussy. Dont be that anxious guy, unless she is giving it up.
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